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01 - What To Do When She DoesnÔÇÖt Text You Back
01 - What To Do When She DoesnÔÇÖt Text You Back
What To Do When She Doesn’t Text You Back
Category: Texting
Specific Time To Cast It: If she stops texting you back
Text: First confession: I'm not writing this for you today.
This is more for me..
Have you ever gone out, expecting it to be 'another night'
but instead..
..you meet some "special" girl, and the vibe between you two is
just DIFFERENT?
The chemistry, the connection, the touch...everything with her is
just better.
You might not even know why you just know that it is, and you
can't wait
to see her again.
That happened to me this weekend.
I wasn't even interested at first.
Physically, she's pretty much exactly my type but has blonde hair.
Blondes don't usually do it for me.
But we started talking at some point and I got the sense almost
right away. This shit was..
DIFFERENT.
Maybe it was when she told me she had brains, that she's a copywriter (I used to write copy
fulltime).
Maybe it was when I realized she's big into yoga.
Maybe it was when she grabbed my ass, and I didn't even have to
tell her :)
Or maybe it was when I told her to go grab some random dude's ass
and she came back 5 minutes later with a $20.
(He THANKED HER for grabbing his ass and gave her a $20 for it. I
fvkcing kid you not.
I told her I'd let her keep half, since this was the first trick
she's turned for me.)
Awesome, yes.
Second confession: Since then, there was a good deal of texting
back and forth between us.
Oops.
As you know, I have a rule about keeping texting to a minimum until
you see the girl in person since there's NO ADDED BENEFIT to texting a lot.
I broke that.
And now I'm paying for it.
I overtexted (I shudder having typed that) and haven't heard back.
I may eventually, I may not.
Big fvcking deal, I can go out and meet 10 more girls today, right?
And 10 more tomorrow and the day after that and so on because I've
built up the skill set.
*PAUSE*
You meet so many girls, and most of 'em do nothing real for you.
Smash and dash, one nightstands, you know the deal.
Maybe every 2 months you meet one who's got that DIFFERENT going on.
It sucks to know that if I don't see her again, it might be because I compromised myself on the
exact Attractive Behaviors I've found to work universally and have spent years ingraining into
myself.
It sucks to know that I had an different girl over last night, and the only reason I called her was
because I felt bad about this first girl.
Another challenge, another lesson, another opportunity to grow.
I know what my next move here is....ready for it?
Nothing.
I'll let time and life do its thing (my best move right now) and if she wants to see me,
she'll hit me up.
If she's decided that she hates herself and doesn't think she deserves the best,
then she won't.
As I tell my clients all the time, it takes a real BADASS to stay on his path, executing all the
steps he needs to for his work when his emotions want to focus on something else.
So that's what I'll do, and this shit'll pass within a day or two.
(If I want, I could put her into the “Girl ReActivation Sequence” which is a series of tested text
messages that go out 3 weeks after noresponse, and will usually “reactivate” the girl about
4060% of the time. But I don’t really care about squeezing every last pussy on to my dick.
There are things more important to me than reattracting dumb, hot girls who passed before,
even if I know how.)
After you've been through it with SO MANY GIRLS, the ups and the downs, the insane high
points and the even lower low points....
It just doesn't affect you anymore like it does most people.
So look man:
If you've got a girl right now who's not texting you back..
Or who's flaking on you..
Or who's playing games with your heart and messing with your head..
I feel you.
I've been there more than anyone you've ever met.
I have friends who think I'm a sociopath because this stuff just doesn't affect me emotionally like
it does everyone else, like it does them.
What they don't get is the only reason I'm this way is because I've been run over by the truck
more than anyone.
And at this point, it just doesn't do much anymore.
It just hits me, I feel through it and I'm right back to MY badassery.
I don't know if any of this helped you today but I just wanted to put some words to what I'm
feeling.
Who else puts themselves out there like this?
Thanks for listening, for real :)
Got a surprise planned for you soon too.
You'll like it.
Out and about.
Jason