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    1. Control your reactions and avoid arguments. Reactive speech often leads to blame while communicating with consideration and respect helps discussions. 2. Work on your marriage, not just problems. Filling your marriage with positivity is important, and anger has no place and should not be taken out on your spouse. 3. Love your spouse more than your kids. While kids needs come first, your spouse deserves 100% voluntary love as they chose to love each other forever.

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    1. Control your reactions and avoid arguments. Reactive speech often leads to blame while communicating with consideration and respect helps discussions. 2. Work on your marriage, not just problems. Filling your marriage with positivity is important, and anger has no place and should not be taken out on your spouse. 3. Love your spouse more than your kids. While kids needs come first, your spouse deserves 100% voluntary love as they chose to love each other forever.

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    Top 10 Dos and Donts For Marriage

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    THE TOP 10 DO’S & DON’TS FOR MARRIAGE

    1 DO CONTROL YOUR
    REACTIONS
    DON’T ARGUE 1
    Reactive speech is nearly always
    regrettable. It usually snowballs into Arguments are never okay. They
    excuses and blame. If you stop it before debilitate both of you and ruin your
    it passes your teeth, you will have more day. Learn to communicate with
    ability to discuss things without consideration and respect.
    argument and bad feelings. Make love
    your goal. Choose your words wisely.

    2 DO WORK ON YOUR MARRIAGE,


    NOT YOUR PROBLEMS
    DON’T EXPRESS ANGER OR
    FRUSTRATION 2
    Working on problems will only distract Anger is, in simplest terms, a reaction
    you from being the spouse you vowed to not getting your way. There is never
    to be. Working on your marriage is
    a justification for anger, and certainly
    about filling the hive of your marriage
    with honey of positivity. none for dumping it on your spouse.

    3 DO LOVE YOUR SPOUSE MORE


    THAN YOUR KIDS
    DON’T DWELL ON “ERRORS” 3
    Your kid’s needs come first, but the We all should try to improve ourselves
    love you have for them was initially out in life. Errors should be seen only as
    of biological compulsion. The love for
    lessons, not punishable by continuous
    your spouse is 100% voluntary, which
    makes that love unique. guilt. Learn your lesson and move on.

    4 DO PRAISE YOUR SPOUSE


    SINCERELY
    DON’T TALK ABOUT YOUR MARRIAGE
    PROBLEMS WITH ANYONE, PERIOD 4
    Nothing, not even saying it, says “I love Your marriage is a sacred space that
    you” better than sincere praise. This is has its own innate protections. Never
    what they signed up for, and what you
    allow anyone else in your marriage by
    did before you got married. Don’t do a
    “bait and switch”. Show your love talking about what happens between
    through supportive words. the two of you.

    5 DO REMEMBER WHY YOU


    MARRIED YOUR SPOUSE
    DON’T CONFRONT
    5
    You chose to love your spouse. They are Confrontation, or any verbal "challenge"
    the only one in your life you chose to will always trigger a fight or flight
    love forever. If you remember this one reaction, including lies, yelling, escaping,
    point, and everything it means, you will etc. A lover is always careful to never
    treat them with enormous respect. purposely or accidentally "attack" their
    beloved. Be kind rather than mean, and
    supportive rather than indifferent.

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