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GESTALT
JOURNAL
Volume II, Number 1, Spring, 1979
BOOK REVIEWS
BOOKS RECEIVED
Joe Wysong
AN ORAL HISTORY OF
GESTALT THERAPY
PART THREE: A CONVERSATION WITH
ERVING AND MIRIAM POLSTER
Joe Wysong
book, Gestalt Therapy. We did, finally, meet with Paul. We met with him
quite a lot.
JW: A t what point did Isadore start his visits to Cleveland?
EP: Isadore came to one of the early workshops that Fritz and Paul did
together, around 1955. Soon Isadore began working with us individually.
We knew we needed more than we could get from workshops. We wanted
somebody from New York to come in to work with us individually. Isadore
was available. First he came in twice a month and he'd stay for a few days
each time, so that each one of us could get a couple of sessions with him
twice a month. We didn't know him very well before we started to work
with him, but we came to know him very intimately. He came in for about
four years on a once a month basis, then he went off to live in Europe for a
couple of years. When he came back to this country he came back to
Cleveland again for a couple of years.
JW: I'd enjoy some brief impressions of Perls, Paul Goodman, Paul Weisz
and Laura Perls as they were at the time.
EP: It's very difficult. I can't do it without a disclaimer about my facility
about my doing it right. From Fritz I got the realization that a person could
have incredible range in characteristics. I could experience Fritz as the most
cutting and the most tender of all people. I loved that contrast.
JW: You saw this both in his work and in him as an individual?
EP: I'm talking about his work. Outside of his work there was a very did
ferent quality between us. In his work I felt his power of creating tension to
be greater than any I've ever seen. A tension that was lively-at any mo-
ment the world would change. He got across that kind of vibrancy of lie.
And he would get across a sense of courage to be able to go into any under-
current trip. It was as though one were to go on an LSD trip (LSD was not
known in those days) and he would always be there. There was no way that
he wouldn't know what to do on that trip. I was incredibly supported and
inspired to be able to take some of the trips that I took with him. He was a
man of vast power to assimilate what somebody was saying to him, no mat-
ter how large it was. You would say something large to him, and he'd be
just as large. You could say something small and he could stoop to hear it.
He had this great range-and he had an X-ray quality. I suddenly
discovered that a person could actually know another person for the mo-
ment without knowing them wholly. He seemed a genius to me. I'd never
known a genius first hand. I'd read about them. Now I felt like I'd met a
genius before the critics got to him. I was able to feel that without anybody
having said it to me about him. I really loved having the opportunity to
troduced a Zen experience into our situation. I remember being silent with
him for hours. It was the first time I'd ever experienced the power of a silent
experience. Paul wasn't invoking silence. H e was not a man to invoke
things. I remember doing an experiment which was very eye-opening. He
brought a pail of water. The idea was to immerse our heads in it. And
breathe. I don't remember the experience exactly. . i t ' s been solong. But I
remember feeling the power of how I could, through self-experimentation,
change that which was simply a pail of water into a microcosm of life. He
had a way of doing that. I remember putting my head into that water and
remembering the moment of the expansion of all my sensations and anxiety
into excitement at the prospect of drowning. As though I could have drown-
ed right there in that little pail of water. I was taking that chance in life. I
came out of it alive, having a sense for the microcosmic quality. It was that
sort of thing that Paul Weisz introduced me to.
JW: And he wasn't getting it from books.
EP: No. In fact, Isadore had introduced me to a book called Zen and the Art
of Archery. There wasn't much Zen around. Obviously there were
philosophers who knew a lot about Zen, but when I say not much Zen
around, I mean it was through Paul and somewhat through Fritz that we
could get a sense of how the Eastern systems and the Western systems were
merging. Meeting, if not merging.
JW: What about Isadore?
EP: Isadore was a very different person. A t first we were all in individual
therapy with him. Then, we had theory meeting with him in small groups.
The way we did theory with Isadore was to read Gestalt Therapy together.
Each of us would take a turn reading it. We wouldstop the reader at a time
when we wanted to ask a question. I can remember some of the questions
that I was concerned with, that 1needed further explanation for, and would
disagree about, and that Isadore would explain. It was a new idea that hap-
piness might not be the major goal in lie. I would argue that point with
Isadore. I probably still might argue that point. But whether I would agree
or disagree is not as important to me as what he further accentuated for me.
I said, all we care about is to feel good. His position was that to feel as you
feel is more what life is about, irrespective of whether one was happy or not
happy-irrespective of your feeling. Function came across as transcending
questions of feeling good or feeling happy. There were many discussions of
that sort. They were pretty intellectual discussions, which has not always
been harmonious with the Gestalt view. Still isn't. I think that's changing.
One of the important things for me in my later development was deciding to
go back to the concepts. That's when I started the first course I did in
Cleveland on the concepts of Gestalt therapy where I wanted to deal with
the concepts of the method rather than the experience of the method. That
was a blast for me. What I have come to develop as my perspectives on
Gestalt therapy are a result of that first course. I newly organized the con-
cepts to present them to the people in Cleveland. A n interesting thing hap-
pened during the time I was doing the lecturing. It was just totally lecture
and discussion. One day Fritz came to town and said, "What are you doing
these days?" And I said, "Well, I'm teaching a course in Gestalt therapy
from the standpoint of concepts. I'm also doing experiential things, but I
want this to be just concepts." And he said, "That's fantastic, I'm in-
terested in that too, and I'm starting to write and 1would like to come and
present something to your class." So I said to him, "Well, I would love you
to do that Fritz, i/ you'll do that-not to be experiential." He said, "Yes,
yes, yes, yes, yes. That's just what I want to do. I want to do it, and I want a
place to do it, and this is the place." So he came and gave a lecture for about
five minutes. You could see his mind beginning to falter in the lecture form.
Not falter, that isn't the right way to put it, but-as though he would not be
able to elaborate fully and felt compelled to show how to do what he was
talking about. So be started working with somebody and the rest of the ses-
sion was a magnificent experience. No more concepts. Because Fritz was a
man of aphorism, wry sayings; not a man of extended conceptualizations, of
dealing with the obvious contradictions and the obvious implications, the
obvious additions to what he might be saying.
JW: That leaves us with Paul Goodman and Laura. . . ,
EP: I want to say more about Isadore. First of all, he was more intimate with
us. He knew us better. Second of all, he had acectain learnedness about him
that Fritz and Paul didn't bring into the picture. Paul was a learned
man-Paul Weisz I'm talking about now. But Paul Weisz didn't bring it in
much. What he knew was usually brought in through his integration of it,
rather than as the original. Isadore was at the borderline of the writer-artist
and the therapist. I had more of the feeling of the relationship of the artist to
the therapist when I was with Isadore than I did with either of the others. In
fact, one of my more anxious moments in therapy with Isadore was at a
point when I was doing some magnificent things in my own therapy. They
felt ardul, and I began to feel something of what the relationship was be-
tween the artist and the therapist. Then I suddenly realized that my art form
might be to be the patient. That alarmed me to no end (laughs). But in any
case, there was that with Isadore. And then, with Isadore, we had continui-
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ty. Isadore did not m n a medicine man act, in the sense of the magic potion.
I'm not saying that the magic potions were not valuable, because I think
some of the magic potions were very revealing. I loved them, and find them
very educational. They just need the substance of the continuing. Isadore
gave us that substance and continuity. And in the years that we were with
him we just flowered. I really should speak about myself now. I flowered. 1
discovered ways of existing that would not even have been fantasies for me
as a graduate student. And I say that without being modest, because I was
an excellent graduate student and I was seen as doing excellent work when I
got out of graduate school. I came to Gestalt therapy from the position of
the excellence of the profession of that day, into a new day, where there
were new illuminations that the profession just didn't know about. I was
also young, and ripe, and itwas very timely for me to grow in that direction.
I felt that Isadore's sensitivity was a very un-stereotypic sensitivity. For ex-
ample, I hardly remember Isadore ever asking me to do anything that I
would not be able to do. It's as though he followed my position so perfectly;
so finely, that when he would ask me to do something, it was right there to
do it. And I wondered for a number of years how it was that my patients
wouldn't be as ready as I was with him, and I discovered from him
something of how experience enters into the ju-jitsu moment when the
right timing happens, when something can be said very easily that leads into
eruption, it doesn't force eruption. Actually with Isadore it's more like
releasing a bird. I got that from his patience with m t h i s sensitivity for
every step of my development-for his letting me go my own route.
JW: And Paul Goodman?
EP: Paul came after I was already in individual therapy with Isadore. Paul
was simply and beatifically outrageous. He was a combination of the beatific
and the outrageous-it was simple for him. He was an inspiration for me.
He was an incredibly curious man. He was more curious about the person
he was working with than interested in whether there would be a cure. I
picked up a lot of that curiosity. And he enjoyed a good joke. all these peo-
ple were funny people, but there was something special with Paul about a
good joke. I mean, Fritz would tell a joke, but Paul would savor a joke. He
would love the deliciousness of the relationship of one experience to
another. And he would be bemused as well as amused. He would laugh, but
he would always feel the human condition in the joke. It was not only a joke
but also a poem.
Paul Goodman really could not understand how anybody could do less than
he could do.
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JW: Was Goodman working with the book as Isadore was?
EP: No. H e was more like a street philosopher than a Gestalt theoretician.
The people in Cleveland, as I observed, were never as taken with Paul as a
workshop leader as 1was. If Paul came in for a workshop, he didn't get the
same turnout. Even after he had written Growing UP Absurd. Some of us
were just panting to be with him, but it didn't turn out to be as festive a
thing as some of the other workshops. I never understood that. Goodman
did not create the tension system that either Fritz or Paul Weisz did. He was
not a man to create a tension system. He was a man of conversation. He was
a man of story-telling. He was occasionally provocative. He liked hearing
stories. You might have someone in the room telling a story, and the other
people might be bored, but he was fascinated. And he liked to tell stories.
But, I think these days, one needs to think in terms of tight sequentiality
and loose sequentiality . . .
JW: What do you mean by "sequentiality?"
EP: Well, one of my simple rules of therapy is that one thing follows
another. Now that's a very simple rule, hut it means that you stay with
something through sequences. You can do something to make that sequen-
tiality very tight. For example, if you're doing something and I quickly said,
"What are you doing now? What do you feel in your chest? How did you
say that? Where's your tongue?" If I stay with you like that, I'd get a tight
sequentiality, and I'd get a buildup of tension. You can also have a loose se-
quentiality. If we're talking to each other, and I suddenly start telling you a
story about my years in graduate school, we're going to have a loosening up
of our sequentiality. Sequentiality exists whether you like it or not. What
you pay attention to may have a looser or tighter quality. I deliberately-not
deliberately in the sense that I strategize it-but I knowingly will go back
and forth between a tight and a loose sequentiality. People don't know quite
what I'm doing. I sometimes do it with surrealism, which loosens up the
tightness of the sequentiality: I do it with humor. It isn't that I do it with
that purpose, it's just that I noticed that it happens when I did those things.
Then you come back prepared for the new experience in a new way. Then
you can go to the tight sequentiality again. It's a matter of loosening and
tightening. I got the tightest sequentiality from Paul Weisz. He could also
go loose, from a Zen position. Fritz had a looser sequentiality, but there was
always a high tension level anyway because there was magic in the air. Paul
Goodman was very willing to have a very loose sequentiality and low ten-
sion. Not that what he was doing was not exciting, because for me it was.
But when I would be in a workshop with him, the personal threat was not
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things around the country already, and I was interested in writing. In fact,
our book was already done by the time we moved, and we wanted a benign
climate that would have visual beauty. Cleveland's winters were just too
hard to bear. I had come to do a workshop at AGPA in New Orleans,
around 1967 or '68 in February. When I was walking off that airplane, I
said to myself, "I am not spending the rest of my life in Cleveland." It took
about five or six years after that, before we finally moved. Another thing
was that it's exciting to both of us ta start aU over again. And we chose a
place, in fact, where that was most indispensable, because we knew nobody
in San Diego from before our experience with San Diego. We had heard of
people there. We took a trip west, we liked the people we met, and we decid-
ed on San Diego as the place we wanted to be, considering all the other
warm-weather spots that might have visual beauty.
JW: And you have an institute now in San Diego?
EP: Well, we call it a training center. Basically Miriam and I do the work,
and we find that it's very exciting from the standpoint of-I'm saying we
again,
MP: I'll correct you if I disagree.
EP: OK. We've talked about it, so I know what Miriam feels about it. But
the idea of working with people all the way is a blow-out of involvement in-
stead of taking a section here and a section there, as we did in Cleveland.
And though, as I say, I was very excited with the work in Cleveland, in
either the three-year program or the intensive program, it didn't have the
same feeling of following through all the way as I now have. I just love that
feeling. What I miss is the kind of comradeship right in the middle of our
work which I did have in Cleveland, the sense of support-
MP: And colleagual interaction.
JW: A question for both of you: People often talk of three styles of Gestalt;
the West Coast style, the East Coast style, and the Cleveland style. I wonder
if you're in harmony with that kind of division.
MP: The distinctions for me are hard t o make, because they often boil down
to the individual who's doing it. There might be some difference in the
muscularity of one person or the cerehrality of another. But I'm reluctant to
consider those East Coast, West Coast, Mid-West differences.
EP: Suppose you were to look at the people whoseeffect is most broad in the
areas. . .and you look at New York, you see Isadore and Laura, obviously.
But then you also see other segments of people. So you get a range right
there. You would hardly say that Isadore and Laura would do the same
therapy. Magda Denes I've never seen work. I've never seen the others
work, either. I know something about them, but I think you'd find great dif
ferences among them. What would be the dominant difference? I don't even
know. I would have more to say about the dominant quality of Cleveland
and California than I would about New York. In Cleveland, I think the se-
quentiality is looser, in terms that I mentioned before. I think California is
likely to have a tighter sequentiality. But California is mixed up for me.
Because there is California, and there is also the fact that we are in Califor-
nia, and the people who come to us can't function in the same way as they
would if they worked, let's say, with Joseph Zinker.
JW: In your book, Gestalt Therapy Integrated, you develop a new contact-
boundary interference-deflection. I'm interested in how that came
about-how that evolved in your thinking and in your work.
EP: When I was writing the outline for the first course I taught, I included
deflection and expanded it later on when I did it in the book. I think that's
the sequence. I just felt like it took care of some events that weren't taken
into account by the other resistances that were described in Gestalt
Therapy. There were four there. I thought of resistance in terms of direc-
tion of energy. Introjection is from out to in. Projection is the arrow going
from in to out. Retroflection is like this, sort of a hairpin experience. Con-
fluence is two individual energies going like this and meeting. And it seem-
ed to me a lot of experiences didn't really come back like rewoflection, nor
did they go out, like in projection, they just missed the connection. Abstrac-
tions just don't make the mark, for example, they just vaporize in air. Or, if
I don't look at you, that's deflection. The visual deflection is an important
event.
MP: It may also be that it's a product of the times. I think we are in a period
of increasing depersonalization. And deflection is a depersonalized way of
avoiding contact. Sometimes, given all the good intentions in the world, we
don't even know who the target might be for a particular feeling, for a par-
ticular point of contact. And all we have left is the deflection possibility. I
buy a bicycle for my child; I see it in a store, there it stands. When I get it
delivered, lo and behold, I get it, unassembled, in a box that comes like this.
Now who do I get mad at for that? I go to put it together. The directions say
point A and point B, and fasten it with nut Z, and so on. And point A and
point B don't even meet. There I am, this experience is palpable, and who
do I get mad at?
JW: And so the result is to deflect.
MP: Yes, I have no choice. And I have also gotten bitter. And I think as we
become an increasingly urbanized population, deflection is an increasing
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mode.
EP: A young cousin of mine, who had been in the Army, came over to talk
to me. Apparently he wanted to talk to me about some problems. I didn't
know him very well, but I knew his father quite well. He's one of my closest
cousins. He sat, like you're sitting there, and there's a T V set over there.
And our reflection was in the T V set. And he spoke to me looking straight
at the reflection in the T V set. The T V set wasn't on, just the reflection.
That's deflection!
JW:Must have been interesting to experience.
EP: Yes. It may have been right then that I thought of deflection, I don't
remember.
JW: In terms of the example you just gave, you had an opportunity for con-
tact, to perhaps alter the deflection. What about in the situation Miriam
mentioned, with the bike, is it just that one is left with. . .
EP: Well, of course there they've really removed the ohject. You have no
power but to be patient, until you create the image of the hike because there
is no visible bike. It's a very drastic illustration because it's as though the
bike has vaporized, there are only pieces. Deflection would mostly deal with
when there actually is somebody or something there that you turn away
from either visually, or you turn off your hearing, or you say, "Yes, hut,"
so that the person can't really get quite what you said. Or, if I ask you a
question, I may discover after a while you've never answered my question.
You've been clever enough to address the topic, but you've never answered
my question. Those are all deflected things.
JW: I just thought of Ron Ziegler, Nixon's press agent. . . his frequent
statement, "Yesterday's statement is inoperative."
EP: Inoperative. Beautiful deflection.
MP: George Orwell. If you want a good example, read 1984. Double think
and double speech.
EP: You know, it's interesting that you bring this question up. do you
know that I've been teaching deflection for. . .well. . .the book came out
in ' 7 3 . . . it took us about three years to write i t . . .and I was teaching it for
some years before that. . .and I think you're the first person who's ever
asked me about it. I think everyone just takes it for granted that it's part of
the original Gestalt system.
JW:That could support my theory that an awful lot of people doing Gestalt
have not read Gestalt Therapy. What about dreams? A lot of people seem to
think that the primary purpose of Gestalt dreamwork is to work with the
disowned parts of the personality-that the dream always contains disowned
parts of the personality, which is, I think, Otto Rank's original concept, not
really Fritz's.
MP: Valid, yes. But exclusive, no. There are times when a dream is an at-
tempt to come into contact with some aspect of the individual's existence.
You say disowned; I think maybe it's also unavailable. It can be unavailable
in that the contact they want to make with a person or an aspect of their l i e
is, in some ways, not available to them. Or something they are perhaps just
beginning to make contact with. Or making contact with at that moment,
in a certain way that they haven't done before. So disowned means only that
I've given it away. Unavailable means that there's a reality about it, and
there are some aspects of it that have not been current in my life. It can
either be an individual or even a quality of my life. Some quality of myself
that I have not exactly given away, but haven't claimed. Now it's knocking
on the door saying, "Pay attention to me."
EP: I have some trouble with that word, disowned, also. I would much
prefer to say "not experienced." "Not appreciated." "Not recognized."
Something about disowned, that possessive aspect of it. . like when I'm ac-
tually working with a person, I would not be likely to say, "You have
disowned your sexuality." I might say, "You're afraid of your sexuality."
JW: There have been teams-maleimale, femaleifemale, and maleifemale,
who work together in Gestalt therapy, although not many. Mostly it's been
things like Fritz and Laura, Fritz Perls doing Fritz Perls as a therapist, Laura
Perls doing Laura Perls as a therapist. People like Ed Nevis and Sonia Nevis
in Cleveland. You're recognized as a team I think mostly because of the
book. Erv and Miriam Polster, working as a team, and we're here in a
workshop, led by Erv and Miriam PoIster, and I'm interested in hearing
your comments about working together, how you work together, how you
don't work together. Why you do what you do, why you don't do what you
don't do.
MP: Our work together as a team is only of about five years' duration.
Before that, we did only a small amount of work together.
EP: We would do an occasional workshop, couples workshops. . .that's all
we did together in the old days, though we did write the book together.
MP: But our working as a team is a kind of unique way of working as a
team also. Because, though we're here together, and our training in San
Diego also, we divide the group into two, and each of us goes off into a room
with them. So our work as a team. . .we merge for some activities, and
separate for others. It's an interesting experience separating and then com-
ing together.
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EP: We're together part of the day with the whole group. . maybe a
quarter of the day. . .and then we're not together. . t h e rest of the time.
Also we design together. Make decisions together.
JW: We're talking now primarily about training?
EP: Yes.
JW: The part of the day that you're together. . .what happens then, and
what happens the part of the day that you're apart?
MP: The part of the day that we're together is usually the didactic part of
the day. When we're presenting some topic, some material.
EP: Even then we tend to alternate in our presentations.
MP: As to who is primarily responsible.
EP: Yes. There's one person primarily responsible, and the other may join
in, with some things that we want to say. But may not. There are other
times, of course, when we're involved in the middle of just a discussion,
where there's nobody primarily responsible, but we joke around together,
we tease each other some together, we don't have a lot of dialogue
together. . . . .
MP: Well, no, but our ideas frequently trade off. Something that Erv will
say triggers off something that I will say. Something I will say triggers off
something that he will say. . . Our ideas may play off of each other's. And
also, we alternate responsibility. For example, if we have a topic for presen-
tation, and a demonstratibn, one of us will do one, and the other will do the
other. And we alternate that way. One day Erv will do the topic and I'll do
the demonstration, and the next day I'll do the topic and he'll do the
demonstration.
EP: It would have been difficult for Miriam to co-lead with me in the early
days. In fact, she couldn't even be a student with me. The other students at
the same time were students in my practicums, in therapy with me, and
such as that, and you were not in a position that we could do that. But once
Miriam got on her own legs and knew her professional competence, then it
was okay.
JW: How did you know?
MP: How did I know I was professionally competent?
JW: Yes.
MP: Well, I suspected I was. (laughs) And had enough independent ex-
perience.
EP: In fact, one of the great things in California is that there's no way that
Miriam in California is "my wife." There are as many people who are
oriented toward her offerings as mine. And it comes as an independent
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thing, because they know her. But in Cleveland it was different.
MP: The way 1 dealt with it then was to have a whole series of experiences
independent of Erv and the Institute. I did a lot of teaching outside of the In-
stitute. A t that time, I didn't travel a lot; I do travel a lot more now, in-
dependently, without Erv. We do also travel a good bit together, and some
without each other.
EP: We haven't done as much separately as together.
JW: One of the things I was struck with in re-reading your book in the last
couple of weeks was that there was no attempt to separate the "I" in terms
of the narrator.
EP: I think that's very interesting. . .because we had some quarrels about
how to handle that, and finally wound up with that way.
MP: It felt so labored doing it, that we took the easy way out to get the
fluidity. With the "I." There are very distinct differences, though, in the
way we work.
EP: Oh, Yeah!
JW: What are the differences?
MP: EN is crazier. When we work together, Erv is crazier than I am. I have
this thing where if EN is crazy, I feel like somebody has to not be crazy.
And it's me. When I work by myself, I'm more likely to be crazy. T o claim
that part of me that I don't use as much when we work together.
JW: What's being crazy?
MP: What looks like irrelevant. I could describe his style of working, and he
could describe mine, that might be interesting.
JW: Yes, let's do that.
MP: EN has a kind of-Erv has a way of being very concrete-just taking
experience for its own sake with the kind of simplicity that is obvious only
the minute after he's commented on its obviousness. Until then it has not
been obvious. En, is masterful at that quality of experience and at the free-
association kind of l e a p w h e n you're putting together, in a way that's
Sherlock Holmesian. Erv will frequently make a marvelous leap into putting
something together with consistency. . .simple perceptions-that are sim-
ple only after he says it. He has this quality of perceptive simplicity. That's
the way Erv works. And there's also a kind of contagious
excitement-you're really interested in the person you're looking at.
JW: How do you see Miriam?
EP: She offers a very attentive staying-with a person wherever they're go-
ing. Until the special moment comes for what turns out to be a beautiful ex-
perience. There's a preparatory period, a preparation for that moment, and
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her experiment comes, and then through that experiment the person will
take off and discover some new aspects. She's more compatible than I am,
that is, the person working with her is not as likely to be afraid as with me.
They trust her. And they experience what they want. She has a selectivity
of language that is clarifying. And a kind of warmth that is supportive. Peo-
ple are freer, I think, to go in directions altogether of their own choice than
they would be with me. And h4iriam has a respect for the person's direction
that is not clouded by her own needs, as much as mine are.
JW: About women's roles in our society. It seems to me that women have
been looking lately for role models . .and having talked and dined with
some people from your group last night, it was obvious that some of the
women were using you in a very positive way as a role model. I was wonder-
ing if you find that a burden, a joy, a confusion, or none of the above?
MP: All of the above. The burdensome part of it i s a n d this would hold
true for men or women, whoever is perceived as a role model-when I'm
perceived as a role model what I am as a person gets obliterated or destroyed
or twisted around to lit somebody's needs as a role model. It does get
burdensome.
JW: What do you do when they don't see you clearly?
MP: Talk louder. I make myself a hell of a lot clearer.
JW: Gestalt has been in existence now for roughly 25 years. What do you
see happening for you in terms of the directions you'd like to move in, and
what are some new things that you're excited about?
MP: One of the things that amuses me, as I think about the future, is that
Gestalt therapy and Gestalt therapists have to watch out. There are dangers
of respectability, which are beginning to accrue. How to remain vital
although respectable is important to me.
EP: It's very hard for me to get a sense for the future, but I would like to see
a few different things. One is a sense of returning to the conservative. Con-
servative in the sense of Gestalt therapy being captured out of the alligator
mouths of the opportunistic with their quick sell, easy understood ideas
about Gestalt therapy. I would like us to be less narrow in the general im-
agery about Gestalt therapy. The recognition of what is an abuse of the
quality of exchange rather than obliterating it. For example, I would like
there to be a recognition of the uses to which words like "should,"
"why," and so on can be put, rather than writing them out. I'd like to be
able to get a broadening within Gestalt. I think there's a recognition that
Gestalt therapy went too far into the manufactured language, or the
manufactured non-language. That's one side of it. Another side of it points
in the direction of how can Gestalt therapy carry us into the things that are
interesting to people in the future? Can we, for example, be oriented with
the principles of Gestalt therapy and still explore clairvoyance, extra-sensory
perception. . . ?
MP: Or what Joan Fagen was fascinated by when she wrote about the fact-
that some principles of Gestalt therapy may be compatible with what we're
now finding out about left-brain, right-brain. That's a really intriguing
possibility.
EP: Yes. That kind of thing. I think one of the problems of psychoanalysis
was that they were not willing to assimilate new discoveries in such a way as
to alter their system. I think our principles lead into some of the things
we're talking about, in such a way as to be relevant to those. I would not
have to give up what I see as very orienting to me in Gestalt therapy. I
would not have to give that up in order to explore extrasensory perception. I
feel like I could fit that in. Now if I couldn't then I'd have to find some other
system. But I feel that for Gestalt therapy to be fully realized it has to go
beyond the insights of the originators and the kind of things they had to deal
with. And it's exciting to me to see whether it can encompass another
generation of innovation.
JW: Some people have said that what has to happen to Gestalt is what hap-
pened to psychoanalysis. That there has to be someone like Fritz who sud-
denly decides to go against it.
EP: That's true a t the point when that system will no longer encompass the
new.
MP: Then you must go outside in order to make changes in direction.
EP: And it is uue that psychoanalysis could not encompass what Fritz was
doing. I'm not saying that it should have to. But I would be interested in
seeing how far our principles, our fundamentals, stretch into the future, in
encompassing the explorations of the contemporary in the future. For exam-
ple, how does the concept of contact boundary become relevant to clair-
voyance? Can you still use the concept of the contact boundary? I can well
imagine that the concept of the contact boundary would be very relevant. It
would be a new way to see it. O r a new way to sense it, perhaps. If we take
clairvoyance, if we take nutrition, if we take right-brain, left-brain, if we take
technology, if we take all the things that are likely to be coming in on the
future. . . . .
MP: Yes, like neural transmission, the electro-chemical neurology of
behavior. . .
EP: What ever those new forms are, you still have internal dialogues as rele-
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What is Awareness?
his date and thus reduces the excitement and meaningfulness of his contact
with her.
Corollary Two: Awareness is not complete without directly knowing
the reality of the sitnution and how one is in the sitnution. T o the extent
that the situation, external or internal, is denied, awareness is distorted. The
penon who acknowledges verbally his situation but does not really SEE it,
KNOW it, REACT to it, is not Aware and is not in full contact. The person
who sort-of-knows his behavior, but does not really KNOW in a feeling,
physical way what he does, how he does it, that he has alternatives and
CHOOSES to be as he is, is not Aware.
Awareness is accompanied by Owning, i.e., the process of knowing
one's control over, choice of, responsibility for one's own behavior and feel-
ings (lit. response-ability, ability to respond, to be the primary agent in
determining one's own behavior). Without this the person may be vigilant
to his own experience and l i e space, but not to what power he has and what
he does not have. So, functionally full Awareness is equal to responsibility,
i.e., when I am fully Aware I am at that instant responseable, and, I cannot
be responsible without being Aware.
T o say "I am" or "I know" with the belief that it was not chosen
or to believe that how I am disappears by verbal incantation is self-deception
or bad faith (Sartre). Awareness must include self-acceptance, real self-
acknowledgement. The act of acknowledgement of how "I am" does not
mean one transcends that which is being acknowledged. Yet people are
often aware of something about themselves with a subtle attitude of being
above that which is ostensibly being acknowledged. be "aware" of how
one is with an attitude of self-rejection is such a false acknowledgement. It is
saying both "I am" and at the same time denying the "I am" by saying it
as if it were an observation of another person, saying in effect: "I was that
way, but now that I confess, I who confess am not that way." Such is not a
direct knowing of oneself, but a way of not really knowing. It is both a
knowing about oneself and a denial of oneself. So too merely knowing that
one is dissatisfied with a problem without knowing directly, intimately and
clearly what is being done to create and perpetuate the situation and how is
not Awareness.
Corollary Three: Awareness is always Here and Now and always
changing, evolving and transcending itself:
Awareness is sensory, not magical: it exists. Everything that exists
does so Here and Now. The past exists NOW as memory, regret, body ten-
sion, etc. The future does not exist except NOW, as fantasy, hopes, etc. In
G T we stress Awareness in the sense of knowing what I am DOING,
NOW, in the situation that IS, and not confusing this IS with what was,
could be, should be. We take our bearing from Aw'zreness of what is, by
energizing the figure of attention according to our present interest and lively
concern.
The act of Awareness is always here-and-now, although the content
of Awareness may be distant. T o KNOW that "now I am remembering" is
very different from slipping into remembering without Awareness.
Awareness is experiencing and knowing what I am doing now (and how).
The now changes each moment. Awareness is a new coming
together and excludes an unchanging way of seeing the world (fixed
character). Awareness cannot be static, but is a process of orienting that is
renewed at each new moment. The "awareness" that is static is an abstract
representation of the flowing Awareness that is felt. We trust the evolving
Awareness more than any preset, abstract idea.
rent situation can best be appreciated by those who have struggled for an
esoteric answer and found instead the joy of a simple and obvious Aha!
Beginning therapy patients often cannot say what they mean and
mean what they say because they are not Aware. They have lost the sense
of who they are and who it is that must live their lie. They have lost the
sense of: this is what I am thinking, feeling, doing. They ask for a cure or
ask why, for an explanation, before they observe, describe, and try to know
whal it is they are doing and how. Thus they try to explain, justify
something whose exact existence is unclear to them. They miss the ob-
vious.
These patients maintain this lack of clarity by two related processes:
thinking without integrating the sensory and affective AND using their ag-
gression more against themselves than for contact and assimilation. Their
behavioral Gestalten are formed more by these two rigid charcterological
habits than by the needs of the present (see The Neurotic section, below).
What is needed is experimentation in trying new modes of ex-
perience and new uses of psychobiological energy. The patient needs to see,
to do, to cope and learn. The therapy hour provides situations which are
safe enough to warrant experimentation and challenging enough to be
realistic. In GT we call this the "safe emergency." If the therapist is too
helpful, the patient does not have to do anything and if the therapist em-
phasizes verbal content (e.g., why-because), the patient can think without
experimenting or feeling.f.! the patient only repeats in therapy the processes
he already uses, e.g., obsessing (anticipating, analyzing, asking why) and be-
ing passive and uncreative ("tell me what to do"), the probability is that the
patient will make little improvement.
G T is based on patients learning to use their own senses to explore
for themselves, learn and find their own solutions to their problems. We
teach the patient the process of being Aware of what he is doing and how he
is doing it rather than talk about the content of how he should be or why he
is as he is. We give the patient a tool, in a sense we teach him to cook rather
than feed him a meal.
Traditional psychotherapy is content oriented in that the actual em-
phasis during the therapy hours is on the content of what is talked-about.
G T is process oriented in that the emphasis is on Awareness of how the pa-
tient is going about the search for understanding. We do more than talk-
about, we "work." Work refers to phenomenological experimentation, in-
cluding guided Awareness exercises and experiments. The exercises are not
merely to make the patient aware of something, but to become Aware of
how to be Aware, and as a coroUary to that, to be Aware of how they avoid
being Aware.
In traditional verbal therapy and behavior therapy there is an extrin-
sic goal; the patient is not okay as he is. Often this is agreed to by both the
patient and the therapist. In these therapies the therapist is a change agent
and the patient gets to some ideal state (content goal) trying to be what he is
not. In G T change is thought to occur first by clearly knowing and accep-
ting the given: who you are and how you are. Our only goal is learning and
using this Awareness process.
The G T theory of change (The Paradoxical Theory of Change,
Beisser, 1970) states:
. . .that change occurs when one becomes what he is, not
when he tries to become what he is not. Change does not
take place through a coercive attempt by the individual or by
another person to change him, but it does take place if one
takes the time and effort to be what he is-to be fully in-
vested in his current positions. By rejecting the role of
change agent, we make meaningful and orderly change
possible.
The Gestalt therapist rejects the role of "changer,"
for his strategy is to encourage, even insist, that the patient
be where and what he is. He believes change does not take
place by "trying." coercion, or persuasion, or by insight, in-
terpretation, or any other such means. Rather, change can
occur when the patient abandons, at least for the moment,
what he would Like to become and attempts to be what he is.
The premise is that one must stand in one place in order to
have firm footing to move and that it is difficult or impossible
to move without that footing.
The person seeking change by coming to therapy is
in conilict with at least two warring inuapsychic factions. He
is constantly moving between what he "should be" and
what he thinks he "is," never fully identifying with either.
The Gestalt therapist asks the person to invest himself fully
in his roles, one at a time. Whichever role he begins with,
the patient soon s h i i to another. The Gestalt therapist asks
simply that he be what he is at the moment.
The patient c o m a to the therapist because he wishes
to be changed. Many therapies accept this as a legitimate ob-
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The Neurotic
The neurotic does not let himself be Aware of, accept and d o w his
true needs to organize his behavior. Instead of allowing his excitment to go
fully and creatively into each need, he interrupts himself: he uses part of his
energy against himself, and part to control the therapist's half of the
dialogue. This he must do for he depends on the "guru" to fix him up. The
neurotic cannot fully embrace the I-Thou, for his character is rigid, his self
support reduced, and he usually believes he cannot grow out of his
repetitive and unsatisfying pattern of behavior.
He tries to fuse with the therapist, to draw on his strength instead of
allowing his own to develop. His sense of his own boundaries is weak, for he
rejects Awareness of aspects of himself (e.g., projection) and accepts alien
things as if they were himself (e.g., introjection). Thus the neurotic loses
Awareness of the IS.
So the neurotic is split, has reduced Awareness, and is self rejecting.
This unitary process of rejecting aspects of himself and becoming split can
be maintained only by restricting Awareness. For with full and continued
Awareness the rejected parts would be contacted and eventually integrated.
This self rejection and unawareness reduces the self support readily
available to the neurotic. He comes to believe that he cannot be self
regulating and self supporting, and therefore must manipulate others to tell
him how to be or else forces himself to live by rigid rules ("character") he
swallowed without assimilating. H e either tries to be self sufficient or depen-
dent, but does not use his self support for nourishing contact and
withdrawal. Thus the neurotic controls himself and others as things and
allows himself to be so controlled.
So the neurotic makes the therapeutic situation into a repeat of an
old one: someone telling him how to be, and he resisting or acquiescing. If
the therapist believes he knows best what is good for the patient, the pro-
blem intensifies. Even if the patient changes according to prescription, he
does so without learning how to regulate himself. Neither this nor the battle
between an ideal of the therapist and resistance of the patient is satisfactory.
It is not adopting this or that behavioral change that is sought, but the
Awareness of the patient's behavior by the patient so he can use his
strength to support himself rather than interrupt himself.
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Sometimes our contact leaves the patient frustrated. For example,
the patient may seek our approval or disapproval. We often refuse. Thus the
patient looking for approval, or disapproval, may find the Gestalt Therapist
intensely involved via eye contact and general attitude, but find no clue to
approval or disapproval. A therapist's unaverted gaze can be quite
disconcerting to such a patient. This is an example of the clinical use of
frustration. Giving subtle approval cues would be a form of conditioning
that reinforces the patient's struggle to impress the therapist rather than ex-
press himself.
Consider an obsessive patient who only experiences the world in a
cognitive mode and will not risk something new. He tells himself how he
should be and answers "yes, but. . . " or "I can't," or "maybe next
time." He is fearful of a suggestion that he experiment with a new mode of
experience and treats the suggestion as a command. He also treats a descrip-
tive, non-evaluative statement as a judgment or evaluation. Rather than
working with the description or following the suggestion to experiment he
plays the same "yes, but. . . " game with the therapist he plays with
himself. This we must not reinforce.
We value organismic self regulation and experimentation and these
values guide our interventions. The patient needs to explore so he can learn
for himself how to choose which mode of experiencing fitsfor him in each
situation. This Awareness as a tool contrasts with the awareness as a con-
tent (insight) that goes along with the analytc cure and the behavior change
without Awareness training of behavior modification.
We have no "you should" statements for the patient. He may ask,
"No shoulds? You mean I shouldn't have shoulds?" No. The patient
decides whether to have shoulds, the therapist describes. "You mean I can
do whatever I want and it is okay?" Again a misconception. Anything the
patient does is not "okay." There are legal, social, economic, moral conse-
quences. I do not give my sanction for "doing your own thing, " nor ask
you for sanction when "I do my thing " I take responsibility for my
choices, and insist that you take responsibility for yours. I aid patients to see
for themselves, experiment, validate their own behaviors, evaluate for
themselves. That is what is meant in G T by "doing your own thing," ex-
periencing the world for yourself (experiment, sense, feel), making your
own choices, and finding out if you have enough support.
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that the patient is not responsible for himself and cannot know himself, but
rather has a disease or disability that the therapist will cure or eliminate.
Even those who ostensibly reject the medical model often have this same at-
titude in practice. This is the very attitude that the I and Thou model of G T
reacts against: the assumption that the patient is less than a Thou.
There is a split between these talking therapies and the more active
models, such as behavior modification. The new "third force" claims to be
a new alternative. Unfortunately many of the "new" psychotherapies are
merely updates of the talking cure or the reconditioning cure. Many of the
new therapies claim to be existential, but lack an existential methodology;
the methods of most of the new "existential" therapies are not
phenomenological. Often these "new" therapies are merely a traditional
talk therapy with a different language (new content) and a slight
methodological shift (e.g., more active).
In these "new" talk therapies the therapists still act as change
agents believing they know better than the patient how he should be. They
see the patient's task as learning what they already know (content) rather
than learning a process. Thus many are weak both humanistically and
technologically, and certainly do not integrate the two. They also lack the
phenomenological view of Awareness, trusting their own analysis more.
They lack a theory of causality to replace the outdated linear causality
model. They lack a theory of assimilation adequate to explain an ego that
has an existence apart from a sum of id impulses and external reinforce-
ment.
The more active third force therapies are also not phenomenological.
Encounter gropus that use gimmicks to produce a desired emotional expres-
sion or turn-on, body therapies designed to produce the ideal body, therapies
designed to produce primal screams, all have in common with behaviorism
two facton that differentiate them from G T (and any phenomenology): 1.
They emphasize the external behavior and de-emphasize the world us seen
by the putient. 2 . They aim for control of that behavior at the expense of the
kind of Awareness training that results in organismic self regulation. If the
goal is emotional expressiveness, then the group pushes the patient to emote
rather than teaching him to be Aware of and accept his impulses to express
and not express his emotions. The behaviorists do this reconditioning from
a scientific standpoint, with an emphasis on clear terminology, specified
techniques, learning theory, objective data, etc. Encounter group leaden
often do their reconditioning without as adequate a support base.
In G T we reject any split between talk and behavior. T o be
phenomenological we must use all the data: that of the patient's con-
sciousness and that which we observe. We integrate behavioral and ex-
periential psychology into one system of psychotherapy by our full concern
with the phenomenon of awareness and by using a new and more cogent
definition of Awareness. The elements of this new definition are included in
many definitions of awareness, but most other therapists do not insist on in-
cluding them all in a unified concept.
By working with here and now Awareness and without shoulds by
the therapist the G T patient can begin learning immediately. This im-
mediate change is exciting and frightening. Some are misled into believing
that G T promises instant growth or an easy road. Nothing can be further
from the truth: G T believes that growth cannot be instantaneous.
Awareness and growth can start immediately, but growing is a process and
not an instantaneous end-result of doing just the right thing. In G T we
share that road, and do not try to cheat the patient out of it by being his
reconditioner or all-knowing parentiguru.
We see growth through Awaraness arising out of a loving I-Thou
relation in which the patient's independence, worthiness, and sensing abili-
ty is respected. This is very similar to Rogers' theory, but with some
pointed differences. Rogers started with a client-centered approach leaving
out the person of the therapist, and later advocated a completely mutual
relation between therapist and patient. In G T the relationship is not com-
pletely mutual hut rather focused on the patient's learning (this is Buber's
concept). And, in G T the therapist is totally included: negative feelings,
feedback of sensory and body language, creativity (creating ways of increas-
ing Awareness), technological responses that guide Awareness work, and a
willingness to frustrate the patient seeking help.
Most patients want the therapist to cure them. If the therapist does
for the patient what the patient can do for himself, if he is too sympathetic,
he reinforces the patient's own belief that he is unable to regulate and s u p
port himself. If the therapist needs to be helpful in this way, the patient goes
on being dependent, neurotic and not finding out what he can do for
himself. "Chicken Soup Is Poison (Resnick, 1975)." If the therapist blames
or pushes the patient or gives disapproval it has the same effect.
The therapist needs to connect in a caring way with the patient as he
is, and refrain from "helping." The therapist must work to restore the pa-
tient's Awareness of hi own needs, his own strengths, his potential for
creating new ways of coping with the world. In short, the therapist must
support the patient's expression of his own self support.
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Genie 2. Laborde
Pcpt-Cs
FI): I
Pcpt-Cs ----Perception-Conscious
Pcs -------Preconscious
Rprssd-----Repressed
Aud ------Auditory lobe
Sigmund Freud? Model
Sigmund Freud divided man's mental apparatus into the Ego, the
Super-ego, and the Id. Figure 1 appeared in The Ego and the id, first
published in 1923. Of the Ego, Freud wrote, "This ego appears to us as
something autonomous and unitary, marked off distinctly from everything
else." (1973, pp. 2-3) The Ego functions as a "psychial organization"
which mediates between the Id and the Super-ego, receives sensory stimuli
and perception of bodily needs, controls voluntary motor activity, and has
the task of sell-preservation. T o carry out this task, the Ego must be aware
of external stimuli, store up these stimuli (in memory), avoid excessive
stimuli (through flight), deal with moderate stimuli (through adaptation),
and bring about changes in the external world to its advantage (through ac-
tivity).
PRECONSCIOUS
UNCONSCIOUS
SYMBOLIC
CONSTRUCT
MAN'S MENTAL APPARATUS
SIGMUND FREUD'S TERMS
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UNAWARENESS
SYMBOLIC CONSTRUCT
MAN'S MENTAL APPARATUS
FREDERICK PERLS' TERMS
COMPARING CERTAIN W O R I E S AND THERAPIES OF FREUD AND PERLS
"
awareness" may have more emphasis on concentration than Freud's
"
conscious." Perk insists that one concentrate or look at his own
awareness, so to speak. Perls believed that our dominant needs push for
awareness, determine our gestalts, select from our environment whatever
relates to these needs. So by staying with moment-to-moment awareness,
the organism, through perception patterns, can determine its dominant
needs. Even more often, awareness focuses on the organism's old habits
which are not fulfilling its needs. By seeing one's habits and their failures
and focusing on what one really needs, awareness can lead to fulfilling the
organism's dominant need, ensuring its development. Figure 3 indicates
Perls' terms in schematic form.
Perls took issue with Freud in several significant areas; however, it
seems clear that Perk' work grew out of Freud's paradigm, even though
some of it is in opposition rather than in affirmation. One possibly construc-
tive and time-saving approach to an exploration of Perk' model would be to
explore where it differs from Freud's. Perk often expressed what he,
himself, believed while pointing out where he thought Freud's theory was
wrong or incomplete. These differences will be stated in Perls' words
whenever possible, for the medium is the message, and Perls' "aliveness"
is often communicated by the very rhythm of his words.
Perls disagreed with Freud's divisions of the mental apparatus into
Ego, Id, and Super-ego. Perls thought it more constructive to consider one
Ego, self, or personality which functioned in particular ways. Perk argued
that mental constructs of divisions inside the personality encouraged splits
in the personality.
Perls considered the Ego to be a function and a symbol, and
disagreed with the widely accepted psycho-analytic theory that held the Ego
to be a substance. It should be noted that Perk does not accuse Freud,
himself, with holding this theory. First we will look at Perls' writings on the
Ego, then those concerning the Super-ego and the Id. Perls writes:
The Ego's meaning is that of a symbol and not of a
substance. As the Ego indicates the acceptance of and iden-
tification with certain parts of the personality, we can make
use of the Ego-language for the purpose of assimilating
disowned parts of ourselves. These disowned parts are either
re-pressed or projected. The "It" language is a mild form of
projection and results, like any other projection, in a change
from an active to a passive attitude, from responsibility into
fatalism. (1969, p. 218)
into the Ego, Id, and Super-ego. Perk thought that one Ego was a healthier
way to view the psychial organization. Perls replaced Freud's posited in-
stincts of the Id with the principles of attraction and repulsion; we expand
our Ego to take in whatever we are attracted to, and we either keep out what
is repulsive or we deaden our awareness that it has become part of our Ego.
In Perls' lexicon conflicts were usually between top dog and under dog or
between two opposing rules which have been introjected. These conflicts
could be resolved by awareness of what was happening inside the body and
outside in the environment. The ability to respond in an appropriate man-
ner to the inside and outside awareness would eliminate conflicts, deadness,
and any need for looking backward as psychoanalysis demanded. "Here and
Now," repeated Perls again and again. Not There and Then. Life is to be
lived, not talked about. It doesn't matter why you hate your mother, what
matters is how you feel now about your mate. What is going on now? What
do you want? These questions were asked to restore communication with
your "natural" self, which Perk felt would lead you toward maturation,
satisfaction, and self-support.
In order to look closely at one specific area, how each man viewed it,
and how they dealt with it with their patients, we will consider the Super-
ego and, as called by Perls, "introjects." The Super-ego could be con-
sidered to be a collection of introjects, or the result of the process of introjec-
tion. In the chapter of The Gestalt Approach, entitled "Neurotic
Mechanisms," Perls lists introjection first, followed by projection, con-
fluence, and retroflection. We will look closely at this one neurotic
mechanism in an attempt to determine the likenesses and differences in this
one area between these two creative thinkers in the field of psychology.
Definition by Freud
In 1922, Freud wrote that "the ego has enriched itself with the pro-
perties of the object, it has 'intorjected' the object into itself, as Ferenczi ex-
presses it." (1951, pp. 75-76) The difficulties in quoting Freud are ap-
parent here, but understandable when one considers the enormous number
of new concepts he presented. Stafford-Clark clarifies Freud's definition in
these words:
. . .so too it [the ego] is influenced by a super-ego, that
aspect of childhood acceptance and respect for adult authori-
ty, standards, and ideals which has eventually been intro
jected. "Introjected" was Freud's own word; it means taken
once again into the self, at an unconscious level. There
established, the super-ego exerts its own separate and often
opposing influence, to mediate between the ego, which is the
awareness of self, the ego's experiences of the external world
and its challenges, and the ego's experiences of the impulses
of the id and its instinctual drives. (1971, p. 138)
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The logical question at this point would be: How does the inter-
nalization of these maxims, attitudes, and values (for brevity I will use one of
these words or the word standards to denote all three) take place? Why does
the organism organize itself in this manner? What is the origin of the Super-
ego which is so often at odds with other parts of the total personality? In
Super-ego's demands. Perls defines guilt feelings as "based upon the pro-
jected aggression" (1969, p. 68). By this Perls may have meant that anger
felt toward one's own self is projected out into the environment. The
somewhat ambiguous phrase becomes more intelligible when considered
from the viewpoint of a person who believes that "everyone else is
virtuous," but he is not. Aggression in this case both toward oneself and
others would seem natural. Here these two men's writings seem to comple-
ment each other, but in the next area to be considered, they again disagree.
The disagreement concerning the formation of the Super-ego is
clearly spelled out when Perls writes, "The Freudian idea that we introject
the people we love is wrong. You always introject people who are in
control." (1971, p. 151) In this statement Perls has touched upon one of
the central themes of the Existentialists. The European Gestaltists and the
Existentialists agreed that feelings of love demand mutuality rather than
control. It would seem that Perls and Freud disagreed on the subject of love
and its natural characteristics. Separating the state of being in love and be-
ing controlled could be a central difference between Perls and Freud;
however, in the young child, when the greatest amount of introjection oc-
curs, these two positions of loving and being controlled are often
synonomous. Freud and Perls both might agree that we introject those who
have power and/or those we perceive as powerful. The wish to take in some
of the power exhibited by others seems to be one of the motivations of the
process of introjection.
Freud sees the internalization of the outside standards as part of the
normal developmental process. He notes that for some people the standards
remain outside, and these people will follow their instincts as long as they
believe they will not be found out. It seems clear that both Perls and Freud
had found evidence of inhibiting forces from the environment which in a
developmental process becomes internalized and cause conflict, guilt, and
anxiety inside the personality.
Freud dealt with the Super-ego, along with the Ego and the Id, by the
long and arduous process of psychoanalysis involving transference,
resistances, and the search for repressions, along with resolution of the
Oedipus complex. Psychoanalysis grew out of the needs of the mentally ill.
Their mal-adaptive behaviors are much more obvious than are those of the
so-called "normal" people who are, perhaps, suffering mainly from unhap-
piness and contained anxiety. The mechanisms discoverd by Freud in the
mentally ill are often working, but to a lesser degree, in these "normals." If
even some of the normal anxiety is due to "forbidden wishes of childhood"
which "need be forbidden no longer," how does one give them up? In the
absence of the time and money for psychoanalysis, or even the inclination
for such an undertaking, the Id and the Super-ego often, even in normal
people, keep up a constant struggle for the territory of the Ego.
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prescribed actions or to block us. One of the ways we blind ourselves to our
introjects is by disowning them-projecting them out onto our world and
the people in it. If I learned to be angry from my father, but learned1 should
be pleasant from my mother, I may solve this dilemma by perceiving the
people in my world as angry at me no matter what their frame of mind really
is. Then I can react in an angry way to them, and soon they will be angry,
and my projection now has a reality base. In this way, we can create the
emotional climate around us and take no responsibility for it.
those parts of his father's personality that he likes and that serve him-his
upright posture, his dignity, his strength, his courage, and he can begin to
give up his self-righteousness, his inability to hear another viewpoint, his
bigotry, his arrogance, and his rigidity. Without awareness, this discrimina-
tion of what is useful and what is harmful or distasteful cannot take place. It
may take years for deconditioning to take place, but as Freud said, one year
of analysis for a decade of illness is better than no improvement in a life-
time.
Here, in the amount of time it takes to change, is another place
where Freud and Perls disagreed. While Perls did not believe in instant
cure, he did believe that change was inherent in the process of awareness.
Awareness then begins the process of the transformation of intro-
jects, which, according to Perls, continues by destructuring, analyzing the
pans in relation to our life, and then acceptance or rejection of the different
parts. The first change with the first awareness might be slight, scarcely
noticeable, but, if awareness continued, then change would continue-not
by any mighty striving or straining of associations on a black leather couch,
but by continuing to check out what was happening, inside and out.
"Psychoanalysis" said Freud; "Awareness" and "Acceptance,"
said Perk is the answer to introjection.
Conclusion
Fritz Perk was a genius at therapy, more a man of action and inter-
action than an original thinker as was Freud. Peds synthesized and brilliant-
ly utilized the ideas of others in a group format which seems to multiply the
effectiveness of the therapist. Certainly, conversion of certain theories and
ideas into useful therapeutic took was a significant contribution of Perls.
When Freud and Perls, both excellent observers, watched their patients,
they recognized the same psychic mechanisms at work. Where they differed
was in how to change these mechanisms toward more constructive use.
Here Perk seems to have originated a course of action that was more p r o
ductive in a shorter length of time. Perls used Freud's theoretical base to in-
stigate actions that worked much as a field general takes theories and shapes
them to a battle plan, discarding those with less chance of success in this ter-
rain, focusing the main thrust of his decisions in a move that will produce
the best chance of winning. Perls was a West Pointer.
Perls' construct of introjects and awareness is more useful to a
therapist and a patient than is Freud's Super-ego, which, seemingly, could
COMPARING CERTAIN THEORIES AND THERAPIES OF FREUD AND PERLS
References
Freud, S. Group psychology and the amlysis of the ego. New York: Live-
right, 1951.
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Jeffrey Schaler
three blows with appropriate defense and as soon as it was over I knew that
my thinking had nothing to do with it. As I look back at that moment I en-
vision myself as a bat flying blindly in the dark using sonar to avoid collision
at the last second. I was actually more satisfied with myself for "knowing"
when "not knowing" than at having succeeded in warding off the attack
with proper technique. What a relief not to think about the moment but to
just be in it! All the times when I had tried so hard to be instinctive had
resulted in failures, they were merely mechanical technique functions, and
here was a moment when in some ways I felt that I really had no choice but
to respond from the mind of my body and not the body of my mind that I
was so habituated to. My self-interference had been neutralized, a particular
field had been created, one in which I was able to respond to my environ-
ment, in the now, in a very natural and organic way. And now I think this
is what I see to be a goal of psychotherapy, to teach this sort of uninter-
rupted response to awareness, what we call organismic self-regulation.
Now these arts, Iaido and Kendo, have really become symbolic
events for me. They are, to coin the term from Idries Shah's description of
Sufi stories, vehicles of "analagous action philosophy." They have become
a means for learning who I am by paying attention to how I am, through the
Nelike psychodramatic fantasy of Iaido, to the harmonious conflict of in-
terpersonal relationships in Kendo, every particle of my being, my sense of
I-ness, the security I feel in knowing who I am, and who I am not, is
reflected in my configuration of action and movement. Each gesture speaks
of my beingness. Iaido is called the art of blocking and cutting. T o me the
sword is a living symbol, representing aspects of my self in search of self. Its
course of action is depicted through the blocking of all that which seeks to
interfere with its progressive individuality and through the cutting of all
bonadage to maya, the web of seltdeception. By selfdeception I mean all of
that which encourages me to pretend to be anything other than whole. The
sword, so sharp, so dangerous, so singular and unyielding, can be
transformed, during Iaido, to something so fluid, attractive, and confluent,
blending into all that comes into its way, pulling its audience's attention
around like gravity does to all things within its field. Realizing its potential
for creating death so swiftly one cannot help hut feel slightly uneasy in its
presence. And what is this uneasiness that a person feels? Fear of death?
Fear that one is not really living? Japanese legends speak of swords so sharp
that they leapt out of the bearer's scabbard on their own. And how do you
think it must feel to conquer this fear?
Anyway, Iaido and Kendo, as I have come to learn them, and I
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haven't spent much time at it, a tittle over a year and a half at the time of
this writing, are to me mysterious martial arts. Mysterious in the sense that
there is more to them than meets the casual eye. The naive observer quickly
draws the conclusion, (oh that I could draw my blade half as fast!), that
there is nought but killing present, anger past, and misery to come in the
course of one who studies these arts. This person delights in criticizing it
and those who study it. Hermann Hesse wrote: "When we hate someone,
it is because we hate some part of ourselves in his image. We don't get ex-
cited about anything that is not in ourselves." So too have I felt the impact
of this judgment by people who "see" the violence in Kendo and Iaido.
This violence is in the mind of the observer and not in the sport. The
tongue is sharper than the sword, its cut is quick and deep like a razor, so
quick in fact that oft times one does not even realize that they have been
seriously wounded until some time later when they grow weak from loss of
"blood," "a very singular f l ~ i d , "the
~ psychosomatic residence of feeling.
The only blood I have seen so far was my own, inflicted by my own, in an
overzealous moment in which I impatiently tried to swallow a new techni-
que. The faster one eats the hungrier one gets. The slower one eats the
more one digests and the longer it takes to be hungry again. I had the
honor, about six years ago, of being treated by the great Dr. Cheng M'an-
Ch'ing, a master of the five arts, poetry, calligraphy, painting, Tai Chi
Chuan, and herbal medicine, and I remember him telling a patient who was
very much underweight, to eat less and chew more. Her approach had
always been to eat more which kept resulting in weight loss. She was very
hungry. I also remember very vividly him telling a good friend of mine, a
person who took great pride in announcing to me that there was no reason
for her to see him as there was nothing wrong with her, that she was in fact
quite ill and did not even know it. Consequently she became disturbed by
his diagnosis and allowed him to treat her for several months. Years later
she says that she is very grateful for that experience. I'd like to share with
you what I perceive to be another example of this same philosophy.
After Iaido practice one night, as the five of us were putting on our
shoes to leave the dojo I asked Mr. Roberts, our teacher, to please explain a
bit about Aikido and its relationship to Iaido. He said that Aikido was in a
sense very much of a refined form of Judo, Judo being a very old art and in
some ways considered a bit cmde in relation to &dido. Uyeshiba, founder
of Aikido, had refined the art of Judo, focusing especially on the
philosophical event of the art. Aikido, he said, is very closely related to the
defensive sword play of Iaido. Both are defensive arts, Kendo being an offen-
sive swordsmanship. Then he proceeded to give us three demonstrations of
Aikido in which he asked one of us to attack him with empty hand. To our
delight he demonstrated a remarkable agility and skill clearly indicating that
he knew what he was doing. Here was a hidden skill of our teacher, one
which we had not realized he possessed, and one he felt no need nor desire
to flaunt. He is very matter of fact. The lesson of the demonstration was one
of force, energy, and commitment. The attacker had committed himself to a
particular goal, our teacher in this case. A t the critical point in which our
teacher realized that his attacker had committed himself to his goal, our
teacher decided to cease being the goal of his commitment and moved aside.
A s soon as he stepped aside, (in itself a commitment and goal accomplish-
ment), the attacker probably realized two things: (1)That he was committed
to nothing in such a way as that he could not cease being committed; and
(2) that he was confused because his fantasy of the future did not fit the reali-
ty of the present. A t this point our teacher took advantage of his attacker's
regretable commitment and confusion, exaggerated it and helped him to do
himself in, or see himself, so to speak. A simple movement, that upon a lit-
tle contemplation may reveal interesting sequence and relationship of
events. This was interesting to me and yet soon afterwards another couple
of events occurred. These invisible to me at fvst and then soon they were all
I could "see."
We were talking about internal martial arts after the demonstration
of Aikido, which we believed were such. Our teacher said that Iaido,
Aikido, Kung-fu, etc. were internal arts. He said that in Japan much time
was devoted in Iaido and Kendo to meditation of the art. This was an essen-
tial component of practice. One of his students asked at this point if he
would please teach us this internal aspect of the arts. Our teacher said that
he would not. He said that being from the cccident it would be too diicult
for us to learn, that we had to really have grown up in Japan and have the
culture of the orient in our blood in order to understand and learn the inter-
nal art. I spoke up at this point and said that we had studied eastern culture
and its philosophies. Essentially he ignored my saying this and repeated that
one had to have grown up in the culture to be able to receive the teaching.
A fellow student spoke up and said that we planned to work with him for
many year and would like very much to learn the internal art. Our teacher
said that he knew this was so and maybe some time he would show us a
"little hit" of the internal art but essentially he said that we were part of an
impatiently aggressive culture, that there really was no hope for us to learn
the internal arts and that our work together was primarily to focus on pa-
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tience in the physical body, through exact techniques and posture. Needless
to say we were terribly frustrated and there seemed to he no way of getting
what we wanted. A t thii point Mr. Roberts asked one of us to run next door
to the drug store and buy some cough drops for him. He instructed him to
please. not buy any candied cough drops, just the plain ones. There was no
discussion of money, he expected the student to purchase them with his
own money. The student left and returned in about five minutes with a
brand of cough drops. He handed them to our teacher who then said that he
had purchased the wrong kind and asked him to go hack again and get the
right kind, telling where he should look in the store. The student returned
and said that he had looked for the right kind of cough drops but the kind he
had in his hand were all he could find. The student offered them to our
teacher who at this point refused them and said that he would get them
some place else. The student was left with the wrong brand of cough drops.
A t this point a fellow Japanese student and I were having a difficult time
holding back laughter. There was an interesting mix of frustration and con-
tentment amongst the four of us. We said goodnight end thanked our
teacher very much for discussing these matters with us.
As I was driving home I began to experience a remarkable feeling of
exhiliration. Shades of MiyamotoMusashi I had been cut with a draw from
the left hand, by surprise, just like Toshiro Mifune had done at the end of
the movieSanjuro! I began to see the last two interactions that had just oc-
curred as instances definable in terms of force, energy, and commitment.
We as students had been more committed to the "idea" of learning this in-
ternal art than paying attention to what was actually existing in the mo-
ment. We were committed to the fantasy of knowing the internal art when
right in the middle of the commitment we were being given the very thing
we said that we wanted. Being so committed to fantasy we were blind to
receiving the teaching. Just like the attacker in the demonstration of Aikido
who essentially wants his goal to cease being the way it is, which occurs as
soon as our teacher moves aside and ceases being the goal of commitment.
We said we wanted to learn the internal art and the internal art is the art of
listening, paying attention to what is, being patient, correcting over com-
mitment to a particular goal, staying with frustration, being an independent
individual. The internal art is the practice of action with flexible adaptihility
to each situation as it presents itself, in this case being content with what
first appears to be not getting what you think you want. It is, as my friend
and associate Richard says, the art of existing and moving from a conscious
center and not always towards the accomplishment of an external goal. In
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other words being committed to not being committed. The way of no way, wu-
wei. A gestalt was forming like some k i d of atomic chain reaction. All the
miniinsights I had had during previous classff joined togaher like a giant jig-
saw puzzle. By being overly committed to an idea or position one does themself
in as the attacker had done. I member once during a round-robin sparring ses-
sion I had successfully won four matches consecutively. As soon as I felt proud
in this position my next opponent, someone whom all the othen had beaten.
scored two within the k t five seconds and I lost. There will always be
someone better I thought. As soon as I thii I am great at the expense of
others, I lose. By stepping aside our teacher had maintained his own integrity in
the face of danger. This is the difference between a person that strivm to ac
tualize an image of himself and a pason that actualim himselt
I'm thinking now of when, about four years ago, I was asked by a
psychologist here in town to lead one of his therapy groups. During the group I
gave a little talk entitled "No Pain, No Gain." A member of rhe group spoke
up vigorously and said that he agreed very much with the philosophy of growth
I had prrsented and said that he was ready to experience it, would I please
facilitate him though the process. I agreed, asked him how he felt, and then sat
silently. Enthusiastically as ever he re-asserted his desire to grow exclaiming
"let's have the pain so 1can get the gain!" I asked him how he felt, he said that
he was frustrated with me and then I asked him if he was now happy se&g that
he had gotten what he said he wanted. He said 1 was doing nothing, that I was
not giving him what he wanted and would I please stop wasting time and help
him work. I asked him how he felt again and returned to my silence. He said
that he was feeling very frustrated and inmasingly more irritable with me. I
said that I thought we had both done very good work together and that I would
now like to move on to someone eke.
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'Suzuki, D.T., Zen and Japanese Culture, Princeton Univ. Press, New
Jersey, 1959.
2Steiner, R., The Occult Sipificance of Blood, Rudolf Steiner Press,
London, 1967.
Perls, F., Hefferline, R., Goodman, P., Gestalt Therapy. Delta, New York,
1951.
Lomi School, The Lomi Papers, Lomi School Press, Mill Valley, Calif.,
1975.
Musashi, Miyamoto, A Book ofFiue Rings, Overlook Press, New York,
1974.
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TRANSPERSONAL GESTALT
Ed Elkin
the conscious surround, but extends deep below conscious awareness to in-
clude both the Jungian "collective unconscious" and the awareness of the
total universe beyond space and time esoterically known as "ALL T H A T
IS."
The transpersonal counterpart to the static image of the personality
as an onion whose layers must be peeled is found in the dynamic image of a
fountain continually renewing itself and clearing away the surface for new
material to emerge. That which comes to the surface of awareness from mo-
ment to moment constitutes the next incomplete Gestalt that the personali-
ty is ready to uncover.
In the therapy situation, the task is to bring incomplete Gestalts such
as "unfinished business" or "holes in personality" to the surface of con-
sciousness, and encourage their expression either verbally or non-verbally.
In the context of the transpersonal Gestalt group, the process of encourage-
ment is provided more by creating an atmosphere of mutual trust and caring
than by the traditional Gestalt mode of creative frustration. The misplaced
emphasis on "I do my thing, and you do your thing has led to a situation in
which Gestalt has come to be identified as the "screw you" school of
psychotherapy. Transpersonal Gestalt intends to make explicit what is im-
plicit in Perls' "I and Thou, Here and Now"; namely the interrelatedness
of "I" and "you"; the interdependence of Figure and Ground, and the
Subject-object unity that underlies duality and polarity. In transpersonal
Gestalt,
I am I. and I am you
You are you and you are me
In transpersonal Gestalt, gentleness replaces attack as the primary
uncovering force, and in an allegorical way, penetrates to the heart of the
matter, unlocking its energy.
Gentle penetration produces gradual and inconspicuous ef-
fects. It should be effected not by an act of violation, but by
influence that never lapses. Results of this kind are less strik-
ing to the eye than those won by surprise attack, but they are
more enduring and more complete.
I ChingIHegagram 57, The Gentle
It is sometimes useful to think of Gestalt therapy as a stepping stone
to transpersonal Gestalt therapy insofar as the ego first needs to be
strengthened before it can be transcended. The ego-boundaries must be ful-
ly established before they and the ego itself can be seen as an illusion. . . yet
another version of the classical paradox of going more deeply into
something in order to get out of it.
In the Gestalt approach, the ego boundaries are first strengthened by
focusing on the differences between self and others. The individual learns
that the way toBe is the way he is already, rather than the way he "should
be." Eventually, a strong sense develops that it is all right to be me and to
do my thing.
As Gestalt work progresses, however, more and more different ways
of being come to be seen as part of that "me." The capacity of being father,
mother, child, teenager, lover, etc. all lie within. Furthermore, in the pro-
cess of working with polarities, dreamwork and other Gestalt techniques,
the potential capacity for the full range of the human experience comes
widin the ego-boundary, and I am the flower, and the sunset; I am the
murderer and the rapist, I am the fly and the cesspool and the mountain and
the ocean. Just as the actor and the mime develop the ability to play many
roles of persons, things and ideas, so Gestalt work enables us to explore the
full potential of the many ways we can be. By re-owning all the disowned
parts of our personality, we reclaim the full energy that is ours, and discover
the entire universe within the I.
Gestalt and transpersonal Gestalt are not clearly separable. One
blends into the other as ice melts into water. The difference is one of em-
phasis and focus as much as philosophy and technique. For example, tradi-
tional Gestalt dreamwork techniques of identifying with all parts of the
dream provide a microcosmic view on the macrocosm of the transpersonal
approach.
In working on a dream, all aspects are regarded as manifestations of
the personality. In the process of discovering the "existential message" in
the dream, different parts of the dream are identified with and acted out.
However, the dreamer usually only identifies at first with that part of the
dream that he "recognizes" as himself. He usually discounts the reality
that ALL parts of the dream are parts of him as a creator of the dream.
In a similar way, the transpersonal approach conceives of each of us
as a manifestation of the energy of the universe. It is as if God, the dreamer,
had created all of us as manifestations of himself and had "identified" with
each of us to such an extent that he forgot who he really was. When we
remember who we really are, we discover that we eachare God. Behind the
illusion of individual differences we are the same, in spirit. A s the single
force that we call electricity can illuminate many differing light bulbs, so a
single spirit or life energy animates and energizes our separate and unique
bodies.
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******,*****.**
In the transpersonal Gestalt approach, there is renewed emphasis
that the "patient" is his own therapist and the "therapist" becomes a
facilitator or guide who assists the client to do what he cannot readily do for
himself. . . . .
(1) go through the impasse;
(2) see himself objectively in the sense of ''witnessing'' himself;
(3) provide the secure environment that allows defenses to drop
away.
From the transpersonal viewpoint, each person can do his own
Gestalt work through meditation, through developing the "witness" part
of his consciousness and through letting Divine trust and faith in the
universe provide the secure environment.
These skills, however, are rarely developed in most people. They are
potential in all people, but have been inhibited by years of conditioning. The
transpersonal Gestalt task then is precisely to de-condition the "character"
which has strangled spontaneity, stifled security, and hidden that sense of
integrated wholeness that is inherent at the core of all human beings. Such
skills can then be seen as the "tools" with which future problems can be
dealt with, without the need of the external therapist.
The process of therapy then may be seen as the "transmission" of
these "tools" from the therapist to the client. The therapist does this by
embodying the tools himself and by reminding the client that they lie within
him. Perhaps, the most powerful of these tools is that of SELF-
ACCEPTANCE. Perls, towards the end of his long life, repeatedly advised:
"REMEMBER, YOU CANNOT BE ANYTHING OTHER THAN
W H A T YOU ARE RIGHT NOW." Aliveness, then, emerges from ac-
cepting what is from moment to moment; from surrendering to the power
that works through our personalities at levels beyond our ordinary
awareness. Paper people become real people when all the disowned parts are
re-owned, and humans realize their ongoing perfection in harmony with the
forces of the Universe.
We are not apart from the Universe, hut rather a part of it and
simultaneously all of it. In Essence, the Being is whole, always was whole
and always will be whole.
In transpersonal Gestalt therapy, the aim is to discover that
wholeness and to make it the ground of being in the eternal now.
"I A M IN EVERYTHING, EVERYTHING IS IN ME"
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REFERENCES
The impetus to write this paper comes from each of our own pro-
cesses of integrating our professional training in social work and nursing,
our work with persons experiencing psychotic episodes, and our interest
and training in humanistic psychology, particularly Gestalt therapy. Chum-
ing over our ideas and work experiences together generated excitement and
a baseline of thinking about the use of Gestalt therapy in work settings with
a high percentage of people who are seriously disturbed.
As we see it, the term Gestalt refers to at least three distinct con-
cepts. O n a personal level, Gestalt as a humanistic approach to living pro-
vides a view of l i e and its meaning which encourages development of a
richness of sensory experiences. When acted upon, this philosophy can add
intensity, excitement and vitality to everyday life. Gestalt also refers to a
conceptual framework of psychological theory of personality and behavior.
Like many theories of personality, Gestalt theory attempts to be holistic in
nature and can be used to understand and predict a wide range of empirical
observations of human behavior. Thirdly, Gestalt refers to a theory and
methodology of psychotherapy which promotes changes toward dynamic,
integrative functioning of the individual. Our experience leads us to believe
that it can provide a base of creative treatment techniques to deal with per-
sons manifesting severe disorders.
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ting itself to help the patient gain a more permanent sense of steadiness and
integrity.
Gestalt Therapy requires a certain inventiveness and ingenuity on
the part of the therapist to select appropriate solvent or glue for the person
and the situation. Generally speaking, working with people experiencing
psychosis requires lots of glue to begin with, then carefully chosen small
amounts of solvent, well-timed, properly placed, and with the glue pot near-
by.
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data between client and therapist, the Gestalt therapist does not try to con-
vince or coerce, but uses this opportunity to establish the differences and
underline the boundary between them. When the therapist too firmly inter-
prets, a client may feel confused, controlled, invalidated, dependent, and
often feels obligated to be grateful as well.
Using the Gestalt concept of boundaries in the manner just described
helps the psychotic person "pull in" and define himself. This same concept
can be applied to clients whose boundaries are so constricted that no new
growth is taking place. The therapist must be aware, then, when utilizing
the concept of boundaries, whether she is helping contract or expand them,
i.e., using "glue" or "solvent." In working with a person whose need-
satisfaction cycle is not effective, more modeling is required, smaller pieces
of experience must be used, and close attention must be paid to contact
functions.
Polster and Polster (8) define contact functions as the processes
available to us through which contact with others is achieved. Specifically,
the seven contact modes are touching, seeing, hearing, smelling, tasting,
moving and speaking. When working with a person who is experiencing
catastrophic fears of annihilation when others attempt to make contact, the
therapist must choose carefully the modes of contact which will be least
threatening to the person's sense of his boundaries. Even the contact mode
of seeing may be anxiety-provoking for a psychotic person who is feeling
suspicious. For instance, if the client looks at the floor and the therapist is
increasingly aware of the one-sidedness of the visual contact, the therapist
may offer to look away and invite more thorough visual inspection of herself
by the other. They may then compare views of one another and, as a result,
the client can become more comfortable with the visual mode of con-
tact-both with seeing and being seen.
For each of us, there is a time to be fully with others and a time to
withdraw into ourselves. If we are able to maintain an awareness of which
we need and when, we may discover a rhythmic flow or pattern of aloneness
and togetherness. Oftentimes a psychotic person will not be in touch with a
rhythm or balance of contact and withdrawal, but will be stuck in the ex-
tremes, such as mania, severe depression or the avoidance apparent in a
paranoid state.
Work with a person who is stuck in either contact or withdrawal
centers around helping the person become aware that he is stuck and en-
couraging an experimental attitude so that he is willing to uy the opposite
behavior for brief periods, dealing with fright or even terror in the process.
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Utilizing Resistances
tant from and out of touch with you," are often helpful toward regaining
contact.
lntrojection in Gestalt theory is broader than the psychoanalytic con-
cept of introjection since it includes the total process of incorporation of any
aspect of the environment. Each of us is constantly taking in new stimuli
and we must learn to be selective about what we want, how much and
when. How a person incorporates and integrates new environmental
material is influenced by and will further influence the nature of hie boun-
daries. A seriously disturbed person is likely to utlize the extremes in handl-
ing new material so will either reject it all or take it all in indiscriminately. If
introjection is the mode of choice, the person has succeeded only in further
disintegrating hi sense of self and, in turn, finds it more difficult to make
contact with others.
Work on introjects with a highly-disturbed person must proceed
slowly to avoid feelings of emptiness and non-existence. A Gestalt therapist
will attend to the person's present way of introjecting as it happens by help-
ing him be aware of his process of "taking in." If the person is willing, the
therapist and client can create an instant replay of the introjection scene.
During the replay, the therapist assists the patient by helping sort out small
pieces of assimilatable new experience and presiding over the tasting, chew-
ing, spitting out or swallowing of the experience. Again, a combination of
modeling, teaching and stage managing is necessary. Comments such as,
"That's an idea for your consideration," "What part of that suggestion do
you like and what part doesn't feel right for you?" and "Take your time
before you decide about that," are often useful.
Sorting out old introjects, which come in the form of "I should,"
and helping the client become aware instead of what he really wants is also
helpful, but must be done cautiously with the psychotic person if the
"
should" is being used tempararily as a way to control destructive im-
pulses.
Projection in a self-care sense is the extension of oneself beyond
one's acknowledged boundaries. It is also very common in seriously disturb-
ed persons as a resistance to contact. Hallucinations and delusional systems
certainly keep one out of touch with others and reduce possibilities for
growth and change. The person who projects in a paranoid way is not well
able to creatively use projections for empathizing with others, and is not us-
ing humor and fantasy to extend the edges of hi known world.
A general "glue" rule when using Gestalt theory to help a
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the underlying survival need which is being expressed. The therapist must
take care not to introduce additional projections of her own. She can
demonstrate a reality testing process by saying, "This is just a hunch I have
about you-it may not be so. Tell me if it fit. for you." A t times the
therapist can also gently assist a person to reclaim a projection if his terror
level about the projected material is not too high. For instance, if a client is
complaining about a characteristic of another person, a casual and non-
insistent enquiry into whether he has ever experienced himself as being like
the other person may lay the groundwork for actually reclaiming the pro-
jected feeling or thought at a later time.
Retroflection is the turning back on oneself the impulses and
behavior intended for another or desired from another. The result of
retroflected behavior is that the individual holds his excitement and does not
make contact with others. As with the preceding resistances, reuoflection is
not considered unhealthy in and of itself. For instance, both tender and
hostile impulses can be turned inward. Unfortunately, retroflection in a
psychotic person often appears as bizarre or destructive behavior, such as
compulsively rocking one's body or in some way harming or mutilating
one's own body. Unchecked retroflection of hostility results in suicide, just
as unchecked acting on hostile impulses may result in assault or murder.
Therapy dealing with the retroflection of hostility in a seriously
disturbed person must be delayed until the person has sufficient trust in the
therapist and concept of his own boundaries to deal with hi anger. The
client should not be in any way coerced into working on retroflected anger
since this could act as a solvent and result in high anxiety and loss of control
in a potentially destructive way. The safest level for beginning work is with
fantasy: the client's retroflected behavior can be noticed and mentioned to
him to heighten awareness of it..The therapist can then go on with a com-
ment such as, "lf you were to imagine doing that to someone else, who
would it be?" The path is then open for verbal expression of anger. Once
this has begun, the therapist is responsible to help the client stay with his
anger until some sense of closure is felt. This provides the glue which is
necessary to help keep feelings from later turning into actions.
Enactment of Polarities
Dreamwork
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begin to regain feelings of control over his own behavior and life situation.
Summary
References
1. Bateson, G., Jackson, D., Haley, J., Weakland, J., "Toward a Theory of
Schizophrenia," in Communication, Family and Marriage, Sec. 11.
Jackson, D., Ed., Science and Behavior Books, Inc., Palo Alto,
1968.
4. Perls, F., The Gestalt Approach and Eye Witness to Therapy. Science
and Behavior Books, Palo Alto, 1973.
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