How To Deal With Difficult Boss 1663587571

How to deal with Difficult Boss
By- Gajendra Kumar

Some time
Bosses are
insecure
Boss are
tough and
difficult
First secret is……
Connect, Convey, Convince 1
Connect
Convince Convey
Connect, Convey Convince 1
Lern to connect with Boss
Connect
Convince Convey
He is so much convinced You Little bit convey

Connect, Convey Convince 1
If you are disconnected

Dis-
Connected
Convince Convey
Not at all convinced What ever you convey

• Actually Bosses are not
bad, sometime we are
not able to connect.
• Connect doesn't mean

buttering/flattery
• By buttering you may

SURVIVE but can’t GROW
How to
Connect
What to do to
CONNECT
2 What to do to CONNECT - Secret is..
Needs 1
Interests 2
Concerns 3
Tell your boss your….
Needs 1
Interests 2
Concerns 3
Yes…. NO….
Understand boss ….
Needs 1
Interests 2
Concerns 3
If you tell you NIC Disconnected

Everybody telling there own Need Interest & Concern:
1 Employee telling their NIC
2 BOSS telling their - NIC
3 HUSBEND – WIFE telling their -NIC
4 Client – Sales man telling their -NIC
All are disconnected.

Understand his NEED, INTEREST and Concern.
• Actually Bosses are not

difficult people.
• They have different NIC
• You have different NIC

To understand
Bosses NIC, put
your self in his
shoes
To put your self
in his shoes you
will have to
remove your
shoes first……
Find out the need,

interest & Concerns
of your Boss
Find out his
Challenges
To the degree you
understand his challenges ,
that degree automatically
connect you.
If you are Connected √
• You Little bit

convey
• He is so much
convinced
Secret is ……..
Boss don’t run

organisation himself
!!!!!!
He run organisation
according to one, two
or three employees
with whom he is
connected.
Need, Interest and Concerns √
Understand what Understand his

are his top three Need, interest
goal in this year & Concern
Understand what are

top three priority of
your Boss
Help your boss grow √
Understand his
Need, interest
& Concern
• Many people don’t understand NIC

of boss and start telling their own
ideas e.g.
• I want this…..
• I think like this ……
• I am new generation….
Seek to Understand first
then to be understood
Lets say your

Boss is terrorist
type of boss,
very horrifying
Insecure type
of Boss
Dealing with
insecure people
is difficult
Yes No
Listen, Acknowledge, Clarify & Explain 3
Listen Acknowledge Clarify Explain

If you listen to your boss without acknowledging →
It will be damaging →
Listen Acknowledge
If you learn to acknowledge his CONCERN →
It will be calm down him →
Acknowledge
But acknowledging before that….. →
Clarify Explain
Acknowledge is foundation, it is root →
Root
Fruits
Acknowledge
Acknowledge his difference of Opinion →
Acknowledge his ideas →

→
Wait for some time listen him
Don’t Listen to respond →
Listen to understand →
समझने के लिए सुनिए →
जवाब दे ने के लिए नही सनु िए →
Acknowledge
Acknowledge his
every Need,
interest &
Concern
Acknowledge
4
Give your 110 % 4
Little 10% extra will

impress him

double press him

influence him

inspire him
Give your 110 % 4
You will be
noticed in the
entire crowd due
10% Extra
Give your 110 % 4
By understand And 10% Extra

his Need, effort will give
interest & you an edge
Concern
Develop a Loving relation with Boss 5
Kill your Boss

with power of love
You Need Power only

to create a harm .
For everything else
Love is enough .
Offer loving Services

to your Boss
In a very loving
format .
When your Feelings are
improved your dealing will
automatically improved.
When your intent is Good

The Content will automatically
be Good
Improve the Credibility your

profitability will automatically
improved.
Boss is also looking for

right man around .
If you offer lovingly

you will distinct
If you don’t distinct

You will be extinct.
Help your boss grow √
Understand his
Need, interest
& Concern
Don’t equate your potential with Salary 6
Never
Equate
your
current SALARY
potential
with….
your potential
would be 1oo x
You are equating SALARY

your potential
with salary, may be X
that’s why you are
not performing
well
रघुपनि राघव राजा राम

जजििी ििख़्वाह उििा
काम
6
आपका कहिा िो
सही है पर मि
ैं े
रहिा वही है
Lord Krishna was with Arjuna but

Arjuna had to fight in Mahabharata.
Akbar ruled with the help of Navratnas, be the Navratan of organisation
Follow this six point
2.
Need
Interest
6. Concern
Don’t equate 3.
your potential Listen,
1. Acknowledge
with Salary Connect, Clarify &
Convey, Explain
Convince
5.
Develop a 4.
Loving relation Give your
with Boss 110%
Seek to understand your Boss first

Don’t Try to convince the Boss.

Just Learn to Connect with Him.

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How to deal with Difficult Boss

By- Gajendra Kumar

Connect, Convey Convince 1

Lern to connect with Boss

He is so much convinced You Little bit convey

Connect, Convey Convince 1

If you are disconnected

Not at all convinced What ever you convey

• Connect doesn't mean

• By buttering you may

2 What to do to CONNECT - Secret is..

Tell your boss your….

If you tell you NIC Disconnected

1 Employee telling their NIC

2 BOSS telling their - NIC

3 HUSBEND – WIFE telling their -NIC

4 Client – Sales man telling their -NIC

All are disconnected.

• Actually Bosses are not

• They have different NIC

• You have different NIC

Find out the need,

• You Little bit

Boss don’t run

Understand what Understand his

Understand what are

• Many people don’t understand NIC

Seek to Understand first

Lets say your

Listen Acknowledge Clarify Explain

It will be calm down him →

Acknowledge his ideas →

Don’t Listen to respond →

समझने के लिए सुनिए →

जवाब दे ने के लिए नही सनु िए →

Little 10% extra will

Little 10% extra will

Little 10% extra will

Little 10% extra will

By understand And 10% Extra

Kill your Boss

You Need Power only

Offer loving Services

When your intent is Good

Improve the Credibility your

Boss is also looking for

If you offer lovingly

If you don’t distinct

You are equating SALARY

रघुपनि राघव राजा राम

Lord Krishna was with Arjuna but

Seek to understand your Boss first

Don’t Try to convince the Boss.

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