HOW TO AND WHAT TO DO FEATURE
LEILA ABIGAIL M. LUMANLAN
HOW TO END YOUR UNHEALTHY RELATIONSHIP AND WHAT
ARE YOU GOING TO DO?
We all know that love is very
crucial to us humankind. This is the
feeling that everybody wants to
feel. If you know what healthy
love looks like, you'll be able to see
the signs that you're experiencing
unhealthy love.
Healthy love is encouraging,
supportive, and honest. When you
can be complete to yourself, you
know you're experiencing healthy
love. Healthy love makes you feel
heard and understood. You want
to spend time with your loved one,
and the feeling is mutual, you get
the attention you want and feel
appreciated and accepted for
who you are.
Remember, not because
you're feeling some healthy love
doesn't mean you're not
experiencing signs of unhealthy
love they're not the same. But
what if you will be experiencing
the unhealthy relationship and
what are you going to do?
There are signs that you are in
the unhealthy relationship, the First
one is your bonding ends with
arguments, you always fight even
just a small thing. Second,
dishonesty, you always tend to lie
and making fun of feelings with
each other. Third, you don’t
respect each other, this is one of
the common problem of people
who are in a relationship yet it’s
important to consider. Fourth is
violence, of course when your
partner hurts you, it's no longer
love, anger and annoyance is
what they feel.
Then how will you going to end
your unhealthy relationship? The
first thing you are going to do is
create a plan, make a plan like
where is the place that you both
two were talk and of course pic a
perfect timing. Second create a
script, if you don't want to forget
everything you want to tell him,
write it down. When you get to
that point you just have to be
calm, don't raise your voice and
don't react violently. Lastly,
contact your parents and friends
or anyone who supports you or
aware that you were going to end
your relationship. When
relationship is over, they are the
ones you can approach, they will
sympathize with you and motivate
you to move on with life.
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What are you going to do?
Here are the tips you must do
during the talking with your
partner. The first thing you would
do is be direct to the point, you
want to end your relationship or
you are not happy anymore. Then
see what would he react or what
he would like to say. Of course, he
will not allow it, then you have to
tell him the real reason of what is
the cause of your pain and
explain it to him clearly. After the
explanation exit the situation and
don’t turn your face back to him.
I know at first it is hard to let go
with someone you were once
loved you have to accept it and
move on. The last thing you have
to do is love yourself, focus on your
goal and let god center of your
achievements.
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