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Chapter 2
Chapter 2
Empathy
Awareness of others' feelings, needs, and concerns
• Understanding others: Sensing others' feelings and
perspectives, and taking an active interest in their concerns
• Developing others: Sensing others' development needs and
bolstering their abilities
• Service orientation: Anticipating, recognizing, and meeting
customers' needs
• Leveraging diversity: Cultivating opportunities through
different kinds of people
• Political awareness: Reading a group's emotional current and
power relationships.
Social Skills
Adeptness at inducing desirable responses in others
• Influence: Wielding effective tactics for persuasion
• Communication: Listening openly and sending convincing
message
• Conflict management: Negotiating and resolving
disagreements
• Leadership: Inspiring and guiding individuals and groups
• Change catalyst: Initiating or managing change
• Building bonds: Nurturing instrumental relationships
• Collaboration and cooperation: Working with others toward
shared goals
• Team capabilities: Creating group synergy in pursuing
collective goals
Affective:
Agitation Composure
Greed Nonattachment
Aversion Nonaversion
Envy Impartiality
Avarice Buoyancy
Worry Pliancy
Contraction Adaptability
Torpor Proficiency
Perplexity Rectitude
You are Light Itself. Just remove the veil that has fallen over
you and recognize your true Eternal Self. If you do not do
even this, you are your worst enemy.
Non Self
1) He who has not conquered his own self, is his own enemy.
2) He who identifies himself with the inert objects of the
world and considers himself to be similar, is Non Self.
3) He who identifies himself with the inert body and thus
considers himself to be only inert matter, is Non Self.
4) He who identifies himself with the sense organs and
considers himself to be nothing more than theses, is Non
Self.
5) He who is addicted to the inert objects of the material
world and considers them to be all important, is Non Self.
He who becomes dependent on these gross objects inevitably
forgets his true essence. It is this attachment and identification
with the gross that generates attachment. It augments the body
idea and enmeshes the individual in desire, anger and greed. Thus
the individual is filled with the fear of death and separation from
the objects he loves. He becomes insecure, anguished and is filled
with sorrow. Being ever un-satiated, he is full of aberrations.
It is then that the individual begins to degrade himself and
becomes completely forgetful of his true Self. Thus identified
with the gross body, he is verily Non Self..
a) When body attachment with the mind takes place, it is the
'I' that identifies itself with the body.
b) When attachment with the mind takes place, it is the l' that
identifies itself with the mind.
c) When attachment with the sense organs takes place, it is
the 'I' that identifies itself with the sense organs.
d) When attachment with the sense objects take place, it is the
‘I which becomes dependent on the objects of the world.
The body, mind, sense organs and sense objects are all inert -
they are all Non Self.
When the ‘I'identifies with these, the individual automatically
becomes inimical to himself. He engages himself in the
accumulation of gross objects to ensure self establishment and self
protection, and thus loses his peace of mind.
The enemy
Little one:
1) That which causes sorrow is your enemy.
2) That which takes away your eternally joyous Essence is
verily your enemy.
3) How can that which causes distress be your friend?
4) That which engenders remorse and agony in your mind
cannot be your friend.
However, the strange thing is, it is not the world that makes
you unhappy; the cause of unhappiness is you yourself. Whether
one receives recognition or insult from the world, nothing can
affect the individual whose mind becomes a friend instead of a
foe.
Little one, understand this again - your enemy is that which:
1) robs you of your peace and joy;
2) is your opponent;
3) is the cause of injury to your;
4) is the cause of your destruction;
5) snatches away your rights;
6) attacks your surreptitiously.