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10 Simple But Powerful Reasons Christians Should Not Celebrate Valentine's Day
10 Simple But Powerful Reasons Christians Should Not Celebrate Valentine's Day
It is estimated that Americans spend about $20 billion on this single holiday alone, making it the second most
expensive holiday next to Christmas.
However, the majority is not always right.
One must ask whether Christians should celebrate this day. Most importantly, what does God think about
Valentine’s Day?
Before I proceed, let me tell you this SHOCKING TRUTH: Valentine’s Day should NOT be celebrated by
Christians.
In this post, let me share the reasons why this is so. Let me make it as simple as possible for everyone to understand.
Here are the 10 reasons Christians should not celebrate Valentine’s Day.
It is originally known as Lupercalia which is celebrated every February 15. Lupercalia is celebrated to honor not
God, but pagan gods namely Lupercus (god of fertility), Juno (goddess of marriage and women) and Pan (god of
nature).
There is really nothing to argue about here.
“When the Lord your God cuts off from before you the nations which you go to dispossess, and you displace them
and dwell in their land, take heed to yourself that you are not ensnared to follow them, after they are destroyed from
before you, and that you do not inquire after their gods, saying, ‘How did these nations serve their gods? I also
will do likewise.’
You shall NOT worship the Lord your God in that way; for every abomination to the Lord which He hates they
have done to their gods; for they burn even their sons and daughters in the fire to their gods. Whatever I command
you, be careful to observe it; you shall NOT add to it nor take away from it” (Deuteronomy 12:32).
Though sexual immorality brings pleasure, it will not last long. When you consider its many dire consequences, you
will soon realize that it’s not worth the risk.
So what does sexual immorality has to do with Valentine’s Day? Lupercalia is celebrated with pagan sex rituals. It is
about eroticism, lust, and fertility.
God knows what’s best for us and He knows sexual immorality, like any other sins, leads to many untold
suffering.
As early as the fourth B.C., young men seek their sexual partner during the Lupercalia festival. By a “love” lottery,
young men would be able to win the companionship and sexual service of a woman until the next year’s drawing.
With these dark secrets of the origin of Valentine’s Day, you sure don’t want to be associated with it. God’s word is
very clear with this and He wants us to flee sexual immorality.
There are a lot of unmarried couples who use Valentine’s Day as an excuse to participate in pre-marital sex. Often,
this sexual act leads to unwanted and unplanned pregnancy. Sadly, some resorts to abortion just to “correct” their
mistakes.
After all, even if you celebrate your love on Valentine’s Day, it really feels awkward since this day celebrates lust
and not true love.
It is also unbiblical to revere a man. Some people think that we should pray to the saints as they can help bring our
petitions to God. This is a satanic deception that we must all stop.
Dead people are dead. They don’t anymore have the ability to help the living.
First and foremost, dead people are dead. The Bible makes it clear that there is no knowledge in the grave
(Ecclesiastes 9:10) and no one has ever ascended into heaven except Christ (John 3:13).
Therefore, it is useless to have so-called “saints” canonized by the Roman Catholic Church. Besides, if you are
really a Christian, why celebrate Valentine’s Day which commemorates a saint of the Catholics?
“FOR THIS IS THE LOVE OF GOD, THAT WE KEEP HIS COMMANDMENTS. And His commandments are
not burdensome” (I John 5:3).
Did you get that? Read it again.
God’s definition of love is keeping His commandments. The commandments of God are there because He LOVES
US. The commandments of God gives us the guidelines of how to have a fulfilling, blessed, and joyful love.
Valentine’s Day is just the opposite.
Jesus answered them, “How right Isaiah was when he prophesied about you! You are hypocrites, just as he wrote: ‘
These people, says God, honor me with their words, but their heart is really far away from me. It is no use for them
to worship me, because they teach human rules as though they were my laws!’
“You put aside God’s command and obey human teachings” (Mark 9:6-8, GNB).
We need to stop and ask, “How does God want me to worship Him?” Rather than asking, “How do I want God to be
worshiped?” After all, it is about God and not us.
Why would you use something that God hates to worship Him?
Jesus said: God is a Spirit: and they that worship him must worship him in spirit and in TRUTH (John 4:24).
Ask yourself, “Is there any truth in Valentine’s Day?” “Does it help us to worship God in spirit?” The answers to
these questions are a glaring “NO”.
Valentine’s Day is nothing but a recycled pagan holiday repackaged with a “Christian” name. If you are going to
give a gift to God, do you think He will be happy to receive something that He calls useless and abominable?
On the other hand, men would feel pressured to buy something that will please their partner. Sometimes these men
are forced to give rather than give willingly.
Either way, Valentine’s Day is geared towards the way of getting rather than the way of giving.
Reason no. 9: God commands us not to conform to the world
Like I said before, Valentine’s Day is a very popular holiday in the world.
Why not?
It caters to the lust of the very human nature that we have. However, God expects us Christians to overcome our
human nature and be more like God and less like us.
“Do NOT try to work together as equals with unbelievers, for it cannot be done. How can right and wrong be
partners? How can light and darkness live together?
How can Christ and the Devil agree? What does a believer have in common with an unbeliever?
How can God’s temple come to terms with pagan idols? For we are the temple of the living God! As God himself
has said, “I will make my home with my people and live among them; I will be their God, and they shall be my
people.”
And so the Lord says, “You must leave them and separate yourselves from them. Have nothing to do with what is
unclean, and I will accept you.
I will be your father, and you shall be my sons and daughters, says the Lord Almighty” (II Corinthians 6:14-18,
GNB).
There are seven annual festivals that Christians should celebrate instead of borrowing holidays from pagans. They
are written in Leviticus 23.
Please don’t assume that it is just for the Israelites because we can read that Jesus Christ, the Apostles, and early
Christians celebrated them even many years after Jesus’ death. This is a big topic so please request your free copy
of God’s Holy Day Plan: The Promise of Hope for All Mankind.
Conclusion
With these 10 reasons, it is very obvious that Christians should not participate in any pagan holidays including
Valentine’s Day.
[Related article: 5 Scary Ways Valentine’s Day is Secretly Destroying Your Relationship]
You may change the name of an ancient pagan holiday into something “Christian”, but we cannot deny that its
substance is still the same.
We can always show true and genuine love in a God-ordained manner. We don’t have to borrow ancient
pagan celebrations to follow God.
If you are really a Christian who would like to live by every word that proceeds from the mouth of God (Matthew
4:4), then you better take heed and not celebrate Valentine’s Day.
Valentine’s Day is not a Christian holiday and it will never be.
You are called a Christian because you are a follower of Christ. Christ did not celebrate Valentine’s Day, so should
you.
Will you follow God’s word or follow your own will? Choose rightly.
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January 27, 2016 in Shocking Truths from the Bible. Tags: Christianity, featured, holidays, Valentine's day
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1. Pamela
February 6, 2017 at 9:48 pm
Hi Joshua,
Valentine is not a recognised as a saint in the Catholic Church. Please check and get your facts right.
Secondly, there is a difference between dead people and saints depicted in Revelation 6, 7 and 8:4 from even your
favourite translation KJV.
May the Lord bless you to know the difference between your human feelings and His Biblical truths.
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o joshuainfantado
February 7, 2017 at 10:35 am
Hi Pamela,
Valentine is a recognized saint of the Catholic Church. Here’s a quote from the document General Instruction of the
Roman Missal:
The Roman Catholic Church continues to recognize him [Valentine] as a saint, listing him as such in the February
14 entry in the Roman Martyrology, and authorizing liturgical veneration of him on February 14 in any place where
that day is not devoted to some other obligatory celebration in accordance with the rule that on such a day the Mass
may be that of any saint listed in the Martyrology for that day.
I read the verses you mentioned and I don’t see saints living in heaven right now. Remember, Jesus Christ said that
NO ONE has ascended to heaven except Himself (John 3:13).
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betty
September 3, 2020 at 10:41 am
st valentine is considered a saint because he was actually beheaded that day by the pagans.
catholic are christians.
the guys you replied to was correct : “And the smoke of the incense, which came with the prayers of the saints,
ascended up before God out of the angel’s hand,” saint and dead people are not the same
in his vision he saw saints
john 3:13 there was none before him not after
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o Takudzwa Samaneka
February 5, 2021 at 12:16 am
Pamela ..To be honest dead saints ..dead people sounds the same to me ,.No need counterintuitively justify the will
of God and the people who have the conviction of the holy spirit.
Lord help me .coz I don’t know everything like Pamela does😂😂🤣🌚🙏
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o joshuainfantado
February 14, 2017 at 8:38 pm
Yes, it’s sad. True Christians are called to make a stand and be separate from the ways of this world, including the
celebration of Valentine’s Day.
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4. cyp
February 14, 2018 at 7:21 pm
You forgot one reason . This holiday is around the time christians prepare for the death of Christ and resurection. Is
a direct insult to party when Christ prepares to die
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o Victor
February 14, 2019 at 9:39 pm
Jesus will not die a second time. If you’re talking of remembrance, then that’s all it is, a remembrance, not coming
to die another death.
So Christ died only once to take away the sins of many people. But when he comes again, it will not be to take away
sin. He will come to save everyone who is waiting for him. – Hebrews 9:28 CEV
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o joshuainfantado
February 12, 2019 at 9:21 pm
Hi Daniel,
You’re welcome. I’m glad that you have learned a lot from this blog.
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6. Paul
February 13, 2019 at 4:01 pm
So you we shouldnt also celebrate Xmas and Easter as they are also pagan holidays??
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o joshuainfantado
February 15, 2019 at 7:28 am
Hi Paul,
If you have been reading my blog for quite some time, I also don’t celebrate Christmas and Easter.
https://becomingchristians.com/2018/03/13/10-compelling-reasons-christians-should-not-keep-easter/
10 Reasons Why I don’t celebrate Christmas
https://becomingchristians.com/2017/12/24/5-reasons-why-i-dont-celebrate-christmas/
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7. Nangje
February 14, 2019 at 7:21 am
Well said. thanks. But How can I share this in Facebook.
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o joshuainfantado
February 15, 2019 at 7:26 am
Hi Nangje,
You’re welcome!
You can share this article by clicking on the Facebook share button found at the bottom of the blog.
Cheers,
Joshua
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8. Raffy Canlas
February 14, 2019 at 10:06 am
Good article. May the true Christians’ light so shine in the world and as salt to the earth, give flavor and preservation
to this decaying world till the Lord Jesus comes back. -Raffy (raffyboy@yahoo.com)
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o joshuainfantado
February 15, 2019 at 7:26 am
Thanks Raffy! It should really be our life calling to become a light to the world.
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9. ELIJAH BLESSING EGBEIYON
February 14, 2019 at 8:26 pm
Thanks Mr. Josh.
This post is a Blessing.
MORE GRACE!
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o joshuainfantado
February 15, 2019 at 7:25 am
You’re welcome Elijah! Blessings and grace toward you too.
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o joshuainfantado
February 15, 2019 at 7:24 am
Thanks Neva. I do hope more Christians realize this.
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11. Lynn
February 15, 2019 at 11:10 pm
You could say this about every “hoilday”, but most don’t know the “meaning” behind any one, so they celebrate in
their own ways. This tells me we can’t participate in anything. What about veterans day, memorial day,
mothers/father’s day to name a few… if you are honoring, or remembering( not worshipping) how is that wrong????
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o joshuainfantado
February 17, 2019 at 6:40 pm
Hi Lynn,
The Bible is clear that using paganism to worship the true God is abominable. This is not the case with the holidays
you mentioned. Veteran’s Day, memorial day, and parents’ day do not come from pagan worship nor do we use
these holidays specifically to worship the Eternal.
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o joshuainfantado
February 26, 2019 at 1:33 pm
You’re welcome, Mandip. 🙂
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o joshuainfantado
February 16, 2020 at 5:02 am
Hi Jemkur,
I admire the man you are referring to. However, that’s not a reason enough for us to celebrate a pagan festival.
Regards,
Joshua
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o joshuainfantado
February 16, 2020 at 5:01 am
Hi Emeka,
Thanks for your comment. Valentine’s is a recycled pagan festival. God has instituted biblical festivals. It is a great
wonder for me why people would insist on using pagan festivals when God has provided his ordained festivals (Lev
23). So, instead of using paganism, we need to go back to the Bible and do what God really commands us to do.
Regards,
Joshua
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15. PurpleFire
February 15, 2020 at 10:10 am
question. If we celebrate V-day with family by going to church, stay at home, eat and give gifts or something special
to parents and kids do household chores for their parents? and thankful to God that family is in good health. We also
do this during Christmas. So we stop?
I mean would God be mad if we celebrate these this things originally from Pagan?
Would God not accept me in his kingdom if I celebrate these days (Christmas or V-day) by working hard so I can
take my parents to movies, or save the day and not go to work so I can do all household chore so mom can relax?
A lot of people celebrate these holidays / pagan “thing” in a different way.
If V-day is all about Love and Family, God is all about faith, love and family, is that not the same thing?
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o joshuainfantado
February 16, 2020 at 4:58 am
Hi PurpleFire,
Here’s what sets apart the true worshipers of God from the false ones, John 4:23-24:
But the hour is coming, and now is, when the true worshipers will worship the Father in spirit and truth; for the
Father is seeking such to worship Him. God is Spirit, and those who worship Him must worship in spirit and truth.”
Those who worship God must worship Him in truth and spirit.
Would you honestly say that the origin of Valentine’s Day, with its dark history, honor the God of truth?
There are a lot of ways to show love to your parents and loved ones. You don’t need Valentine’s Day to do that.
Not only that, but we all need to make sure that we are worshiping God according to His terms and not on our terms.
Yes, God is all about faith, love, and family, but you don’t get to justify the end by your means.
Regards,
Joshua
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16. Mila
February 15, 2020 at 7:07 pm
Thank you for sharing these truth about Pagan celebration. I had never celebrate Valentine’s Day since I learnt
where it originated from. I pray that God will continue to use you. God bless you🙏👍😁
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o joshuainfantado
February 16, 2020 at 4:53 am
Hi Mila,
Thank you for you comment. I’m glad you have found the truth and you are applying it in your life already. 🙂
Regards,
Joshua
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17. Petzyu
February 15, 2020 at 8:48 pm
Deception and bias on biblical interpretations. They only rely on what is what their doctrine as prostestant stands.
Prosyletation is the right term.know first the reason of catholic church before you say that.better to broaden your
mind and know the truth.don’t limit your mind.dont be like ahaz and the friends of job.God bless.
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o joshuainfantado
February 16, 2020 at 4:52 am
Hi Petzyu,
I’m not sure what you mean, but I simply presented what the Bible says on this blog.
Regards,
Joshua
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18. John
September 17, 2020 at 4:08 pm
Does Christ’s Commission Fellowship celebrate valentine’s day ?
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o joshuainfantado
February 10, 2021 at 8:26 am
Yes, I believe they do celebrate this pagan holiday.
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19. Peter
January 31, 2021 at 3:56 pm
Thanks to you Dear Josh!
I am so glad to understand now that this V – Day celebration is of pagan. Thanks.
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o joshuainfantado
February 1, 2021 at 5:38 am
Hi Peter!
you’re most welcome. I know that most people don’t know it and I’m glad that you’re one of the people who know
the truth.
Regards,
Joshua
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CORNEL WABWIRE
March 5, 2021 at 4:49 am
Thanks for important document and for that knowledge
Leviticus 23:4-8;help me to understand these festival and how is people carrying out these festival that start from
14th feb
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joshuainfantado
March 5, 2021 at 6:47 am
Thanks for your comment, Cornel. 🙂 Glad I was able to help enlightening some issues about Valentine’s Day.
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20. Lydia
February 11, 2021 at 6:38 pm
Wish all christians can read this helpful article, very informative indeed.
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21. Saturn
February 14, 2021 at 10:37 pm
Pagan holidays had their own religious identity. The feast of Valentine’s Day, on the other hand, represents an anti-
cultural holiday. It certainly represents an anti-Christian holiday.
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22. Marilyn
June 29, 2021 at 10:46 am
Thank you for putting this out there. I agree with your opinion and I hope more people would come to agree with
this as well.Having humility is one of the most powerful attributes of a person. Do you know God’s words about
being humble? It says that being modest will remove unimportant pride within yourself. Check this out Important
Qualities of a True Christian Hope this will help. Thanks.
Cheers
Marilyn
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o joshuainfantado
July 1, 2021 at 3:21 pm
Thanks for your comment, Marilyn.
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