This Is the beginning of loving yourself.

How is it going guys?

I hope it’s going well.

I just wanna shared about my feeling now, even if I look the past to behind and realize there is a
lot of beautiful moment it’s will not happened again. But, now it’s made me realize there is the
future we can create to be better.

And to be sure,
YaRabb,
If I lose hope today, please remind me that your plans are better than my dreams. Cause, I
believe qadr of Allah.

Ok, even if I talk about love,

“don’t choose the one who is beautiful to the world, but rather, choose the one who makes your
world beautiful”

For me, if I take relationship seriously, I want somebody love me and my family also with his
true love. Hechoose me because I am beautiful? No, I don’t want it. If he love me cause smart
thinker or have same the goals for the future. Basically, his goals can relate with my dreams, I
take it. Cause, first I analys from significant other.

Note! “I need somebody who can love me at my worst, no i am not perfect, but I hope you see
my worst. Cause it’s only you no body new I put you fisrt” please don’t read this sentence with
your sing a song, I know your voice it’s so good, aaaaa I touched hahahahaha.

Couple goals is one of the other person have to care each other, have to feel each other, have to
keep each other, have to trust each other and have toeverythings each other.

Just it the simple story, if I talking about love or relationship.

Now, I want to tell you “sad girl” ahh sorry..not sad girl but anyone have hurt on theirs heart.

It’s ok, I really know, crying is the only way your eyes speak when your mouth can’t explain
how broken your heart.

But reminder this :

“stay so busy until you don’t have time to be sad”

Maybe you couldspind your time with your hobby or passion, for example if you like sing a
song, therefore sing!, if you like watching movies, therefore watch!, if you like writing, do that!,
if you like coffee and read some books, do that! If you like culinary, do that! If you like nature
travelling to the other places, do that! And everythings you like do that with your heart.

I really know too, actually she/he jealous because she/he afraid you will find someone more
handsome, prettier, smarter, taller, skinnier, nicer, calmer, stronger, and better than her/his. It’s
ok!

Begins, to love your self.

Don’t overthink,
It was the qadr of Allah and it was best for you, that’s all you need to know. Overthinking is
from shaytaan.

Ok! see you again, I hope you have greatful think after read this content.

With love,

Uswah Farha
 What is your “Ikigai”?

Ok, before to ikigai.

Sometimes it’s best not question why you’re feeling this why, but instead experience all of the
emotions change may bring. Change can be a beautiful or scary process.

And what makes you the most depressed, when you have tried your best but failed.

It’s ok, you have to keep growing, learning, outgrowing, outlearning, and doing everything that
feels right for you.

Was never in the plan, but neither was all this change you didn’t expect to grow into the strong
person you are today, but here you are, you’re not giving up, you’re not changing your mind,
you’ve simply outgrown who you used to be and that means that your goals and plans are
shifting just a much.

Now, I’ve found the meaning of life “ikigai” even from the small things. When I met my
students in school, when I teaching their then everything near with children and education. I
didn,t know it’s always make me happy and forgot all the things that make me sad or bad.

Is like find a new spirit to live life again. Yeah I think it’s ikigai.

“Ikigai is the Japanese term for pleasure and meaning in life. The word literally includes “iki” to
live and “gai” reason”

“Ikigai adalah istilah jepang untuk kesenagan hidup da makna hidup. Kata itu secara harfiah
meliputi “iki” untuk hidup dan “gai” alas an”

The five pillars of ikigai :

1. Start with small things
2. Free yourself
3. Harmony and continuity
4. The joy of the little things
5. Present at the present time and place

These pillars will support the foundation that allows ikigai to continue to thrive. Each of these
pillars will come back with a deeper and new meaning.

Thank’s