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Insights For Ch.10
Insights For Ch.10
Insights For Ch.10
Grief is the feeling associated with the sudden change due perhaps of the feeling
This maybe present when: losing a job, money being stolen, separation from a family or
loved one, being in a new environment like relocation, health condition, personal safety
being compromised, or even death. The grieving experience carries four aspects: the
intensity of the feeling associated with the loss, the value which one feels toward the
loss, the perception of the effect due to the loss and the adaptability to change. This is a
process uniquely experience by individual in varying level, intensity, duration, effect, and
eventually coping up. That is why, some grieves longer than the others. Others can
When I lost my mother in 2013, I felt devastated and suffered a lot from the loss.
T’was intense since I am the youngest and being a mama’s boy as well. It really
hopping, and being indecisive when it comes to my career path. There was a longing
and feeling of emptiness and guilt due to perception of being alone. It took me almost
seven years to recover and reorganize. Yet that was also one of the learning moment of
Pandemic’ conducted by Fr Arsie Lumiqued, MSC, I learnt a lot of insight about grief
and grief therapy. It is indeed true that grieving is a unique personal experience of an
individual wherein it is also within the individuals’ journey that one will experience
healing and growth. In dealing with the pandemic, such topic is quite relevant. This is
also quite helpful in the One point that I was struck in the talk is about reorganization as
a healthy coping with grief. In this aspect one should identify, name what caused one to
grieve. Client is being assure to talk exhaustively about his/her disposition with
empathy. By this, he/she will explore what one is going through. Another is never to
spiritualize or give false hope to clients. This might not be helpful to grieving clients.
One may think that statements like “at least nakapuhay na sya sa langit” “Ginoo nay
bahala, basi magmilagro, ayaw kabalaka” sound comforting but never really consoling. I
spiritualizing since I thought that they would never really understand what I went
through. Positively, in the end, time will just heal us from such experience reaping a lot
of lessons about life. Today, I am grateful since I have experience such. That grief is a
personal process of recovery and reorganization. That made me for who I am today.
The seminar, on the other hand, provides me a lot of knowledge and insights on
grief therapy which is applicable very much to me, being in a helping profession .Surely,
I can apply them to people in need of help when they are in grieving situation. That is