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Q2 W1 Per - Dev.
Q2 W1 Per - Dev.
Quarter 2 – Module 1:
Personal Relationship
QUEZON COLLEGES OF THE
SCHOOL-BASED S
Introductory Message
Welcome to the Personal Development School-Based Learning Module
(SBLM). I am JEYSEL S. CALUMBA, your teacher or facilitator in this subject.
This learning material is especially crafted to provide you with independent
and self-directed learning experiences and to have more autonomy and control over
your learning. This will help you improve your academic performance, increase
motivation and confidence, make choices and decisions about how to meet your
learning needs, take responsibility for constructing and carrying out your own
learning.
The world is currently in a very challenging situation due to the corona virus
2019 pandemic. All are affected including the education system. In this time of crisis,
learning must continue. That is why the Quezon Colleges of the North initiates this
School-Based Self-Learning Module for the students to continue learning even at
home.
You, as the parents, play an important role in this new way of learning. Kindly
give your child enough lesson time. Check their modules if they seriously do the
activities. Your support would mean so much for them. Help them to become a
productive learner even at home. This is just a temporary situation. Everything would
go back to normal when this corona virus is over. Thank you for the unconditional
support to your child’s education. Let us join, hand in hand, for your child’s future.
do some research, try to draw from a variety of different courses and if things are
getting difficult, do not give up. Please ask assistance from your teacher or anyone
whom you know that can help you. Love and enjoy this beautiful and meaningful
learning experience!
1. Read the module title and the module introduction to get an idea of what the
module covers. Specifically, read the first two sections of this module
carefully. The first section tells you what this module is all about while the
second section tells you of what you are expected to learn.
2. Never move on to the next page unless you have done what you are expected
to do in the previous page. Before you start each lesson, read first the
INSTRUCTIONS.
3. Work on the activities. Take note of the skills that each activity is helping you
to develop.
4. Take the Post-Test after you are done with all the lessons and activities in the
module.
5. Meet with your teacher. Ask him/her about any difficulty or confusion you have
encountered in this module.
6. Finally, prepare and gather all your outputs and submit them to your teacher.
7. Please write all your answers of the tests, activities, exercises, and others in
your separate activity notebook.
If you encounter any difficulty in answering the tasks in this module, do not
hesitate to consult your teacher or facilitator. Always bear in mind that you are not
alone.
We hope that through this material, you will experience meaningful learning
and gain deep understanding of the relevant competencies. You can do it!
What I Need to Know
Welcome to this module! You must be very eager to start with the learning activities
prepared for you. The activities in the module have been designed to provide you
with rich and stimulating learning experience.
Exploration
Directions: Journal Reflection
Use these guide questions to share your thoughts, feelings, and opinion about your
personal relationship.
1. What kind of relationship do you have in your family, friends, or partner (if there’s
any)?
2. What is your role in the relationship?
3. Are you satisfied with the type of relationship that you have with them?
4. Do you believe that your relationship with them can be improved?
5. In what ways can you help to improve your relationship with them?
6. Write your love language and the love languages of your listed family members
such as parents and siblings, friends and significant other.
7. How you can further express your love to them?
8. List down the things on how you wanted to be loved and how you can share your
love to them.
9. Assess your relationship with your family, friends or significant partner by
identifying the things that make it healthy and unhealthy.
10. Write possible ways on how you will change your unhealthy relationship to them
into healthy relationship (if there’s any).
11. What are the things you can possibly do or promise to yourself to become
responsible in maintaining the healthy relationship you have to other people?
Lesson Proper/Discussion of Concepts
As you have listed all the people in your life right now that you have close
connection, so let us know what this close connection that you have with them is.
Family Relationships
Family is defined as “two or more persons who are related by birth, marriage,
or adoption, and who live together as one household.” It includes siblings and
parents who may with you as you grow up, and relatives such as grandparents,
aunts, uncles, and cousins who you may not see frequently.
Family bond plays a vital role in person’s well-being since it may form other
kinds of relationships such as friendships and romantic relationships. Having strong
family relationships is ideal although it doesn’t happen always. There should be
love and closeness. Parents and older relatives role is to guide discipline and
support you when needed. Arguments, disagreements, moments of anger and hurt
are normal in a family since you spend so much time together, and these are short-
lived for families still love and care about each other. There is an increase of
arguments and conflicts with parents when teenagers assert their independence and
find their identity as adult. These shall pass after teenage years.
Friendships
Friends are the people who we are not related to but who we choose to
interact with. They are the people who we trust, respect, care about and feel that we
can confide in and want to spend time with. A friendship is a reciprocal relationship.
Both people must see each other as a friend for it to exist.
There are different degrees of friendship. You may find that you feel closer to
some friends than others. This is perfectly normal. Some friends, especially if they
have only been known for a short time or are not seen very often, may not be
appropriate to confide in about personal issues or concerns. You may find that you
feel more comfortable and able to confide in friends whom you have known for
longer or spend more time with.
Furthermore, friends who are very close and know each other well are
referred to as “best friends or close friends”. Some people have many friends, while
others may only have one or two. There is no right or wrong number of friends to
have and everyone is different. Good friendships are mutually respectful, supportive
and share common interests and ideas. It should be built on honesty, support and
loyalty.
Some friendships can be close while some friends choose to greet each other
by hugging or kissing on the cheek, other friendships may have no physical contact,
or may simply shake hands. Romantic contact or Being intimate physically is not
appropriate in a friendship.
Romantic Relationships
A romantic relationship is when you feel very strongly attracted to the other
person, both to their personality and, often, also physically and should be
reciprocated by the other person in the relationship. A romantic relationship exists
between a boyfriend and girlfriend (in a heterosexual relationship) or a boyfriend and
boyfriend or girlfriend and girlfriend (in a homosexual relationship) or spouses (in a
marriage) or life partners (in a civil partnership or long-term unmarried relationship).
People in a romantic relationship often see each other and when apart will find ways
to contact each other by phone and the like. A romantic relationship is the closest
form of relationship in which, the two people who are involved will often describe
themselves as being attracted to each other and/or “in love”. They feel a strong
connection and bond to each other that they do not feel with anyone else, even close
friends. The bond is also exclusive and monogamous.
a. Physical Attractiveness
It is one of the primary determinants of romantic attraction. Most people prefer
whom they consider physically attractive especially in the early stages of
dating.
b. Proximity
People tend to get attracted to people who are geographically closer to them.
They are more likely to develop feelings of mutual familiarity with the people
who live close to us or go to school with us and increased level of comfort
when there is regular contact and no prior negative feelings.
c. Similarity
People pick partners who we have similarities with such as social class,
background, religious beliefs, age and education. The more attitudes and
opinions two people share, especially when they are similar, the more they
will want to do the same activities, and would create a strong bond between
them.
d. Reciprocity
People like others who like them back. People feel indebted when someone
does something good for them and tend to reciprocate the action. The more
we are liked by someone they equally like, the more we behave in ways that
promote mutual feelings of liking.
3. Attachment is a deep and enduring emotional bond that connects one person to
another across time and space. It is when long-lasting commitments are
exchanged.
Robert Strenberg (1988) suggests that there are three main components of
love. Love relationships vary and it depends on the presence or absence of each of
these components.
The combination of the three (3) components can produce eight (8) types of love.
It is when you recognize your self-worth and don’t ignore your personal needs.
Self-love begins with acknowledging your responsibility for your well-being.
The situations given in the previous activity can all be applicable among your
family and significant other or partner. Learn to recognize examples of people who
engage in negative behaviors that lead to unhealthy relationships. These are some
important aspects for healthy relationships.
Exercises/Developmental Activities
Draw a rectangle on blank sheet of paper. Connect three more rectangles as shown
below. Lists down the people you have close connections with and who considered
family, friends, or partner. You may draw or put pictures of them if you want.
FAMILY
Identify the perfect combination of different theory of love styles that can create
something beautiful on your connection with your family, friends and significant
other. Though there isn’t a perfect equation for every relationship, these
combinations can provide a perspective on how to work various types of love into
your relationships.
Divide your paper into two columns and identify healthy and unhealthy relationships
1. You feel good about yourself when you’re around the other person.
2. You do not try to control each other. There is equal amount of give and take.
3. You feel sad, angry, scared, or worried.
4. There is communication, sharing and trust. You feel safe to share secrets.
5. You feel that you give more attention to them than they give to you. You feel
controlled.
6. You don’t communicate, share or trust.
7. You like to spend time together but also enjoy doing things apart.
8. You feel pressured to spend time together and you feel guilty when you’re both
apart from each other.
9. You feel the need to be someone that you are not.
10. It’s easy to be yourself when you are with them.
11. You respect each other’s opinion. You listen and try to understand their point of
view even if you don’t always agree with them.
12. You feel the need to be someone that you are not.
13. There is no fear in your relationship.
14. You feel there’s no respect for you or your opinion. You are not able to disagree.
15. You feel fear in your relationship.
Generalization
Would you mind to make a summary on what you have learned from our lessons?
Assessment
Multiple Choice. Select the letter of the best answer among the given choices.
A. Philia B. Agape
C. Storge D. Philautia
3. Which of the following influence the person to get attracted to people who are
geographically closer to them?
A. Passion B. Commitment
C. Attraction D. Attachment
7. Which of the following is an element of a healthy relationship?
A. One person make all the decisions B. Be disrespectful
C. Trust one another D. You are threatened
8. According to Robert Stenberg, it is the type of love that is characterized by
intimate, non-passionate type of love with long term commitment.
A. Consummate B. Romantic
C. Companionate D. Fatuous
9. It is a type of love named after ancient Greeks that is considered as the
selfless or unconditional love.
A. Philia B. Agape
C. Storge D. Philautia
10. Which of the following Ancient Greek’s types of love is recommended for
friendship?
A. You feel good about yourself when you’re around the other person.
B. There is communication, sharing, and trust.
C. You feel fear in your relationship.
D. You feel safe to share secrets.
13. Which of the following is a good sign of a healthy relationship?
Closure/Reflection
Direction: On a separate sheet of paper, answer the following questions: (5
points each)
1. What concepts or skills did you learn well?
2. What concepts or skills was difficult to understand?
3. What activities did you enjoy the most?
4. What activity was hard to execute?
5. Did you ask help from your teacher? (Yes or No). If Yes, did you immediately
receive the needed assistance? Was the given assistance helpful for you to
understand better the lessons?
References
“Which of 7 Types of Love Relationships Fits Yours?”, accessed last June 13, 2020,
https://www.psychologytoday.com/intl/blog/fulfillment-any-age/201308/which-7-types-love-
relationships-fits-yours
“Sternberg's Triangular Theory and the 7 Types of Love”, accessed last June 13, 2020,
https://www.verywellmind.com/types-of-love-we-experience-2303200
“Know! The Five Love Languages of Tweens/Teens”, accessed last June 13, 2020,
https://preventionactionalliance.org/wp-content/uploads/2015/01/Know-The-Five-Love-
Languages-of-Tweens-and-Teens.pdf
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