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Excerpt From "In Sickness" by Barrett Rollins
Excerpt From "In Sickness" by Barrett Rollins
In Sickness
BARRETT ROLLINS
F riday. At last.
My reward for surviving another week at work was “Date
Night”—that’s what Jane called our ritual of going out for dinner
every Friday. Even after thirty years of marriage, we couldn’t wait
to sit together and rehash the week’s events at one of the handful
of Boston restaurants she could tolerate. But what Jane loved more
than dinner was what came next. As soon as we were home, she’d
burst through the front door and shout, “Guess what time it is…. It’s
bedtime!”
She’d undress, crawl under the covers, turn on the television, and
remain horizontal until the exigencies of Monday morning forced
her back on her feet. I’ve never known anyone who loved sleep as
much as Jane did. I was her enabler, of course, bringing her meals in
bed and nudging her awake at intervals to make sure she’d eat some-
thing. I liked being her servant, seeing how happy I could make her.
For tonight’s Date Night, I’d made reservations at Casa Romero,
our favorite Mexican restaurant. Having checked that box, I felt
like my week was over. I was ready to leave. Unfortunately, it was
only noon, so I still had lunch and a whole afternoon of meetings to
get through.
Jane and I worked at the same place—we were doctors at
Dana-Farber Cancer Institute, Harvard’s cancer hospital—and we’d
arranged our schedules so that we could have lunch together every
day, a tradition that was now in its twentieth year. Although our
I knelt next to her and cradled her head. Her eyes stayed closed,
and she just kept moaning. The sound was otherworldly and
terrifying.
“We need to call a code,” someone said softly in my ear.
He wanted to summon the emergency rescue team that responds
to cardiac arrests. My god, these people think she’s dying too. I
wanted to do something useful but all I could think of was to stroke
her forehead.
A moment later, I heard the announcement over the public
address system: “Adult Medical Response Team to the Dining Pavil-
ion.” What an odd place for a code, I thought, until I realized who it
was for.
After what felt like an hour but was only a few minutes, the code
team arrived with their crash cart—a cabinet on wheels contain-
ing emergency medications and equipment. Someone on the team
gently nudged me out of the way as he put an oxygen mask on Jane.
Even through the mask, I could hear her moan with each breath.
Two members of the team laid her flat on the ground and a third
put in an intravenous line. All my usual instincts in this setting—to
help insert another IV, to start the electrocardiogram, to prepare the
medications—felt wrong. Those actions were meant to help other
people, not my wife. I stood helplessly to one side.
Code teams are led by senior physicians who bark orders, mili-
tary style, to the troops. The leader that day was Lisa, someone Jane
and I had known for decades. Lisa was authoritative and radiated
competence but, every few minutes, she would look at me, her face
betraying a mixture of concern, bewilderment, and terror. I could
only muster a blank stare in return.
At some point during the resuscitation efforts, a small trickle of
blood appeared on the right side of Jane’s neck just under her shirt
collar. It looked like it was coming from her chest. Lisa pointed to
it and looked at me with a raised eyebrow that clearly said, “What
I had taken care of a few patients with these kinds of numbers. They
were all intubated in the intensive care unit, and they all died.
“We’re going to take her to radiology,” he continued, “for a CT-an-
gio.” They were planning a CT scan plus an angiogram to look for the
pulmonary embolus. “If there’s a clot, we’ll try to break it up with
TPA”—a drug that dissolves clots, it would be the fastest way to try
to restore blood flow to Jane’s lungs—“but if that doesn’t work, we’ll
have to take her to emergency surgery to remove the clot.”
Emergency surgery? Things were spinning out of control. The
rational part of my brain understood perfectly well what I was being
told. Jane had become a big, complicated medical case that required
an all-hands-on-deck response. We used to call this a “flail,” and
there was no doubt that taking an unstable, intubated patient to
radiology to perform a CT-angio would be a huge flail. And I was
grateful that the team was willing to make the effort. But this was
Jane. The ER doctor had the luxury of putting some of that handy
psychic distance between himself and the patient. I didn’t. I was
still stunned and felt like I was being carried downstream by a swift
current that I was too weak to fight.