TERM 1

WEEK 4
SOCIAL/MORAL

SOCIABLE BUT STAINLESS

Proverbs 18:24; 1:10

T o be sociable means to be in a cordial relationship with

others. It also refers to being friendly in interactions. As students, we relate with

people at home, school, church, and in other places. In school, Christian students
interact and associate with other students, whether born again or not. However, as
children of God, we are not expected to compromise with them in their sinful
practices. Our lives should be according to the word of God. “My son, if sinners
entice thee, consent thou not” (Proverbs 1:10).

1. Purpose of Socialisation By Christian Students

Amos 3:3

It is normal for Christian students to socialise with peers or others. Notwithstanding,

this should be guided by godly principles and moral standards. Our purposes for
socialising with others could be for the following reasons:
i. Learning from others.
ii. Assisting each other in areas of weakness.
iii. Achieving common goals.
iv. Encouraging unity and sense of responsibility towards each other.
v. Having positive influence on others.
vi. Sharing vital information with others.
vii. Rejoicing with one another.
viii. Sharing with the needy.

2. Problems with Sociable but Contaminated

Students
Genesis 34:1,2; 2; Samuel 13:4-6; James 4:4

God’s word warns against ungodly associations that contaminate our relationship with
Him. Therefore, as we socialise with others, we should be wary of the dangers that
come with associating with sinful, fleshly and ungodly students. Typical examples
abound in the Scriptures of such ungodly relationships with their dire consequences.
Dinah roamed alone in a strange environment and became a victim of abuse. Jonadab
wrongly counselled Amnon to commit incest. Samson went into immoral relationship
with Delilah and died prematurely. Other consequences of ungodly association are
loss of focus, peace, progress, relationship with God on earth and in eternity. To
escape these perils, every Christian student must “…[walk] not in the counsel of the
ungodly, nor [stand] in the way of sinners, nor [sit] in the seat of the scornful”
(Psalm1:1).
3. Purity of Sociable Christian Students
Daniel 1:8; 2 Corinthians 6:17; 1 Peter 2:9; Psalm 1:1-3

Despite moral perversions everywhere in the society, Christian students are expected
to be stainless. Like Daniel, Joseph, Samuel and the daughters of Philip the
evangelist, we are to remain uncorrupted in our interactions both physically and
online. We are to cut off from anyone who would entice us, no matter how valuable he
may be. Christian students should radiate the light of the gospel and act as salt while
socialising with others.
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WEEK 5 RELATIONSHIP

THE GOLDEN RULE

Matthew 7:12

T he golden rule enjoins us to do unto others as we want

them to do unto us. It addresses human interpersonal relationship. It is a deep

spiritual message that guides how we should interact and relate with others. It
encourages us to have human feelings, soft heart and mercy in our interactions.

1. Understanding the Golden Rule

Matthew 7:12; Galatians 6:7

Basically, the golden rule is a moral guide encouraged in many cultures and
civilisations. It is called the golden rule because it is a golden value to have honour,
respect and care for other humans.

2. Application of the Golden Rule

Mark 12:30,31; Romans 12:10; Ephesians 4:25,32

The golden rule can be applied in the following ways:

i. Being observant: Pay close attention to people around you. Look
out for the interest of others. Look for opportunities to say or do
something helpful.
ii. Being empathetic: Try to put yourself in the other people’s
place. Feel what they feel and be concerned.
iii. Being flexible: Do not treat everyone the same way.
iv. Being kind and generous: Show love and kindness to everyone.
v. Being truthful: Always speak the truth, no matter the cost.
vi. Being good to all: Yes! Be good to everyone.

3. Benefits of Obeying the Golden Rule

Galatians 6:9,10; Luke 6:38; Matthew 5:7

In human relationship, the golden rule promotes good interpersonal relationships

between friends, classmates, neighbours and fellowship brethren. The benefits are
numerous:
i. You will receive mercy from others.
ii. You will gain tender love from those around you.
iii. God will also appreciate you.
iv. Others will find it easy to forgive you.
v. You will be bountifully rewarded by God and man.