Hadith No. 15
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On the authority of Aba Hurayrah that the Messenger of Allah (38) said:
"One who believes in Allah and the Last Day should either speak good or keep
silent, and one who believes in Allah and the Last Day should be generous to his
neighbor, and one who believes in Allah and the Last Day should be generous
to his guest.”
(Narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim)
“One who believes in Allah and the Last Day" is how the Messenger of Allah (38)
described a sincere servant who has true faith — the kind which saves him from Allah's
punishment and obtains for him His approval. Because it shows how to perfect religion
through good manners and behavior, the hadith has been called "half of Islam.”
The first portion cautions the believer against carelessness in speech, for one who
believes in the Last Day must know that his tongue can be a source of harm to him in
the Hereafter. In addition to avoiding what does not concern him, as discussed under
Hadith No. 12, the believer is commanded here to consider the result of what he wishes
to say. If his speech would be deserving of reward from Allah, then it is preferable to
silence; otherwise, silence is better for him. Allah has informed us:
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"One utters no word except that with him is an observer prepared [to
record].""75
Some early scholars considered silence a virtue, although this is not an absolute
rule. For example, silence in the face of injustice when one is able to prevent it is
definitely sinful, as it is when help is needed for someone but no one asks. Good advice
and dawah with wisdom should not be neglected. And the Messenger of Allah (&)
warned that failure to mention Allah in a gathering would result in regret on the Day of
Judgement. So neither is silence always preferable nor is speech; rather, regard for the
outcome of both options in this world and the next is advised. Sufficient in this respect
is the hadith narrated by al-Bukhari: “Indeed, a servant [of Allah] may say a word that
pleases Allah without paying attention to it by which Allah will raise him degrees in rank.
And indeed, a servant may say a word that angers Allah without paying attention to it,
which will cause him to fall into Hellfire.”
As for neighbors, Allah (subhanahu wa ta’ala) has ordered good treatment of them.
in His Book® and the Prophet (3) recalled that Gabriel continued to counsel him
concerning the neighbor until he thought that he might make him an heir.7”
75 Surah Qaf, 50:18,
76 See Surah an-Nisaa’, 4:36.
77 Narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim.The neighbor has been defined as someone who lives in the same house or
building, someone who lives next door, someone who lives in the neighborhood (which
extends to 40 houses in every direction), and someone who lives in the same town.
Upon being asked by his wife, ‘A’ishah, to which of her two neighbors should she send
her gift, the Prophet (3) replied, “To the one whose door is nearest you."
Generally, one should be concerned about his neighbor and assist him, or at least
refrain from annoying him? whether Muslim or non-Muslim, whether near or farther
away. At a time when food was considered the best portion of one’s wealth, Allah's
Messenger (i) urged sharing it with his neighbors and said, "The believer is not one who
eats his fill while his neighbor is hungry."*°
Generosity to the guest means, first and foremost, pleasant speech and cordial
treatment, including service and attention to his needs. Hospitality is normally
expressed by offering some kind of food or drink, according to the circumstances of the
guest and his host, and generosity is encouraged in this aspect. However, the Prophet
() prohibited a guest from causing difficulty for his host® and advised the host not to
burden himself beyond what is readily available’? When someone voluntarily gives
preference to a guest over himself or incurs some hardship for his sake, it is out of his
own virtue and noble character and not out of Islamic obligation.
Generosity to one’s neighbor and guest, when done in obedience and seeking the
acceptance of Allah, is an act of worship and therefore should be free of
ostentatiousness and extravagance. Accordingly, the reward for this deed will not be
diminished if the recipient happens to be wealthy or if what is offered is little in his
estimation, and Allah (subhdnahu wa ta‘ala) is the best judge of intentions.
78 Narrated by al-Bukhar
79 This is the minimum of one's duty toward his neighbor.
80 Narrated by al-Hakim and at-Tabarani - saheeh,
81. Ina hadith narrated by al-Bukhari and Muslim,
82 In a hadith graded saheeh narrated by Ahmad and at-Tabarani.