Can I manifest my SP?

Yes. Circumstances don't matter. There are an infinite number of universes where
you have your SP and all you need to do is to switch your state into the state of
having. (State = state of mind, attitude, belief etc).

How do I do it?
The only aim of techniques is to deliberately rewire your subconscious mind to
believe that you are with your SP. That's it. There are no special techniques, but
there are techniques that fit some people better than others.
SATS - State akin to sleep. Before sleeping at night, or before a nap, relax into a
Theta/Alpha brainwave state or just get super relaxed to the point where your
thoughts have slowed down and you can move but you dont want to. Lethargy. Then
imagine a scene, in first person, with you and your SP together. Not a text message
or an event in between. Let that be figured out by God or Source or whatever you
want to call it. If you want to be married to them, imagine feeling a wedding ring
while being next to your SP in bed. Whatever feels natural. If you have a dominant
sense, focus on that first and foremost and if you can, build up to other senses
but it's not necessary. Just make sure to place yourself in the scene and get so
lost in it that you feel like "holy shit! This is real". Whatever sense you use to
get the feeling of reality is discretionary and doesn't really matter. Another tip
is make sure the implication of the scene is a sustainable feeling. People imagine
an exciting scene and then complain within a few days that they can't feel it
anymore. Remember when you got a new phone or shoes? You were probably excited. But
it quickly wore off and when you came to terms with having it, it was just a common
thing, you still loved wearing them or using the phone but you weren't excited
about it anymore. That satisfaction of knowing the "feeling it real", and this is a
much more sustainable feeling, and much easier to identify with. Not feeling a
scene much anymore is actually usually a good sign. The long term love your SP has
for you and vice versa isn't constant excitement or anything like that, it's being
happy and content knowing you have them.
Instead of SATS you can script, or affirm, but you can't just do it mindlessly. You
have to feel them to be true. Be in the relaxed state and really feel the
statements to be true. If having a completely true feeling is hard at first, keep
doing it, but you might want to try incrementally changing beliefs. If you're
feeling unlovable and you try to go to "I am loved and wanted" and it's not
working, try doing something like "I'm proud of myself" or "I'm a good person"
before moving onto "I am loved and wanted." If you can do "I am loved and wanted"
and feel it - good on you.

I feel bad at the start. Is this bad?

Not at all. Work through the emotions. LoA isn't an excuse to repress and supress
your emotions. Feel them, cry, eat ice cream, do whatever it takes to just feel the
emotions and let them flow through you and do their work. When you're in a better
head space, that's when you can begin manifesting your SP. Trying to rewire your
brain while emotions engulf you in crippling pain will only reinforce that they are
not there with you. It'll feel like you're covering a bad smell with thick
fragrance, which doesn't really work. You need to just work through it. Especially
for the men out there who like to compartmentalise and "man up", you gotta just
feel it. Trust us - a good cry or two helps out a lot.

What can I do to fix my mental diet?

Just keep doing SATS. Your thoughts come from your state of mind. Poor thoughts do
not come from a rich mindset. Fix the state, not the thoughts. That's my personal
opinion. Once you keep repeating SATS and change the state of mind (i.e. from
wanting to having) a mental diet will automatically kick in because most of your
thoughts regarding the matter change. If you are in the state of being alone and
trying to change every thought, it's a slow and painful way to rewire the
subconscious mind because you're doing it through your conscious mind. It's best to
do SATS or affirmations while in a relaxed state, which will change your state of
mind, and therefore the thoughts that come from it. Be persistent.

How do I make this easier on myself?

Get off social media. This is probably the biggest one.
Go outside, even just for a walk.
Find a hobby.
Stop being blackpilled about stuff.
Get to know yourself better. Find what you like to do. Become an enthusiast about
something. Can be anything ridiculous, just be honest with yourself about what you
like.

Should I work on myself?

Yes. Self love isn't necessary but it sure helps and makes the process faster. It's
like a battle, you can win it on your own but having good logistics helps you and
your troops out immensely.

What can I do to change my beliefs?

SATS (State Akin to Sleep)
Affirmations in the relaxed state
Scripting in the relaxed state
Anything which is in the alpha/theta state, with a feeling of it being real, is a
brilliant way to rewire your subconscious mind.

But my situation is different...

That's fine. It probably is. But circumstances don't matter. Don't worry about past
circumstances, third parties, or anything else. Keep it simple and just focus on
the end. If you must focus on the past, revise them so it's positive through SATS
or another technique.

How long will it take?

Varies, and there's no set time limit. That being said, it will come the fastest
way possible. It may seem long sometimes but just live in the end and dwell therein
until it comes.

How do I get over insecurities and fears?

Get a hobby, take care of yourself, know yourself. All fear is rooted in some kind
of uncertainty. When you know yourself there are no fears. You can own yourself and
in today's world, being yourself is what makes you different. Also, as stated
earlier, incrementally changing those beliefs of yours might help as well.

Can I change my SP's personality?

You don't change them. You just switch to a universe where your desired version of
your SP exists. Same method, just imagine an action implying they are the version
you like. Like is said - anything is possible, so you can have your ideal
relationship provided you change your beliefs to it being real. Their "ideal
personality" already exists.

What if two people want the same thing?

They both win in their own subjective realities. You win in yours, they lose in
yours. They win in theirs, you lose in theirs. Don't worry about conflict. At all.