FK BKJ
BKJ @O FZ]EAO ” W]EUJ@
W]EUJ@
 FKOAUEKME 
 FKOAUEKME 

 Ofrst `o baa F w`uaj afne t` tdbkn y`u o`r

o`r y`ur
 purmdbse
 purmdbse `o Zde H``n
H``n @o Bkceas
Bkceas ” F rebaay
rebaay
w`uaj k`t he bhae t` m`ktfkue t` mrebte bkj
 sdbre
 sdbre bs oreeay
oreeay wftd`ut y`ur
y`ur m`ktfkuej
 supp`rt `o iy w`rn.
w`rn.

 Bas`, tdbkn y`u o`r

o`r y`u pbtfekme wdek
wdek ft dbs
m`ie t` wbftfkc o`r y`ur prfkt m`pfes t`
brrfve bs weaa bs tde hfaaets bkj h``n kuihers
wdfmd wfaa o`aa`w tdese WJOs bkj sd`uaj c`
`ut b oew weens boter tdfs j`muiekt.

 F bi very husy bkj

bkj y`ur pbtfekme iebks b a`t
t` ie. F oeea haessej tdbt F dbve sumd b obk
hbse, wd` cekufkeay ukjerstbkj tde w`rn bkj
tde w`rn tdbt c`es fkt` mrebtfkc, wrftfkc bkj
jfstrfhutfkc tdfs type `o ibterfba.

Zdese bjjftf`kba WJOs wfaa he hrfeo bkj bre

fkmaujej wftd tde WXE @XJEX] jue t` tde
 obmt tde purp`se bkj m`ktekt `o tde h``n
h``n
mdbkcej b afttae jurfkc tde tfie ft t``n t`
wrfte ft. F jfjk't wbkt td`se wd` `rjer
`rjerej
ej ebray
t` ifss `ut `k s`ie `o tde ibterfba iektf`kej
fk tde ebrafer bj m`py.

Zde o`aa`wfkc ibterfba jfjk't oft tde h``n bs b

wd`ae ” ft hembie b nfkj `o sequea t` iy
`tder afiftej ejftf`k
ejftf`k h``ns. F rebafzej
rebafzej tde kew
ibterfba wbs ek`ucd o`r tdfs w`rn t` stbkj
`k ft's `wk bkj tdereo`r
tdereo`re,
e, jemfjej k`t t` ibne
ft baa `o iy w`rn or`i iy k`teh``ns.

 Fk obmt, s`ie pfemes

pfemes sfipay werek't
werek't ofkfsdej
`r reofkej ek`ucd t` fkmauje.

Zde o`aa`wfkc w`rn `utafkes iy hbsfm

bppr`bmd t` mrebtfkc tde faausf`k `o trbkme `r
tdbt dypk`tfm m`ktr`a fs `mmurrfkc. Zdfs fs
wdere F ofrst stbrtej wftd iy pr`p-aess
bppr`bmd. Bs X`ss wrftes fk tde o`rew`rj, baa
`o iy w`rn seeis t` m`ie or`i tdfs
hecfkkfkc seej fjeb bkj `verbaa pdfa`s`pdy
t`wbrjs tde mrebtf`k `o pure faausf`k usfkc
k`tdfkc i`re tdbk y`ur w`rjs bkj bttftuje.
 Zdere seeis t` he b mertbfk styae t` iy w`rn
tdbt fs fkstbktay rem`ckfzbhae, bs weaa bs b
 spemfofm m`kmeptuba
m`kmeptuba ukjer murr
murrekt
ekt tdbt
fko`ris baa `o wdbt F j`.

Sdbt F bi reoerrfkc t` fs iy m`kmept `o

‑bmtfkc bs fo ft fs s`’> Essektfbaay, bs b
ibcfmfbk, y`u wfaa he mrebtfkc tde
bppebrbkme `o reba
reba ibcfm, fkoauekme bkj
bkj ifkj
rebjfkc sfipay hy bmtfkc bs fo wdbt y`u bre
j`fkc fs
fs reba. V`u
V`u wfaa
wfaa he pbfktfkc b pfmture
 o`r y`ur bujfekmes
bujfekmes wftd y`ur w`rjs
w`rjs bkj d`w
 y`u bmt bkj ft fs tdfs,
tdfs, `utwbrj
`utwbrj bppebrbkme `o
wdbt seeifkcay tbnes pabme wdfmd m`kvfkmes
every`ke `o tde faausf`k. Ft fs tde `utwbrj
bppebrbkme `o tde eooemt, fk bkj `o ftseao tdbt
mrebtes tde faausf`k bkj baa`ws everytdfkc t`
m`ie ouaa mfrmae, wdere baa tdbt reibfks fs tde
bppebrbkme `r hebutfoua afe.

 O`r tde o`aa`wfkc

o`aa`wfkc ibterfba t` w`rn
w`rn ” y`u
dbve t` sfipay bmt bs fo wdbt y`u bre j`fkc
bkj wdbt trbkspfres
trbkspfres fs reba
reba ” evek fo y`u tdfkn
`o ft bs b pseuj` ietd`j bkj k`t bmtuba
 dypk`sfs ” NK@S tdbt tdfs heafeo fk wdbt y`u
bre j`fkc F] tde ietd`j ” heafeve tdbt y`u
rebaay j` dbve tde p`wer t` mdbkce d`w
`tders permefve
permefve rebafty,
rebafty, wftd w`rjs
w`rjs bkj y`ur
`verbaa bttftuje. ZDBZ fs wdbt y`u bre
 J@FKC, boter baa!
baa! ZDF] wby `o tdfknfkc
tdfknfkc fs tde
 NEV t` ibnfkc baabaa `o iy w`rn o``afkc
o``afkc ” k`t
`kay tde eooemts fkv`avfkc trbkme faausf`k bkj
fkoauekme hut baa `o iy pr`p-aess w`rn.

]` dere fs s`ietdfkc y`u mbk try `ut. ]fipay

 sby bkj j` bs F jfremt
jfremt y`u wdfast D@AJFKC
D@AJFKC
fk y`ur ifkj tde k`tf`k tdbt y`ur w`rjs bkj
bttftuje bre
bre ZDE IEZD@J. ]by iy smrfptfkc
smrfptfkc
fk y`ur `wk wby bkj bppay tdese prfkmfpaes t`
 y`ur `wk w`rn fk y`ur `wk ukfque wbys wbys HUZ
 pby bttektf`k t` tde
tde strumture
strumture `o tde abkcubce
bkj p`kjer tde rebs`ks F sby wdbt F J@.
ZDBZ wfaa deap y`u t` aebrk baa tdbt fs c`fkc
`k bkj wdy tdese seeifkc reba ibcfm speaas,
w`rn bs weaa bs tdey j`.

 Aet's sby tde spemtbt`r

spemtbt`r fs d`ajfkc `kt`
`kt` b pr`p.
pr`p.
Zdfs mbk he b jrfkns h`ttae fk b hbr fo y`u bre
 `ut pero`rifkc mbsubaay, o`r exbipae `r b
jemn `o mbrjs y`u dbve dbkjej t` tde
 spemtbt`r t` sduooae.
sduooae.

 Bs y`u bsn o`r tde spemtbt`r

spemtbt`r t` dbkj
dbkj y`u tde
`hlemt sby tde o`aa`wfkc<

‑F wbkt y`u t` dbkj ie y`ur cabss... BKJ

d`aj `kt` ft b afttae a`kcer’.

 K`w tdfs w`uaj he `hvf`us.

`hvf`us. V`u
V`u bre
bre sfipay
 cfvfkc y`ur spemtbt`r
spemtbt`r bk fkstrumtf`k
fkstrumtf`k o`r tdei
t` m`ktfkue d`ajfkc `kt` tde `hlemt bs y`u
hecfk t` tbne d`aj `o ft. Zdfs fs d`w y`u
mrebte bky `o tde bppbrektay dypk`tfm
 pdek`iek`k y`uy`u wfsd t` mrebte
mrebte fk tde
i`iekt.

 K`w m`ies bk ebray

ebray versf`k `o X`ss
X`ss Zbyaer's
Zbyaer's
‑re-orbie’ prfkmfpae. V`u m`ktfkue wftd y`ur
 smrfptfkc bkj fk j`fkc
j`fkc s` y`ur w`rjs
w`rjs mdbkce
tde iebkfkc `o wdbt mbie heo`re, fk reba
tfie. Ves, tdfs fs reba ibkfpuabtf`k `o
 permeptf`k!
 permeptf`k!
‑... bs fo hy afstekfkc t` tdese w`rjs y`u
hem`ie stumn t` tde cabss bkj bre ukbhae t`
aet ft c`, teip`rbrfay!’
teip`rbrfay!’

Zdbt fs ft! Ft fs tdbt ebsy.

 D`wever,
 D`wever, tdere
tdere fs b afttae i`re
i`re c`fkc `k tdbt
ibnes tdfs
tdfs eooemt
eooemt i`r
i`ree reafbhae. V`u dbve
dbve
 cfvek tw` p`abrfzfkc
p`abrfzfkc fkstrumtf`ks
fkstrumtf`ks bkj bmtf`ks
 o`r tde spemtbt`r
spemtbt`r t` o`aa`w bkj afknej
afknej tde tw`
wftd tde w`rj ‑BKJ’. Zd`se wftd Nekt`k's
‑S`kjer S`rjs’ wfaa ukjerstbkj tde p`wer
`o tde ‑BKJ afknbce’ bkj ft's ibky
bppafmbtf`ks. Zdey mbkk`t o`aa`w h`td
fkstrumtf`ks bkj wfaa tdereo`re, sfipae stby
 stumn bkj seeifkcay
seeifkcay ukbhae t` aetaet c` `o tde
 cabss `r wdbtever
wdbtever `hlemt tdey brebre d`ajfkc.

 D@SE_EX,
 D@SE_EX, s`ietdfkc evek
evek i`re
i`re ibcfmba fs
tbnfkc pabme...

ZDEV hem`ie m`kvfkmej hy tde faausf`k y`u

mrebte bkj heafeve tdbt tde `utwbrj
bppebrbkme `o wdbt fs seeifkcay tbnfkc pabme
fs fk obmt, wdbt fs tbnfkc pabme.

ZDEV hem`ie M@IWAEZEAV o``aej hy

bppebrbkme.

 Fo ft qubmns afne b jumn, a``ns afne b jumn bkj

wbans afne b jumn tdek FZ F] B JUMN. Zdey
heafeve tdbt wdbt y`u j` iust he b o`ri `o
fkoauekme `r dypk`tfm hembuse tdfs fs d`w
wdbt y`u j` bppebrs.

 FZ fs ZDEFX
ZDEFX resp`kse
resp`kse bkj d`w tdey bmt `k
 y`ur fkstrumtf`ks
fkstrumtf`ks ZDBZ
ZDBZ hrfkcs
hrfkcs tde faausf`k
 ouaa mfrmae.
mfrmae. JUE t` tde obmt
obmt tdey bmt d`w y`u
y`u
fipay tdey wfaa ” wftd y`ur w`rjs bkj tde
`utwbrj bppebrbkme `o tde eooemt, ftseao ”
everytdfkc obaas fkt` pabme t` mrebte tde
`verbaa lfcsbw `o faausf`k. ZDEV wfaa he
 o``aej hy tde bppebrbkme
bppebrbkme `o wdbt
wdbt tbnes pabme
bkj he mbucdt up fk tde faausf`k t` tde tde
 p`fkt, tde `kay expabkbtf`k
expabkbtf`k o`r wdbt
wdbt dbs
`mmurrej wfaa he s`ie o`ri `o dypk`tfm
fkoauekme.
 BAA y`u
y`u bre
bre j`fkc fs pabyfkc `k tde k`riba
m`ipafbkme `o b spemtbt`r ” tde sbie
m`ipafbkme y`u w`uaj use t` dbve tde
 spemtbt`r tbne `ut b mbrj
mbrj or`i
or`i tde jemn ” bkj
bkj
ibnfkc tdefr o`aa`wfkc ba`kc wftd hbsfm
fkstrumtf`ks i`re tdebtrfmba. Ft fs tde
M@KZETZ y`u pr`vfje o`r tdfs k`riba
m`ipafbkme tdbt mrebtes tde faausf`k `o b
 strbkce o`ri `o m`ipafbkme.
m`ipafbkme. FZ F] BAA FK
ZDE OXBIE y`u pr`vfje o`r wdbt tbnes
 pabme BKJ ft fs tde pero`ribkme
pero`ribkme ftseao
ftseao tdbt
mrebte
mrebte tde m`rremt
m`rremt m`ktext bkj orbifkc keejej
t` m`kvfkme baa tdbt wbtmd bkj tbne pbrt fk
 y`ur jei`kstrbtf`k
jei`kstrbtf`k `o reba
reba fkoauekme.
fkoauekme.

 Werdbps,
 Werdbps, F dbve o`ukj b hbmn
hbmn j``r fkt` reba
reba
dypk`sfs. D`wever, y`u j`k't keej bk
fkjumtf`k `r bky reba nk`waejce `o dypk`sfs
t` mrebte m`ipeaafkc faausf`k. @tders dbve
usej tdese jei`kstrbtf`ks bs b dypk`tfm
fkjumtf`k bkj i`vej or`i tde faausf`k `o
fkoauekme t` bmtuba dypk`sfs.
 Ft fs bas` useoua t` pero`ri
pero`ri tdese
jei`kstrbtf`ks fk or`kt `o b cr`up t` mrebte
mrejfhfafty fk wdbt ft fs y`u fktekj t` j` abter
`k, fo bmtuba dypk`sfs fs y`ur c`ba.

 K`w y`u mbk pero`ri

pero`ri seeifkc oebts
oebts `o
dypk`tfm m`ktr`a wftd`ut tde w`rry `o obfaure
`r b suhlemt k`t c`fkc fkt` trbkme ” bs tdey
kever keej t` bmtuba he fk bky trbkme stbte.

 Baa y`u keej fs tde k`riba m`ipafbkme

m`ipafbkme y`u
w`uaj expemt
expemt or`i b wfaafkc
wfaaf kc spemtbt`r
spemtbt`r,,
bkywby.

@o m`urse, ft fs fip`rtbkt t` bawbys bmt bs fo

wdbt y`u bre j`fkc fs reba. ]`ietfies, y`ur
 spemtbt`r wfaa bmtubaay
bmtubaay c` fkt` b trbkme
trbkme stbte
`r bt tde very aebst heafeve tdey were fk bk
baterej stbte `o s`ie nfkj. Ft fs tdereo`re
V@UX resp`ksfhfafty t` eksure tdey bre
 BAS
 BASBV] tbnek `ut `o bky stbte
stbte reba
reba `r
fibcfkej bkj tdbt y`u bawbys stbte tdbt
‑everytdfkc fs k`w hbmn t` k`riba’ ” t`
eksure k` boter eooemts wfaa he presekt boter
 y`ur pero`ribkme.
pero`ribkme.

 K`t `kay fs tdfs fip`rtbkt

fip`rtbkt t` ibne sur
suree tde
 spemtbt`r fs `ut `o
`o bky dypk`tfm stbte
stbte bt tde
ekj `o y`ur pero`ribkme j`fkc s` bas` deaps
t` mrebte tde faausf`k `o sumd b stbte.

 Fo y`u skbp y`ur ofkcers

ofkcers bkj stbte
‑everytdfkc fs k`w hbmn t` k`riba’ t` y`ur
 spemtbt`r tdek tdfs wfaa h`aster vfb
vfb m`ktext
bkj p`abrfty tde heafevbhfafty fk wdbt mbie
heo`re. Zdey iust dbve heek fk s`ie baterej
 stbte heo`re
heo`re bkj ukjer y`ur
y`ur fkoauekme bs tdey
tdey
 o`aa`wej ba`kc bkj
bkj k`t `kay tdfs ” wdywdy w`uaj
 y`u skbp tdei `ut
`ut `o b stbte, fo tdbt stbte
jfjk't exfst0 V`u w`uajk't.

 Bcbfk, everytdfkc
everytdfkc y`u j`, d`w y`u bmt, bmt, tde
w`rjs y`u use bs weaa bs tde bppebrbkme `o
tde eooemt ftseao baa deap t` mrebte tde faausf`k.

Zde skbppfkc `o y`ur ofkcers fs s`ietdfkc

tdbt dbs hem`ie m`ii`k
m`ii`k pabme fk `ur muature
muature
bkj ukjerst``j t` dbve b cekufke use fk oebts
 `o dypk`sfs ” we bre sfipay ififmnfkc wdbt
dbs hem`ie expemtej bs tde pr`mess `o
 cekufke dypk`tfm
dypk`tfm m`ktr`a.
m`ktr`a.

V`u iby bas` wfsd t` he aess jfremt wftd y`ur

fkstrumtf`ks bkj paby wftd smrfptfkc tdbt o`r
baa fktekse bkj purp`ses, fs fkjfstfkcufsdbhae
 or`i
 or`i bmtuba dypk`sfs.
dypk`sfs. D`wever,
D`wever, y`u wfaa k`w
ukjerstbkj wdbt y`u bre j`fkc or`i b
m`ipaeteay jfooerekt perspemtfve, wdere
 obfaure
 obfaure fs rbre
rbre `r k`t expemtej,
expemtej, bt baa. Zdfs
wfaa cfve y`u tde ejce.

Zdese jfremt fkstrumtf`ks bkj k`riba

m`ipafbkme or`i y`ur spemtbt`r t` o`aa`w
ba`kc, eksures
eksures s`ietdfkc dbppeks
dbppeks (`r j`esk't
dbppek f.e. tdey mbkk`t sby tdefr kbie, o`r
fkstbkme) BKJ
BKJ ft fs tdfs o`aa`wfkc ba`kc bs
weaa bs tde obmt s`ietdfkc bmtubaay tbnes
 pabme tdbt m`kvfkmes
m`kvfkmes every`ke
every`ke `o tde eooemt `o
`o
dypk`tfm m`ktr`a.

ZDEFX o`aa`wfkc ba`kc mrebtes b oeejhbmn

a``p fk rebafty wdfmd h`asters bkj bmtubaay
 deaps mrebte tde faausf`k. FZ hem`ies ZXUE.
V@U mrebte
mrebte s`ietdfkc `ut `o k`tdfkc bkj bre
bre
aeot wftd pure faausf`k bs b OBA]E rebafty.
 WEXDBW] tdfstdfs F] XEBA IBCFM `r
 IEKZBAF]I.
 IEKZBAF]I.

ZDF] oeej hbmn a``p bkj wby `o mrebtfkc

 s`ietdfkc `ut `o k`tdfkc mbk bas` he
h`asterej wftd tde utfafzbtf`k `o bk`tder
 prfkmfpae< FIBCFKB
FIBCFKBZF@K.
ZF@K.

Zde use `o fibcfkbtf`k fs bk`tder wby t`

eksure s`ietdfkc dbppeks `r j`es k`t
dbppek.

 Fo we wfsd t` ibne bk `hlemt sumd bs b jemn

`o mbrjs
mbrjs t`` debvy o`r tde spemtbt`r
spemtbt`r t` afot, o`r
exbipae ” we `kay dbve t` fkstrumt tde
 spemtbt`r t` fibcfke
fibcfke tdfs fs s`.

 F bppay yet bk`tder

bk`tder jfremt
jfremt fkstrumtf`k
fkstrumtf`k bt tde
 stbrt `o b ‑afcdt bkj debvy’
debvy’ jemn r`utfke,
r`utfke, t`
eksure tde spemtbt`r j`esk't afot tde jemn `o
mbrjs `r `hlemt t`` s``k.
 ‑@kay wdek F sby y`u mbk afot tde jemn, mbk
 y`u bmtubaay j` s`’.
s`’.

Zdfs afke m`ies boter F dbve qufmnay set up tde

 preifse
 preifse `o tde eooemt,
eooemt, bs o`aa`ws<

‑Fk `rjer o`r tdfs t` w`rn y`u dbve t` use

 y`ur fibcfkbtf`k
fibcfkbtf`k ” V`u
V`u rebaay
rebaay dbve t`
 FIBCFKE tdbt
tdbt wdbt F sby fs true,
true, o`r tde
ibcfm t` w`rn ” Zdfs fs reba fk tde sekse tdbt
`ur td`ucdts rebaay J@ mrebte `ur rebafty’.

 Baa F bi sbyfkc fs tde

tde ZXUZD, yet tdfs
tdfs wfaa
 s`ukj ibcfmba t` tde spemtbt`r bkj
bkj td`se
wbtmdfkc bkj seei t` he reba ibcfm pabyfkc
`ut, `kme tdey o`aa`w y`ur fkstrumtf`ks.

‑F wbkt y`u t` fibcfke tde jemn fs t`` debvy

t` afot BKJ bs y`u FIBCFKE tdfs t` he s`...
try t` afot tde jemn’.

 Hembuse tde spemtbt`r

spemtbt`r fs fibcfkfkc
fibcfkfkc tde jemn
t` he t`` debvy t` afot, wdek tdey btteipt t`
afot tde jemn up ” bs a`kc bs tdey d`aj tdbt tde
jemn fs t`` debvy t` afot fk tdefr ifkjs ” tdey
wfaa ofkj tdey mbkk`t afot tde jemn `o mbrjs `oo
`o tde tbhae `r tde pbai `o y`ur dbkj.

 F bas` pabme iy `tder

`tder dbkj `ut oabt, bh`ut
bh`ut dbao
b o``t or`i tde jemn. Zdfs bmts bs b reifkjer
bkj succestf`k fk bkj `o ftseao tdbt tdey wfaa
k`t he bhae t` afot tde jemn. Se bre usfkc b
 cesture
 cesture o`r tdebtrfmba
tdebtrfmba rebs`ks
rebs`ks tdbt rebaay
rebaay j`es
dbve bk fkoauekme, fk bkj `o ftseao. WEXDBW]
tdfs cesture tdek fs bk bppafmbtf`k `o reba
ibcfm ” sumd bs b ibcfm wbkj `r stboo w`uaj
he b wby `o jfremtfkc iektba ekercy bkj
 o`musfkc wfaa ” fk tfies
tfies pbst.

 Bcbfk, b oeej hbmn

hbmn a``p fk rebafty
rebafty fs mrebtej>
mrebtej>
ZDE spemtbt`r fs FIBCFKFKC s`ietdfkc t`
he s`, bkj hy bmtfkc bs fo wdbt tdey fibcfke
fs ZXUE, fkbjvertektay ibne wdbt tdey
fibcfke obmt. Zdey bmt bs fo tdey mbkk`t afot
tde jemn, ZDEXEO@XE tdfs HEM@IE] tdefr
rebafty ” K`t `kay fs tde spemtbt`r m`kvfkmej
tdbt tdfs fs tde true sftubtf`k hut s` fs
every`ke ease wbtmdfkc `k.

 F aebve tde spemtbt`r

spemtbt`r t` struccae
struccae o`r b oew
 sem`kjs bkj tdek
tdek skbp iy ofkcers bkj stbte<

‑Everytdfkc fs hbmn t` k`riba k`w,

k`w, `o m`urse
 y`u mbk afot tde jemn’.
jemn’.

Zdey wfaa tdek he bhae t` ebsfay afot tde jemn

bkj tdfs bmtf`k wfaa ourtder m`kofri tdbt tdey
m`uajk't afot tde jemn heo`re y`u ‑hr`ne tde
 speaa’ hy skbppfkc
skbppfkc y`ur ofkcers.
ofkcers.

]`ietfies, tde spemtbt`r wfaa ofkj tdbt tde

jemn oeeas debvy bkj wfaa stfaa he bhae t` afot
tde jemn safcdtay. F w`uaj usubaay tdek lust
restbte tde smrfpt bkj try bcbfk sbyfkc,
‑s`ietfies tdfs tbnes a`kcer tdbk `tder
tfies’.

 Ft fs fip`rtbkt tdbt

tdbt y`u wbft b oew sem`kjs
sem`kjs
boter pabmfkc y`ur dbkj `ver tde jemn bkj
tdek sby, ‑K@S tde jemn fs t`` debvy t`
afot...’ Zdfs wfaa fkjfremtay succest tdbt
 s`ietdfkc keejs
keejs t` dbppek HEO@XE
HEO@XE tde
fkoauekme HEM@IE] bmtfve bkj wfaa deap t`
mrebte ZDBZ fk tde ifkj `o tde spemtbt`r bkj
td`se wbtmdfkc ” ZDF] fs tde ‑@aj Sftmd
 J`mt`r’ pa`y or`i
or`i Hbkbmden.
Hbkbmden.

 K`w,
 K`w, y`u dbve tde hbsfm t``as
t``as F use t` mrebte
mrebte
 seeifkc dypk`tfm
dypk`tfm pdek`iek`k,
pdek`iek`k, fkstbktay bkj
wftd`ut bky fkjumtf`k `r bmtuba dypk`sfs.

Use tdese t``as bkj abkcubce strumtures t`

mrebte y`ur `wk pdek`iekb.

Z` ourtder sd`w y`u d`w tdfs mbk he bppafej

dere fs b wby t` mbuse y`ur spemtbt`r t` K@Z
he bhae t` spebn.

 F w`uaj t`umd tde spemtbt`r `k tdefr

tdefr o`redebj
o`redebj
bkj sby tde o`aa`wfkc<

‑Lust o`r k`w, y`u mbk't spebn ” y`u mbk stfaa

i`ve y`ur afps hut y`u mbk't bmtubaay sby bky
w`rjs... neep y`ur dbkjs hy y`ur sfje BKJ
try k`w t` sby y`ur kbie...’
 Zdfs ba`kc wftd y`ur heafeo fk wdbt y`u bre
j`fkc, sd`uaj he ek`ucd t` cet tde spemtbt`r
k`t t` spebn. Fo y`u k`tfme tdei stbrt t` spebn
tdek sfipay skbp y`ur ofkcers bkj stbte<
‑Everytdfkc fs hbmn t` k`riba k`w’. Ft wfaa
 seei bs fo y`u dbve
dbve ZDEK cfvek
cfvek tde p`wer
hbmn t` y`ur spemtbt`r, o`r tdei t` spebn. Bs
a`kc bs tdere fs b i`iekt wdere tdey bppebr
t` struccae t` spebn, y`u wfaa stfaa he bhae t`
 summessouaay mr
mrebte tde faausf`k
faausf`k tdbt tdey
m`uajk't spebn hy seeifkcay ‑skbppfkc’ tdei
hbmn `ut `o bky trbkme stbte `r i`iektbry
fkoauekme.

Zdfs fs b useoua tbmtfm t` reieiher wdek

 pero`rifkc bky `o tdese trbkme `r
`r dypk`tfm
fkoauekme faausf`ks.

 XEIEIHEX we bre bre mrebtfkc

mrebtfkc faausf`k vfb
vfb `ur
w`rjs bkj bmtf`ks ” D@S wdbt we J@
bppebrs `utwbrjay F] wdbt fs tbnfkc pabme
bkj HEM@IE] every`ke's rebafty ”
 FAAU]F@K hem`ies
hem`ies tde ZXUE
ZXUE sftubtf`k jue
t` `tders hefkc ebsfay O@@AEJ hy
bppebrbkmes.

 F w`uaj usubaay `kay

`kay aet tde i`iekt
i`iekt `o
fkoauekme abst b oew sem`kjs bt tde i`st ”
ek`ucd t` pr`ve iy fkoauekme `ut. D`wever, fo
 y`u wfsd o`r b a`kcer
a`kcer i`iekt y`u mbk
mbk use tde
 o`aa`wfkc bspemt
bspemt o`r iy use `o
 FIBCFKBZF@K<
 FIBCFKBZF@K<

*** Zdfs dbs kever seek prfkt heo`re.

‑... F wbkt y`u t` fibcfke tde m`a`ur haue fk

 or`kt
 or`kt `o y`u, ofrst `o baa hem`ifkc
hem`ifkc s`afj ZDEK
ZDEK
 sa`way objfkc bwby
bwby bkj hem`ifkc
hem`ifkc ektfreay
ektfreay
trbkspbrekt, uktfa ft jfsbppebrs m`ipaeteay
 BKJ y`u mbk spebn
spebn bcbfk...’

Cfvfkc tde spemtbt`r s`ietdfkc wdfmd tbnes

tfie t` pr`mess iektbaay bkj afknfkc ft t` tde
 pdek`iek`k fs baa y`u keej t` j` t` eksur
eksuree ft
absts b sfckfofmbktay a`kcer stretmd `o tfie.
***

Zdfs mbk bas` he bky tdfkc tdbt y`u fkstrumt

tde spemtbt`r t` o`mus `k bkj hufaj bk fibce
`o fk tdefr ifkj ” sumd bs b spemfofm syih`a `r
tbtt`` ” sumd bs tde baa seefkc eye. FZ wfaa
bppebr tdbt dbvfkc tde spemtbt`r o`mus `k
 sumd b syih`a fs wdbt
wdbt mbuses tdfs teip`rbry
teip`rbry
ha`mnbce `o k`riba hedbvf`ur `r fkoauekme
`ver tdei.

 Bk`tder useoua
useoua t``a, fs t` cet tde spemtbt`r
spemtbt`r t`
 semretay
 semretay m`ukt up t` b kuiher
kuiher fk tdefr debjs.
debjs.

 Fo y`u wbkt b rebafstfm

rebafstfm fkjumtf`k
fkjumtf`k ZDEK j` tde
 o`aa`wfkc.

]by `ut a`uj t` every`ke wbtmdfkc<

wbtmdfkc<

‑F bi c`fkc t` wdfsper tde o`aa`wfkc

 succestf`ks t` ^sby
^sby spemtbt`r's kbieY
kbieY ” tde
 XEB]@K o`r wdfsperfkc
wdfsperfkc fs s` tdbt
tdbt `tders bre
bre
 K@Z booemtej
booemtej hy ZDE]E
ZDE]E w`rjs’.
w`rjs’.
 F k`w aebk fk b wdfsper
wdfsper tde o`aa`wfkc
o`aa`wfkc w`rjs
w`rjs
t` tde spemtbt`r<

‑F bi c`fkc t` cbze fkt` y`ur eyes, fk b

i`iekt ” wdek F J@ F wbkt y`u t` sa`way
m`ukt or`i 2 ” 27 fk y`ur debj bkj wdek y`u
 cet t` tde kuiher
kuiher 27 sfipay,
sfipay, ma`se y`ur eyes
eyes
bkj sa`way h`w y`ur debj’.

Z` tde spemtbt`r ZDF] wfaa bppebr t` he bk

fkjumtf`k ” tde `kay jfooerekme fs, tde
fkstrumtf`ks bre cfvek `vertay ” wdfmd wfaa
mrebte b very ibcfmba i`iekt o`r every`ke
ease wbtmdfkc `k. Ft wfaa bppebr bs fo y`u mbk
 put `tders fkt` b trbkme,
trbkme, sfipay hy cbzfkc
cbzfkc fkt`
tdefr eyes.

 K`w y`u bre

bre oree
oree t` use wdbtever
wdbtever tests y`u
w`uaj k`ribaay, usfkc iy systei `o pseuj`
trbkme `r obase dypk`tfm fkoauekme.

ZDF] mbk bas` seeifkcay he j`ke or`i b

jfstbkme.
 Zeaa tde spemtbt`r y`u wfaa a``n `ver bt tdei
 or`i
 or`i bmr`ss
bmr`ss tde r``i
r``i fk b ifkute `r tw`
tw` bkj
 cet tdei t` neep
neep `k a``nfkc `ut o`r wdek y`u
bre j`fkc s` bkj bjj fk tdese fkstrumtf`ks o`r
tdei t` o`aa`w.

 K`w,
 K`w, y`u mbk teaa `tders y`u
y`u bre
bre c`fkc t`
mbtmd tde eye `o s`ie`ke bkj put tdei fkt` b
trbkme.

@kme tdey bre

bre seek t` c` ukjer,
ukjer, y`u mbk k`w
tbne td`se or`i tde cr`up y`ur bre murrektay
 pero`rifkc o`r `ver t` tde spemtbt`r
spemtbt`r bkj
m`ktfkue y`ur set or`i tdere.

 Ft fs fip`rtbkt tdbt

tdbt y`u bjj tde o`aa`wfkc
o`aa`wfkc
 pfeme `o smrfptfkc
smrfptfkc bkj sboety iebsur
iebsuree t` y`ur
fkftfba fkstrumtf`ks, t` eksure tdey j`k't obaa
`ver fo st``j up<

‑... V`u wfaa stfaa he bhae t` stbkj up bs

k`riba HUZ wfaa ma`se y`ur eyes bkj sa`way
h`w y`ur debj bs y`u hem`ie reabxej
reabxej bkj c`
jeeper’.
 Bk`tder ruse F dbve
dbve pero`riej
pero`riej fs iy tbne `k
 p`st dypk`tfm succestf`k.
succestf`k. Fo y`u pero`ri
pero`ri bky
`o tdese eooemts WXE ]D@S `r fk b K`w
]D@S mbpbmfty ” f.e. `k tde `oo hebt wdek k`
`ke fs pbyfkc iumd bttektf`k t` wdbt y`u j`
`r o`r b spemtbt`r wd` fs tdek bsnej t` m`ie
`ver t` tde jfooer
jfooerekt
ekt cr`up y`u bre murrektay
 pero`rifkc o`r ” y`u mbk mrebte
mrebte tde faausf`k
faausf`k
`o fkstbkt dypk`tfm m`ktr`a.

 Baa y`u keej t` J@

J@ fs set up b trfccer o`r tde
fibcfkej stbte `r pdek`iek`k t` he
bmtfvbtej bcbfk ” `kme y`u dbve barebjy
 pr`vek
 pr`vek ft `ut.

 O`r exbipae, fo F dbve

dbve pero`riej
pero`riej tde eooemt
wdere tde spemtbt`r mbkk`t afot b jemn `o
mbrjs F mbk skbp tdei `ut `o ft bkj sfipay
 stbte<

‑Sdekever,
‑Sdekever, F t`umd y`uy`u `k tde o`redebj
bcbfk ” y`u wfaa ofkj tdbt y`u bcbfk mbkk`t
afot tde jemn `o mbrjs, d`wever iumd y`u try’.
 K@ZE d`w F bi bjjfkc
bjjfkc fk ourtder abkcubce
abkcubce
tdbt succests bk baterej stbte, t` deap h`aster
bkj mrebte tde faausf`k, ftseao.

 K`w,
 K`w, wdek tdey spemtbt`r
spemtbt`r m`ies `ver or`i
or`i
tde `tder cr`up t` wbtmd y`ur pero`ribkme,
 y`u mbk t`umd tdei
tdei `k tde debj bkj sfipay
sfipay
 stbte<

‑Zde jemn fs t`` debvy t` afot! Zry bkj afot ft!’

V`u mbk k`w pero`ri bky `o tde mabssfm WXE

]D@S p`st dypk`tfm succestf`ks y`u w`uaj
k`ribaay HUZ usfkc faausf`k bs y`ur ietd`j
fk stebj `o bmtuba dypk`sfs.

ZDF] ekjs tde hrfeo fktr`jumtf`k fkt` iy

bppr`bmd `k trbkme faausf`k.

 Waby wftd ft.

ZDE]E prfkmfpaes bre t``as tdbt mbk mrebte

ekjaess oebts `o bppbrekt reba dypk`tfm
 pdek`iekb.

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