Situations , Reactions, Consequences, and Peers
Situation Your Reaction
Someone criticized your
Facebook status by placing
a negative comment
Someone played a prank on
you in class and all your
classmates were laughing.
One of your closest friends
divulged your secret to
another person
You told your friend about
an honest opinion about
her that was hurtful and she
cried.
Consequences 1
I would probably be
displeased but I would like
to ignore it and if the
negative comment is
reasonable I would be open
to such improvement but
most likely I would try to
ignore the hate and
disregard it as nothing of
importance
I would try to remain calm
while amidst my anger and
wait for my teacher to start
the class again and after the
class is finished I would
approach the person and
tell it was wrong of him to
do the prank and ask for
him to say sorry and if he
refuses I would say its fine
and all good and then I
would play calming game
like chess or a rubix cube to
vent my anger when I get
back home .
I would come talk to him
privately and tell him what
he did wrong if he begs to
disagree I would remind
him that I trusted him with
it and ask for an
explanation and try to
reconcile him but if doesn’t
want to ill forgive him ask
him not to do again and if
he does it again then that’s
a repeating pattern and I
would never disclose to him
ever again and maybe end
relationships with him and
move on.
I would be feel bad and try
to comfort and try to
explain to her that I was
only trying to be honest and
try to reconcile with her
and admit that what I said
was hurtful and could’ve
worded it better and
Consequences 2
Ignoring post like that
forever may cause some
built up stress or emotions
which likely explode in any
point in time and may turn
into a mental breakdown.
This type of reaction can
lead to some kind of trauma
if you have no one to talk to
or can quite detrimental to
take this kind of challenges
alone so taking emotional
states alone can be quite
challenging and may lead to
trauma or sort repression
so I believe that talking to
someone you can trust may
help you vent anger better.
Consequences of this kind
action could be detrimental
as things don’t optimally go
your way and might cause a
lot relationships to go sour
because I believe reminding
the person of what they did
wrong may be trying to
guilt rip the individual.
Consequences of this action
may not entirely work
sometimes . but it is a good
strategy because I believe
that you must let people
come down first before
reconciling with them then
apologizing
This kind of reaction can be
quite detrimental to ones
mental health as it dictate
no forms of relieving this
sense of sadness or release
on these frustrations and
can lead up to unsavory
mental disorders like
depression.
this kind of reaction might
reactions may lead to
broken rubrics cubes or
losing streak on chess
matches as the way to vent
stress is not always viable
maybe adding some sort of
talking or understanding of
the situation may help.
I think directly confronting
him in this manner may be
pressure you closest friend
may cost some kind of
friction worsen the
relationship.
That kind strategy is
reasonable but doing this
could cause friction to
affected due to her being in
an emotional state and
potentially worsen the
situation.
 Situations , Reactions, Consequences, and Peers
apologize for not being
more symphatetic.
You were the only student I would smile and say thank This might be taken out of This might also cause some
in class that got a perfect you and doing it sincerely. context by certain sort hatred towards the
score in a very difficult To everyone congratulating individuals and may cause students who failed the
exam and everyone me in the class. friction. As it can be exam as they can become
congratulate you. contextualized as some envious of you. Because it
thing boastful. can be taken as flaunting
your achievements to them.