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“I don't want to talk to my kids about this. I need to be strong for them.”
“We have counselors who can talk to you about having these conversations with your children.” “I can see how much you love and want to fight for them. How much do you think they already know?”
• “You've always been the one to take care of everyone else. It sounds like you did a great job raising
“You've helped them all these years. I'm sure they will be happy to help you now.” your kids.”
• Or
• “I can't imagine how difficult it is to be the one who needs help now.”
“I moved into my son's house when I got sick so he could help take care of me. He takes time off from his job to take me to my appointments. I enjoy seeing my grandkids every day.”
•Provider: “I can see how important your family is to you. It sounds like you have done a great job
raising them.”
“I'm sure he doesn't mind taking care of you.”
•Patient: “I don't feel like the same person anymore. My son does so much for me. I feel like a burden.”
•Provider: “I can only imagine how hard it is for you to depend on others when you've been the
provider your whole life.”
•“That must be a really scary thought. (pause as patient cries) I can see how much you love her and
“Let's try to get you stronger.”
can't stand the thought of not being here for her.
•Provider (after patient settles down): Have you considered doing legacy work?”
“I want to be able to walk her down the aisle. Can you make that happen?”
“I can see how important it is for you to be there for your daughter on such a big occasion. I'm
“We'll do our best.” concerned this is as strong as you will get. Do you want to talk about how to celebrate her wedding
even if you can't walk her down the aisle?”
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