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THE NEW DRUG

INJECTED AT THE AGE


OF 11 TO 20
NEW DRUG
DEALS WITH THE NEW DRUG AND ITS AWARENESS
SEXUAL AWARENESS BY SUNDAR

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SEX AND
PORNOGRAPHY IN
THE AGE OF
SCHOOL CHILDREN
(11 TO 20)

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PREFACE
This is about the sexual assaults and other
harassments which are being ended up inside the
school students without knowing it to the
caretakers. Now a day there is a fear that it would
be a fashion instead of a fault in the society. I had
experienced more about the students in this
generation as I was being with them for a long.
This is an article only to clarify you about how the
new students were and how their thoughts are
being rather being in studies.
This is not to criticize any of the students and
others. This is only to know the information and I
wish not to spoil the real purpose of it. I wish that
this dirt should not to be stained in the precious
socialistic cultured high specialized society of
Indian nation. I believe that this could prevent the
stain from it. I dedicate this to all parents and
teachers and to all humans who have care on this
Indian society.

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Contents

SEXUALITY OF CHILDREN.............................................. 5
FEEDING ABOUT SEX BY OTHER TEENS ........................ 8
PSYCHOLOGICAL THINKING ABOUT THIS AFFAIR IN
THEM ......................................................................... 11
APPROACH OF THESE TO THE PARENTS & OTHERS BY
THEM ......................................................................... 14
COMMON ACTIVITIES BEING DEALT IN SCHOOLS ...... 16
COMMON WORDS THEY INFER ALONG WITH THEIR
LIFE............................................................................. 18
PROBLEMS TO BE FACED IN SOCIETY & IN MEDICAL
TERMS ........................................................................ 20
THINGS NEEDED FOR RECOVERY................................ 24
NO FAP CHALLENGE ................................................... 26
MAKING PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG & PREVENTING
FROM ANOTHER ADDICTION ..................................... 32
CONCLUSION ............................................................. 34

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SEXUALITY OF CHILDREN

Sex is among most used as a bad


word that describes a bad issue in the society
related to rape and other such abuses. Literally in
society it means to the illegal relationship among
boys & girls. But it actually means about the
determination of either a person is male or
female. According to the biology, sexuality not
only refers the growth of sexual organs but also in
the superb behavior.

This is where we lack of. In such way


with means of the behavior, one can be good or
bad. Here bad affects the society more in every
norm. Not everyone is mentioned but those who
are in this means are underlined. With sexuality,
we are indeed to develop the, best behavior in
them. Primary responsibility on those parents and
teachers is to develop a better society.

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“Only when female suggest a good


behavioral man for life, then we would develop it”
is a blind thought and also impossible. In an
effective way not in sake for nation or society,
each should make a person better in both
understanding sex and to have a good mannerism
is need.

There is a common myth that only


females and female infants are included in the
sexual abuses and pornography. So it’s also
happens to males now. Intimating us, it will never
end until we forced to stop.

We are thinking that only for those


who are working and studying in colleges are the
main keys for all abuses that being led to women
especially to school children & others. But the real
is not like as what we think. All those people from
the age of 11/12 during the academic of 6th are
being included for these aggressive abuses and
pornography.

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These abuses are not only in the


practical forms and such kinds. Some make the
situation be favor of them to satisfy their need in
knowledge. Not much, many are being free &
involve in such aggressive. Here we can find our
technology development, as many are being
abused and harassed and also being valued in the
new technical software such as Zoom meetings,
Google meet Cisco webex meetings.

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FEEDING ABOUT SEX BY OTHER TEENS

Teens, which refer here to teenagers


in their friendship circle, play an important role in
such affairs. “How our friendship is?” determines
“how well we are in our character and in our
behavior”. Best teen makes a brilliant one. But a
worst makes a tornado in his life and even in the
society.

This should be cared while selecting


the groups where we want to be in hands of
friends. Here parents also play a main role as to
watch them and have a look into their activities.
But interfering into their problem and other such
affairs are not to be liked by them. So they must
be so precautious and also to be work more
productively.
Parents should look over them and
not to look into it deeper. As we are handling our
students at adolescence and nearby age group we
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should be more caution as their mind says to do


anything for their own wishes. Let’s have a look
into how teens feed about sex and being sexuality
and also sexually attracted.

With respect to aspects and thoughts


of new generation 2k teens, word “sex” refers to
about the intercourse within two different or
same gender bodies. Also being pinged with an
idea that it is normal thing to have with anybody
else for a joy and also for their literal stress.

Actually they also inject that this is


only for the name of joy and also to reduce their
personal stress especially to have a varied
enthusiasm in their life.
This is what they expect. The reality
to be understood is to have sexually assaulted or
harassed in names of being fun. So a bad
knowledge is being inculcated in them.

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Fun can be there but only under limits.


This knowledge is not within those teens. Mostly
they have a wrong guidance in this thing by
parents, society, etc. Some fuel out their sexual
feeling by watching porn in websites.

This can be taken as a cultural change


or a behavioral change or a disciplinary change.
Anything can be but we need to change this
immediately to safeguard our future world.

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PSYCHOLOGICAL THINKING ABOUT THIS


AFFAIR IN THEM

In this matter we had to deal a lot with


psychological issues and being at most care with it.
We have a role on their psycho also. Because
during this age misleading and unwanted ideals
leads to the disaster in their life.

Adolescence is being an age like


walking on the bed of thrones. So everybody
should make a specialized care on those. There is
also an afraid that everything they infer along are
being impressed strongly in their mind. Here that
thing is to be only positive and none of the bad
thoughts. Here it’s apt that there is a big knife
hanging over their head.

As per the teen’s feed they infer that


sex be

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 Fun in life.
 Enjoyment of doing.
 Making us stress free.
 Makes to watch too much of porn and
other sexual videos.
 Vigorous growth to the sexual hormones
in few days.
 Feel to try in the practical way of life.
 If not done, there would be no fertility.
 You can’t be a male or female.
 Boost to the sexual organs in few
minutes.
 Boost to the fast producing sperms or
egg from now (myth with it is that it can
prevent the infertility in future).
 So do this more times in a day for your
complete work and progress.
 Create some extraordinary good and
pleasant feel inside them.
 Fulfills what your sexual anger is.
 Motivates in you sometimes.
 Makes you to be a sexually good person.
 Reduces all the sexual health problems.
 Produces a lot of seminal fluid.
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 Reduces your weight.


 Increases your sexuality.

In these stuffs what they feed have


some truths and many myth and lies. So wrong
leading makes them to feel that sex and being
sexed is a normal stuff and also that is not being a
fault. This infers that it is not only being sex but
also being abused or being harassed in the name
of fun.

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APPROACH OF THESE TO THE PARENTS &


OTHERS BY THEM

Eventually those who are inside this


and also making others to have such relationship
are being forced to be alone. Most of the time this
feel of being alone makes to have such thoughts.
But not apt for those who have higher goals in life.

According to their thought, talking


these stuffs to parents are being shameful and
guilt. So most are under the closed doors. Some,
who are with high vigorous anger on sex, think
their own mother and other relation in the sexual
views. While they walk in street or travelling, they
felt the same in all girls in the surrounding. They
also watch them in the sexual views.
The fact is, no one wishes to tell about
their sexuality and how they are being in a sexual
thought to anybody else. Also they felt something
bad while exposing their sexuality or virginity
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about to anyone else that can be either parents or


others.

Opening mind to the parents is being


difficult unless they speak about it. Parents should
not to be shy about speaking sex with their
children. This is about educating. So they must
speak about it openly and clearly to either his son
or daughter.

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COMMON ACTIVITIES BEING DEALT IN


SCHOOLS

 Usually, during the free time most are of with


these sexual verbal talks.
 Sharing about the sexual movie which they
saw last night or before.
 Discussing about their imagination in that
story and making them erect.
 Having sexual verbal talks about that movie.
 Describing a girl who was seen by them in a
sexual view.
 Always exasperating their views on those
stuffs.
 Keep on discussing on these matters.
 Especially during the zoology classes, these
higher class students are making their views
on all pictures in the sexual aspects.
 By the way they started kidding others.
 Also make some sexual verbal assault on
some innocent people and likely to be.

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 These verbal assaults are not only in some


situations but common in all of those which
they pass by.
 Views in those classmate girls are also in the
means of sexual manner.
 Mannerism they behave with them can be
differing but all their internal views are to be
as like that.
 They spoke all such abused words in front of
females as some doesn’t know about what
they spoke.
 Thoughts and activities are also being related
to them.
 Some felt them as like those who act in videos
and style as similar.

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COMMON WORDS THEY INFER ALONG


WITH THEIR LIFE

Casually they use all the bad words


even to describe anything. Mostly used for
scolding and describing his enemy. They easily
have these words while talking. This also being
injected that some of these verbal assaults can
give us some relaxation by teens.

They always use this as a free gift and


also irrespective of where they are and in which
situation they are. This is an indirect abusing
activity.

You can think off that what this is. This


says everything as an abusive or a controversial.
But the reality is that they are abusing everybody
and personally I had met with it a lot. They also

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use these words irrespective of temple, public


areas, schools, etc.,

Some of their commonly used as,


 Sunni  Punda
 Oolu podalama  Naduviral
 Punda  Un thambi
 Teichute iru  Kooti
 Masturbate  Balls
 Pussy  Aduchu oothu
 Banthu  Kena punda
 Ootha  Ookalam
 Middle finger  Boobs
 Neevu  Ommala ooka
 Kaiadi  Puluthi
 Kotta  Aduchutiya
 Bag  Oothitu iru
 Hammer  Boobs

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PROBLEMS TO BE FACED IN SOCIETY &


IN MEDICAL TERMS

All first see him in the sexual person


or a porn star. Society also treats them
differently. Normally they treat him as a gay or
straight or transgender or bisexual etc. They also
have a special treatment inside their friendship
gang.

Approaches to these people are also


being varied from normal. Because of these
commitments. Although they are included in
these stuffs, they treat them as different. This
can be expressed as that he had done a mistake
in big level which is also being done by all.
Sometimes this can lead to the partiality of the
students. Leading to most of the suicide and
other issues are also being chances to happen.

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They are with chances to fulfill their


sexual hunger. Others can make them as a
rented man to fulfill others sexual hunger. They
are also used as toys of sex which are brought for
time and using for a time and throwing out again.
This is being like a disposable paper cups. But
their psycho would affect a lot. Rather than being
accompanied they are mostly discriminated and
bring abused. Whatever may be if it is an abuse
it’s an abuse that can’t be excused as it was
made just for fun.

In medical terms, they face a lot of


problems by physical & mental. So being
careless in this can leads to the severe
complications in health.

All got exhausted their mind into sex


rather than being concentrated in studies. They
are also stacked in those stuffs. Some of usually
encountered issues are as
 Social anxiety  Low self esteem
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 Loneliness  Anger on someone


 Depressed  Non-social
 Stress  Less productive
 Neural disorders  More tired
 Mental disorders  Prolonged sleep
 Loss of energy

They are also bumped to addiction of


watching porn. Their dopamine (hormone of
reward) production would also reduce in such
relations and leads to production of dopamine to
another activities.

Watching porn makes a chance of


raping and any abuses when its hunger or
eagerness increases. As dopamine hormone
secretes it makes our body to fell pleasure. Thus
leading to do any work for that pleasure. Most
probably this can also leads to the most of the
harassments and assaults. According to them,
watching porn can be normal but eagerness makes
it to any extend. We can’t play in theirs life.

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Research says that “Functional


Magnetic Resonance Imaging (fMRI)” scans of
brain from two different persons; one with porn
addiction and another with alcohol, smoke
consuming are also being similar to each other.
We need not to have such from our society.

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THINGS NEEDED FOR RECOVERY

 To be free with them.


 We should treat them with most care in
remembrance with their psychological affect.
 Being calm with them in all places.
 Need to check their medical and sexual health
subjects.
 Speaking plays a most important role in this.
 Sitting with them in a private room and speak
out.
 We should not to be more “rude” and also
keep on enquiring about this badness.
 To be precise, talk about the future and
realistic life within a limit. As it not to be
irritate him.
 Following “nofap challenge”.
 Can have a prescription to any psychiatrists.
 Meditation is also one of the best ways of
recovery.
 Strong browser extensions for pc and some
preventive apps for mobiles are to be fixed.
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 Activate “safe search” in browsers and also


parental control.
 Creating better environment for us.
 Connecting to more good friends.
 Getting help from parents and trustworthy
friends.
 Block every porn websites.

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NO FAP CHALLENGE

What is “no fap challenge”?

No fap challenge is an initiative or a


preventive method for porn addiction. It refers no
porn, no masturbation, and no intercourses. This is
most common method used across many
countries. This is more effective and also easier
than others.

It is a reboot of our human body like


how we reboot our computer. This helps for the
recreation of our life.

How to follow “no fap challenge”?

Following no fap is a simplest and an


easier way. The main stuff is to follow these steps

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with control and proper way without getting out


of it. These are with 3 modes. You can choose
what you need on the basis of addiction level (how
long you watch?, how eager are you? , etc.,)

1. Hard mode:
✓ Not watching porn
✓ No masturbation
✓ No sexual intercourse

2. Lite mode:
✓ Not watching porn
✓ Can have masturbation
✓ Can have sexual intercourse

3. Standard mode:
✓ Not watching porn
✓ No masturbation
✓ Can have sexual intercourse

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Things followed during no fap challenge:

➢ Delete everything from your gadgets which


makes you to watch porn.
➢ Make a note on your daily routine progress.
➢ Note difficulties you face and about your
response to it.
➢ Replace the time with any other stuffs like
playing, reading books, spending time with
family, flying out as a vocation, etc.,
➢ Importantly you should not replace it with
alcohol, smoking, and other activities.

How long to have “no fap challenge”?

No fap challenge is normally for of 90


days. As our brain was addicted and also being in
the flying way, it takes some long period of days to
be recovered.

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Excess of masturbation and porn leads


too many causes like sexual dysfunction etc.,
90days makes our brain to be reproduced into
new life form.

It is quite difficult for 90 but if we


need to prevent from such causes, we need to do.
And everything is possible if we have our
thoughtful soul in it.

Advantages of “no fap challenge” :

 Protection of semen which contains lot of


proteins, keratin, spermidine, calcium,
chlorine, etc.,
 Boosts confidence
 Produces strong immune system.
 More energy
 Enjoying your life.
 Sharp memory power and stays more
concentrated
 Staying focused
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 Increased testosterone and semen


 Increase of stamina
 No stress and no depression
 Good physical structure
 Not only all these you are changed into a
good man.
 Having a prideful sensation in them.

Lot of fresh feel can have after this


recovery. You are guaranteed with a fresh and
new life style. This makes you more comfort than
being before. Now you feel an amazing matter in
your life and it becomes more wonderful.

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ADDICTE D TO GROWTH PART 1 .mp4

ADDICTE D TO GROWTH PART 2.mp4

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MAKING PSYCHOLOGICALLY STRONG &


PREVENTING FROM ANOTHER
ADDICTION

After such issues, they are downed by


mind and by power. We need to build them with
good even stronger. Making them to understand
what happened is also important. There is a need
to tell about “what the sex actually means?”

Making them to involve in the other


actions can make to leave them from such
addiction. But keep on talking and heavy
workloads make them to feel bad and anger.

Friendly talk along with them can also


give best results. We can also have therapists,
psychiatrists, and other such peoples. We can
move them out for vacation and such enjoyments.
Making them more refreshing is important here.

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With the goal of this we need not to


do this directly and make them to regain the past
history. We also abide to care with that.

We can also use some internet


websites and doctor counseling to them. Few are
as:
Verywellmind
The recovery village
Trafalgar residence
Integrity restored
Nofap
Wikihow
Some of best sexologist and therapists :
Dr. Raman – 9840177675
Dr. Prabhakaran – 9444879530
Dr. Harishankar – 9840369824
Dr. Aleem – 8946093329
Use some web search for more doctors.

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CONCLUSION

Sexual abuses and harassment starts


from every single bit. Pornography also makes
society dirtier. Thus there is a need and necessary
to stop such stuffs. I hope this may reduce some
issues. This is not a simple matter to be discussed
or to be telecasted. This is future of our children.
Carelessness is not being good in such matters.
We need to take much care in that. Caring is to
with each and every part and with anything else.
So make things perfect.

Each and every step is to be cautioned


as they are not matured and not being a man.
Make a keen analysis and understand their
knowledge then step on to wiser movements.
Keeping this in mind we can start our productivity
and make them to survive for a better future.
JAI HIND!!!

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