Hello there..

how are you doing, thank you for accepting my friendship request as a
friend...

I am John by the real name and you..?

Wow nice name, You are welcome.

Where are you from..?

Wow nice to meet you, I am from Austin,Texas and I am currently stationed now in
Afghanistan for peace keeping we need you prayers...

I have been here almost 18 months it left with 4 months to complete my mission lol

I have been in the Army almost 14 years now i will be 20 years before retired.

Aww smile :), Thank you so much, Are you married and you have any kids? and what
are you doing for a living...?

I am single divorce my ex cheated on me and i have 2 grown kids and one adopted
son.....

Oh That's nice, I am in the united state Army, how old are you if you don't mind me
asking....

Oh I see, would you like to get remarried again...?

Oh Okay, would you like to be in love again..?

Awesome, Do you get paid monthly..?

That's nice to know, How much do you get if you don't mind...

Smile :)

Can you tell me a little about you..?

Oh That's good to know, I am single divorce my ex cheated on me and i have 2 grown

kids, one adopted son and I am 57 years old...I am loyal,
responsible,active,responsible,loving,caring,sharing,kindhearted,warm,accommodating
,compassionate,tolerant,laid back type,outgoing,welcoming to people generally,I
like to sing,write poems,listening to music,swimming,playing Basketball,watching
TV,Movies going to GYM and comedies...Can you tell me what happen to your pass
relationship..?

Oh sorry to hear that from you, I am single divorce my ex cheated on me she married
me cos of my money and you know does money can't buy love and happiness and i
decided to divorce her lol

What are you looking to meet on here..?

Awe I see, Do you have Yahoo Messenger Id were we can get to know more about each
other..?

Oh Okay, can you go to http://messenger.yahoo.com/ and download it now..?

Awww, Can you give me your Id?

Before I got in touch with you, I used to gaze at stars as they were only my
friends. But after I met you, I started believing that stars do fall on Earth.

You, my friend are always welcome. Early in the morning or late at night. Time is
of no importance when it concerns real friendship.

My life is a house where my heart lives in with a door that will always be open for
you.

Keep me as a friend and I will keep you in my heart and lock it up. I'll throw away
the key so that no one can take you away from me.

A true friend is not like the rain which pours & goes away. A true friend is like
the air. Sometimes silent but always around you. I feel blessed to have you as such
a friend.

The sun is glazing, upon the sunlight I see the path of our friendship shining
brightly knowing that it is so great to have a friend like YOU! :)

You are my special friend, I love you from the core of my heart, I'll always keep
you near always.

As long as we have memories, yesterday remains; as long as we have hope, tomorrow

awaits. As long as we have Friendship, each day is never a waste.

You are a gift wrapped in ribbons of thoughtfulness and trimmed with kisses and
smiles, given by God to stay not just for a day, but for life.

I won't promise to be your friend forever, because I won't live that long. But let
me be your friend as long as I live.

The times we shared are like shooting stars.. short but really beautiful moments
that are forever engraved in our hearts. Friends forever!

I am going to give fresh flowers to you, Loving thoughts and prayers too, To make
you lighter and brighter.

What do you want from a new partner..?

I am here looking to meet someone who is very honesty and truthful to share the
rest of my life with lol

My name is John Mata. I was born on the 2nd of August, 1957 at Baptist Hospital of
Austin,Texas.

I started A & A Children Academy at 6 and later on continued from Calvary Baptist
Church Schools.

I was very playful at school and it affected my academic works. I joined the
Military academy at the age of 16. lol

I was in the boarding school so my parents visit me once in a while. I didn't spend
much time at home.

My mom was a head teacher and dad was in the medical field. smile :)

I fought in the Gulf war in 1990 to 1991. The gulf war was fought to liberate
Kuwait from autocratic rule of the late Saddam. I had a pretty bad experience..

I am an E-6 Staff Sergeant (SSG). I also act as a platoon sergeant in the absence
of the Sergeant First Class.

I am the leader of my squad. I am a non commission officer and I work in the junior
management of the military.

My first mission to Iraq was in 2010. My mission ended in 2012. lol

What do you seek in a relationship..?

I seek trust,honesty,understanding,sincerity,love and sharing,sharing the good

times and bad times together with no fear of what the world might put upon us...

What sort of relationship you seek for..?

Well,well, the relationship I want is one to be build on the solid foundation which
is love and trust,I do believe with this 2 ingredients of relationship,so many
relationships has come to success unlike ones built on false and pretenses. lol

What are the basic qualities you seek for in a guy..?

The basic qualities i seek in a lady are Honesty,Love,Trust.

What interests you..?

Oh That's good to know, Wow,God interest me,all the things he has created interest
me,the nature really do.

What do you do for fun..?

Awe That's nice to know, I like playing basketball,playing

billards,swimming,dancing,writing,reading,watching movies or tv.

Do you like public intimacy..?

Public intimacy is my thing.I miss that though.I like to held and to walk while
holding hand still,it's fun I guess. :-*

What are your views on age gap relationship and distance..??

I don't mind the age distance between us or the distance between all i want is to
get to know more about you and see where it will leads us to and also,Love means
making the other happy, even from a distance.Don't measure the distance; measure my
love. lol

How long have you been single..?

Been single for about 14 years back.

What's being single like..?

Being single is the dullest and lonely thing that has ever happened to me.

How do you treat your guy..?

I treat my lady with respect,loyalty,adore him,treat her like the Queen.

How many brothers and sisters do you have and how big is your family..?

That's nice to know, I have 2 sisters and 1 brother and I lost my mom and dad
almost 5 years now...lol

Do you live in your own house or Apt..?

That's nice to hear, How many cars and trucks do you have..?

Awesome, I live in my own house and i have one Apartment, i have 4 cars.. Toyota
Venza, Honda Fit, Dodge, Range Rover....lol

Why do you need a guy..?

I need a lady because I feel 2 people can make things worthwhile.it's always good
to have a shoulder to lean on. :-*

Can you love this guy..?

Yes,most definitely,I will love her.

Do you have any man in your mind for now..?

I think am interested in you ,and i thank God i met you be-cos you are the only
woman that i want to put in my mind now by the time we got to know more about each
other.I am being honest and truthful to you. lol

What is love to you..?

Love to me is everything,everything that has made up this world is love.

Would you hit your guy for any reasons..?

I won't do that,I will rather discuss it over than fighting!!

You need trust to love, but first you need to love in order to trust.To love
someone is to understand each other, to laugh together, to smile with your heart
and to trust one another.

One important thing is to let each other go if you can't do this.......Love is like
a wonderful feeling of compassion and satisfaction.

It should be given respect and trust; and it should receive that love back.The best
proof of love is trust.True love is the greatest thing that you can experience; it
can weather any storm.
Loving, trusting and respecting each other totally can bring you to true love and
happiness.

It's hard to love and hard to trust; but finding love and finding trust was a gift
from you to me..Relationships should never be taken for granted.

I keep thinking about the future, about life, and what I want out of it. I keep
thinking about us and what this relationship means to me.

I keep thinking about these things and I realize they go hand in hand. This
relationship is my future; it's what I want out of life. I want to grow old with
you. lol

I want to experience this crazy love forever and ever, and I really think I'm going
to get to. I want us to walk through new houses picking the one that would be just
right for us.

I want to see you walk around our house in a big t-shirt with your hair down and
catch me staring at how gorgeous you are. :)

I want you to pull the covers off me at night and then I have to get even closer,
if it's possible, to you to keep warm. I want to see you laugh like crazy at me
when I do stupid stuff.

I want to rub lotion all over your body because you lay out in the sun too long. I
want to have a child with you and go through the experiences of parenthood with
you.. babe

I want to see you and me chasing our little kid around the house, all three of us
laughing our heads off and having fun. I want to hold you when you cry and smile
with you when you smile. babe :)

I want to fall asleep every night with you in my arms. I want you to fall asleep on
my chest listening to the beat of my heart and know it beats for you. babe :-*

I want you to be the first thing I see when I wake up and the last thing I see when
I go to sleep. I want to see your adorable face in the morning, because I always
think you look so cute then. babe

I want to sit on the beach with you and watch the sun set, and I want all the
people who pass us to envy the love that we obviously have for each other. babe

The choice of being with another life is an amazing thing. Trust, loyalty and
respect are a must for eternal happiness.

No matter how much you love someone if you don�t have these ingredients you will
never succeed.

To be in love means being patient but to be patient you must trust him/her first.

You can never find love through the eye or ear, so you must trust the only thing
that will never fade until you die, your heart.

Love is like trust, when you find your special someone it is as if you're trusting
them with your heart.Trust is what you put in someone's hands.

Faith is what you hold on to.Trust is what makes everyone realize that you are
always there for them. Faith is what makes everyone realize that you are always
there to help them in case they need some help.
Love makes not everyone, but the only one in your life who is special, think that
you are always there for her, to be with her, to cherish her, to fulfill her
dreams, to share with her and most of all, to make her realize how much you really
love her.

Distance doesn't matter if you really love the person, what matters most is your
honesty and trust for that relationship to work out.Without romance, love gets dry.

Without respect, love gets lost. Without caring, love gets boring. Without honesty,
love gets unhappy, and without trust, love gets unstable.

Love is a wonderful gift; trust in it, believe in it, give it, and it will be
returned to you to give again and again.`......

The heart already knows what the mind can only dream of. Trust your heart.

Distance cannot, and will not hurt a bond between two people that is based on
mutual respect, trust, commitment, and love.

Jealousy is not a sign of true love; it's insecurities that comes in the way,
'cause love has just one important ingredient: Trust.Do you trust me?

What are your plans for tomorrow babe..?

I love you babe