Robert Sternberg’s Triangular (Theory) • Attraction – is the act, power, or • Offer to help someone need.

Model of Love property of attracting. • Write a letter or send a card to someone

you love.
• Responsibility – is the social force that
binds you to the courses of action Unacceptable ways to express your
Liking (Intimacy)
demand by that force. attraction:

Romantic Love Companionate • Acting you own him/her.

What do we really mean by personal • Acting weird when you are with him/her.
(Passion + Intimacy) (Intimacy + • Stalk him/her on social media.
relationship?
Commitment) • Obsession
➢ It refers to close connections between
Consummate Love
people, formed by emotional bonds and
(Intimacy + Passion + Commitment) interactions. These bonds often grow
Lesson 3: Relationship Responsibilities
and are strengthened by mutual
Infatuation
experiences. There is an adage that says “It takes two to
Fatuous Love Empty Love
tango.“ Two people who are in a relationship are
Three kinds of relationship:
(Passion) (Passion + Commitment) (Commitment) both responsible for each other. It takes hard
Family – an essential component in any work and effort to create healthy relationships.
discussion of relationship but this varies greatly Being responsible for relationships will build a
from person to person. healthy relationship.
Personal Relationships
• Bureau of Cencus – defines family as You must be aware of your rights to better
Important Terms two or more persons who are related by understand responsibility in relationships. An
birth, marriage, or adoption, and who Australian website, Respect Me, enumerated a
live together as one household. person’s rights.
• Relationship – is a state of Friends – can be thought of as close tie
connectedness between people between two people that is often built upon.
especially an emotional connection. I have the right …
- Are able to turn each other in times of
• To be treated with respect – always
• Personal Relationship – are need.
• To be in a healthy relationship
relationships between people
Romantic Relationships – including marriage • To not be abused – physically, sexually,
especially those between friends,
are close relationship formed between two or emotionally
lovers, and family members.
people that are built upon affection, trust, and • To enjoy friends and activities apart
intimacy. from my romantic life
• Commitment (trust) – is the act of
• To express myself honestly
binding yourself (intellectually or
emotionally) to a course of action and a • To recognize my culture and identities
message that makes a pledge. Acceptable ways to express your attraction: • To determine my values and set limits
• To decide what I share with whom
• Offer the gift of listening. • To say no
• Love – is a strong affection for another
• Say please and thank you. • To feel safe in relationships
arising out of kinship or personalities.
• Tell your loved ones how much you • To be treated equal
love and appreciate them.
 • To feel comfortable being myself
• To leave or stay in a relationship
I have the responsibility …
• To communicate my values and limits
• To respect my romantic partner’s limits,
values, feelings, and privacy
• To accept my romantic partner’s culture
and identities
• To not abuse physically, sexually, or
emotionally
• To listen
• To be considerate
• To communicate clearly, honestly and
respectfully
• To give my romantic partner space
• To enjoy activities and friendships
outside of our relationship
• To not exert power or control in
relationships
• To compromise when needed
• To admit to being wrong when
appropriate
• To ask for help from friends, family, and
mentor
Boundaries – essential in any relationship
- Limit you set for another person’s
actions or words given to you.
Four Aspects of Boundaries
Material boundaries – determine how much
you are willing to lend your belongings, time,
and service.
Physical boundaries – deal with your personal
space, who can, when and where person can
touch you as well as your sexual boundaries.
Mental boundaries – beliefs, values, opinions, PREAMBLE TO THE PHILIPPINE
and thoughts. CONSTITUTION
Emotional boundaries – feelings and personal We, the sovereign Filipino people,
choices. imploring the aid of Almighty God, in order to
build a just and humane society, and establish
a Government that shall embody our ideals and
aspirations, promote the common good,
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective Teens are
the following: conserve and develop our patrimony, and
secure to ourselves and our posterity, the
1. Be proactive blessings of independence and democracy
- Controlling or takin charge of situations under the rule of law and a regime of truth,
justice, freedom, love, equality, and peace, do
2. Begin with the End in Mind ordain and promulgate this Constitution.
- Imagining future and taking necessary
steps
3. Put first things first
- Knowing your priorities
4. Think win-win
- Both people in a relationship benefiting
from agreement
5. Seek first to understand, then to be
understood
6. Synergize
- Things paano kayo makaka-achieve ng
goals together.
7. Sharpen the saw
- You give yourself proper care
- Self-care
Self-care
- Essential in building relationships.
- You cannot love someone genuinely if
you do not love yourself fully.