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Akshaya Akilan
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2. What are some suggestions you would recommend for your childs’ centre to
implement more family-centred practices?
- Something I would like to see in my child’s centre is more diversity and culture. It
is visible that they value some cultures over others. For example, for halloween
they are having a whole festival for the children and families to dress up and have
fun but for Diwali they gave the children Mango Lassi for snack.
3. How would you describe your relationship with your child's Early Childhood
Educator?
- Always communicating what their child did in the day.
- Always gives a notice on diapers and wipe restocks.
- Able to have fun and friendly conversations with them during pick up and drop
off.
- Their child likes the ECE and enjoys going to daycare which means they also
have a good relationship.
5. Are there any bad experiences you’ve experienced that you feel comfortable
sharing?
- The only bad experience I’ve ever encountered was my child getting injured,
however I understand that it was out of the ECE’s control. My child fell while
playing on the tricycles and scraped his knee really badly. The ECE handled the
situation very well, by helping him disinfect it and filling in an accident report to
let me know. Now that I think about it, I wouldn't consider this a bad experience
since accidents are bound to happen and the ECE was very helpful.
6. How does your child’s centre actively communicate any information including
updates, concerns, reminders etc.?
- For my youngest, the centre uses an app that logs their daily activities. I can see
what they ate, how much they ate, diaper changes, outdoor play, etc.
- The centre also posts pictures of the childrens activities.
- They hand out flyers for special events
- For restocking reminders, they will remind me a week in advance when I go to
pick up or drop off.
- They also communicate with me through small talk during pick up or drop off.
the course materials and readings. This interview helped me gain a better understanding of the
themes and theories learned in class. I was able to expand the comprehension of my knowledge
when it was applied in real life scenarios. Three emergent themes I recognized are Marxism,
sources of tension, and parenting styles. An emergent theme we focused on are numerous
marxism, symbolic interactionism, exchange theory, family systems theory, and developmental
theories. A theory I was able to recognize when conducting the interview was marxism.
Marxismwas was originated by philosophers Karl Marx and Friedrich Engels. This theory refers
to the ideology that “distinct phases in human history shape, alter, and constrain human
relations” (Brady, 2022). The interviewee expressed how COVID-19 affected their family's
lifestyle and describes this change as drastic. A marxist would describe the lifestyle shift this
family experienced as the aftermath of facing something as historic and intense as the pandemic.
Fortunately, the lockdown brought them closer together and strengthened their relationships as
they nurtured each other during such a challenging time, which outweighed the repercussions
they did face. Generally, COVID-19 has impacted families all over the world and will continue
to cause family dynamics to evolve as it becomes a historic period in our lives. Moreover, the
seven sources of tension are an emergent theme that closely relates to parent engagement. The
seven sources of tension include, logistical matters, emotional responses, preconceived ideas and
misconceptions, different values, beliefs and world views, difference in power and status,
different roles and scope of function, and unclear policies. The two sources of tension that are
Logistical matters refers to factors such as availability, time, and documentation. These factors
are important in order to help the staff and caregivers stay on track and be punctual for the
child’s needs. The interviewee mentions there was a period of time when work was pushing her
to her limits which challenged her time management. This created some tension as there were a
couple incidents where she was late to pick up her child. These incidents were unexpected and
although the Early Childhood Educator was understanding, it is still a very frustrating process as
so many new logistical factors get involved such as paper work, phone calls, and working
overtime. The tension of emotional responses refers to judgement and blame, affection,
balancing care and professionalism, and insecurities. (Brady, 2022) My interviewee expressed
her child’s battle with using affection to avoid communication. She told her son's educator that
she does not want them to cuddle or carry him when something is wrong, and instead get him to
communicate his feelings. This prompts tension as the educator may not agree with the mothers
personal beliefs and values which leads to judgements. The educator also has to accept and
follow the mothers requests in order to maintain the balance between professionalism and care.
Furthermore, an emergent theme that was pertinent to the interviewee was her parenting styles.
After hearing her views and the measures she takes when it comes to parenting, I was able to
which requires intense attentiveness, while also staying on top of your children's needs in every
aspect such as, financially, emotionally, physically, etc.This mother stressed the importance of
following strict routines with both of her children. She also mentioned that since these rules have
been embedded into her children's lifestyle they automatically know what is needed for the daily
routines and when they occur. She also likes to stay in the loop of her child's emotions and
school by practising the importance of communication with her children. Intensive parenting is
also followed by a lot of guilt. I was able to notice signs of this guilt while she spoke about her
experience with COVID-19. She had to be isolated for 2 weeks which took a toll on her. She felt
like she wasn't there for her children which made her feel like she was failing to meet the
expectations of being a mother. This mother expressed how her diverse needs were not met at her
childs centre. She mentioned how her centre values more westernised traditions and holidays
over others which causes conflict with her parent engagement. One comparison she provided was
that for Halloween they had a whole festival with costumes and candy, however for Diwali they
only served mango lassi during snack time without informing the children about the significance
of the day or what it is about. Moreover, COVID-19 shifted their experience with education in
multiple ways. One of the rules this mother set for her children was 30 minutes of screen time a
day. When schools switched to online, she was forced to overlook this rule for the sake of their
education. This did not sit well with her because she does not feel it is healthy for children to
stare at a screen for an excessive amount of time. She worked hard enforcing these rules and
following guidelines that vanished in the blink of an eye as a result of COVID-19. This mother
mentioned that online school was very challenging. Her children were not used to listening to a
screen so it was very difficult for them to grasp the information being taught. This mother had to
step in and educate her children herself which can be very stressful and frustrating. She was now
viewing her child as a student rather than a child which can be very confusing. She was not
taught how to teach children maths, science, English, etc. However, if she failed to educate them
she would carry that burden and guilt. This interview put the course material into perspective
which allowed for more learning opportunities. This also gave the interviewee the opportunity to
express and communicate her feelings with topics such as education, battle COVID-19, and the
child care system. Overall, this interview was very beneficial and informative for the both of us.
Work cited
Albanese, P. (2022). Canadian Families Today, 5th edition. Oxford University Press,
Canada
Canadian Context I
Context I
Brady, J. (2022). Week 6 lecture slides:Children and Parenting: Cultural Expectations and