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The Telegraph Magazine - 16 July, 2022
The Telegraph Magazine - 16 July, 2022
The Telegraph Magazine - 16 July, 2022
live on
alone?
Sitwell’s
William
roadkill
seaweed
Can man
in foraging
adventures
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Microwave meals and A cultivated palate meets
Emily in Paris a wild-food evangelist
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memoir, Odd Boy Out, would be What Goes Up White & Comes
fun, but found it challenging. I’m Down Yellow [Puffin, £10.99], on
not very introspective. my extremely tolerant gr
g andchil-
dren. They’re very good on polit-
11am I have a personal ical correctness: ‘You can’t
trainer, who is very thor- say that, Grandpa.’
ough and a little fright-
ening. I’ve not had many sessions 7.30pm My wife and I are micro-
in the years I’ve been with her as wave-meal people. I gave up
I’m a busy bee – my wife would alcohol 25 years ago when I was
say ‘busy fool’. I used to deny I’m an MP, to lose weight.
a workaholic; I now accept it. I
don’t see any harm in it. 8pm We tend to watch positive TV
programmes because we don’t
12pm I pet Nala, the neighbour’s want to go to bed feeling low
cat, who lives with us by mutual about the world – we loved Emily
The broadcaster and former agreement, then walk to River- in Paris. We met at university in
MP, 74, on his weakness for side Studios, Hammersmith. It’s Oxford in 1968; she’s been saying,
cake, microwave meals and a cinema and theatre, but I go ‘Gyles, grow up’
novelty mugs principally for the cakes – my for 54 years. Our
weakness in life. I live across the children are in their
7.30am Breakfast is a boiled egg, Thames in Barnes, down the 30s and live locally:
half an avocado, tomatoes and road from where one of my liter- Benet is a lawyer,
cheese when I’m on a low-carb ary heroes Henry Fielding lived. Saethryd is a writer, and Aphra is
diet. We used to have breakfast My house overlooks the London a politician and stood in the last
in bed but I kept spilling Wetland Centre, which I general election.
INTERVIEW BY CLAIRE WEBB. CLARA MOLDEN, NETFLIX, ALAMY
to hogwee
Simon Crofts
eed quiche
ance for olive oil, she vowed to endure
A
s I follow Mo through the park,
climbing over logs and brushing
aside leaves, as she places items
into her canvas bag, I’m trepidatious to
say the least: her idea of lunch is rather
different than mine.
In the ensuing 20 minutes, bits of
green that I would dismiss as weeds are
picked and popped into her bag. My mind
is flooded with a masterclass in hedge glyphosate over it, which did the trick, ‘If everyone foraged, there would be
garlic, wild angelica, pignuts, rosebay eradicating the lot. Now, thanks to the more than enough purslane, nettles, dan-
willowherb, sweet cicely, glistening ink- expertise of Mo, I realise I not only threat- delions and hogweed,’ Mo reassures me
cap, common vetch, pink purslane, com- ened the delicate balance of the earth’s as we get into her white van and head to
mon hogweed and alchemilla. When she ecosystem, I missed out on lunch. see her friend who has more provisions,
picks small, young leaves of ground elder Before each leaf, stalk and seed goes in the form of venison.
Mo’s kitchen shelves
are heaving with
I feel a pang of guilt: when my mother into the bag, Mo gives me a taste and short Her decision to go wild stemmed from
the fruits (and herbs spotted some of this in our garden in tutorial. Sweet woodruff is somewhere a long interest in foraging and her years
and plants) of her Somerset, she warned that it would between vanilla and a tonka bean, the of studying to be a herbalist (as well as
foraging labours spread and take over, so I poured neat seeds of common hogweed manifest in my running foraging courses, she lectures in
mouth like the scent of an intense, rich
curry, and thistle – she removes the sharp,
prickly leaves, peels the stem and gives me
a nibble – tastes slightly of globe artichoke. Having hung the deer
She points to some dried fungi on a log,
known as turkey tail (‘it’s an anti-cancer carcass on a hook, he hands
drug in the US’), and as for that alchemilla, me a homemade flint knife
also known as lady’s mantle, when brewed
it has the flavour of green tea. ‘Women in to chop its head off
the Middle Ages applied it on their wed-
ding night,’ explains Mo, ‘as it can tighten
up the vagina and firm up your tits.’
‘Right,’ I say, attempting to take this all herbal medicine and is a specialist in treat-
in, as the wool of ignorance I originally had ing Lyme disease at a local clinic). As the
is pulled from my eyes. Horribly unin- coronavirus lockdown set in she had
formed when it comes to plants and flow- vainly hoped that the nation might reflect
ers – I wouldn’t know a primrose from a on ‘our destructive behaviour towards the
violet – I do spot what I’m fairly certain is planet’, but as another Black Friday
an old daffodil. ‘Dreadful things,’ she mut- loomed in November 2020 and she real-
ters. ‘You can’t eat them, they’re of no use ised consumer excess was very much alive
to bees, have no medicinal value and are and kicking, she made a resolution.
poisonous.’ ‘Yes, but they’re quite nice to ‘Eating only wild food for a year might
look at, no?’ I say, sounding a little pathetic sound completely crazy,’ she writes in her
as I enter this netherworld of free food. I new book, The Wilderness Cure, ‘but we
wonder how this park would cope if the are living in an unprecedented time…
good people of West Lothian abandoned My instincts tell me that the cure for our
Sainsbury’s and Deliveroo in favour of the disconnect with the earth is through
bountiful freebies of Mother Nature. complete immersion in nature. So I have
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here were personal reasons for her school aged nine. By the age of 16 she was ing, is surrounded by decking filled with
experiment too. Beforehand she renting a room on her own in a house near barrels of beer and elderflower wine. She
was, she writes, wired and tired. Oxford and commuting to school. Art and a friend built it in 2010 – a feat that
She spent too long at her desk, and had college and theatre design followed. took three years – and now she lives there
unhealthy habits (tucking into cheese and Between Africa and the Cotswolds, she’s with her two flatmates.
biscuits in the evenings) and an ‘all-too- always had an affinity with Mother The kitchen is a feast of shelving,
frequent’ glass of wine or two. Weight loss Nature, and a love of early mornings, fas- covered with pots, potions and jars of
was never the goal but by the end of the cinated equally by the idea of cooking pickles, preserves and powders, all
year, she had lost 31kg (putting her weight insects and picking herbs for infusions. meticulously labelled: pickled plantain
in the ‘healthy’ BMI range) and tests found Finding herself a single mother of three buds, milkcap chutney, gorse vodka,
that her gut had become a ‘super in Edinburgh by the mid 1990s, her hobby acorn flour, porcini powder, rowan jelly.
responder’ (with bacteria species and lev- of cooking the likes of foraged mussels Mo pours me a cup of her house infu-
els rising and falling in way that usually and sea lettuce with the kids on hot rocks sion, made from garden plants and herbs.
only happens when taking probiotics). by the sea developed her interest, and she ‘We don’t ever really get sick,’ she says. ‘I
It wasn’t always easy – along the way began to teach foraging and devise week- put it down to that tea.’ She also squirts a
there were blood sugar dips, February end programmes. ‘It just grew from there nasal spray of the seaweed carrageenan
blues, a bleak-sounding Christmas when and I’ve never looked back.’ twice a day to ward off coronavirus, her
she foraged lunch from a local dump, Our next stop is Falkirk and the ter- version of the second vax and booster jab.
scaling mountains of manure in pursuit raced house of her friend, Bob. He takes I mention this to a GP friend who tells me,
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fter dinner, as we sip various
meads of rhubarb and crab apple,
Matthew and Mo talk of trees and
mushrooms, of how the world is con-
nected by a vast network of microbial
organisms, how trees talk, can count, can The hogweed
care for saplings, and how modernity can quiche that
– think the nearby Grangemouth oil port – pushed William
create ‘black holes’ that disconnect these over the edge
Diary of
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hen 49-year-old Deborah Ellis looked plane facelifts and maxillofacial surgery. He also ‘I’m actually not happy looking this way,’ other
in the mirror, she only saw ‘sadness seems reassuringly honest, not agreeing that I people feel uncomfortable or judged. But this
When I quit drinking three years ago, I lost on Facebook and reading other people’s experi- I need this.
HAIR AND MAKE-UP BY ELIZABETH HSIEH, USING WELEDA AND DAVINES.
three stone very quickly. My face lost volume ences to glean information about what to expect.
and sagged, particularly around my neck and I’ve purchased arnica tablets to help with post- Three hours post-op
jawline. Now, every time I look in the mirror, operative bruising, and bromelain, a supplement Out of surgery. I can’t see much due to swelling
the person looking back appears drawn, tired to help with swelling and inflammation. Also cut- around my eyes. Drains in my face remove extra
and unhappy. ting down on garlic and onion because I’ve read blood and fluid, and a catheter means I don’t have
So I’ve decided on a deep plane facelift, a that they thin the blood and promote bleeding. to get up. It’s not painful – I’m on lots of medica-
major operation to lift the muscles and the fascia Must only take button-up tops and pyjamas as it’s tions – but my face is really restricted and my jaw
under the face, not just the skin. It reportedly hard to get anything over your head with all of the aches from having my mouth open for so long
has the longest-lasting results (around 10 years stitches and bandaging. There’s so much to think during the procedure.
usually) but it’s a technical and complex opera- about and it all feels very unknown. Shocked to hear that the operation took six
tion which needs an experienced doctor. hours and that I needed a fat transfer from my
I sent photos of my face to a surgeon in Turkey One month to go chin to the area around the cheeks to create
contacted through a UK-based medical-tourism I’ve started telling friends I’m really going more volume.
company. They organised an online consultation through with it. Many are supportive, but oth- When I look in the mirror, it’s like a particu-
with a plastic surgeon I’ll call Dr K, based in a ers try to talk me out of it or say it’s ‘vain’, ‘stu- larly battered cage fighter is staring back at me.
hospital in Antalya. He’s experienced in deep pid’ or ‘unnecessary’. It feels like if you dare say, Feeling weepy and regretful.
I’ve been warned it can take up to a year to ery is just beginning. I’m more out of action than work on my face to correct things. Hopefully it
fully heal from the procedure as my face has I thought and can’t believe I imagined I could go will resolve in the coming months.
practically been taken off and relaid. Went out to straight back to work. My friend has agreed to For me, this procedure has actually been as
the shops for some scar cream, but other than keep Kobe for me for a few more days and look much of a psychological change as a physical one.
that, I’ve just been drinking plenty of water, eat- after the shop so I can rest. Most of us employ a bit of artifice, whether that’s
ing healthily and reading Hollywood Wives: The Looking forward to sleeping in my own bed. dyeing your hair, having Botox, wearing make-up
New Generation by Jackie Collins to keep my I’ve picked up a pregnancy ‘V’ pillow to (hope- or a pair of Spanx. I’ve got nearly 1,000 followers
mind occupied. fully) help me sleep in a slightly reclined position. on my facelift Instagram account and they’ve all
been positive about my decision. I’ve been open
Seven days post-op Eleven days post-op about having a facelift because, this is me, you
Going home today. I’m connected with Dr K on I get my beloved pug Kobe back today for snug- know? I’m 50 this year, I’ve done the single mum
WhatsApp where he says he’ll always be availa- gles and have decided to take a little while thing and my son is grown up, I’ve run my own
ble for help or advice. I hope that’s true as one longer off work. While the incisions are sore and business. This is my time to make me happy.
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mily Gasztowtt was at home in Switzer- a drawing of Paddington Bear that had hung in to Luker Bros to report the theft. ‘They said they
land when a message flashed up on her her childhood bedroom; and the Freer, bought had complete trust in their staff,’ he says. ‘My
phone from her brother, Charlie, in from the artist 30 years earlier. The collection understanding is that Bateman arrived at the
Oxfordshire. It was 7.30pm on a Tuesday was worth in the region of £20,000. auction house to collect his cheque that after-
night, in December 2019, and Charlie was at his They were scheduled for sale at Jones & Jacob noon, only to learn of Emily’s call, and simply
desk, checking the last of the day’s emails, when auction house in Oxford at 10am the next day – it turned and left.’
a banner from an auction site appeared at the would later transpire that the auctioneers had Bateman resigned eight days later. He was
bottom of his screen. He regularly bought from accepted Bateman’s consignments up to twice a arrested in February 2020. That July, officers
fine art auctioneers but this painting, a fruit bowl week for six years. Before doors opened, Emily tel- emailed Emily to inform her there were other
in blue acrylic, looked familiar. ‘I clicked through ephoned to halt the sale – and called the police. victims. In January this year, he was convicted of
and there it was,’ he recalls. ‘A picture I’d often As an investigation got underway, the scale of 11 counts of theft and jailed for two years at
admired in Emily’s home.’ 55-year-old Bateman’s crimes became clear and a Oxford Crown Court. But Bateman could have
He messaged her: ‘Are you selling your Roy network of victims emerged. Between 2014 and been stopped years earlier.
Freer?’ ‘Nope,’ she replied. 2019, while working for a local, fifth-generation, Phil Reid, 66, and his wife, Gleide, 62, raised
What happened next revealed an audacious family-run removals firm, Luker Bros, he had sto- the alarm in 2014, when Bateman moved them to
theft leading back to one person: a removals man, len tens of thousands of pounds of art, jewellery central Oxford. ‘I tipped him and a younger chap
Martin Bateman, who had packed up Emily’s and antiques from families. £50,’ remembers Phil, a consulting engineer. But
home three months earlier. With that, she became ‘Bateman was quiet, shifty,’ remembers Emily, one thing stuck in his mind. ‘When they moved
the last in a long list of victims to find their treas- who was at her house alone on moving day. She the bedroom chest of drawers, they took the
ured artworks and family heirlooms looted and had paid £2,500, plus £120-a-month storage, and drawers out to make it lighter. At the new house,
consigned to auction to line his pockets. is the only victim to have recovered her stolen they put them back in on the driveway. It seemed
‘My heart was in my mouth,’ remembers items before they were sold. odd.’ In fact, as Gleide watched from the door-
Emily, 52. ‘Items of huge sentimental value ‘He came with two colleagues. We had the way, Bateman did not want her to be able to peer
appeared on screen, one after the next.’ A har- radio on, I made coffee and gave them a couple of inside and see what was missing.
bour scene by oil painter David Curtis, bought things I no longer needed. Bateman asked how The top drawer had contained jewellery,
with her grandfather’s inheritance; a 19th-cen- long my items would be in storage. I said it could including a 19th-century diamond pendant,
tury bust of a girl with a lace bonnet; mother-of- be 10 years. I must have been prime prey.’ worth £700, passed down to Gleide by her
pearl cutlery; a cast bronze model of her hands; The morning of the auction, Charlie, 45, went mother-in-law. There was also an 18ct-gold ring
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missing items. They called the police, and Bate- ings you wouldn’t miss a few.” At the time I
man was interviewed but Detective Constable ateman had seven previous convictions, laughed awkwardly.’ There is a suspicion among
Charlotte Oliver, who led the 2020 investigation, but had worked for Luker Bros since the victims that at least one of Bateman’s col-
explains: ‘There was no supporting evidence. As 2009, on over 2,400 removals. Mean- leagues was either an accomplice or afraid or
it was only one theft, it was filed [as] insufficient while, he became a regular at Jones & unprepared to speak up. When Fowler reported
evidence after being investigated.’ Jacob, delivering £54,000 worth of goods over six her missing items to Luker Bros, she was told
Bateman was interviewed by his employers, years, although the items he admitted to stealing they must be in the house. ‘There was an insist-
too, but denied all knowledge. As Judge Maria sold for just £5,100. They included 11 designer ence,’ says Fowler. ‘I became full of self-doubt.’
Lamb described, when sentencing him eight handbags, solid silver items and more than two Police later discovered a second Maze of Fowl-
years later, he ‘brazened it out’. When the Reids dozen works of art. Among the most significant was er’s had been auctioned – an oil painting of Lon-
heard from police in 2020, they were stunned. a painting by French impressionist Pierre Adolphe don Bridge, which had hung above the piano in
‘We’d written off all hope,’ says Phil. Valette – LS Lowry’s teacher – of Manchester’s her parents’ home: ‘I have the piano but there’s a
Bateman, it emerged during the trial, was a Oxford Road, once loaned to the city’s gallery and space on my wall where the painting should go.’
gambling addict; he was divorced but had a fian- belonging to a retired 71-year-old professor who In March 2020, Fowler had a call from Thames
cée who left him when his crimes came to light. moved to rural France in October 2019. Valette’s Valley Police. ‘I was in my garden. They were
Comments on a local news story claim that he pieces have sold for up to £20,000. Bateman also investigating a series of thefts and there was one
had been stealing for years. One claimed: ‘I’ve siphoned off a painting by Bernard Dunstan RA, person they were building a case against. It
seen him take kids’ money boxes and laugh.’ lithographs, antique maps and stamp collections. brought some renewed sense that I might get
Indeed, Bateman was an opportunist. He had Another of his victims, Anna Fowler, was back my items.’
no background in art, nor any sophisticated robbed in May 2019 of a pastel painting of a horse In December 2019, the same month the net
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keener on being reunited with her treasures. hand-coloured 1700s map of the West Indies and
‘Nothing they can offer will compensate me. ver a year before Fowler’s theft, in her ex-husband’s native St Lucia, worth £400.
Their value, to me, is priceless,’ says Fowler. August 2018, Barry Stride, 72, used ‘It is of tremendous sentimental value,’ she says.
Jones & Jacob have made some effort to trace Luker Bros to move to a rented, three- ‘We spent our honeymoon there and took our
buyers although no names have been released to storey town house from France, where children. It’s part of our family history. I called
victims, citing data protection. Luker Bros have he had lived for 20 years, with his wife Monique Luker Bros and was told to look in my cupboards.
instructed lawyers to deal with the victims. ‘We and their now teenage son. The couple worked It was clear to me they’d been stolen. The firm
feel really let down and frustrated,’ says Fowler. for the UN in Pakistan and Afghanistan in the told me to report it to the police.’
Art lawyer and former senior counsel at 1990s and acquired a collection of Turkmen car- Perigrinor contacted Thames Valley Police in
Sotheby’s Lisette Aguilar, of Keystone Law, says pets, over 100 years old. February 2019 but officers made no link with Phil
the case is ‘rare but not unheard of ’, adding, ‘The The couple paid Luker Bros £8,567 for Bate- Reid’s 2014 complaint. DC Oliver says: ‘Suspects
story shouldn’t be over. It’s possible for the vic- man and a colleague to arrive at 9am on a bright were not identified so the case was, again, filed.’
tims to apply for a court order, demanding that summer’s morning near the French-Swiss When police called the following year, build-
auctioneers disclose buyers’ details.’ border. ‘One conversation never left my head,’ ing a case against Bateman to present in court,
Auction houses are not formally regulated and says Stride, who was widowed last year. ‘I told Perigrinor was amazed: ‘They immediately sent
sellers not legally required to prove ownership; Bateman’s colleague that we may use them again, through pictures of my items. I was relieved
the lack of paper trail makes it difficult to trace when we leave the rental. He replied, “I don’t somebody believed me.’
stolen goods. Legislation only demands that want to be there then.”’ Stride believes Bateman’s More than a year had passed between Per-
questions are asked of those consigning goods colleague must have known what he was up to – igrinor’s move and the start of the police investi-
over £10,000. Bateman’s thefts fell below that and that he chose to turn a blind eye. gation. DC Oliver explains how they eventually
threshold, however due diligence is encouraged The couple placed boxes in the garage but found the evidence to pursue him: ‘When Emily
to prevent bad sales. noticed their two biggest carpets missing when Gasztowtt reported her case, we identified a sus-
Aguilar says, ‘When there’s a pattern of behav- they moved to a new home the following year; pect straight away as he had sold the items at the
iour like Bateman’s, alarm bells should be ring- police alerted them to a third missing rug when auction house under his own name. Using the
ing. I’d be interested to know what questions, if their investigation identified the Strides as vic- information provided by the auction house along
any, they asked about where he got those items.’ tims. Each cost more than £800; one sold at with customer complaints from Luker Bros and
Alexander Herman, director of the Institute of Jones & Jacob for £80. crime reports, further victims were identified. It
Art and Law, adds, ‘There is a dark and murky Three weeks after moving the Strides, Bate- was difficult as many clients who move house
world of stolen art, progressively being illumi- man was dispatched to a small cottage rented by don’t make a full inventory and don’t necessarily
nated. Many of these victims still own their items Ffiona Perigrinor, 78, a psychoanalyst, who paid miss items straight away.’
in law (title deeds extinguish six years after the Luker Bros £2,800 to move her into a house two The police condemned Bateman for ‘making a
first good faith sale following theft) giving police miles away. It was her fifth time using the firm. commodity of his victims’ memories’. Judge
an option to seize them if they resurface.’ ‘I’m an old hand at moving. I always pack pre- Lamb said of his crimes: ‘The gain was signifi-
He advises victims to log their items with the cious items myself,’ says the grandmother of five, cant; the loss is incalculable.’
Art Loss Register, which scans auction cata- who bought coffee and chocolates for Bateman’s Emily Gasztowtt’s brother Charlie and Per-
logues for stolen works. They could also bring a crew on moving day. ‘I got an uneasy feeling igrinor were both in court. ‘He was completely
unemotional. He looked straight ahead,’ says
Charlie. The victims have seen justice but, apart
from Emily, they remain no closer to retrieving
their precious items.
‘Nothing they can offer will compensate me’ Like auction houses, removals are unregu-
lated. Luker Bros is a member of the British Asso-
ciation of Removers, which received a customer
service complaint from Perigrinor in 2019. Luker
Bros described Bateman as ‘one bad apple’.
Fowler reflects: ‘So many roads led back to
Bateman. The utter lack of regulation across two
industries has made this difficult.’
Emily Gasztowtt agrees, ‘I’d love there to be a
system in place whereby this could never hap-
pen again. This man was paid to be in my home.
I told him jokes and made cups of tea. I felt upset
and violated.’
Perigrinor will leave no stone unturned in the
search: ‘There are times I feel angry and upset.
Better regulation would have saved a lot of heart-
ache. On the back of each painting I have gath-
ered over the years I stick a label and write, for
my grandchildren, why it is important to me. If
my map is ever returned, there would be a very
long story to write now, indeed.’
Luker Bros and Jones & Jacob were approached by
Anna Fowler (also pictured on the opening page) lost two post-impressionist artworks The Telegraph Magazine but declined to comment
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nne-Lawre Brault, a 40-year-old shep-
herd who for the past three summers has
marshalled a flock of sheep in Ariège,
says while she personally would welcome work-
ing with patous for greater security, because of
that concern about attacks on tourists, she is
continuing to use a team of three Border collies.
She keeps a can of anti-bear spray in the orange
van where she sleeps at night. ‘If I am ever that
close to a bear I don’t think I will be able to use
it,’ she admits.
Another Ariège sheep breeder, Robin Cazalet,
also admits his reluctance to use the dogs,
despite losing more than 220 sheep to bears over
the past three years. ‘If a human comes by they
can attack,’ says the 27-year-old. ‘It is a lot of pres-
sure for us. We are trying to do our normal work
and now must take care of the dogs. It feels like
the bears are destroying everything.’
We are talking in a cattle shed on the Cazalet
farm. Robin insists that he takes the importance
of protecting a landscape that has sustained his
family for generations extremely seriously. He
doesn’t use any chemicals on his farm, keeps a
small flock of 230 breeding sheep which do not
overgraze the mountain meadows, and as we
speak housemartins flit in and out of the win-
dows, nesting in the eaves of the barn.
The overwhelming popular support among
conservationists, politicians and the wider public
for the reintroduction of bears has in turn, he says,
demonised the farmers losing livestock to them.
‘What is really hard is the pressure of public opin-
ion. It is always against us and it makes us feel like
murderers when actually we are the victims.’
He admits he is now contemplating giving up
a career that he felt he was born to do. When I
mention the possibility of bears also returning
to the UK one day, his eyes widen in shock. ‘It
‘What is really
I wonder if he would once again like to see the would be an economic catastrophe,’ he cautions.
animals entirely extirpated from Ariège? Responsibility for the bears is complicated by
‘Bien sur,’ he grins. the porous borders of the Pyrenees, which span
And yet, bears belong here. Fossilised remains
have confirmed brown bears living in the Pyre- hard is the France, Spain and Andorra. The majority of the
bears have been released in Melles – a French bor-
pressure of
nees around 200,000 years ago – if not longer. der village in the Haute-Garonne region – although
The pastoralists, too, have been driving their they have since settled in a swathe of land between
livestock on to the high mountain slopes each Ariège and the Catalan Pyrenean regions of Val
summer for thousands of years in a process that
is steeped in tradition and known as the transhu- public opinion. d’Aran, Pallars Sobirà and Alta Ribagorça, where it
is estimated up to 65 bears occupy a land mass of
It makes us feel
mance. They have managed to coexist before, so between 3,000 and 4,000 sq km.
why not again? Santiago Palazón, a 56-year-old biologist
One possible solution is the use of Pyrenean employed by the government of Catalonia, has
mountain dogs known as patous. The dogs,
whose snowy white manes belie a ferocious tem- like murderers been involved with every introduction since
1996. That year the first two female bears were
when actually we
perament, were once a mainstay of mountain released – named Ziva and Melba – before being
shepherds. They are reared alongside the sheep joined the following year by a male called Pyros.
and spend their lives with the flock, attacking any- A strapping alpha weighing more than 300kg,
thing they deem a threat – including people. Use
of the dogs dwindled with the bear populations in are the victims’ he has since gone on to sire more than 30 cubs.
There has been no sign of him for the past three
‘The bears
with the UK, where the Government has mooted the animals is an altogether different prospect.
a fresh cull of wild deer to contain a population As Périssé points out, unlike in Yellowstone, in
that has spread to two million (a number not seen the Pyrenees farmers, too, are sharing this land-
R
esearchers call this the ‘landscape of fear’ figures released by the French government in
killed them.
effect large-scale change by restricting the move- Officials cite enhanced protection measures,
ment of species afraid of becoming prey. The such as the use of patou mountain dogs and elec-
most famous example of this is in Yellowstone trified fences, as well as nocturnal monitoring of
duty to bring
been viewed more than 43 million times, argues and slowly repopulate the Pyrenees. It is an
that the wolves have reshaped the river valley as experiment that is proving unpredictable, bloody
elk became less likely to graze there due to fear of and at times downright savage, but one that can
VICTORIA MOORE
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Evoke that happy holiday feeling with
SUMMER BROTH
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Filipino-style escabeche
Prep time: 15 minutes it was made in the – 1 onion, thinly – 2 spring onions, Transfer the fish to a Bring to the boil then
Cook time: 10 minutes, Philippines and only sliced trimmed and sliced broad shallow dish. simmer on a low heat
plus chilling time discovered this by – 3 garlic cloves, diagonally Wash the frying pan. for a couple of minutes
chance when a friend finely chopped Heat two tablespoons of until the vegetables
Serves 6 suggested the Filipino – 2cm root ginger, METHOD the oil in it and cook the have lost their rawness
version was superior cut into fine strips Dry the sardine fillets on onion and garlic over a but are still crunchy.
Escabeche is a dish to the Spanish one I’d – 1 carrot, cut into kitchen paper and brush medium heat, until soft Add the spring onions.
in which fish and made. In the Philippines strips them all over with oil. but not coloured. Pour this over the fish.
sometimes meat is this is made with – 1 small red and Heat a frying pan, Add the ginger, carrot Cover and leave to
cooked then marinated grouper – a big 1 small yellow pepper, season the sardines and and peppers, and cook cool, then chill for an
in a bath of vinegar, expensive fish – but halved, deseeded and cook them on a high for another four hour (you can leave
spices and vegetables. sardines are perfect. cut into thin strips heat, skin-side down minutes. Add the bay them longer). Take
It goes into the fridge to – 2 bay leaves first, so that you get a leaves, white wine them out before you
chill. There are different INGREDIENTS – 200ml white wine scorched skin. Then vinegar, 60ml water, want to serve them – so
versions in Spain, Italy, – 350g small-medium vinegar turn the heat down. sugar and tomato they’re not fridge-cold.
Latin America and the sardine fillets – 5 tbsp caster sugar You only need a purée, stirring to help
Caribbean. I had no idea – 3-4 tbsp groundnut oil – 2 tsp tomato purée minute or so each side. the sugar dissolve.
Prep time: 15 minutes, – 4 garlic cloves, METHOD Combine with the flakes, and cook for and cook the fleshy side
plus soaking time very finely sliced Put the bread and half bread, stirring well, add another five minutes for 1-2 minutes. Season
Cook time: 40 minutes – 6½ tbsp olive oil the garlic into a food pepper then tip the until the fennel is as you go and remove
– finely grated zest and processor and, using mixture into a bowl. golden, then add the them to a plate when
Serves 6 juice of ½ large lemon the pulse button, whizz Put the lemon juice drained currants and they’re cooked.
– 5 canned anchovies, until you have coarse into a bowl. Quarter the the pine nuts. Leave Gently heat the
This is basically a drained and chopped bits of bread (it fennel bulb, remove the this in the frying pan. fennel mixture in the
Sicilian dish that I am – 1 large fennel bulb shouldn’t be as fine as coarse outer layer and Dry the sardine fillets frying pan. Drain the
always making – 1½ tsp chilli flakes breadcrumbs). Heat one trim the tops (reserving with kitchen paper. Put pasta when it’s ready and
variations of. I love (less if you prefer) and a half tablespoons any fronds you find). a large pan of water on return it to the saucepan.
the sweet-savoury – 65g currants, soaked of the oil in a large Trim the base of each to boil. Salt it, add the Moisten the pasta with
influence which is a in just-boiled water frying pan and sauté quarter. Chop the linguine and cook the extra-virgin olive oil
legacy of the Moors, for 20 minutes, the bread bits until fennel flesh, chucking according to packet and season. Toss in the
but just leave out the then drained they’re golden, adding it into the lemon juice instructions. fennel mixture then,
currants if that isn’t – 65g toasted pine nuts the lemon zest once as you go (the lemon Meanwhile, brush the more gently, add the
your thing. I made this – 400g small sardine they have some colour. stops it discolouring). sardines with the sardines, then the
first at university where fillets Put a tablespoon of Heat two tablespoons remaining olive oil, heat reserved lemon juice,
it proved a good cheap – 400g linguine oil in a small frying pan of olive oil in the pan in a large pan until it’s parsley and any
meal when made with – 2 tbsp extra-virgin and add the anchovies. which you cooked the really hot and cook the fennel fronds.
tinned sardines. olive oil Cook them gently until crumbs and sauté the sardines in batches. Put Transfer to a big
– 5g parsley leaves, they’ve ‘melted’ (they fennel for 10 minutes, them skin-side down broad shallow bowl –
INGREDIENTS roughly chopped just dissolve in the until it’s quite soft first until they get a one that you’ve heated
– 115g ciabatta or heat), pressing them (reserving the lemon golden colour and a in the oven – and scatter
sourdough bread, down with the back of juice). Add the rest of little crispiness, then on the anchovy crumbs.
torn into pieces a wooden spoon. the garlic and the chilli flip the sardines over Serve immediately.
Found at sea
It’s always puzzled me that we send most if you have a budgie, get down to the shore.
of our landed cuttlefish abroad. It’s A few of the fishermen down here in
cheaper than squid and to my mind has Dorset fish for cuttle with pots shaped like
a much better texture and flavour, and it’s large lobster pots, and what we don’t take
far more versatile. Cuttlefish typically live for our Fish House restaurant goes off to the
for two years before reproducing market and then abroad. In one of this
and dying, which is why you often see week’s recipes I’ve both braised and grilled
their bones washed up on the beach – so it, two great ways of cooking cuttlefish.
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splashingg out on
‘Can rosé ever be taken WINES
seriously?’ is the kind of OF
question that gets kicked E W EEK
about a bit in that parallel TH
universe I think of as Wine
World. The importer Nick Darlington
answered this succinctly in a social media
Domaine Pique
post: ‘There probably isn’t a single wine Roque Rosé 2021,
in our Graft portfolio that people take Côtes de Provence
more seriously than a certain rosé.’ 12.5%; Haynes
I didn’t need to ask Darlingt g on what he Hanson & Clark,
was talking about because Graft is the £13.55
agent for a Provençal domaine called Clos
Textbook stuff and
Cibonne – the area that is the world capital
excellent for the
of rosé – in the hills between Hyères and price, this pale-pink
Toulon. Clos Cibonne makes a wine that wine is from a
has become a cult touchstone because it is winery close to
made entirely from an unusual red grape La Mascaronne.
called tibouren, which is found in Liguria
in Italy as well as in Provence.
The non-Wine World version of the
question ‘Can rosé ever be taken seri-
Château La
ously?’ is: ‘Is it ever worth paying more for Mascaronne Rosé
rosé?’ and the answer is also, ‘Yes.’ Fine 2021, Côtes de
rosé is a little bit like good bed linen. No Provence
one gets into a hotel bed and thinks, ‘What 13.5%; Lay &
excellent 500-thread-count sheets,’ but dried fruits but, more than a fl
f avour, it do you lean more on the quality of the Wheeler, £18.88
you might think, ‘Oh, these feel lovely,’ and has a distinct presence in the mouth, at grapes and their characteristics? More
Beautifully crafted
ferret about for the label so you can google once firm and somehow also distant. ‘It producers in Provence are talking about
rosé, made from
to see if you can afford them at home. gives structure, you know, the skeleton, rosé in terms of provenance, a differenti- grenache, cinsault,
Yet as rosé has become more popular, and that’s really important,’ says Pierre ation drinkers don’t tend to make for vermentino and
there has been a collective forgetting Duffort, who uses tibouren in the blends Provence rosé unless they talk about syrah. Smells of
that, just like any other wine, it comes at at another Provençal estate, Domaine Bandol or not-Bandol. white nectarines.
quality levels other than ‘not very nice’ Rimauresq, where he is winemaker. ‘My family is a winemaking family in
and ‘cold and pale = great’. That’s not to say tibouren is essential Beaujolais, from Bresse. Some people are
How can we define a good Provence in a fine Provence rosé. Far from it. And not connected to the idea of origin, where
rosé? In much the same way as we besides grape varieties there are many things come from, but we are,’ says Nath-
Rimauresq Cru
describe a good pinot noir: a good rosé is other variables that shape the flavour of alie Longefay, technical director at Châ- Classé Rosé
deceptively effortless to drink, it has flow the wine. Winemaking technique is one. teau La Mascaronne, which makes superb 2020/21, Côtes
and while it can feel silkily fine, it also has Do you use winery technology to create estate wines in the hills at Le Luc, close to de Provence
a cobweb’s quiet strengt g h. the product a lot of drinkers (especially the Plaine des Maures nature reserve. It 13%; Caviste, Talking
Tibouren can bring some of these of cheaper wines) are looking for, with a makes sense. Provence is a big place. The Wines, Theatre of
qualities to a rosé. A difficult grape to very pale colour and grapefruity tang? Or political region covers over 31,000 sq km, Wine, £20-21
grow – it ripens unevenly and is suscepti- while the vineyards stretch about 200km
The fragrance of a
ble to rot – it is unpopular with growers While a good Provence rosé from east to west. An estate wine gives Provence hillside
RUBY MARTIN
but liked by winemakers. Tibouren’s you a flavour of one particular corner of in a bottle, made
smell and taste are hard to describe. can feel silkily fine, it also has this vast territory. Another reminder that from organically-
There is a touch of florality, perhaps some a cobweb’s quiet strength not all Provence wines taste the same. grown grapes.
William Sitwell
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it’s a place of priceless memory’
River Exe Cafe, Exmouth
LOCATION A bit like you I’m quite weird. You see, I
Exmouth EX8 1FE also take pleasure in certain smells that
50º37’30”N
as an organic human I should dislike. In
3º26’20”W
07761-116103 the same way that my mother likes the
riverexecafe.com smell of bin lorries, stirring fond child-
hood memories, I relish the smell of
exhaust fumes coming from the back of
STA R R ATING a small boat. I get a whiff of the black
smoke emerging from the engine, mixed
with the scent of salt from the sea, and
DIN NER
suddenly I’m transported to a place of
FOR FOU R calm serenity, of holidays and happiness.
£169.99 excluding It could be Paxos, Corfu or Leros and
drinks and service when the pong is joined by the swirling,
gurgling sound of the motor as it gently
revs up I’m almost dizzy
with contentment.
But before you go for a
happy fix of nostalgia with
a quick sniff of diesel, a dirty
ashtray or a tub of chlorine,
come with me on this little
boat as we chug away from
the Exmouth marina bound
for a restaurant built on a tethered barge
MENU
THE
in the middle of the Exe Estuary. floors and walls, sturdy, planked wooden kitchen economy and the location mean
If you happen to have a boat already tables, blue chairs, and bunting of inter- they run a tight barge.
Sea salt crisps you won’t need to spend £7 on the Puffin national ensigns – shouts, ‘SEAFOOD!’ The prawns had bounce and bite,
• Water Taxi, but just mind the big sand- We sipped from a deliciously fresh enhanced by a good saffron aioli. We had a
Pint of prawns bank on the way, or you’ll still be and dry bottle of Muscadet Fildefere, plate of Teignmouth oysters too, the tight-
•
stranded while we’re getting stuck into which comes with a Grolsch-style fflip- barge syndrome meaning we had 11 rather
Sourdough
• a plate of oysters. top bottle seal (nice, charming and reus- than 12. Is that an omen? All old wives’ tales
12 oysters We had the luck of a calm and warm able), as they ferried a pint of prawns to welcomed… (FYI I’m still alive as I write
• cloudless evening, which made the the table with good sourdough bread and and a piano hasn’t fallen on my head.)
Sashimi platter experience even more charming as the olive oil and a plate of their crunchy A sashimi platter to share was a mixed
• sun set and the lights from surrounding home-made crisps. bag, with wonderful tuna, its edges rolled
Classic mussels anchored boats twinkled. With a table at 8.30pm we were the in sesame, but less fresh and soft salmon
•
The River Exe Cafe opened in 2011, last of several services and our waiter (citrus-cured) and soused mackerel. The
Fish and chips
• made up of two barges and a shed, and duly ran us through the items they had issue possibly being more my grouse at
Petit fours I’m not remotely apologetic for being a run out of. No lobster, for example. Shock the word ‘sashimi’, which actually means
little late to the party. On a perfect sum- horror. But I forgave them. Stuck out on raw, not some raw, some cured and what-
mer night it is a place of priceless mem- a raft built on to two rusty old barges ever the ship’s chef feels like.
ory, although I suspect it would also be from Stoke-on-Trent, the demands of But our main course mussels were
huge fun on a day when the rain is lashing sensational, like a benevolent sultan: rich
down. It only opens April to September The menu is made up of and fat and glorious. We chugged away,
BEN HARRILL
the Mediterranean.
Dressing for such evenings is one Kate Moss in New York, 2003
Carolyn Bessette-
Kennedy and Sarah
Jessica Parker, who
looked cool (in both £95, Sunspel
senses of the word)
in sleek strapless or
slip dresses and
midi-skirts with
open-toe sandals or Top Robin Williams
low mules. If you’re heads to Studd io 54,
1979. Above Diane
usually slightly von Furstenberg and
Barry Diller at the
reticent about colour, club in 1978. Left
Co-owner Steve
a summer party is also Offic
Géné
cin
ne
érale
Rubell there with
Rod Stewart, 1979.
the perfect time to try Right Sadie Frost,
Ronnie Wood and
a tangerine dress or a Jude Law in London,
2002. Below left Ben
bright-yellow suit, or Vereen and Cheryl
Prabal Gurung
Christian Wijnants
Above left Grace Jones at
Studio 54, 1978. Above right
£125, Whistles Bianca Jagger, 1977. Left
Nicky Haslam and Vivienne Sandro
Westwood in London, 2000;
Alexa Chung, 2021. Below left
Carolyn Bessette-Kennedy in
1998. Below right Jagger with
Andy Warhol, 1978. Bottom
Diana Ross, 1979; Sarah
Jessica Parker in Sex and the
City; Blythe Danner and
Gw y net h Pa lt row in t he ’80s
£395, Dévé
£325, The Array
Eudon Choi
£145, Ruhe
Etro
Jan Masters PR
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bare-faced cheek
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Skincare finds gave our This week
columnist the confidence I am mostly…
to go make-up free Enjoying Beauty Kin
Hydrating Body Bar (£9.95,
beautykin.com). I’ve always
Was it lockdown that did it? apply an adequate layer in the evening, liked soap in the shower, and
Nope. Was it turning 60 this let it absorb and go to bed, rather than this leaves skin soft, not dry.
year and suddenly feeling slathering it on and wiping it off 20 min-
invisible? No, again. So what’s utes later. Why waste it? The partner for a
behind my new-found confi- daytime conditioning boost is the Firming
dence to go out completely Mask (£39.50) with enriching extracts of
bare-faced when it suits? The answer is two rose and mango butter. Every now and
significant additions to my skincare regime and then, I use it in place of day cream.
one little grooming tool. Having been late to the dermaplaning
My big skincare discovery – or rather redis- party, recently I put the professional pro-
covery – is toner. Yes, you remember toner. cedure through its paces – a small blade
When you were 18, it was the step sandwiched was used to remove fine vellus hair and
between cleansing and moisturising. I dropped skim off dead cells from my complexion. If Eschewing a heavy
it for decades. Now, I consider it essential. That’s you want to treat large areas of your face or washbag on holiday. I’m
because toners are now way more sophisticated you’ve never dermaplaned before, always decanting my essentials
than the de-greasing astringents with which I visit a specialist (then use a high SPF). But into no-plastic, reusable
drenched my skin in my youth. There are those for me, the take-home was that I could use one 100ml aluminium bottles
that hydrate (look for hyaluronic acid), exfoliate of the many inexpensive facial razors on the by Viridis Organics
(try AHAs) and calm (camomile is great). market, purely to clean up the bit between my (£3.50, etsy.com).
I wanted to refine the texture of my skin brows. Now that’s fuzz-free, it’s had the
and upped my game with Temple Spa’s effect of ‘opening up’ my eyes.
Glowcolic (£20, templespa.com). With My preference is Wilkinson Sword’s
glycolic and lactic acid, it not only whisks Intuition Perfect Finish Eyebrow Shaper
off remnants of cleanser and grime, but (£3 for three, sainsburys.co.uk) which has
reveals a tighter, brighter-looking com- a well-placed micro-guard for safety. On
plexion in days. If you want a similar effect clean, dry skin, while stretching it taut to
without acids, try Charlotte Tilbury’s new banish any furrows, hold the blade at a
Glow Toner (£40, charlottetilbury. 45-degree angle and work in short,
com), with niacinamide to help even gentle, downward strokes – Envying the chance to
out skin tone. think a subtle scraping motion, do laps of luxury in the
The other product that’s made an not a shaving action. I’ve outside, rooftop swimming
impact is the face mask. For me, never suffered any nicks but pool at The Berkeley Hotel,
Above: Dr
masks always used to conjure a clearly, mind how you go London – for guests only
Hauschka
vision of someone who had the time (check out the dermaplaning Hydrating (the-berkeley.co.uk).
to recline on a chaise longue in a guide at wilkinsonsword. Cream Mask;
towelling turban. I don’t. But Dr com/blogs/womens). Wilkinson
Hauschka has a smart quartet of With a regular brow shape Sword Intuition
no-fuss, no-mess options. For a slug and tint to ensure I look tidy, and an Perfect Finish
Eyebrow
of instant plumping, a couple of ever-present application of SPF for
Shaper. Left:
times a week I use the Hydrating protection, I’m good to go naked. And Temple Spa
Cream Mask (£39.50, drhauschka. funnily enough, now I’m no longer Glowcolic
co.uk). With its nourishing oils, make-up-dependent, when I do go Resurfacing
it’s great for dry and mature skin. I all-out glam, it feels more special. Toner
Lisa Armstrong
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for walking
1. Leather bottle bag, (1)
£130, London Velvet
(londonvelvet.co.uk)
2. Wool cardigan, £34.90 0,
(4)
Uniqlo (uniqlo.com)
3. Leather hiking boots,
£165, Scarpa
(cotswoldoutdoors.com m)
4. OO Moisturising Cream m,
£29, Jane Scrivner
( janescrivner.com)
5. Bucket bag/rucksack,
£180, Belo (belobags.com
m)
(3)
PHOTOGRAPHY: SARAH BRICK. HAIR AND MAKE-UP: SOPHIE MOORE, USING KEVYN AUCOIN
According to a recent YouGov let alone anything resembling a way on pavements and through folds into its own pocket. This
THE ETHEREALIST SKIN ILLUMINATING FOUNDATION. SHOPPING: SOPHIE TOBIN
poll, walking is the nation’s most walking boot. Hyde Park – it’s trousers that look one from British designer Ally
popular physical activity – ahead A couple of years ago, when my good with trainers. On really hot Capellino is super-light and made
of travel and cooking, which is walking app mania was at its days, I love Allbirds’ breathable, from recycled plastic bottles. I
stretching the definition of physi- height – that’s another thing they machine-washable, eucalyptus- love the little flashes of neon and
cal exertion but let’s not get snide. didn’t have – I was pounding the fibre Tree Runners, with London roomy pockets.
It’s our ninth favourite activity pavements at such a clip it was Sock Company’s merino pairs (£20, Also check out Uniqlo’s merino-
overall, after watching TV but basically jogging, in flatform londonsockcompany.com), which wool, ribbed cardies, which come
ahead of reading books. Make of boots. I damaged my metatarsal feel cool. in five colours. While you’re there,
that what you will. and it took six months to recover. If I’m going somewhere party- it’s worth looking at its great
All I know is that I walk more These days, if I’m doing anything ish after work, I’ll pack alternative camis and tanks. The more natu-
than my mother and grandmother over three miles at a brisk pace, footwear in one of Belo’s bags, ral fibres you can load up on when
did at my age. They felt they’d it’s proper trainers, with ankle made from recycled car seatbelts , walking the happier you’ll be.
done a marathon if they walked to and arch support. On country which can be worn cross-body And for your face? Skincare
the bus. walks, it’s walking boots. or as a rucksack. Designed by a products should feel ultra-light
Was this because of the shoes? If aesthetics matter – and in this former physiotherapist, they’re but not astringent. Jane Scrivner’s
Trainers weren’t on their horizon. space they do – it’s all about work- properly comfortable. OO Moisturising Cream is all that,
I don’t think either of them pos- ing around the footwear. When I Other essentials: a shower- and mattifying without disturbing
sessed a pair of plimsolls either, walk to the office – three miles each proof, stylish, packable mac that the skin’s microbiome.
many things that week, my — Wicked Stepmother, though some have made
stepson became belligerent. I am via Telegraph.co.uk comments over the years. I’m
Dear Dave
It must be hard for you to get a perspec-
tive on what’s going on here, because
you’re immersed in the daily minutiae of
your new life with your baby. But I can
see it, oh-so-clearly!
Your wife is desperately seeking her
own daily relationship/contact with her
child. Her head is committed to the prag-
matic decision that she should return to
work while you stay at home.
But her heart and her powerful mater-
nal instincts (remember, she’s still express-
ing milk every day) yearns to be with her
baby. So she seeks a vicarious, virtual,
hour-to-hour relationship with the baby
via you. Hence the bombardment of
requests for pictures, videos, updates and
almost minute-by-minute reports.
She’s not micromanaging or checking up
on you, she’s just desperate to be involved.
Don’t be offended or take it personally.
It’s pure mother love, sublimated online.
So yes – grin and bear it, and try to under-
stand it. It won’t last for ever, I promise.
I suspect Dominic But if you’re going to wink, you Forget physical, eyed chat bandits. What is a wink
Raab isn’t really all must do it properly. The failing of IRL winking for a emoticon if not a request to have
that good at wink- present-day winks is to be parodic, moment, because your rapier wit taken as intended? In
ing. In any case he the ‘Wink, wink, nudge, nudge’ of we could surely all reality, though, it only muddies the
will hardly have Monty Python. And forget the sly eye- agree that it is just tone further. ‘Nice haircut, suits you,’
revived its popular- roll, the side-eye, the undefined ab out the most somebody will write, before psycho-
ity by his recent performance oppo- evils. We must strive for the shame- controversial thing you can use pathically adding the wink. We
site Angela Rayner in the Commons. less energy of the Victorian wink. Its your face for – worse than spitting recipients are left to translate, dumb-
The problem is that successful wink- fictional champion, who leaves the or playing the vuvuzela or headbut- founded and suddenly doubting our
ing depends on collusion. If rejected, rest nowhere, must be Miss Mow- ting someone square on the conk new micro-fringe. Does the wink
as we may assume that over the cher, the dwarf hairdresser with an – long before Dominic Raab con- make the compliment… insincere?
despatch box it was, it becomes an alarmingly flirtatious air in David firmed this last month. A flirt? Some kind of innuendo?
attack, or at least an embarrassment Copperfield. She gives it her all, keep- No, the real menace is its virtual It is impossible to know: this is
– a no-contact failed grope. ing one eye turned up like a magpie’s cousin. The emoticon twitch. The far harder to interpret than a wink
Mr Raab might have imagined his and winking with the other. passive -aggressive semicolon- in person, which generally falls into
wink – which his team has since said In a world where posters in bracket of cringe. The ‘Cheer up either ‘lecherous and a bit patronis-
was directed at Ian Murray, the Underground carriages warn that love, it’s only a bit of banter’ of punc- ing’ or ‘patronising and a bit lecher-
shadow Scottish Secretary – was that staring can be a crime, I recommend tuation. The smiling, winking face. ous’. So all we can do is respond with
of a Clark Gable or a Humphrey Bog- the Mowcher approach, which in This one ;). You shuddered just see- a message that covers all the bases,
art. It came out more like a botched Parliament might not catch the ing it, didn’t you? Trigger warning: while ensuring the conversation –
George Formby. Strumming the Speaker’s eye, but would certainly there’s more later. and potential for further winks –
ukulele and winking simultaneously play to the cameras. They often mean well, these one- cannot continue. My preferred way
might be harder than it looks, is simply to write, ‘OK,’ and a
though the nearest I can bring to thumbs up. Nothing could be more
mind of the chirpy Lancastrian sing- final, nothing could be less sexual.
ing about it is in Chinese Laundry Dominic Raab is a particular
Blues: ‘Now Mr Wu, he’s got a kind of man. In all likelihood, he
naughty eye that flickers/You ought describes himself as a ‘carnivore’,
to see it wobble when he’s ironing refers to women as ‘females’, and has
ladies’ blouses.’ Not the effect Mr a folder in his phone gallery simply
Raab is likely to have been seeking. called ‘Pics of Subaru Imprezas’. He
It’s funny how people even take is also almost certainly an inveterate
pride in their inability to do certain user of the emoticon wink. He prob-
things properly. Some can’t whistle, ably apologised to Angela Rayner
they think. Some can’t wiggle their with one. ‘Soz Ange, had something
ears (though my lived experience is in my eye ;)’ It’s just who he is.
that practice makes perfect, wiggle- But for the rest of us, it’s high time
wise, bilaterally or on either side). we owned our sarcasm, opened the
Some can’t even raise one eyebrow, other eye and stamped out this
despite this mannerism being a scourge. I will be boycotting the
ANN MACLEOD
proven winner, since the word wink, and urge you to do the same.
‘supercilious’ comes from the Latin Or, or… maybe I’m just kidding ;) ;) ;)?
for an eyebrow, supercilium. I’m not.