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INC127 GP Assign CHAPTER 6.LATEST
INC127 GP Assign CHAPTER 6.LATEST
INC127 GP Assign CHAPTER 6.LATEST
COURSE: INC271
CLASS: M3AT1105E
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A) Based on your understanding, define listening, describe its five stage and
Listening is an active process by we make sense of, assess and respond to what we
hear. According to English Club, they defined listening as receiving language through the
ears. It is involve identifying the sounds of speech and processing them into words and
(Wikipedia, 2020)
There are five stages of listening. Firstly, receiving process. It is the intentional focus
on hearing a speaker’s message, which happens when we filter out other sources so that
we can isolate the massage and avoid the confusing massage. Second, understanding
stage. This stage we will attempt to learn the meaning of the message. Next, remembering
stage. It means we can remember all the sentence that we heard. It begins with listening,
if you can’t remember something that was said, you might not have been listening
effectively. The fourth stage is evaluating or judging the value of the massage. Usually, it
happens when we can give personal opinion about the massage. We determine either the
There are a few methods to improve the process of listening at each stage. For first
stage, we must give the full attention to the speaker, to make the process of understanding
become smooth, we must ask the questions for clarification. Third stage, we can repeat
key names or concept to improve our memory. For evaluating stage, we need to separate
the facts from the speaker’s opinion to make better critical judgement. Lastly, the method
that we can use to improve responding process is resist responding to the speaker’s
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B) Explain the major barriers to effective listening.
The first of major barrier to effective learning is prejudice. Oscar Wilde said, “Listening
is a very dangerous thing. If one listens one can be convinced.” Unfortunately, some of
our default ways of processing information and perceiving others lead us to rigid ways of
listening to avoid being convinced of anything different. This form of bias is a barrier to
effective listening, because when we judge a person on the basis of his or her identity or
ideas, we generally stop listening in an active or ethical manner. Often you can have a
hard time listening because you don't agree with the speaker. We, as humans, often
disagree with his/her ideas on a personal level, you can allow personal biases to distract
you. Keep your mind open. You may not agree with the speaker, but his or her message
may be accurate. If you hear them out, you'll never know. (Schmitz, 2012)
Next the major barrier to effective listening is environmental and physical barriers to
effect on our ability to listen. A room that's too dark can make us sleepy, just like a room
that's too warm or cold can increase consciousness of our physical discomfort to the point
that it's distracting. Some of the seating arrangements make listening simpler, while others
divide people. In general, listening is better when listeners are in direct contact with the
eye and are close to the speaker. In Chapter 5 "Nonverbal Message" that when group
members are allowed to select a leader, they always choose the individual who sits at the
middle or head of the table. Even if an individual may not have exhibited any leadership
ability to see and hear a person effectively enhances people's confidence in their ability
to obtain and process information. Eye contact and physical proximity can also be
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impaired by noise. As we learned in Chapter 1, noises such as a whirling air conditioner,
barking dogs or a ringing fire alarm can obviously interfere with listening despite direct
Unfortunately, most people have never received any formal training or instruction related
to listening. Although some people think listening skills just develop over time, competent
listening is difficult, and enhancing listening skills takes concerted effort. Even when
opportunities to enhance their speaking skills. After teaching communication courses for
several years, I have consistently found that students and teachers approach the listening
part of the course less enthusiastically than some of the other parts. Listening is often
communication process. In addition, our individualistic society values speaking more than
listening, as it’s the speakers who are sometimes literally in the spotlight. Although
listening competence is a crucial part of social interaction and many of us value others we
perceive to be “good listeners,” listening just doesn’t get the same kind of praise, attention,
convey the importance of listening through statements like “You better listen to me,”
“Listen closely,” and “Listen up,” but these demands are rarely paired with concrete
instruction. So unless you plan on taking more communication courses in the future, this
chapter may be the only instruction you receive on the basics of the listening process,
some barriers to effective listening, and how we can increase our listening competence.
Getting ready to speak or thinking about your counterargument. Listening is more than
waiting for your turn to talk, yet many of us can get distracted by planning what we will
say next. This some tips to avoid from lack of listening which is make it a habit to listen
attentively, it is advisable to assume that the other person knows something that you may
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not know and avoid thinking about how to reply when the other person is speaking and
this habit can be overcome by taking notes while the other person is speaking (Schmitz,
2012).
Our ability to process more information than what comes from one speaker or source
creates a barrier to effective listening. While people speak at a rate of 125 to 175 words
per minute, we can process between 400 and 800 words per minute (Hargie, 2011). This
gap between speech rate and thought rate gives us an opportunity to side-process any
number of thoughts that can be distracting from a more important message. Because of
this gap, it is impossible to give one message our “undivided attention,” but we can occupy
other channels in our minds with thoughts related to the central message. For example,
using some of your extra cognitive processing abilities to repeat, rephrase, or reorganize
messages coming from one source allows you to use that extra capacity in a way that
reinforces the primary message.The difference between speech and thought rate
connects to personal barriers to listening, as personal concerns are often the focus of
competing thoughts that can take us away from listening and challenge our ability to
centeredness and lack of motivation (Brownell, 1993). For example, when our self-
consciousness is raised, we may be too busy thinking about how we look, how we’re
are often challenged when presented with messages that we do not find personally
relevant. In general, we employ selective attention, which refers to our tendency to pay
attention to the messages that benefit us in some way and filter others out. So the student
who is checking his or her Twitter feed during class may suddenly switch his or her
attention back to the previously ignored professor when the following words are spoken,
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Another common barrier to effective listening that stems from the speech and thought
rehearse what we are going to say next while a speaker is still talking. Rehearsal of what
we will say once a speaker’s turn is over is an important part of the listening process that
takes place between the recalling and evaluation and/or the evaluation and responding
is receiving a message and hasn’t had time to engage in interpretation or recall. In this
sense, we are listening with the goal of responding instead of with the goal of
understanding, which can lead us to miss important information that could influence our
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c) Define the four styles of listening and explain how each may be used effectively.
meaning from, selecting, attending to, remembering as well as responding to oral and
nonverbal messages. Meanwhile, hearing is the process of psychology that decoding sounds
from the speaker regarding the messages that is received. There are four significant styles of
effective such as the empathy and objective, non-judgmental and critical, active as well as the
polite and impolite listening. Thus, the effective listening is important to ensure that the
information from the speaker is clearly understood and received by the listener.
First of all, the empathy and objective listening is a mechanism that takes the input of
others during interaction sensitively and attentively. The definition of empathic listening is to
see the world as they see it as well as to feel what they actually feel and empathic
listening often help in a better relationship. Meanwhile, the objective listening is going
beyond empathy which measure feelings and meaning against some objective in reality.
Frequently called the constructive listening which consider the other person's feedback by
listening empathically, support and inspiration instead of criticism or advice are the important
another person in finding the ties between yourself and your experience, so that you are able
to react more wholeheartedly. For example, we must be presentable to eliminate the external
distractions and do not prepare your reactions when someone is speaking. Next, the main
component of being an empathic listener is compassion that engaging with another person's
emotional experience. In other words, we always need to try to find comparisons, although we
haven't encountered the same scenario as the speaker. As a revealed, we can make a time
workload. Other than that, wisdom is also significant if someone shares something with you
emotionally because they respect your judgment and experience. Moreover, wisdom requires
understanding the speaker's input and evaluating the situations surrounding the issues so that
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all the related variables are understandable. The benefit of being an empathic listener is that
work connections are established if we have shown that we able to listen empathically, then
the others will be more able to communicate with us. Hence, this will help develop trust and
more constructive organizational experiences. As well, wisdom will help us to behave closely
if we have the habit of respecting the feelings of other people which can affects our life to be
more polite and compassionate. Another example, if a colleague has suffered from the tone
of emails from a colleague, we can consider updating and encouraging our email texts to them.
Therefore, they typically work better as a team, understand each other, increases the
productivity as colleagues trust as well as when disputes decrease, they will spend more than
one day working and thus they able to generate more income (Kilpatrick, 2018).
In addition, non-judgemental and critical listening are also a listening style. Trying to
understand the other person is the essence of non-judgmental listening. It is about moving
beyond just hearing the words spoken and knowing precisely what the other individual is
saying. We should set our opinions aside as the listener and try not to get distracted by our
feelings and emotions. It is also not always necessary to respond to what the other person
says, and we should continue to listen and value them. Our purpose is not to judge or criticize
the other person, but simply to listen to what they say and receive it. Listening without
judgement really allows the speaker to feel heard and valued (Oakes, 2020). Moreover, the
critical listening is a form of listening that is generally not addressed, as comprehension, critical
thinking, and judgment are necessary. It is often seen to make assumptions during listening
as a barrier to understanding a person, and there is a lot of truth in that. Critical listening,
though, happens when you want to hear what the other person is thinking, but you also have
a reason or responsibility to determine what you are told and how it should be spoken. For
instance, when you watch a television debate, if an election is coming and you will need to
determine how to vote for it you will use some kind of critical listening. You're listening to me
and analysing it. While the relevance and meaning of critical listening is almost universally
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denoted by learning and communication experts, critical listening is used every day when it
comes to everyday life. The trick, though is to try to comprehend the other entity first before
Moreover, the style of effective listening is active listening. Indeed, the definition of
active listening is the ability to focus completely on a speaker, comprehend the information,
respond thoughtfully, and understand their message. According to the article which entitled
the effects of active listening, reformulation, and imitation on mediator success: preliminary
results, (Jacques Fischer-Lokou, 2016) the uses of active listening is defined as the
negotiation that has promising more than reformulation and imitation in development of
imitation that it seems hard to support negotiators in crafting agreements. Next, the method of
active listening offers many possibilities for negotiator to consider and listen as they adapt to
new environments. For instance, through active listening, the negotiator might repeat a whole
sentence and he might repeat only the last words if he judges it useful. Other than that, it is
expressions, imitations of word endings, gestures or acts which recommend the listener
perceives unmentioned feelings and facts (Chavanis & Gava, 2014). As a revealed, active
listening needs the emotional and empathic involvement of a listener that consists of sensing
the emotional needs of processing what has been said, patient, understanding and responding
by using verbal or non-verbal responses, as well as asking questions that indicate active
attention (Bodie et al., 2013). Besides, the art of active listening is not simply the practice of
individual skills such as maintaining eye contact or connectedness with others whereby real
depth and open posture but concerns a state of being, thus meaning are added to interactions
(Ellis and Abbott, 2018). Moreover, in clinical and therapeutic settings, illness, pain and
treatment are always ‘triggers’ for feelings of distress and fears in patients, that represent the
personal and professional challenges for the health professional (Maunder and Hunter, 2012).
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Therefore, for patients to follow medical and therapeutic advice can be delivered by listening
with all the senses by validating the speaker’s emotions, empathic listening builds the
necessary trust, and using reflective questioning. Hence, research demonstrates that active-
empathic listening is associated with higher patient and practitioner satisfaction rates and the
maintenance of positive health behaviours (Hojat et al., 2011; Menendez et al., 2015).
Last but not lease, the polite and impolite listening styles. The politeness is defined as
the various ways that polite behaves when talked or perceived about members of socio-
cultural group and vice versa for the impolite (pourdana, 2017). Significantly, these styles of
listening can be used when it is not needed you to either disagree or agree with the speaker
regarding something. For instance, when the speaker is talking or explaining something to
you, you try not to interrupt the speaker or try to change the topic. Instead, the listener needs
to patiently hear and patiently wait they finish talking before interrupting. Nonetheless, in order
to perceive the possible illocutionary force of a spoken discourse acts or make appropriate
request speech act, the listener needs to acquire adequate the effective pragmalinguistic
socio-pragmatic like the relative imposition of a speech act in the given cultural community to
prevent the embarrassment of impolite or rude by the native speakers. Other than that, when
the speaker speaking, we need to show a good facial expression like maintaining a good eye
contact or shows empathy to speaker such as listening patiently without saying any
disagreement and avoid arguing with what they have been said. Besides, impolite is known
as rude or interrupting the speaker when they have not yet finished their words. However, this
violation of impoliteness only can be dealt with complaints for being interrupted to the
rejection of speaker and it requires the speaker will be in the eminent threat of losing face. As
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In a nutshell, the styles of effective listening are significant to people to determine their
highly suggested to retain and acquire certain pragmatic and linguistic strategies that can be
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Oakes, L. (2020, January 6). Retrieved from Non-judgemental listening: how and why?:
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