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Convo Essay 3
Convo Essay 3
Ashley Glambin
ENG 111
3 November 2022
should be. To begin, compassion can be defined as sympathetic pity and concern
for the sufferings or misfortunes of others. There are times when I do not think
every day with my fiance so that I can be a better partner. My career path also
requires compassion because young children have big emotions, so you need to
be able to have sympathy to help them work through their feelings. I also
perfection and tend to put my feelings last. There are also times when I let the
feelings of others consume me and focus just on their feelings and work on
helping them until they are feeling better. I would like to have a balance of
compassion in my life.
that I am currently working towards and will need to continue working on for the
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rest of my life. Compassion can look different in various situations. Writers are
talking about what compassion means and look like in those different situations
and contexts. Compassion looks different with a romantic partner than it does
writer, Kwame Anthony Appiah, touched on this topic in a general way, rather
“Cosmopolitanism”:
“That means, first, we’re responsible collectively for each other as citizens
care about everybody but not in the way that means they want everybody
also doesn’t directly say here that this is for a relationship, but it can be used in a
relationship, as partners are not all the same. Appiah and Bolt both agree that
addition to their educational tasks [1,4,5] and to work in teams, to better address
emotions and everything seems like a big problem or too hard, with the skill of
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compassion, I will be able to be a better teacher. Appiah has a similar view that
“One kind of person who is open to strangers, open to the world, accepting
cultural relativism in which you say, ‘whatever they want to do that's fine
and I'm interested in it, I'm curious about it; I have a cosmopolitan
While this isn’t directly saying compassion in teaching like De Stasio et. al does,
others, and it also refers to being open to strangers which teachers have to be as
they have new students and there may be new faculty each year.
important to have compassion for yourself. Two writers, Jocelyn Grzybowski and
researchers find that higher levels of self-compassion are associated with lower
ourselves. Self-compassion helps with other aspects of our lives. Bolt et al. agree
with Grzybowski and Brinthaupt they say, “Low compassionate attitude towards
quality. This indicates that high attachment anxiety predicted low compassionate
attitude towards self, which in turn predicted low relationship quality”(5). This
relates back to the beginning of the essay also with compassion in relationships,
as when you have good self-compassion you will have better mental health, and
To add, from my research, reading and writing, I have learned that compassion
is and will always be a big part of my life. This essay has shown me that I need
as well as be a good teacher. This essay has also shown me that compassion for
myself will better my mental health and also help with my relationships.
want to become, but it will look different in different aspects of my life. The
future students andd both will be different from the compassion I will show to
myself.
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