7 English Small Talk Topics for Starting Friendly Conversations

1. Introductions
Before you can get to know someone, it’s a good idea to introduce yourself.
You can introduce yourself to anyone you don’t know, or to remind someone you’ve met before
who might have forgotten you. When you’re introducing yourself, you can add a little bit of
information like where you first met, or what you do. You can even use your English learning as
a conversation starter.
Examples:
“Good morning! We always have coffee at the same time but we’ve never spoken before. My
name is [Your Name].”
“Hello, how are you today? My name is [Your Name]. I’m still learning English so please let me
know if I make any mistakes.”
“Hi Angela. You might not remember me but we met at Tom’s Christmas party last year. I’m
[Your Name].”

2. Universal Topics
Topics that are universal can be shared by almost anyone.
Things like the weather, current news, sports and entertainment are usually safe
conversation starters, especially when you’re speaking to a group—even if one person doesn’t
really watch sports, someone else in the group might.
Although these topics are talked about by many, some people might not be fans of sports, or
might not follow entertainment news, so if you can, try to match people’s interests to the topic
you choose. For example, if you’ve heard them talking about big news stories in the past, you
could try to talk about a news story from today.
Examples:
“Did you watch the Oscars last week? I can’t believe Leonardo DiCaprio finally won one!”
“This weather is crazy! It was cold yesterday and today I came in with an open jacket. I hope it
stays warm, don’t you?”
“That basketball game yesterday had me glued to my seat. Wasn’t that a great save at the very
end?”
 3. The Day
If you’re not sure what topic to talk about, or don’t have anything interesting to say, you can
just ask someone about their day, or you can talk about yours
.
For example, you could ask them:
 How was your day? / How has your day been so far?
 How have you been feeling today?
 What have you been doing today?
 Has anything exciting happened today?
 What are you planning for after work?
 Are you doing anything fun after work?
You can also share information about your day and how you’re doing, but try to keep
a balance of talking and listening, so you both get to speak the same amount (and you’re not
just talking about yourself the entire time).
Even if the person looks like they’ve been having a bad day, you can make it brighter just by
making small talk! Make sure not to ask questions that are too personal, and instead offer some
nice words of encouragement.
Examples:
“Hey there. You look like you’re having a rough day. I hope it gets better for you.”
“Good morning! I went camping on Saturday, and of course it rained all day. Was your weekend
any better?”
“The day is almost over! Do you have any interesting plans for the evening?”

4. The Workplace
Some conversations are only appropriate in a work environment.
Stay even less personal at work than in more casual places, and avoid gossiping (talking about
other people who are not present)! Instead, you can talk about the day, an upcoming party or
meeting, or ask about the person’s job.
Examples:
“Hi Tom. How are things going over at the IT department today?”
“Good morning. I’m really looking forward to the party after work today. I hear Pam brought her
famous carrot cake!”
“What a busy day. This is the first time I’ve gotten up from my seat all day! Are you busy too?”
5. Observations
Some of the best small talk is about where you and your conversation partner are located.
It’s something you both share, so there’s no worry that they won’t know what you’re talking
about. Look around and find something to comment on, or look at your partner and find
something nice to compliment them on. Nothing makes people feel better than a genuine
compliment!
Examples:
“I love your shoes today, they really pull your outfit together.”
“Did you see? They finally fixed the light in the break room. It’s been broken for almost a
month!”
“Hey Pam, your cookies last night were delicious! Thank you for making them for the party.”

6. Common Interests
When you have something similar with your speaking partner, that means you have something
to talk about. Find a mutual friend (a friend you both know) or a common interest or hobby, and
you’ll have something to talk about.
Keep in mind that English speakers rarely actually say the word “hobby,” so asking “What are
your hobbies?” sounds strange and unnatural. Try asking questions instead, based on
observations.
Examples:
“My cousin mentioned you last night. I didn’t know you knew her! Where did you meet?”
“I noticed your hat has a Yankees logo. Are you a fan of baseball too?”
“I tried baking cookies like yours last night and they came out terrible. How do you make them
so good?”

7. Questions
You might have noticed by now that most of these small talk examples have something in
common: They ask questions. A good way to start a conversation is to make a comment, then
ask a question. This keeps the conversation from ending on your comment (and making things
even more awkward!).
When asking questions, listen as much as you talk, and don’t get too personal with your
questions. And remember to keep things positive!
Examples:
“Hey, I heard you were thinking of adopting a new dog. Did you find one?”
“I’ve been meaning to ask you this for a while: how long have you been working here?”
“Your hair always looks great. What hair products do you use?”
The next time you’re standing with someone and no one is speaking, you know what to do!