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Ross Jeffries How To Get The Women You Desire Into Bed
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Unf or t unat el y, when you deal wi t h women, you may of t en f i nd yours el f i n t hat
t ype of si t uat i on. They expect you t o pl ay by t he r ul es, but t hey f eel per f ect l y
f r ee t o do what ever THEY want . For exampl e, l ot s of women ar e mor e t han happy t o
spend your money and t i me, and gener al l y l ead you on, l et t i ng you t hi nk you have
a rewar d ( sexual ) comi ng. They t al k about sex on t he dat e, t ouch you a l ot , and
ACT ver y seduct i ve. Then when you make a pass , t hey f r eak out and scr eam about
what ani mal s men ar e, how we' r e onl y af t er one t hi ng. Or t hey l et you have i t
wi t h t hat f amous l i ne "I ' m j ust not at t r act ed t o you. " Maybe you f i nd out t hat
she was j ust usi ng you as a soci al " spare t i r e" because her boyf r i end was out of
t own f or a f ew weeks and she di dn' t want t o si t at home al one and l ook at t he
f our wal l s .
Of cour se, i f you real l y want t o be a " gent l eman" you may not f i nd any of t hi s
out unt i l t he t hi r d or f our t h dat e. You don' t want t o behave l i ke an ani mal and
make a pass on t he f i r st dat e, do you? So you hol d of f awhi l e, and t hen t he sl ap
i n t he f ace hur t s even mor e.
And whi l e we' r e on t he subj ect of f ai r , i s i t "f ai r " t hat t he good- l ooki ng and
r i ch guys shoul d get al l t he beaut i f ul women whi l e you and I have t o set t l e f or
t he dogs? Are you any l ess deser vi ng of compl et e sexual sat i sf act i on t han some
pr et t y boy who was bl essed by genet i cs and Daddy' s bank account ? Why shoul d you
j ust meekl y r ol l over , and accept a si t uat i on t hat SUCKS, good buddy, when you
can be get t i ng your shar e, and t hen some!
Somet hi ng el se t o consi der : When i t comes t o sex, women have a massi ve power
advant age. I t ' s r el at i vel y easy f or even a f at , ugl y tr ol l t o obt ai n sexual
sat i sf act i on. Al l she has t o do i s go to any bar or cl ub, act even mi l dl y
f l i r t at i ous, and be wi l l i ng t o put out . She' s sur e t o get l ai d, i f not by t he
best l ooki ng guy, t hen at l east by someone. I t ' s much har der f or even a decent
l ooki ng guy to get sat i sf acti on, sexual l y.
Never f orget t hi s di f f er ence i n t he bal ance of power bet ween t he sexes. The
t r i cks and t act i cs you' l l l ear n i n t hi s book wi l l make you one of t hose r ar e
guys who i s on t he choi ce si de of t hat power equat i on.
Whi l e we ar e her e I bet t er make somet hi ng el se cl ear . I do NOT bel i eve t hat sex
i s t he be al l and end al l of r el at i ng t o women. Nor do I bel i eve t hat i t i s
al ways necessar y or even DESI RABLE t o use t he t act i cs out l i ned i n t hi s book,
( whet her f ai r or unf ai r ) t o get a woman t o sl eep wi t h you. I t i s cer t ai nl y
poss i bl e t hat t he par t i cul ar woman you f ancy may be smar t enough and have enough
good sense t o want you j ust as you ar e, wi t hout any games or bul l shi t on her
par t . She may al so be sane and psychol ogi cal l y heal t hy enough t o expr ess t hat
desi r e nat ur al l y, wi t hout any hang- ups or gui l t games. You mi ght even f i nd -
gasp - t hat t he f r i endshi p and i nt i macy you shar e wi t h a l ady ar e mor e i mpor t ant
t o you t han sex. When you f i nd a l ady l i ke t hi s, cher i sh her as t he r are
t r easur e she i s. Hang on t i ght , and don' t l et go!
Unf or t unat el y, based on my own exper i ence, and t he exper i ence of hundr eds of men
I ' ve i nt er vi ewed, most women do not f i t i nt o t hi s cat egor y. I wi sh t hey di d -
t he REALI TY i s t hat t hey do NOT! The real i t y i s t hat you, as a man, are goi ng t o
be sexual l y at t r act ed t o many, many women, ver y f ew of whom ar e goi ng t o
nat ur al l y desi r e you, and who you can al so r espect , l ove and admi r e.
Now, you may deci de, t he heck wi t h i t . I f you can' t at l east l i ke and respect a
l ady, and i f you have t o resor t t o tacti cs you l ear ned i n a book, t hen i t j ust
i sn' t wor t h i t , and you wi l l ski p deal i ng wi t h such l oser f emal es al t oget her . I
cer t ai nl y can r espect t hat choi ce; i t ' s t he choi ce I event ual l y made mysel f . But
onl y YOU can make t hat choi ce. Even i f you do, t hi s book wi l l st i l l be of gr eat
val ue t o you, because you wi l l l ear n f ant asti c t echni ques f or i mpr ovi ng your
conf i dence, meet i ng and pi cki ng up women anywher e, any t i me, and how t o qui ckl y
r ecogni ze and swi f t l y el i mi nat e al l t he nut t y- l oser s BEFORE t hey get t o empt y
your wal l et , bend your br ai n, and ki ck your hear t i n. You' l l be abl e to get r i d
of t he di r t , so you can enj oy t he di amonds.
Ther e' s one bi g mi st ake t hat al l t he so cal l ed " Pi ck- up Chi cks " books seem t o
make. That i s, THEY DON' T TELL YOU HOW TO HAVE THE CONFI DENCE AND POWER TO
ACTUALLY GO OUT AND USE ALL THEI R GREAT " SEDUCTI ON" SUGGESTI ONS.
Thi s i s a CRI TI CAL mi st ake. Gr eat advi ce does you no good at al l i f you can' t
act ual l y go out and APPLY i t . Al l i t r eal l y does i s make you f eel wor se, because
now you know what t o do but you STI LL can' t do i t . At l east when you wer e
i gnor ant you had an excuse.
A FI NAL WORD
Thr oughout t hi s book, I wi l l be l ayi ng down cer t ai n i deas t hat you woul d do wel l
t o memor i ze and use. I suggest you get some 3 x 5 i ndex car ds t o wr i t e t hese
i deas down so you can go over t hem as you need t o. There wi l l al so be exer ci ses
t o do. I t i s ESSENTI AL t hat you DO THE EXERCI SES. J ust r eadi ng t hem wi l l get you
nowher e.
Anyway, we wer e wander i ng ar ound t hi s huge apar t ment compl ex, l ooki ng f or t he
par t y. We wer e wal ki ng down a hal l way when we pass ed an open door , and t her e was
a part y goi ng on, but i t was def i ni t el y NOT t he part y we had been i nvi t ed t o.
Thi s was a f or mal af f ai r ; ever yone was ver y wel l dr ess ed, and my buddy and I
were bot h wear i ng j eans and scr uf f y t enni s shoes.
Thr ough t he door way I saw a st unni ng bl onde i n a l ow cut dr ess , sur r ounded by
guys t r yi ng t o hi t on her . My buddy saw her t oo, l ooked at me, and went r i ght
i nt o act i on. I saw hi m wal k i n t he door , cut t hr ough t he cr owd of guys, say
somet hi ng t o her t hat I coul dn' t hear , and hand her a car d and a pen. She wr ot e
somet hi ng down, and out came my buddy, smi l i ng ear t o ear . He had got t en her
phone number !
I asked hi m what he sai d, and he tol d me, "I j ust wal ked i n t her e, l ooked at
her, and sai d, `Excuse me. I saw you t hr ough t he door way, and unl i ke t hese
gent l emen her e, I don' t have t i me f or smal l t al k. I ' d l i ke t o t ake you out . Can
I have your home phone number ?'
Now, i t ' s not al ways necessar y t o be t hat di r ect . But i t i s necessar y t o gr asp
and use t he at t i t ude my buddy had, t he super - at t i t ude whi ch wi l l get you l ai d
mor e t han any l i ne, t r i ck, good l ooks, f ancy car or f or t une. The at t i t ude i s:
Do you r eal l y want t o get l ai d wi t h al l t he women you coul d ever possi bl y want ?
Then STOP MAKI NG EXCUSES FOR YOURSELF! Don' t make excuses f or want i ng t o l ook at
a beaut i f ul woman. I f you' r e caught l ooki ng, and she asks what you' r e doi ng,
t el l her ! ! Tel l her you' r e enj oyi ng st udyi ng j ust what a per f ect l y beaut i f ul
body she has, and t o heck wi t h her i f she' s t oo upt i ght t o appr eci at e a r eal man
who doesn' t apol ogi ze f or knowi ng what he want s!
Li st en! I t i sn' t even t he wor ds you use t hat convey thi s at t i t ude! I t ' s your
t one of voi ce, your f aci al expr essi ons, your post ur e, t he speed at whi ch you
speak, ever yt hi ng non- ver bal about you wi l l show t hi s at t i t ude f ar more t han
wor ds.
Thi s doesn' t mean you have t o be ar r ogant , or l ack a sense of humor . You can be
war m and f r i endl y at t he same t i me you ar e bei ng di r ect and powerf ul . The key i s
f i ndi ng t he bal ance. Once you do you wi l l not be abl e t o keep women away f r om
you.
Now, i t ' s easy to t al k and t el l you t hat you shoul d have t hi s att i t ude, but t hat
won' t hel p you to act ual l y get i t . That ' s why t he next coupl e of chapt er s are so
i mpor t ant . They wi l l show you how t o i nst al l t hi s at t i t ude i n your sel f so that
you aut omat i cal l y f i nd your sel f l i vi ng by i t i n your appr oach t o women. You
won' t even have t o t r y or t o "t hi nk about i t . " I t wi l l j ust happen.
Her e' s t he ot her at t i t ude/ bel i ef you' l l want t o mast er i f you r eal l y want t o be
a success at sc or i ng wi t h women l i ke a madman.
" When I f i r st st art ed out compet i ng i n Karat e Tour nament s, I wasn' t t hat good. I
got beat a l ot , but I al ways l ear ned f r om my mi st akes. I nst ead of cr yi ng over my
l osi ng, I j ust st udi ed what I woul d have t o do di f f er ent l y the next t i me, and
whenever I met t he same guy agai n or a di f f erent guy i n t he same si t uat i on, I
ALWAYS cr eamed ' em. "
Look - unl ess you ar e unusual l y l ucky, chances ar e you ar e goi ng t o make a f ew
mi st akes as you pr act i ce t he i deas i n thi s book. And, as great as t hese tr i cks
are, t hey won' t work ever y si ngl e t i me.
Unl ess you know how t o l ear n f r om your mi st akes and accept and occasi onal l oss,
you wi l l get nowhere. The most successf ul guys I know at scor i ng al l have t wo
gr eat st r engt hs: They have t he f i r st power at t i t ude we' ve j ust l ooked at , and
t hey al so know how t o accept get t i ng rej ect ed wi t hout i t bot her i ng t hem and t hey
l ear n f r om t hei r mi st akes.
Ok. As I pr omi sed, l et ' s get on t o t he next coupl e of chapt er s whi ch wi l l show
you how t o act ual l y l i ve t hese at t i t udes i nst ead of j ust r eadi ng about t hem.
Chapt er Two
HOW TO I NSTALL
THE SUPER GET LAI D ATTI TUDES I N YOURSELF
SO YOU USE THEM AUTOMATI CALLY
Ther e i s one smal l poi nt you have t o get bef or e you can use t hi s exer ci se. Take
a mi nut e t o i magi ne your sel f r i di ng i n a r ol l er coast er . See your sel f si t t i ng i n
t he f r ont car , r i di ng up and down.
Now, whi ch one of t hose f el t more r eal i n your body? I ' l l bet anyt hi ng i t was
t he second ki nd. An i mage or goal onl y appear s r eal t o your mi nd i f i t comes i n
t he second f or m, as i f you were seei ng i t t hr ough your own eyes.
You coul d i magi ne your sel f act i ng conf i dent and power f ul unt i l you ar e bl ue i n
t he f ace, but unl ess you gi ve your mi nd some cues as t o when i t i s goi ng t o t ap
i nt o t hose pi ct ur es you wi l l get NOWHERE. You wi l l never t ap i nt o al l t hose
gr eat r esour ces you' ve been i magi ni ng.
Ok. Now t hat we have made t hat cl ear , l et ' s get on t o t he exerc i se.
St ep One:
Recal l a t i me i n your past when you f el t conf i dent and powerf ul . A t i me wher e
you f ul l y f el t t he way you' d l i ke t o f eel ar ound women. Thi s can be anywher e and
about anyt hi ng - a gr eat gol f shot you made, or an "A" book r epor t you di d i n
school .
St ep Two:
St ep Thr ee:
St ep Fi ve:
St ep Si x:
As you do so, r each over wi t h your r i ght hand and squeeze your l ef t wr i st ,
t r i gger i ng your conf i dence anchor . Thi s wi l l t r ai n your mi nd t o aut omat i cal l y
cal l up t he f eel i ngs of conf i dence and power when you are i n a si t uat i on l i ke
t he one you ar e seei ng t hr ough your own eyes. You won' t even have t o t hi nk about
doi ng i t , whi ch i s t he advant age. ( And t hat ' s why anchor i ng wor ks wher e
"posi t i ve t hi nki ng" won' t , because of t en by t he t i me you get your sel f t hi nki ng
pos i t i vel y, i t ' s al r eady t oo l at e. )
Now, once you' ve done t hi s, I want you t o do i t agai n, but t hi s t i me I want you
t o pi ck di f f er ent ci r cumst ances wher e you' d l i ke t o use your "power att i t ude"
t hat we t al ked about i n t he f i r st chapt er . Make one a si t uat i on wher e you see a
beaut i f ul woman you' d l i ke t o t al k t o. Anot her coul d be maki ng a pass at a woman
back at your pl ace. Go through t he si t uat i on wi t h t he f i r st ki nd of pi ct ur e,
seei ng your sel f i n t he pi ct ur e. Then st ep i nt o t he pi ct ur e, and go t hr ough i t ,
f eel i ng what i t woul d f eel l i ke, l ooki ng t hr ough your own eyes. Do t he same
t hi ng f or t he second "l earni ng f r om your mi st akes" att i t ude. See your sel f maki ng
a mi st ake, f eel i ng ok about i t , and l ear ni ng what ever l esson you need so you can
do i t di f f er ent l y next t i me. Then st ep i nt o t he pi ct ur e and see i t t hr ough your
own eyes.
Chapt er Thr ee
A gr eat deal of success and power wi t h women has not hi ng t o do wi t h how you act
and f eel about t hem, but a l ot t o do wi t h how you act and f eel about your sel f .
What we' r e r eal l y t al ki ng about her e i s SELF- RESPECT.
Pl ent y of men who woul dn' t t ake a bi t of cr ap f r om anot her guy t ur n i nt o down
r i ght spi nel ess wi mps when i t comes t o women. Whet her t hey ar e r el i vi ng ol d
dr amas wi t h a mommy t hey coul dn' t pl ease as chi l dr en, or ar e scar ed f or some
ot her r eason, t hey put t he woman f i r st .
Ot her guys have a sl i ght l y di f f er ent pr obl em. They may not t ake any cr ap f r om a
woman, but get t i ng l ai d i s SO damn i mport ant t o t hem t hat t hey l ose si ght of
ot her pr i or i t i es. I n a sense i n l oses al l t he f un aspect s, and get s t o be a
compul si on.
I f t hat i s your pr obl em, t hen pul l your sel f up shor t f or a mi nut e, and ask
your sel f i f you mi ght be mi ssi ng some of t he ot her pl easur es l i f e has t o of f er .
You mi ght be shocked t o l ear n t hat a qui et eveni ng at home wi t h a good book can
act ual l y be mor e st i mul at i ng t han a bor i ng dat e wi t h a huge br east ed bi mbo wi t h
a r oom t emper at ur e I . Q.
So her e' s a hi nt f or i ncr easi ng your conf i dence wi t h women: STOP NEEDI NG THEM SO
MUCH! And a good way t o do t hat i s goi ng out and f i ndi ng a hobby t hat you can
r eal l y enj oy. Somet hi ng t hat get s you AWAY f r om women.
Not onl y wi l l t hi s i ncr ease your conf i dence as you are on t he pr owl , i t pr ovi des
a gr eat escape f or when t hat speci al l ady you are wi t h put s a bi t of st r ess and
st r ai n on your br ai n, as t hey so of t en wi l l .
Per sonal l y, I pref er Bi g Mout h Bass Fi shi ng. Most women hat e even t he t hought of
some i cky, sl i my f i sh f l oppi ng al l over t hem, and woul dn' t even consi der aski ng
t o go al ong wi t h you. And besi des, I enj oy cat chi ng somet hi ng wi t h a bi g mout h,
and bei ng abl e t o i nst ant l y thr ow i t away i f I f eel l i ke i t . Women ar e not so
easy.
Chapt er Four
Here i s a magi c wor d t hat wi l l br i ng you l oads of success wi t h women, and get
you l ai d l i ke cr azy. I t works wi t h al l women, but t he more beaut i f ul t he woman,
t he bet t er i t works. The word i s: NO!
That ' s r i ght . No! The same wor d t hat wi l l keep a puppy f r om wet t i ng t he car pet
wi l l al so keep a woman f r om shi t t i ng on you!
No mat t er how gor geous, or gr eat i n t he sack or how ot her wi se wonder f ul she may
be ( and who el se but such a goddess coul d possi bl y begi n t o deser ve t o be i n
YOUR company?) you must be wi l l i ng t o wal k away f r om her i f you can' t deal wi t h
her f r o m a pos i t i on of s el f - r e spec t .
And sel f - r espect , my f r i end, i s mostl y a mat t er of what you say no t o. I t ' s a
boundary set by what i s not permi t t ed, t ol er at ed or al l owed. And whi l e i t may be
negat i ve f r om t hi s semant i c sense, i n r eal i t y i t i s t he most power and posi t i ve
f or ce you have goi ng f or you. When a woman senses i t i n you, she knows s he' s
f ound somet hi ng she' s i nst i nct i vel y want ed si nce she r eal i zed she' s f emal e: A
MAN SHE COULD NEVER HOPE TO CONTROL.
I know t hi s i sn' t easy. I t hur t s, r eal l y hur t s t o have t o wal k away f r om someone
you r eal l y di g because she i sn' t t r eat i ng you r i ght . But l ove can of t en be l i ke
a st r eet f i ght , and r emember t he st r eet f i ght er ' s number one r ul e: I gnore t he
pai n and car r y out your of f ensi ve wi t h ever ythi ng you' ve got . I f you can pul l
t hi s of f , you wi l l wal k wi t h a conf i dence and power t hat women of al l ages wi l l
be abl e t o sense. And mor e i mpor t ant l y, you' l l l i ke t he guy who l i ves i nsi de
your ski n.
Chapt er Fi ve
Geor ge S. Pat t on J r . , t he hel l - f or - l eat her Gener al of Wor l d War I I f ame was once
asked what he t hought of hi s r i val , t he Br i t i sh Fi el d Mar shal l Mont gomer y.
Pat t on r epl i ed, "He' s t he best Gener al t he Br i t i sh have. But he' s more
i nt er est ed i n not l osi ng t han he i s i n wi nni ng. Unf ort unat el y f or many men,
t hat ' s t hei r at t i t ude t oward women. They wal k on egg- shel l s, caut i ous as can be,
hopi ng agai nst hope t hat t hey don' t make a mi st ake.
I f you want t o have DYNAMI C power wi t h women, begi n t o f ocus on what you want ,
and what you ar e goi ng t o do, not on what you mi ght l ose or what ' s goi ng t o
happen t o you i f you don' t wi n. Of cour se, gi ve t he ri sks a gl ance. But don' t
f ocus on t hem.
Focus on what you desi r e. What wi l l i t be l i ke when you' r e wi t h t hat woman you
want ? What wi l l you see? What wi l l you hear ? What wi l l you f eel i n your body?
These ar e t he ki nds of quest i ons t hat wi l l get you exci t ed about and ai med at
wi nni ng, i nst ead of cr i ngi ng at l osi ng. Even i f you know you have some
compet i t i on you' l l be abl e t o gi ve i t your best shot , because your maj or f ocus
wi l l be on your out come.
I n s hor t :
When I was i n col l ege, and st r uggl i ng j ust t o get a dat e, l et al one get l ai d
r i ght and l ef t , I knew one guy who ALWAYS had gr eat l ooki ng women ar ound hi m. He
seemed t o know pr act i cal l y ever y gi r l on campus, and t hey' d al ways come up t o
hi m and gi ve hi m hugs and ki sses. No, he was not a coke deal er or a pi mp. Of al l
t hi ngs, he was an evangel i st .
Now, I ' m cer t ai nl y not advocat i ng J esus Fr eaker y as t he way t o get your weeni e
wet . But you mi ght t ake a f ew l essons f r om t hi s guy, Chr i s. I ' d wat ch hi m go t o
wor k on women who wer e absol ut e st r anger s and wi t hi n a f ew mi nut es, t hey' d be
l aughi ng and punchi ng hi m pl ayf ul l y, somet i mes gi vi ng hi m hugs. I f i t wer en' t
f or t he Lor d, Chr i s woul d have been t he bi g st ud on campus.
And what was hi s s ecr et , a secr et I hope YOU use t o l aunch you on t he way t o
get t i ng l ai d l i ke a bandi t ? Hi s af f i ni t y and war mt h made women f eel ADORED. He
di dn' t come on al l hot and heavy, l i ke a hungr y wol f on t he pr owl . He came on
wi t h al l t he f r i endl i ness and f un at hi s di sposal - as i f t hese st r ange women
wer e l ong l ost f r i ends t hat he dear l y l oved.
And t hey bought i t ! Even t he chi cki est woman, who i s ver y upt i ght about bei ng a
sex obj ect , want s t o f eel l oved and speci al . And j ust by t he warmt h i n t he t one
of hi s voi ce and hi s smi l e he made t hese gi r l s f eel as i f t hey WERE l ong l ost
f r i ends .
Look at i t t hi s way: Even t he nast i est per son f i nds i t har d t o r eact f ear f ul l y
or angr i l y t o someone who makes t hem f eel l oved and appr eci at ed.
I suggest you make t hi s AS I F pr i nci pl e part of your bag of t r i cks. The next
t i me you appr oach a woman who i s maki ng you bur st out of your pant s wi t h l ust ,
t r y put t i ng asi de t he l ust and t ur ni ng on t he warmt h.
Conveyi ng warmt h and af f i ni t y i sn' t so t ough - j ust t hi nk of how you l ook and
sound when you see a ni ece or nephew, or even a pet t hat del i ght s you. No, I am
not suggest i ng baby t al k as a way of scori ng babes. I ' m t r yi ng t o gi ve you an
exampl e of wher e i t ' s nat ur al f or you t o behave t he way I ' d l i ke you t o t r y
behavi ng wi t h women.
The i mpor t ant pr i nci pl e t o appl y her e i s t hat THE MEANI NG OF YOUR COMMUNI CATI ON
I S THE RESPONSE I T GETS. I f you use a t one of voi ce or a f aci al expr essi on t hat
makes women f ear f ul or suspi ci ous, t hen no mat t er how cl ever your wor ds ar e, t he
message you convey t o her i s t hat she shoul d be af r ai d and suspi ci ous of you.
I f voi ce t one and physi ol ogy ( and agai n I don' t mean your appear ance per s e, but
r at her your post ur e and f aci al expr essi ons) are so cr uci al i n how women r eact t o
you, t hen what i s t he key t o pr oduci ng voi ce t one and physi ol ogy? Your bel i ef
and expect at i on about your out come.
I f you bel i eve you are goi ng t o get r ej ect ed t hen you are ei t her goi ng t o convey
f ear, and make her f earf ul or el se you are goi ng t o t r y t o beat her t o t he punch
and act so obnoxi ous t hat she r ej ect s you r i ght of f , so you don' t have t o wai t
t oo l ong i n suspense f or your negat i ve pr edi ct i on t o come t r ue. You j ust want t o
get i t over wi t h qui ckl y so you act ual l y pr oduce t he humi l i at i on t hat you
bel i eve you cannot avoi d.
By cont r ast , i f you act as i f you t r ul y wer e someone who ever yone l i ked and
r ecei ved war ml y, t hen t hat war mt h i s what your t one and physi ol ogy wi l l convey,
and t hat ' s t he response you wi l l get , ni ne ti mes out of t en. I ' m not sayi ng
you' l l get l ai d wi t h ever yone you appr oach, but sel dom wi l l you have a nast y
exper i ence ei t her . And any woman who doesn' t r espond posi t i vel y t o war mt h and
af f i ni t y i s ser i ousl y si ck and shoul d be avoi ded at al l cost s anyway.
PRACTI CE EXERCI SE: OK, I know t hi s one i s goi ng t o SEEM a l i t t l e si l l y, but i t ' s
goi ng t o hel p you get l ai d l i ke CRAZY, so j ust do i t !
St ep One:
Remember t he wor ds t o t he pl edge of al l egi ance. I n case you don' t her e t hey ar e:
( You may st and and put your hand over your hear t i f you so choose. )
St ep Two:
Pract i ce, out l oud, sayi ng t hese words wi t h al l t he warmt h and f r i endl i ness you
can must er .
St ep Thr ee:
Pr act i ce sayi ng t hem out l oud as i f you t hought t hey wer e the f unni est t hi ng i n
t he wor l d and you mi ght cr ack up l aughi ng at any moment .
OK, so you f eel a bi t si l l y pr act i ci ng ( and i f someone shoul d cat ch you t hey may
t hi nk you' ve j oi ned t he J ohn Bi r ch Soci et y) and i t seems wei r d. But j ust
r emember -
I asked hi m why he t ook so l ong on one sent ence and hi s answer st uck wi t h me:
I t ' s t hat f i r st sent ence t hat det er mi nes whet her t hey even read the r est of t he
ad!
The r est of t he r eader s coul d car e l ess . They ar e busy f l i ppi ng pages, t r yi ng t o
get t o t he comi cs sect i on or t he sport s page. They wi l l onl y st op i f somet hi ng
gr abs t hei r at t ent i on.
So i t i s wi t h t he aver age chi ck. I n a f ew l ucky si t uat i ons, your l ooks al one
wi l l snag her . But t he rest of t he t i me you won' t have much chance of sel l i ng
your pr oduct unl ess you gr ab her at t ent i on and gr ab i t f ast . ( I know, you want
t o gr ab somet hi ng el se, but t hat comes l at er . Ani mal . )
Bel ow are some of t he best ways t o gr ab a gi r l ' s at t ent i on. Keep t hem i n mi nd as
you r ead t he next f ew chapt ers .
Humor
Appeal i ng to her cur i osi t y
Put t i ng an unusual or unexpect ed t wi st on an ol d, cl i che pi ck- up
Rol e pl ayi ng
Faki ng l i ke you al r eady know her
Appeal i ng t o her ego
Showi ng out r ageous bal l s or gut s
Chapt er Ei ght
The next st ep af t er you' ve got her at t ent i on i s t o i nt r oduce your sel f and get
her name. I hope you ar e smar t enough t o do t hat wi t hout my advi ce.
Then you' ve got t o cr eat e t he i l l usi on of r appor t . For t hose of you who don' t
know what r apport means, t he di ct i onar y def i nes i t as: "Accor d, af f i ni t y,
r el at i ons mar ked by har mony. "
The t echni ques you use t o cr eat e r appor t wi l l var y accor di ng t o t he t ype of
pi ck- up you ar e usi ng. Of cour se, we' ve al r eady gone over t he pr oper way t o use
your t one of voi ce.
Her e ar e t wo ot her ver y sneaky and power f ul ways t o cr eat e r appor t wi t h a woman.
You shoul d use t hem when you' r e act ual l y on a dat e as wel l as when you f i r st
meet a woman. They t ake some pr act i ce t o mast er , but wor k qui t e wel l .
MI RRORI NG
Er i ckson coul d hypnot i ze anyone, even t he most r esi st ant pat i ent or cl i ent . One
of t he ways he di d t hi s was by mi r r or i ng t he br eat hi ng of t he pers on he was
hypnot i zi ng.
Now, I ' m goi ng t o pause f or a mi nut e so you can go t hr ough your " Bul l shi t "
r eact i on. But mi r r or i ng someone' s br eat hi ng i s a ver y power f ul way t o make t hem
unconsci ousl y f eel i n t une wi t h you. Er i ckson woul d wat ch t he r at e of hi s
cl i ent ' s breat hi ng and t hen begi n t o mat ch i t wi t h hi s own br eathi ng, or wi t h
t he pace of hi s speaki ng. Or he' d t ap hi s chest wi t h hi s hand i n t i me t o t he
per sons breat hi ng, and t hen begi n t o gr adual l y sl ow t he t appi ng. The per son' s
br eat hi ng woul d sl ow i n t i me t o t he t appi ng!
Mi r r or i ng wor ks because your unconsci ous pi cks up and i s awar e of t hi ngs your
consci ous mi nd has no knowl edge of . To convi nce your sel f t hat t hi s i s so, t r y
t hi s exper i ment :
Get a f r i end of your s and have t hem cl ose t hei r eyes. Ask t hem t o keep t hei r
eyes cl osed, and guess what you ar e doi ng.
St and i n f r ont of t hem, and begi n speaki ng. As you do so, sway your head f r om
si de t o si de.
Ask t hem what you ar e doi ng.
Of cour se, t hey wi l l be abl e t o t el l you you ar e movi ng your head back and
f ort h. Now, ask t hem how t hey knew t hey' l l t el l you t hey coul d hear t he
di f f erence i n how you sounded.
Now, t r y i t agai n, but t hi s t i me ask t hem t o keep t hei r eyes open. Ask i f t hey
can hear t he di f f er ence now, and of cour se t hey can' t ? Act ual l y, t hey CAN hear
t he di f f er ence, because t hey st i l l have t he same pai r of ear s - t hey j ust ar en' t
CONSCI OUSLY awar e of i t . But unconsci ousl y, you bet t hey ar e!
I n t he same way, i f you mi r r or a chi ck' s br eat hi ng, or her t one of voi ce, or
r at e of speaki ng, or even a par t i cul ar gest ur e she uses, on a consci ous l evel
she won' t not i ce. I f she does not i ce on a consci ous l evel , t hen you are bei ng
t oo obvi ous and she' s ei t her goi ng t o t hi nk you ar e a wei r do or ar e maki ng f un
of her , and nei t her of t hese wi l l scor e you poi nt s.
But i f you do i t subt l y, t hen al l she wi l l know i s t hat f or some odd r eason she
sur e seems t o f eel r i ght down comf ort abl e wi t h you, ol d buddy, as i f she' s l oved
you f or year s!
Chapt er Ni ne
You ar e about t o l ear n some ver y ef f ect i ve met hods f or meet i ng women. Whi l e al l
of t hem are ef f ect i ve, some of t hem mi ght not be r i ght f or you t o use i n an
over al l sense. I f , f or exampl e, you need t o work on bei ng more di r ect , t hen
usi ng some of t he t r i cki er met hods t hat r el y on get t i ng a woman' s at t ent i on vi a
some ki nd of pl oy mi ght hur t you i n t he l ong r un. Use your own best j udgment and
t r y to t hi nk l ong t er m.
Si ngl es Bar s
Even t hough I don' t par t i cul ar l y car e f or si ngl es bar s, I guess I am obl i gat ed
t o t el l you some ways t o wor k t hem. Her e ar e some t hi ngs t o keep i n mi nd i f you
want t o use si ngl es bar s t o pi ck up women:
Women i n si ngl es bar s ar e sor t of l i ke mot or cycl e cops. Mot or cycl e cops have
hear d ever y st or y i n t he book f r om peopl e t r yi ng t o tal k t hem out of t i cket s.
Women i n si ngl es bar s have hear d ever y st or y and l i ne ( i f t hey ar e hal f way
decent l ooki ng, t hat i s, and i f not , who car es?) t r yi ng t o t al k them out of
t hei r pant i es .
Si nce you ar e r unni ng agai nst t he odds, you ar e goi ng t o have t o go t hr ough some
number s bef or e you get a pi ck- up. Unl ess you ar e a movi e st ar or l ook l i ke a
Gr eek God, f i gur e about 10 "no' s" ( woul d you bel i eve, "f uck of f ") f or ever y yes,
i f you ar e l ucky. So pi ck an appr oach you enj oy doi ng, si nce you are goi ng t o
have to use i t a l ot . Per sonal l y, I pr ef er a f unny appr oach, because I l i ke
get t i ng a l augh, enj oy a woman wi t h a sense of humor , and gener al l y have f un
wi t h t hi s angl e of at t ack.
Si nce most bar s ar e so l oud, what wi t h hundr eds of peopl e t al ki ng at once, and
mor e of t en t han not , musi c bl ast i ng as wel l , BRI NG A PEN AND SMALL NOTE PAD! ! !
Thi s wi l l save your voi ce and al l ow you t o communi cat e!
Keep movi ng, and don' t l et a l ess t han opt i mum r esponse st op you. Thi s i s a
number s game, and i f a part i cul ar gi r l i sn' t gi vi ng you t he r esponse you l i ke,
cut bai t and move on t o gr eener past ur es.
OK. Her e i s my f avori t e si ngl es bar met hod. I t i nvol ves usi ng a not e pad and
pen. What I do i s pi ck out a gi r l t hat i nt er est s me, scri bbl e t hi s not e, and
hand i t t o her :
"Hi , " I ' m t aki ng a sur vey on bad l i nes. Ci r cl e whi ch one you t hi nk i s t he wor st .
"3. `Hi . I ' m t aki ng a sur vey on bad l i nes. ' "
Thi s al most al ways get s a l augh. When i t doesn' t , I j ust wal k away, because i f
t he chi ck can' t t ake a j oke, t hen t o heck wi t h her . But , as I sai d, t hi s i s a
f un, enj oyabl e appr oach f or me, i t ' s uni que and di f f er ent , and i t ' s a good
opener.
Ther e ar e l ot s of var i at i ons on t he basi c not e pad and pen appr oach. You coul d
pr et end you ar e wr i t i ng a book f or men and want t o sur vey women on t he best ways
t o meet t hem i n bars . But t hi s appr oach mi ght arouse some suspi ci on, and I ki nd
of t hi nk i t ' s mor e common t han you' d bel i eve.
Happy Hour s
Your l ocal r est aur ant or bar ' s happy hour i s a gr eat pl ace t o meet women. They
go t here t o r el ax and unwi nd af t er wor k, and t hat means al cohol consumpt i on, and
pl ent y of i t . So, you al r eady have one st r i ke i n your f avor , because t hei r
i nhi bi t i ons ar e goi ng t o be a l ot l ess t han nor mal .
The " t aki ng a sur vey met hod" wor ks bet t er i n t hi s set t i ng t han i n a si ngl es bar ,
as women ar e, as I sai d, l ess suspi ci ous. You' r e pr obabl y bet t er of f sayi ng t hat
you ar e wr i t i ng a book f or men and you ar e wor ki ng on a chapt er on bad l i nes.
Ask t he women you meet t o t el l you t he wor st pi ck- up l i nes t hey' ve ever hear d.
They' l l be mor e t han happy t o t el l you- one of t he t hi ngs women do most when
t hey get t oget her f or dri nks i s t o chi ck about men, so you' l l pr obabl y be r i ght
on subj ect ! Thi s i s a f un appr oach, t hat adds some humor t o t he st al e "best ways
t o meet women sur vey" appr oach. You' l l meet l ot s of women, and some of t hem ar e
bound t o go f or you, out of sheer number s al one. Who knows, you mi ght f i nd out
t hat some of your f avori t e l i nes ar e act ual l y t he ones women t hi nk of as bei ng
t he wor st ! That al one woul d make i t wor t h your whi l e!
Wai t r esses
One of t he t hi ngs I not i ced when I was f i r st t r yi ng out si ngl es bars and happy
hour st r at egi es was t hat t he wai t r esses were al most al ways bet t er l ooki ng t han
any of t he f emal e cust omer s! Take a good l ook next t i me you go t o t hese pl aces
and you wi l l see t hat I am r i ght .
I l ove pi cki ng up wai t r esses. Ther e i s f ar l ess pr essur e, t hey have t o tal k t o
you, and you can t ake your t i me. Unl i ke a gi r l you meet i n a bar , who you wi l l
mor e t han l i kel y never see agai n unl ess you get a dat e, you can pr et t y much know
wher e and when t he wai t r ess of your dr eams wi l l be.
I shoul d poi nt out t hat wi t h wai t r esses, as wel l as sal es cl er ks, and ot her
" wor ki ng women" you have t o deci de on a one st ep or t wo st ep appr oach. By t hat ,
I mean t hat i f t hi ngs seem t o be goi ng r eal l y good on your f i r st meet i ng, you
can ask her out r i ght on t he spot . I f not , you can t r y t o bui l d more r apport on
l at er vi si t s, bef or e you hi t her f or t he dat e or phone number .
As wi t h any pi ck- up, key f i r st st ep i s t o get your t ar get s att ent i on. Her e ar e
t hr ee good ways t o do t hat :
1. The cl ever l i ne appr oach. Here' s a l i ne t hat I ' ve used t i me and agai n. God
must have whi sper ed i t i n my ear, t he f i r st t i me I used i t . I t works when you
ar e i n a si ngl es bar or other bar or r est aur ant t hat has l ot s of f emal e
cust omer s, and your t ar get i s busy ser vi ng dr i nks. J ust l ook at her and say,
" I j ust want ed you t o know t hat ni net y- ni ne per cent of t he women who wal k i n
t hat door woul d ki l l t hei r own mot hers t o l ook hal f as good as you do. "
Thi s i s pr obabl y t he most ef f ect i ve l i ne you wi l l ever use. I t ' s one t hi ng f or a
beaut i f ul woman t o hear t hat a man t hi nks she' s good l ooki ng, but i t i sn' t
r eal l y t hat bi g a deal t o her . Af t er al l , she al r eady knows i t i s t r ue, and may
even be t i r ed of hear i ng i t .
But , women bei ng such cat - l i ke cr eat ures, not hi ng pl eases t hem mor e t han t o know
t hat t hey ar e SO beaut i f ul t hat ot her women hat e t hem f or i t and are i nsanel y
j eal ous! Even t he most j aded, har d- ass ed woman woul d l ove t o bel i eve t hi s i s
true!
2. The di r ect appr oach. Her e, you ar e di r ect , but you al so acknowl edge t he
r eal i t y t hat you are a st r anger t o her , and t hat you r espect her need t o earn
her l i vi ng wi t hout bei ng har assed by pi ck- up art i st s. Wal k up to her and say,
" I don' t mean t o i nt er r upt you whi l e you are worki ng, but I j ust want ed you t o
know t hat I t hi nk you' r e one of t he most at t r act i ve women I ' ve ever s een, and
I ' m r eal l y gl ad I worked up t he cour age t o i nt r oduce mysel f t o you. "
Tel l her your name, ask her her s, and t hen l et her get back t o wor k. Chances
ar e, she' l l be so i mpr essed, she' l l come over t o t al k to you. Thi s l i ne i s ver y
f l at t er i ng, and what r eal l y makes i t wor k i s t he l ast bi t about "wor ki ng up t he
cour age t o meet you. " I t i mpl i es t hat she' s so beaut i f ul t hat you j ust had t o
over come al l t hat shyness j ust so you coul d get a chance t o meet her . Women eat
t hi s l i ne l i ke candy and i t wi l l get you l ai d by wai t r esses, sal esgi r l s and t he
l i ke wi t h st ar t l i ng f r equency.
My r oommat e br ought about a hundr ed of t hem home, and as I was goi ng t hr ough
t hem, sl obber i ng al l over mysel f , i t suddenl y occur r ed to me t hat :
Most of t hese gi r l s wer e pr obabl y worki ng as wai t r esses t o support t hemsel ves.
What bet t er way t o get f avorabl e at t ent i on f r om some cut i e pi e wai t r ess t han t o
wal k i nt o a bar or r est aur ant wi t h t hese and j ust st art goi ng t hr ough t hem.
So, t hat ' s what I di d. And sur e enough, bef or e l ong, a ver y gor geous young f ood
and dr i nk ser vi ce t echni ci an ( bur eaucr at ese f or wai t r ess) came by t o see what I
was doi ng. I t ol d her t hat my si st er r an a company t hat makes movi es f or TV
( whi ch happens t o be t he t r ut h, but don' t wor r y i f you don' t have a si st er t hat
does t hat , you can t al k about my si st er i f you f eel gui l t y) and t hat she want ed
me t o go t hr ough t hese pi ct ur es and sel ect t he ones I t hought wer e t he most
at t r act i ve. Nat ur al l y, t hi s sweet i e pi e was an aspi r i ng f ut ur e Oscar wi nner , and
asked i f she coul d get a r esume t o me. I sai d i t woul d have t o be f ast , as my
si st er want ed t o know by t omor r ow. Of cour se, she i nvi t ed me t o come back t o her
pl ace af t er wor k to get t he pi ct ur e, and wel l , we had a f ew dr i nks and. . . . . . . .
The key t o t hi s met hod i s not t o make i t seem l i ke you ar e bl ackmai l i ng her .
Tel l her you woul d be happy t o submi t her pi ct ur e and r esume t o t he r i ght
pers on. Af t er you have agreed t o t hat , THEN ask her out . The t hreat of you not
doi ng i t i f she doesn' t accept hasn' t been made, and ni ce guy t hat you ar e, you
woul dn' t even t hi nk of i mpl yi ng i t . But she mi ght be af r ai d of l osi ng your good
wi l l , and so wi l l accept . Tr y t o get her t o go out wi t h you on t he spot .
Now, some of you may be wonderi ng, " Wel l , i t sounds gr eat . But what i f I don' t
have a r oommat e who happens t o wor k f or an aer ospace r esear ch company t hat
happens t o be i n t he same of f i ce t hat used t o be used by a t al ent agency?"
Good quest i on. What you do i s put a si mpl e ad i n your l ocal paper al ong t hese
l i nes:
" Model s want ed! Al l expenses pai d, pl us $500. 00 phot o shoot i n Tahi t i ! Send 8 x
10 t o: Your Name Pr oduct i ons, Your Addr ess. "
One of t he t oughest pl aces t o pi ck- up women i s r i ght on t he st r eet , and t hat ' s
why I l ove i t ; i t ' s a r e al c hal l enge.
Of cour se, one of t he easy ways out i s t he ol d " t aki ng a sur vey" met hod, but
t hat i sn' t near l y as much f un as usi ng l i nes.
The absol ut e key t o st r eet pi ck- ups i s t o be ver y upbeat , happy, war m and
f r i endl y. Do NOT come on heavy on t he st r eet . Women ar e nat ur al l y ( and j ust l y)
caut i ous i n t he bi g ci t y.
Her e' s a gr eat st r eet pi ck- up f or you t hat wi l l al so wor k i n a super market . I
cal l i t t he compl i ment st r i ng.
Pi ck out your t arget , t hen wal k al ongsi de her . Fi nd one t hi ng about her you can
genui nel y compl i ment , t hen say:
Then what you do i s pause, sor t of l ook at her si deways f or a moment , and say
wi t h as much char m and good humor as you can:
" You know, I can t el l you' r e woman wi t h f ant ast i c good t ast e. And you know how I
know t hat ?"
She' l l l augh agai n. Then you hi t her wi t h anot her l augh l i ne.
"Do you bel i eve i n i r r at i onal and sel f - def eat i ng i nf at uat i on at f i r st si ght ?"
She' l l l augh agai n. I f she says yes, t hen you shoul d j oki ngl y l ook heavenward
and say,
" Thank you, God. Woul d you l i ke t o get a cup of cof f ee?" I f she says no ( t o t he
i nf at uat i on quest i on, not your cof f ee i nvi t at i on) , you say,
"Gr eat . Then I ' m not bei ng i r r at i onal i f I ask you t o have a cup of cof f ee ( or
some f r ozen yogur t , or what ever i s near by and conveni ent ) .
What ever t he response, you want t o t r y t o i nvi t e her t o do somet hi ng wi t h you,
i n a publ i c pl ace, r i ght t hen and t her e.
I f she says she' d l i ke t o, but i s i n a hur r y t o get somewher e, ask her out f or
t hat eveni ng, i f i t i s at al l f easi bl e. Say somet hi ng l i ke "I ' d be ver y
f l at t er ed i f you' d have di nner wi t h me t oni ght . " Be di r ect , but char mi ng at t he
same t i me, and don' t back down! Your ver y di r ect ness i s par t of what makes you
appeal i ng, and when you combi ne i t wi t h char m, a smi l e, and t he abi l i t y t o make
her l augh, you ar e real l y goi ng to hi t her har d. And that bi t about bei ng
"f l at t er ed. " Wel l , f or some r eason I can' t f i gur e, t hat wor ks ver y wel l . Make
sur e you add t hat i n. I t ' s l i ke you' r e sayi ng t hat t he ni cest compl i ment about
your sel f woul d be t o be seen i n publ i c wi t h her .
Thi s appr oach wi l l al so wor k wel l i n a super mar ket . I t ' s uni que, di f f er ent ,
f unny, di r ect , and f un and r omant i c f or you and her . I di scover ed anot her gr eat
super mar ket pi ck- up tot al l y by acci dent . I was suf f er i ng thr ough anot her at t ack
of hay- f ever dur i ng al l er gy season, so I went t o the l ocal Osco dr ug st or e t o
get somet hi ng f or i t . As I was wal ki ng al ong I spi ed an i ncr edi bl e honey weari ng
ver y t i ght j eans and an equal l y t i ght T- shi r t . As I wal ked by her , I had t o
sneeze, but t he sneeze woul dn' t come out , so I paused r i ght next t o her as I
st r uggl ed t o sneeze. I not i ced her l ooki ng at me, and i nst ant l y my magni f i cent l y
sl eazy br ai n phoni ed up a scam.
Then I hi t her wi t h t he ot her l i nes you' ve al r eady seen. Unf or t unat el y, she was
mar r i ed. Oh wel l . But I ' ve used t he l i ne on ot her occasi ons wi t h success. I t ' s a
number s game, good buddy, a number s game. But you' l l f i nd t hi s " sneeze" l i ne
wor ks wel l i n j ust about any publ i c " non- pi ck- up" set t i ng, such as t he beach,
par ks, et c. Tr y i t , and you' l l see i t ' s nothi ng t o sneeze at . Ha ha ha ha ha ha
ha. That ' s what ' s cal l ed an aut hor ' s r i ght t o abuse hi s r eader s.
Once I was i n bar ber s hop, get t i ng my hai r cut , and an i ncr edi bl y sexy l ady was
wai t i ng her t ur n. She was weari ng a ski r t t hat was so short t hat you coul d
easi l y see her j ui cy t hi ghs. Her l egs wer e scr eami ng out t o be mi ne, but what
coul d I do? Al t hough I was busy chat t i ng wi t h her i n f r ont of t he barber and t he
ot her peopl e wai t i ng t hei r t ur n, I coul dn' t gr aci ousl y ask her out r i ght t her e
i n f r ont of ever yone, coul d I ?
I st art ed r evi ewi ng my ot her opt i ons. I coul d hang around af t er my hai r cut , and
wai t f or her t o f i ni sh, and t hen hi t her as she was comi ng out t he door , but
t hat woul d be l ame, and ki nd of scary f or her .
Somehow t hi s ki nd of " ment al di st anci ng" mysel f f r om a si t uat i on al ways hel ps.
Sur e enough, t he r i ght wor ds came t o mi nd.
I sai d t o my t arget , "Let ' s see. You' r e a knock- out i n the l ooks depar t ment , you
have t he gr eat t ast e t o l augh at al l my j okes, and you' r e al so ver y sweet . And
l i f e i s so unf ai r t hat i t ' s got t o be t he case t hat you' r e ei t her mar r i ed or
have a boyf r i end, or bot h. "
Thi s got a l augh f r om ever yone pr esent , most i mpor t ant l y her . " Act ual l y, I
don' t , " she sai d.
" Thank you, God" , I sai d, l ooki ng heavenwar d, hol di ng my hands t oget her i n mock
pr ayer . Anot her l augh f r om al l assembl ed. Then I l ooked at her , smi l ed, paused,
t hen sai d, "I ' d be ver y f l at t er ed i f you' d have di nner wi t h me t oni ght . " She
sai d, " I ' d l ove t o. " We set t he t i me, and she gave me her addr ess on a pi ece of
paper and i t was one of t he most enj oyabl e and r omant i c eveni ngs I ' d ever had.
And her l egs f el t as good as t hey l ooked.
Then have a buddy del i ver i t on or bef or e her shi f t . I f you can' t get a buddy t o
do i t , t r y t o t al k a passer by i nt o doi ng i t . Peopl e usual l y enj oy hel pi ng out
when i t i s a mat t er of l ove. Cor ny, ai n' t i t ?
Wai t a f ew days, bef ore you go f or t he pi ece de resi st ance. Go t o your l ocal T-
shi r t st ore, and have t hem make up a T- shi r t . I t shoul d say, " I AM YOUR SECRET
ADMI RER. " Put t hi s shi r t on under a but t on up shi r t or j acket , and t hen wal k i n
on your honey pi e' s shi f t . Wal t z up t o her , t ap her on t he shoul der , and open
your s hi r t or j ac ket .
Now, t hat wi l l make an i mpr essi on. You wer e cl ever , di f f er ent , uni que, and went
t o al l t hat t r oubl e j ust f or her . ( Never mi nd t hat you onl y have t o pay f or t he
shi r t once, but can use i t over and over agai n. J ust make sur e i t st ays cl ean,
so i t doesn' t l ook used - t hat wi l l r eal l y bl ow i t f or you! ) Af t er she get s
t hr ough huggi ng you, or even ki ssi ng you, t el l her you' d l i ke t o see her , and
you' r e wi l l i ng t o go t o some ef f ort t o do i t , and t hen some. Then ask her out .
I f she' s got any smar t s and hear t at al l , she' l l go f or i t . Thi s i s a gr eat , f un
met hod, and i t r eal l y works l i ke a charm!
By t he way, i f you don' t have a l ocal T- shi r t shop, and want t o t r y t hi s, you
can or der a shi r t f r om me. Speci f y Smal l , Medi um, Lar ge, or X- t r a l ar ge, and
whet her you want t he gi r l ' s name put on t he shi r t , so t hat she knows f or s ur e
you di d i t speci al l y f or her , or whet her you want t he pl ai n, " I AM YOUR SECRET
ADMI RER" message. I t ' s t went y bucks, t o t he same addr ess and same name you sent
your or i gi nal payment f or t hi s book.
Chapt er Ten
Women ar e not al ways sweet and f r i endl y, dyi ng t o meet you, and eager t o f ul f i l l
your ever y desi r e as a man. At t i mes t hey can be downr i ght nast y.
Who says you have t o put up wi t h i t , f el l as? Her e ar e some wi cked r epl i es t o her
bi t chy put downs, t o l et her know j ust who' s i n charge!
YOU: One of t hese days you ar e goi ng t o see a man acr oss a r oom and you' r e goi ng
t o want t o meet hi m but i t ' s not goi ng t o happen because he' s goi ng t o
i nt ui t i vel y pi ck up on your i ncredi bl e capaci t y f or r ude behavi or .
Al t er nat i ve One:
Al t er nat i ve Two:
YOU: ( Gazi ng at her upper l i p) Gee. I t ' s amazi ng what t hey can do wi t h
el ectr ol ysi s t hese days.
Al t er nat i ve Four :
YOU: ( pul l out a t ampon whi ch you shoul d car r y f or j ust t hi s pur pose) Her e. I t ' s
got t a be t hat t i me of t he mont h!
Al t er nat i ve Fi ve:
YOU: I ' m a l onel y per son t r yi ng t o over come my shyness and you' ve j ust sl ammed
me back i nt o my shel l f or mont hs. I hope you' r e happy.
Al t er nat i ve Si x:
Here' s how t o use t he per sonal s t o get hundr eds and hundr eds of r esponses f r om
j ust ONE ad! I got over FI VE HUNDRED r esponses t he f i r st t i me I t r i ed i t - you
mi ght do even bet t er .
Fi r st , DON' T PLACE A PERSONAL AD! Now, I know I seem l i ke I ' m cont r adi ct i ng
mysel f her e, but pl ease bear wi t h me, because I ' m not ! I f you pl ace a per sonal
ad j ust l i ke ever y ot her guy on the si ngl es page of your l ocal paper , you ar en' t
goi ng t o at t r act t he at t ent i on t hat you need! Remember , ATTRACTI NG ATTENTI ON I S
THE KEY TO MEETI NG WOMEN!
I nst ead, pl ace a smal l cl assi f i ed ad on t he si ngl es page of your l ocal paper or
magazi ne. Keep i t ver y si mpl e and don' t bot her wi t h ar t wor k or f ancy t r i mmi ngs.
The paper may do t he l ayout f or you f or a nomi nal f ee - i f not , a gr aphi c ar t i st
can do i t . I f you r eal l y want t o go cheap, hi r e a ar t st udent f r om your l ocal
c ol l ege.
For absol ut el y f r ee i nf ormat i on send sel f - addr essed st amped envel ope t o:
You ar e hal f - way home now. I nst ead of a f ew cr ummy r esponses t o a per sonal , you
ar e goi ng t o get HUNDREDS and HUNDREDS of women wr i t i ng! Run t he ad t wo or t hr ee
t i mes, t o convi nce t he skept i cs.
" I have some SHOCKI NG news f or you. You may be j ust DAYS away f r om meet i ng THE
LOVE OF YOUR LI FE.
" I have even MORE shocki ng news f or you. You won' t have t o spend mor e t han 50
cent s t o meet hi m, and i t shoul dn' t t ake mor e t han TEN MI NUTES of your t i me. "
I have STI LL MORE shocki ng news f or you. Even i f t hi s shoul d happen f or you, I
wi l l st i l l owe you a GREAT, BI G, FAT APOLOGY.
"Thi s i s NOT a pi t ch f or a ' sel f - hel p' book. Thi s i s NOT a pi t ch f or a ' dat i ng
ser vi ce' or one of t hose di sgust i ng ' 976' number s. I t ' s not even a pi t ch f or a
semi nar , an i r r esi st i bl e l ove pot i on, or a psychi c ast r ol ogi cal - past l i f e l ove
c har t .
"So j ust what t he heck I S t hi s a pi t ch f or t hen?
" My name i s ( your name) and I ' ve gone t o t he absur d ext r eme of pul l i ng a cr azy
st unt l i ke t hi s because I ver y much want t o meet a VERY SPECI AL l ady t o l ove and
enj oy and r espect . Who knows? Maybe YOU ar e her .
" I KNOW you are out t her e, somewher e. But I ' ve r ecent l y real i zed t hat I woul d
have t o do somet hi ng DRASTI C t o get your at t ent i on, whi l e weedi ng out al l t he
CRAZI ES, LOSERS, and DUM- DUMS who ar e keepi ng us f r om meet i ng each ot her .
"I hope t hat l ast sent ence doesn' t seem over l y negat i ve, but I t hi nk i t ' s a
pr et t y accurat e descr i pt i on of t he si ngl es scene, f or bot h men AND women. "
But I di gr es s . . . .
OK, you get t he poi nt . Then go on t o descr i be your good and bad poi nt s, what you
DON' T want i n a woman, and what you do want . Fi nal l y, ask t hem t o send a l et t er
and a r ecent f ul l l engt h phot o. I f you l i ke what you see, ar r ange f or a meet i ng.
BI RDOGGI NG -
How To Get A Gi r l When She' s Wi t h Anot her Guy
( Or When You' r e Wi t h Anot her Gi r l )
And t hen. . . i n she wal ks. A st unni ng r aven hai r ed beaut y, i n t i ght r eveal i ng r ed
dr ess, her per t br east s st r ai ni ng agai nst t he thi n, cl i ngi ng mat er i al , ni ppl es
j ut t i ng, pout i ng bl ow j ob l i ps par t ed ever so i nvi t i ngl y. But you not i ce, t o
your chagr i n, t hat she' s wi t h anot her guy.
As you f l i t about t he r oom, make casual eye cont act wi t h t he gi r l . Try t o see
f r om her r esponse i f she' s i nt er est ed. I f you can' t t el l , MOVE I N ANYWAY. Thi s
i s a saf e met hod - he won' t get a chance t o punch you out . I nt r oduce yours el f ,
TO THE GUY. Be as ni ce and f r i endl y as you can, and above al l KEEP BRI NGI NG THEM
BOTH DRI NKS. The nast i er he shoul d get , t he ni cer you shoul d be. Thi s i ncr eases
your st at ur e i n her eyes, and decr eases hi s. At some poi nt , Br ui ser Boy i s goi ng
t o have t o go pee. That ' s when you make your move. Don' t dawdl e, f or t i me i s of
t he essence. Move i n and pi t ch f or t he phone number. Then get out of t here f ast ,
bef ore he comes back! I deal l y, your bi r d- dog pi t ches shoul d be t he f i nal ones of
t he eveni ng as you don' t want t o be ar ound i f she snubs you and t hen deci des t o
t el l hi m. Ther e ar e some si cko women who enj oy maki ng t hei r boyf r i ends angr y and
j eal ous. Don' t wai t t o see i f she' s one of t hem.
Thi s i s gener al l y a good par t y appr oach anyway ever yone has t o go event ual l y,
and you get a gr eat chance t o see what ' s t her e i n t he r oom. Wai t t i l l ei t her
your dr eamgi r l or her beau has t o go, and pounce t hen and t her e. One t hi ng you
shoul d keep i n mi nd - j ust because a gi r l i s wi t h a guy doesn' t mean she' s
REALLY wi t h t he guy. He coul d be her br ot her , or cousi n, or r oommat e. I f he' s
r eal l y unl ucky, he' s someone wi t h whom she' s " j ust f r i ends, " whi ch, bei ng
t r ansl at ed f r om womanese means, " he t akes me ever ywher e and pays f or ever yt hi ng,
but i f he t r i es t o put a f i nger on me he' l l never see me agai n. " Br ut al , ar en' t
t hey?
Chapt er Thi r t een
OK, l et ' s s ay you' ve managed t o pi ck- up a mor e t han passabl e bi mbo. Wher e do you
go f r om t her e?
Basi cal l y, t her e are t wo school s of t hought . One school suggest s get t i ng her
home phone number , wai t i ng a f ew days t o a week, and t hen cal l i ng her f or a
dat e.
The ot her advocat es t r yi ng t o get her t o go out wi t h you r i ght t hen and t her e,
t he sooner t he bet t er. I f you can' t get a dat e wi t h her t hat eveni ng, you make a
dat e f or anot her t i me, r i ght on t he spot .
I ' ve had bot h met hods wor k f or me, and t hei r ar e cer t ai nl y advant ages t o each.
Per sonal l y I pr ef er t he on t he spot dat e met hod. Her e' s why.
Lot s of gi r l s who have not hi ng ot her wi se pl anned wi l l go out wi t h you t hat ni ght
i f you make t he pi t ch exci t i ng enough. True, you' d pr obabl y l i ke t o be wi t h a
woman who has mor e i nt er est i n you, but t hen agai n we' r e goi ng t o show you
t echni ques t o make one of t hese "got not hi ng bet t er t o do" gi r l s eager t o sack
wi t h you r egar dl ess of t hei r or i gi nal i nt ent i ons.
Al so, t here i s somet hi ng ver y exci t i ng about goi ng out wi t h a st r anger t hat you
j ust met . I t ' s an ai r of " anyt hi ng coul d happen" t hat st r ongl y hel ps t o al t er a
gi r l s mood and make her s uscept i bl e t o doi ng t hi ngs she nor mal l y woul dn' t .
By way of cont r ast i f you get her home number, and wai t sever al days t o cal l ,
odds ar e t hat t he l ess i nt er est ed gi r l i s not goi ng t o be wi l l i ng t o squeeze you
i n t o her schedul e. And you' ve l ost t he ori gi nal exci t ement of meet i ng a
st r anger . So i t ' s up t o you. I f you l i ke t he sel l i ng chal l enge, or j ust t he
adr enal i ne r ush of spont aneousl y maki ng a dat e on t he spot , do i t . I f you pr ef er
t o f i ght by a set pl an, go wi t h t he phone number r out e.
Ei t her way, t he next t wo chapt ers wi l l show you t he wi nni ng t echni ques t o pul l
i t of f . . . . .
Chapt er Four t een
I f you' ve ever asked a woman f or her phone number , you' ve pr obabl y not i ced an
i nt er est i ng phenomena - ver y f ew of t hem say "no" di r ect l y. I nst ead, t hey say
ever yt hi ng BUT " yes. "
How do you communi cat e, chi ck? Smoke si gnal s? ?? " Why don' t you gi ve me your
number ?"
Ri ght . And as soon as your back i s t ur ned, t hat car d wi t h your number on i t wi l l
be shr edded so f ast t he CI A woul d envy t he chi ck' s abi l i t y t o dest r oy document s.
DON' T BUY I T! I f a woman t r i es t hi s sl i ck t r i ck on you, j ust nod your head,
smi l e, and wal k of f , l eavi ng her secur e i n t he knowl edge t hat she met a man t oo
smar t f or her t o bamboozl e. "Sur e. I t ' s 555- 1212. "
My poi nt i s t hi s - i f you get anyt hi ng but her i mmedi at e posi t i ve r esponse when
you ask f or her number , you ar e i n bi g t r oubl e, par t ner . Gi vi ng out t he home
phone number i s a maj or st ep i nt o her pr i vacy, and she usual l y ai n' t about t o do
i t unl ess she di gs you on SOME l evel .
I f you do get t he number, get l ost as soon as you can. Ther e' s no poi nt hangi ng
ar ound af t er you' ve cl osed t he sal e. Leave her wonder i ng about you and get t he
hel l out of t her e bef or e you do or say somet hi ng t o make her change her mi nd.
How l ong shoul d you wai t bef or e you cal l ? That depends. I f you sense her
i nt er est i n you was pr et t y hi gh, i t ' s saf e t o wai t 5 t o 7 days. She' l l be
wonder i ng what happened and why you haven' t cal l ed, and t hat wi l l make you
appear mor e CHALLENGI NG and t her ef or e mor e at t r act i ve i n her eyes.
I f you sense she wasn' t t hat i nt er est ed, wai t t wo days and then cal l .
Tr y t o must er up al l t he cheer f ul ness and f un you can when you make your cal l t o
pi t ch t he dat e. You want t o sound car ef r ee, f un, and exci t ed about t he absol ut e
bl ast t he t wo of you are goi ng t o have t oget her . Tal k t o her i n t he t one of
voi ce you' d use f or an ol d f r i end who you enj oy bei ng wi t h.
The key poi nt i s t o ask her out FOR A SPECI FI C NI GHT. Don' t say, " Woul d you l i ke
t o get t oget her t hi s week?" or " What ni ght are you f r ee?" That ' s a weak pi t ch.
You want t o come on st r onger t han t hat .
Tr y " Let ' s have di nner Wednesday ni ght , ei ght o' cl ock. Then we can go danci ng. "
Then SHUT YOUR MOUTH AND DO NOT SAY A WORD! ! ! ! !
That br i ef moment of si l ence i s t he aci d t est . I f you hear a l ong hesi t at i on
bef ore she answer s, or excuses, or anythi ng but , "Sur e, I ' d l ove t o, " you' ve got
a pr obl em on your hands.
I f a woman r eal l y does want t o see you, but has s omet hi ng t o do on t he ni ght
you' ve asked her t o be wi t h you, and j ust can' t cancel t hose pl ans, what wi l l
her r esponse be? SHE' LL MAKE A COUNTER- OFFER. Somet hi ng on t he l i nes of , " I
can' t Wednesday, but how about Thur sday at 8 o' cl ock?"
Don' t conf use a count er - of f er wi t h an " I ' m busy, but how about anot her t i me?"
That ' s a st one col d REJ ECTI ON. I f she r eal l y want ed t o go out wi t h you anot her
t i me, she' d t el l you when t hat t i me i s. Take i t f r om someone who used t o f al l
f or t hi s one al l t he t i me - i t wi l l do not hi ng but gener at e usel ess, t i me-
wast i ng wi shf ul t hi nki ng on your par t . Ei t her you get t he dat e, or a speci f i c
count er - of f er , or you FORGET I T!
One f i nal war ni ng her e, because women ar e even t r i cki er t han you can i magi ne.
Of t en t i mes you' l l make your pi t ch f or a speci f i c ni ght t o go out ; say a
Wednesday. And you' l l hear , "That ' s sounds l i ke f un. Sur e I ' l l go. "
DON' T GET SUCKERED BY THI S TRI CK! You haven' t got a dat e i n t hi s i nst ance, you
have an opt i on f or a dat e, whi ch i s about as val uabl e as an I OU f r om one of my
gambl i ng buddi es who l i ve at t he r ace t r ack. The chi ck i s wai t i ng t o hear f r om
t he guy she' s REALLY i nt erest ed i n, and i f he' s not avai l abl e, t hen you may get
t he dat e.
That wi l l put her i n her pl ace ni cel y. You' ve shown her t hat you can' t be
sucker ed and she can' t cal l t he shot s al most cer t ai nl y an unl i kel y and unusual
occur r ence. That wi l l def i ni t el y get her at t ent i on.
Wai t a week and cal l her back. Chances ar e she' l l accept t he dat e wi t hout t he
" cal l and conf i r m" bul l shi t . I f she doesn' t , t hen TOSS HER NUMBER AWAY and move
on t o t he next advent ur e. She' s j ust out t o wast e your t i me anyway.
Once you' ve made your dat e wi t h your l ady, get of f t he phone! Agai n, you mi ght
bl ow i t i f you st ay on and j abber , and you want t o keep her wonderi ng about you.
Do your t al ki ng on t he dat e! I f you hi t i t of f on t he phone, wher e does t hat
l eave you? You can' t get l ai d over a phone wi r e, what ever t he 976 number s woul d
have you bel i eve! Save i t f or t he date.
Fi nal l y, nowadays al most ever yone has one of t hose damn phone answer i ng
machi nes ! DO NOT LEAVE A MESSAGE ON ONE OF THESE BEFORE YOU' VE HAD A DATE WI TH A
WOMAN. Usi ng a phone machi ne as a buf f er bet ween you and t he l ady i s weak, ant i -
chal l enge, and put s t he bal l i n her cour t , as you ei t her have t o wai t f or her t o
cal l you back or al t er nat i vel y, l ook i mpat i ent and desper ate by cal l i ng her t o
see i f she got your mess age. AVOI D THI S PHONE BLUNDER LI KE THE PLAGUE!
" Our r egul ar secr et ar y at wor k was goi ng t o be gone f or a f ew days, so we want ed
t o hi r e someone t empor ar y, j ust t o answer phones. Someone was s chedul ed t o come
by t hat af t er noon, and t he boss was goi ng t o be out of t he of f i ce. He t ol d me i f
I l i ked her , I coul d go ahead and hi r e her .
" She was a cut e l i t t l e bl onde named Megan. She came i n about 4: 30 i n t he
af t er noon. We t al ked f or a whi l e, and I t ol d her she had t he j ob. Then I i nvi t ed
her t o go next door f or cof f ee.
" Wel l , we t al ked f or about an hour and t hen I asked her i f she want ed t o have
di nner . We di d, and t hat t ur ned i nt o a movi e. And f r om t her e we went back t o my
pl ace and di d al l sort s of wonder f ul l y obscene thi ngs t o each other f or sever al
hour s. "
What ever you do, don' t i nvi t e her back t o your pl ace r i ght away, or do anyt hi ng
t hat mi ght scar e her of f . Make i t seem l i ke you j ust want t o spend f i f t een
mi nut es t al ki ng i n a publ i c pl ace. Wi t h what we ar e goi ng t o show you, t hat ' s
al l you are goi ng t o need.
Chapt er Si xt een
Per haps t he most seri ous of f ense a chi ck can commi t i s t o cancel a dat e. I ' ve
hear d al l sor t s of hi l ar i ous excuses, and ni ne t i mes out of t en t hey ar e j ust
t hat .
But so what ? Wi t h t he pr oper amount of coer ci on and psychol ogi cal pr essur e, you
can get her t o go out wi t h you anyway. Then you can use one of t he qui ck-
l ay/ hypnosi s t r i cks we' l l show you so you can st i l l wi nd up scr ewi ng her . How
dare she t r y t o wast e t he t i me of a mast er of Guer i l l a Get Lai d t act i cs? As
Bat man woul d say, " Poor del uded gi r l ! "
I t ' s r eal l y qui t e si mpl e. When she cal l s t o cancel wi t h her si l l y excuse, you
j ust do t hi s:
HER: Oh, I ' m sor r y, but I can' t make i t t oni ght . I have t o take my f r i end t o the
ai r p or t ( Or : " I ' m j us t not f eel i ng wel l , " or what ever l i e s he t el l s you) .
YOU: So what you' r e sayi ng i s, you' d l i ke t o go, but due t o a ci r cumst ance you
can' t cont r ol and weren' t expect i ng, you won' t be abl e t o?
HER: Yeah. That ' s r i ght . ( She' s got t o admi t t hi s- she can' t come ri ght out and
say she j ust i sn' t i nt er est ed. That mi ght t ake a l i t t l e gut s. )
Then, you shut up. You have t he si l l y chi ck. She' s backed i nt o a cor ner , and
wi l l have t o name a day, or el se r i sk bei ng r eveal ed as t he l i ar she t r ul y i s.
HER: Oh, I can' t make our dat e because my parr ot i s havi ng an exi st ent i al cr i si s
and I want t o see hi m t hr ough i t .
I t ' s ver y i mpor t ant t hat you say t hat l ast sent ence wi t h t he r i ght i nf l ect i on
and tonal i t y. You' r e i mpl yi ng a par t of t he sent ence whi ch i sn' t act ual l y sai d
whi ch i s, ". . . and t hi s t i me t el l me t he t r ut h. "
Bel i eve i t or el se, but ni ne t i mes out of t en, t he chi ck act ual l y wi l l f ess up
and admi t her decept i on. That ' s when you pounce on her !
YOU: So, how does i t f eel t o know t hat you' r e af r ai d t o t ake r esponsi bi l i t y f or
your own deci si ons and have t o r esor t t o l yi ng about t hem?
Her e' s t he r i ght way t o handl e t hi s. Let ' s say you have a dat e f or Sat ur day, and
she cal l s you Fri day eveni ng.
HER: I ' m sor r y, but I r eal l y can' t make i t Sat ur day. I ' ve got f r i ends comi ng i n
f r om out of t own. But I r eal l y do want t o see you. Can we go out Sunday i nst ead?
YOU: No, I have pl ans f or Sunday ( even i f you don' t and you ar e dyi ng t o be wi t h
her - bi t e t he bul l et and r ef use! ) .
Opt i on One
Then pol i t el y say goodbye, and hang- up. Wai t 2 weeks, t hen cal l and ask her out
f or a speci f i c ni ght . I f she doesn' t accept or make a speci f i c count er - of f er ,
t oss t he number and move on.
Opt i on Two
YOU: Wel l , I ' l l t el l you, t hi s i s j ust t he way i t i s f or me. I t ' s j ust t he way I
do t hi ngs. When I make a dat e, and someone cancel s, I l eave i t up t o t hem t o
make t he next dat e. So, i f you want t o go out , I ' m i nt er est ed. Cal l me, and I ' l l
say yes.
OK. Now you' r e ready f or t he ul t i mat e secr et s. I n t he next chapt er s we' r e goi ng
t o be showi ng you how, j ust by t al ki ng t o a woman, you can get her so damned
t ur ned on dur i ng t he dat e t hat she' l l be i t chi ng t o scr ew you. Hang on t o your
hat s, gent l emen.
Chapt er Sevent een
The next f ew chapt er s wi l l emphasi ze qui ck- l ay st r at egi es: How To Scor e on t he
Fi r st Dat e or even sooner t han t hat !
However , you may deci de t hat you want somet hi ng mor e t han qui ck, hot sex wi t h a
gi r l . I f you want a rel at i onshi p wi t h a l ady, I r ecommend that you don' t use the
t echni ques i n t he next f ew chapt er s.
Cha
Chapt
pt er Ei ght
ght een
een
What you
you ar
ar e ab
about
out t o r ead may st r et ch you
your abi
abi l i t y t o be
bel i eve t o t he br
br eaki
aki ng
poi nt . I don' t bl ame you f or havi ng t hat r eact i on at al l .
Al l I can
can t el l you i s t hat t hi s st uf f wor ks-
ks- i t wor ks so wel l t hat i t sca
scar es me
at t i mes. My onl
onl y comf or t i s knowi ng t hat
hat as you becom
become mor e and
and mor e successf ul
and
and pow
power f ul wi t h women,
en, you l ose t he desi
desi r e t o abuse
abuse t he pow
power . Succes
Success
s makes
you
you want t o gogo a l i t t l e bi
bi t easy on
on the poor
oor def ensel
sel ess cr eat ur es.
What I am abou
aboutt t o show
show you
you wi l l al l ow you
you t o creat
creat e vever y pow
power f ul f eel
eel i ngs of
bei
bei ng t ur ned
ned on
on and
and exci
exci t ed i n al most any
any woman youyou can spend
spend t i me wi t h. You
don' t have t o rel y onon l uck,
ck, or t hat spespeci al "che
"chemi st r y" or "spa
"spar k. " Thi s cha
chapt er
wi l l show
show you
you how
how t o cr eat
eat e t hat i n ab
about
out t en mi nut es t i me, wi t h al most anyany
woman you wantant , i n al most any
any ci r cumst ances.
ances. I nst ead
ead ofof dat
dat es t hat
hat end
end up wi t h a
pol i t e pe
peck on
on the che
cheek, you
you' l l end up
up t aki
aki ng i t as f ar as yo you want t o go,go,
r egar
egar dl ess of how
how t he woman f el t abou
aboutt you bef
bef or e you
you used
used t hese
hese t echni
echni ques
ques on
her .
Li kew
kewi se f or hypn
ypnosi s. I am not an att or ney, and am not goi ng t o gi ve you you l egal
advi
advi ce, but
but I war n you
you her
her e and
and now
now of t he poss
poss i bl e conseq
consequeuence
ncess and am not not
abou
aboutt t o be
be hel
hel d r esponsi
esponsi bl e i f you get
get sl appe
apped
d wi t h char
char ges.
ges. YOU USE THES THESE E
METH
ETHODS AT
AT YOUR OWN RI SK.SK. ( And I woul dn'
dn' t have
have t o gigi ve t hi s di sc l ai mer / war ni ng
i f t hese met hods
ods di
di dn' t work as wel l as t hey do.
do. )
SCORI
SCORI NG TECHNI QUE NUMBER ONE:
STAC
STACKI NG REALI
EALI TI ES
Let me t el l you
you a st or y ab about
out my bu buddy,
ddy, Ri ck. Ri ck t ol d me ab
about
out t hi s exper
exper i ence
ence
he had whene
henever
ver he r ead a book.
book. As he was r eadi
eadi ng al ong,
ong, he coul d begbegii n t o be
be
awar e of
of cert ai n t hi ngs. As he r ead ead, he cou
coul d sudd
suddenl
enl y be
be aw
awar e of
of t he uni que
dar kness
kness and
and shap
shape e of
of t he l et t er s. And as
as he becam
ecame aw
awar e of
of t hat
hat , he cou
coul d al
al so
see t he con
cont r ast i ng whi t eness
eness of t he pag
page.
e. And he
he cou
coul d al so be
be aw
awar e ofof t he
smoot hness
hness of t he pape
paperr . And as he becam
became aw
awar e of
of t hat
hat , he coul
coul d al so f eel
eel t he
r i se and f al l of hi s che
chest as he
he br eat hed, and t he sl i ght est l i t t l e noddi ng,
l i t t l e noddi ng of hi s he
head. And as hihi s ey
eyes be
began t o cl
cl ose . . . .
Now, what
hat j ust happ
happen
ened
ed as you
you wer e r eadi
eadi ng t hat
hat ? Even
Even t houg
houghh I ' m not
not st andi
andi ng
ove
over you
your shou
shoull der as you
you r ead t hi s, I ' l l bet my Bat
Bat man comi c boo
bookk col
col l ect i on,
on,
t hat you
you st ar t ed t o no
not i ce t he thi ngs I was t al ki ng about . You not i ced
ced t he
darkness
arkness of t he l et t er s, t he br i ght ness of t he pag
pagee, and
and t he smoot
oot hness ofof t he
paper
aper . And you
you not i ced you
your br eat
eat hi ng and
and you
your eyes
eyes st ar t ed t o cl ose.
ose.
Thi s i s t he same pat t er n and t echni que t hat you can use t o put put a woman i nt o an
al t er ed st at e an
and get her t o f eel and do j ust abo about what ever
ver you
you' d l i ke her t o.
You st ar t by t el l i ng her a st or y about
about someoneeone el se, and t hat s t or y descr i bes an
experi
xperi ence t hat i nvolvol ves
ves t he f eel i ngs and
and act
act i ons
ons you
you want
ant HER t o t ake
ake. I t
sounds
sounds t oo si mpl e andand t oo good
good t o bebe t r ue,
ue, but
but i t WORKS! And t he mor e you
pr act i ce t he bet t er you
you get .
Let
Let ' s do
do a sam
sampl e of t hi s, t o l et you
you see
see j ust exact
xact l y ho
how t o use
use t hi s t echn
chni que
t hat she
she' l l be unabl e t o r esi st . You may want t o wai t t i l l l at er i n t he even
veni ng,
when
hen you
you ar
ar e al
al one
one i n you
yourr apar
apar t ment
ent .
Even
ven t hough i t usua
sual l y onl y t akes
kes f i ve mi nut es or
or so, you
you st i l l don' t want t o
r un t he r i sk of bei ng i nt er r upt ed.
Af t er t he usua
sual smal l t al k, her e' s ho
how i t woul d go:
HER:
ER: No. What about
about hi m?
Now . . . . I guarant
arant ee t hat THA
THAT WI LL GET you
you l ai d . . . . i f she doesn
oesn'' t r ape
ape you
you
r i ght t her e . . . . j ust make sur e you
you r epea
epeatt t hat same t ouch
ouch you
you gave
ave her
her on t he
t hi gh, l at er on i n t he even
veni ng.
I n hypn
ypnosi s t er ms, t hi s i s kno
known as an ancho chor . Basi cal
cal l y, al l t hat means i s t hat
when a person has an an exp
experi
eri ence,
ce, anyt
anyt hi ng t hat i s associ
associ at ed or l i nked
ked wi t h t hat
expe
xper i ence wi l l cau
cause t he per son t o r ecal
cal l t he ent i r e expe
xper i ence.
ce. I t ' s what
Pavl ov didi d t o hi
hi s do
dogs - by asso
associ
ci at i ng t he ri ngi ng of a be bel l wi t h t he st
st at e of
hunger and dr ool i ng, he cou coul d set
set of t hat st at e byby si mpl y ri ngi ng t he be bel l at
any ti me t her eaf t er . I n t hi s case
case,, you
you ar e al so r i ngi ng someone' s be bel l , but
hope
hopeff ul l y she wi l l NOT BE
BE A DOG! ! !
FI RST DATE
DATE SCREW
SCREW TECHN
TECHNI QUE TWO:
ANCHO
ANCHORI NG
We ment
ent i oned
oned anch
anchor or i ng abov
above,
e, bri ef l y, and
and here' s anot
anot her way
way t o use
use i t t o get
get
l ai d on t he f i r s t da
dat e.
Next
ext , ask i f she can r emember t he most exci
exci t i ng exp
exper i ence
ence she'
she' s had
had r ecent
ecent l y.
When you
you say t he word "exci t i ng" dr op you
your voi
voi ce a bi t , and
and gi ve i t an er ot i c
con
connot at i on.
on. Ni ne out
out of t en t i mes a woman wi l l r ecal l an er ot i c exp
experi
eri ence.
ce.
When
hen she answ
answerer s yes, ask her
her t o cl ose her
her eyes
eyes a mi nut
nut e. Then
Then,, depe
depend
ndii ng on
what her pr ef er r ed syst em i s, ask her her t o r emember
ber , what she saw, what she hear ear d,
and how i t f el t i n her body. As she she exper i ences
ces t hi s, you' l l not i ce t hi ngs st ar t
t o cha
change. Her f ace wi l l f l ush, sh, her br eat hi ng wi l l get heavy, her l ower l i p wi l l
get l ar ger , and she she wi l l act ual l y re- exper i ence i n her body al al l t hose l ovel
vel y
er ot i c f eel
eel i ngs she had when she f i r st went t hr oug ough t he exp
expeer i ence
ence..
As she
she' s do
doi ng t hi s, t el l her t hat when t hose f eel i ngs i n her body reach
reach t hei r
peak,
eak, she shou
shoul d wi ggl
ggl e her
her pi nk f i nger.
nger. When she wi ggl es i t , r each
each over
over and
and
gi ve her r i ght wr i st a squeeze, and at t he same t i me, say, " Good. " Run her
t hr ough t hi s a t wo mor e t i mes.
Then have her cl ear her mi nd, and cl ose her eyes. Reach over , squeeze her wr i st ,
and say good. I f you' ve done i t r i ght , she' l l go r i ght back i nt o t he er ot i c
st at e she was i n bef ore.
Now, t ease her wi t h i t . Go back t o normal conver sat i on, t hen a mi nut e l at er,
r each over and t r i gger t he anchor agai n. Look i nt o her eyes, and smi l e at her as
your do i t , but t hi s t i me, don' t l et go of her wr i st . Keep squeezi ng, keepi ng
her i n t he er ot i c state unt i l you st op.
You now have a weapon you can use any t i me dur i ng t he r est of t he eveni ng!
Lat er i n t he eveni ng, when your get her back at your pl ace, t ease her a bi t .
Don' t make a pass f or a l ong t i me, j ust smi l e knowi ngl y. I f she makes a comment
you t hi nk i s i nt er est i ng, r each over , squeeze t he wr i st , and say "good. "
Pr act i ce anchor i ng. You' l l get bet t er at i t and i t does t ake some pr act i ce- we
shoul dn' t ki d our sel ves about t hat . But shi t - i t wor ks ni cel y!
What ' s gr eat about t hi s t echni que and t he pr evi ous t echni que of st acki ng
r eal i t i es i s you of t en don' t have t o go on a f ormal dat e. You can t ake a gi r l
you j ust met f or an i nnocent cup of cof f ee and get her r eady t o f uck you i n
f i f t een mi nut es t i me. Why wast e t i me goi ng out when you coul d be goi ng i n?
Agai n t o make t hi s work, you have t o f i nd out t he l ady' s pref er r ed syst em.
Once you do t hat , you st art t al ki ng t o her about t he beach. You st art by aski ng
her t o recal l somet hi ng f r om her pr ef er r ed syst em about t he beach.
Let ' s say you are t al ki ng t o a woman who' s pr ef er r ed syst em i s audi t ory. Her e' s
how you' d do i t :
YOU: Hey, l et ' s t r y an i magi nat i on exper i ment . Cl ose your eyes f or a second.
Let ' s t ake an i magi nary t r i p t o t he beach. You' r e at t he beach. And you can hear
t he sound of t he wi nd as i t bl ows, and t he sound of t he waves . . . . and t he sound
of a gul l , cr yi ng over head . . . . and as you hear t he sound of t he waves . . . .
( swi t ch t o vi sual syst em) you can al so see a wave as i t moves t owar d t he shor e
. . . . you can see the sunl i ght gl i nt i ng of f t he wave, and some of t he whi t e spr ay
t hat ' s bei ng bl own of f by t he wi nd . . . . and as you see t hat spr ay . . . . you can
al so f eel i t gent l y t ouch your f ace now . . . . and as you f eel t he spr ay on your
f ace . . . . and t he r i se and f al l of your chest as you br eat h . . . . and t he gent l e
war mt h of t he sun on your f ace . . . . you can begi n t o f eel a deep and comf or t and
war mt h . . . . and a f eel i ng of bei ng t ot al l y at ease.
( Her e' s wher e you get her . You' ve al r eady hypnot i zed her , because when you
swi t ch peopl e f r om t hei r pr ef er r ed syst em t o a syst em t hat i s nor mal l y not i n
t hei r consci ous awar eness, t hey ent er an al t er ed st ate. )
. . . . and t hat f eel i ng of ease and warmt h, begi ns t o spr ead t hr ough your body
. . . . wi t h each br eat h you t ake . . . . t he r i se and f al l of your chest . . . . al l ows
a gl owi ng r i ch war mt h t o spr ead t hr oughout your body . . . . a war mt h t hat f eel s so
ver y good . . . . so good . . . . l i ke war m and gent l e hands . . . . massagi ng t hr oughout
your body . . . .
I want t o emphasi ze agai n t he i mpor t ant super- r ul e you shoul d make par t of you.
I want you t o eat , sl eep, br eat he and shi t t hi s r ul e:
I f you aren' t goi ng t o use t he hypnot i c t echni ques ment i oned i n t he pr evi ous
chapt er s, t hen I suggest you use one or bot h of t he f ol l owi ng power cl oses.
What does t he aver age guy do when a woman i nvi t es hi m i nt o her apar t ment f or a
cup of cof f ee?
I ' l l t el l you what he does. He makes smal l t al k whi l e t he cof f ee i s br ewi ng, al l
t he whi l e sweat i ng and ner vous about when he' s goi ng t o make hi s pass.
Then, when she ser ves t he cof f ee, he dr i nks i t ner vousl y, wonder i ng when he
shoul d make a move. Maybe t hey si t down on t he couch, and he wonder s when he
s houl d s i t c l os er .
Ti me wear s on. Not hi ng has happened, and he' s get t i ng mor e and mor e out of
cont r ol . Maybe he spi l l s hi s dr i nk or has t o keep goi ng t o t he bat hr oom.
Per haps he deci des he bet t er do somet hi ng, so he moves a l i t t l e cl oser and ki nd
of apol oget i cal l y put s an ar m ar ound her . He st ar t s t o sl owl y f i nger her hai r ,
wai t i ng t o see her r esponse.
The f i r st power cl ose cut s t hr ough al l t hat nonsense Her e' s how i t wor ks.
She i nvi t es you i n f or cof f ee. You l et her sl i de whi l e t he cof f ee i s br ewi ng.
Thi s i s her saf e t i me- t he l ast f ew mi nut es she' l l EVER be saf e ar ound you agai n.
You can chuckl e t o your sel f as you l ook at her and r eal i ze t hat .
The cof f ee i s r eady and she pour s i t f or bot h of you. Af t er she t akes t he f i r st
si p, don' t say anyt hi ng. J ust suddenl y stop t al ki ng and l ook at her i nt ensel y,
wi t h j ust t he sl i ght est hi nt of a smi l e.
At t hi s poi nt she' l l not i ce, and pr obabl y ask, what i s i t . You CALMLY, SLOWLY,
AND DELI BERATELY, put your cup down, r each over , t ake her s out of her hand, and
put i t down. Look at her f or a second, t ake her f ace i n her hands, and ki ss her
passi onat el y.
Thi s ki nd of act i on i s sendi ng a woman a POWERFUL mess age about t he ki nd of man
you ar e. You ar e i n ef f ect sayi ng, WI THOUT WORDS, " Let ' s ski p t he crap baby. I
want you, HERE, NOW, AND I ' M NOT MAKI NG ANY EXCUSES FOR I T. "
Thi s i s my f avor i t e, non- hypnot i c cl ose, al t hough I can' t ent i r el y cal l i t t hat ,
because women seem t o go i nt o a t r ance wi t h t he sl ow, del i berat e, but unexpect ed
movement s you make.
A good t act i c i s t o wai t unt i l she says somet hi ng f unny, and t hen r each over and
br ush t he si de of her f ace wi t h t he OUTSI DE of your hand. Then say somet hi ng
l i ke, "You' r e such a f unny l ady. " Do t hi s sl owl y and del i ber at el y, l ooki ng i n
her eyes t he whol e t i me. Then PULL AWAY.
Her e' s how you end t hi s. Whi l e you' r e t al ki ng, suddenl y yawn, l ook at your
wat ch, and say, "I ' m f eel i ng a l i t t l e bushed. Let ' s cal l i t an eveni ng. "
I f you' r e at your pl ace, you pr oceed l i ke t hi s: "C' mon. I ' l l dr i ve you home. "
Make as i f you' r e r eal l y get t i ng t o l eave. As she st ands up f r om t he couch, t ake
her i n your ar ms, and ki ss her passi onat el y. I t ' s t he l ast t hi ng she' l l be
expect i ng, and t he unexpect ed has t he best ef f ect .
When you ar e maki ng out wi t h a l ady, you want t o show her t hat you ar e
det er mi ned and power f ul and cer t ai n you wi l l get what you want .
Don' t wast e t oo much t i me i n her mout h. Thi s i s wher e most men make t hei r bi g
err or . Go f or her neck as s oon as you can. As you go f or her neck, cup her
br east i n one of your hands. Gent l y rub i t wi t h t he pal m of your hand. Let your
hands r oam f r eel y over her l egs and ass - you ar e t he r i ght f ul ki ng, and t hi s i s
YOUR TERRI TORY, r i ght f ul l y your s t o expl or e as you see f i t .
Rat her t han t r yi ng t o get your hands i n her pant s r i ght away, t ake t he pal m of
your hand, and pl ace i t over her pubi c mound. I f you pr ess down l i ght l y and move
your pal m up and down you wi l l get her ver y hot and bot her ed.
Don' t bot her t r yi ng t o t ake of f her br a ei t her , bef ore you t ake her br east s i n
your mout h. Si mpl y l i f t up her shi r t or bl ouse, and pul l t he cup of t he br a
down, so t he br east i s exposed. Li ck, AROUND t he ni ppl e at f i r st , i nst ead of
goi ng at i t di r ect l y.
Then, l et your t ongue f l i ck i t qui ckl y a f ew t i mes. Then bi t e i t . . . . not har d
enough t o hur t .
I f she' s wear i ng pant s, move your head down, and ki ss her on t he cr ot ch. Then
r each f or her bel t , i f she' s wear i ng one, and undo. Don' t be shy about i t . Pul l
her pant s r i ght of f , and t r y t o t ake her pant i es wi t h t hem, i f you can.
Ki ss back up t o her chest now, but t hi s t i me you wor k your pal m on her naked
bush, sl i ppi ng your i ndex f i nger on her cl i t , and i n her cunt .
Her e i s my f avor i t e cunni l i ngus t echni que. I di scover ed i t by acci dent years
ago, and women go cr azy over i t . I don' t cl ai m t o be t he best f uck i n t he worl d
- I know I am not . However , women have t ol d me, over and over agai n t hat I gi ve
t he best head of any man t hey have ever met .
Her e' s t he secr et . Kneel down so your f ace i s l evel wi t h her snat ch. She can si t
on t he edge of t he bed or chai r or couch, wi t h her l egs over your shoul der s.
Take t he i ndex f i nger of your l ef t hand, and t he i ndex f i nger of your r i ght
hand. Use t he l ef t f i nger t o push away t he ski n hi di ng t he cl i t ori s on t hat
si de, and t he r i ght f i nger t o push away t he ski n hi di ng t he cl i t or i s on t he
ot her . Once you' ve pushed t hi s l oose ski n t o the si de the cl i t or i s wi l l be
exposed. Fr om her e, what you do i s use your f i ngers t o push t he base of t he
cl i t or i s, so i t pops up, f ul l y exposed. Thi s i s sor t of t he equi val ent of a
woman squeezi ng t he base of your cock when she bl ows you - i t hel ps t o keep your
cock r i gi d by t r appi ng t he bl ood i n i t and al so keeps i t f r om movi ng.
Then spr ead her l egs open and sl i p i t i n sl ow and deep. Let her enj oy t he
pl easur e of havi ng your cock i nsi de of her .
Chapt er Ni net een
We' ve al l hear d t he nonsense about " No Means No" and r espect i ng a gi r l ' s r i ght
t o r ef use a pass.
Wel l , I hope by now you know di f f erent l y. Of t en t i mes "no" doesn' t mean t hat at
al l . I t coul d mean, " I don' t want t o appear cheap, so I have t o put up t oken
r esi st ance f i r st . " Or i t coul d mean, "I ' m not sur e. " Or i t coul d mean, "I ' m
scar ed of sex. "
What ever i t means, t he t wo wor st r esponses you coul d make t o a woman who r esi st s
you, ar e t o:
Gi ve up and sul k.
The best t hi ng t o do i s expr ess agr eement wi t h how she f eel s, t hen back of f and
t r y l at er agai n i n t he eveni ng. I f she' s j ust t r yi ng t o avoi d appear i ng easy or
cheap, you' l l nai l her l at er anyway.
The r eal pr obl em ar i ses when t he l ady j ust happens t o have a ser i ous pr obl em
about sex or i s j ust NOT at t r act ed t o you.
I f she' s not at t r acted t o you, but l i kes sex gener al l y, you' ve st i l l got a
f i ght i ng chance. Let me show you sever al ways ar ound t he, " I ' M J UST NOT
ATTRACTED TO YOU LI NE. "
Thi s i s per haps t he sneaki est and most unf ai r met hod I know t o br eak a woman' s
r esi st ance t o sl eepi ng wi t h you. I t i s t he H- bomb i n your ar senal . I t works on
t he pr i nci pl e t hat i f you put someone i n t he physi ol ogy of a cer t ai n st at e, t hey
wi l l ac t ual l y BE i n t hat s t a t e.
Here' s how i t wor ks. You make t he pass and she r ej ect s you. You shoul d act
apol oget i c. Tel l her you are sor r y you mi sr ead her cues. Say somet hi ng l i ke,
"Look. I ' m sor r y. I ' m j ust r eal l y dumb when i t comes t o readi ng women, y' know.
Maybe you can hel p me wi t h t hi s? I know t hi s sounds r eal l y dumb, but I don' t
want t o keep maki ng t hi s ki nd of dumb mi st ake wi t h women. "
" I f you can r emember a t i me you wer e wi t h a guy t hat you wer e r eal l y at t r act ed
t o, can you show me what t he l ook was on your f ace?"
" OK. But can you show me how your mout h was? Was i t open? And how di d your eyes
l ook?"
" OK. And how wer e you br eat hi ng? Can you show me?"
" How wer e you si t t i ng? What was your post ur e?"
" And what f eel i ngs, cl osi ng your eyes f or a second, were you awar e of i n your
body? And how di d t hose st ar t t o bui l d?"
At t hi s poi nt , you have a choi ce. You can anchor t hose f eel i ngs and make a pass
l at er by f i r i ng of f t he anchor, or you can make a pass t hen and t her e, usi ng a
t r ans i t i on l i ke t hi s :
" And how woul d t hi s t ouch f eel t o you i f he wer e t ouchi ng you l i ke t hi s, her e
and now?" Resume your pass now.
Thi s i s a mor e ver bal appr oach t han t he l ast met hod. When she f eeds you t he " I ' m
j ust not at t r act ed t o you" obj ect i on, you r epl y as f ol l ows:
" What you' r e r eal l y sayi ng i s you have an unpr ecedent ed oppor t uni t y t o expand
t he range of peopl e you can shar e j oy and pl easur e wi t h. "
Here you poi nt out t he consequences of her act i ons by sayi ng: " Tel l i ng me t hat
i s onl y goi ng t o make me want you mor e, because I get r eal l y t ur ned on when
women r ej ect me. " Wel l , wher e does THAT l eave her ? You' ve l et her know t hat
pushi ng you away agai n i s onl y goi ng t o make i t wor se f or her! She can' t wi n no
mat t er what .
Thi s met hod r el i es on i nt er r upt i ng her pat t er n by r ever si ng t he t abl es. Her e you
say: "At t r act ed? Who says I ' M att r act ed t o YOU. As f ar as I ' m concer ned, honey,
I ' m gi vi ng you a MERCY f uck! " Then i mmedi at el y r esume your pass.
Her e you i nt er r upt her patt er n of r ej ect i on agai n, but t hi s t i me mor e gent l y.
Pol i t el y say, " Oh. I ' m sorr y. Excuse me. " Then get up, and go i nt o t he ki t chen.
Get a paper s hoppi ng bag, st i ck i t on your head, and wal k back over t o her .
"Ther e, " you say, "t hat shoul d f i x i t ! " As she l aughs, r esume your pass.
METHOD SI X: GUI LT
Now I pr omi se you, i f t he gi r l has any heart at ALL, she' l l ki ss you. And t hat ' s
when you r esume your pass. I f she st ops you, st ar t weepi ng agai n.
Chapt er Twent y
A FI NAL WORD
Wel l , we' ve come a l ong way t oget her . You' ve l ear ned and hopef ul l y appl i ed
met hods t o gi ve you unbeat abl e and easy conf i dence wi t h women. You know how t o
meet women l ef t and r i ght , and how t o scor e wi t h t he ones you want , when and
wher e YOU want t o.
I si ncerel y hope t hat you put t he t echni ques i n t hi s book t o use. Make t hem WORK
f or you. You' l l be ast oni shed at how easi l y and qui ckl y t hey can br i ng you
success and happi ness wi t h women.
I ' ve been a col ossal f ai l ur e wi t h women and a col ossal success and you know
what ? Col ossal success i s not onl y one hel l of a l ot mor e f un, i t ' s al so one
hel l of a l ot easi er ! Once you know how t o do i t , i t ' s HARD t o f ai l wi t h women,
and EASY t o get what you want .
I hope you di scover j ust how easy i t i s! And how much ni cer col ossal success can
be!
Appendi x One
Not e: These at t i t udes and rul es are t he f oundat i on of ever ythi ng i n t hi s book,
and t he key t o your success wi t h women. To make t hem wor k f or you, you must
pr act i ce t hem, bot h i n your i magi nat i on and r eal l i f e! Wr i t e t hem down on t hr ee
by f i ve i ndex car ds, and vi sual i ze your sel f put t i ng t hem i nt o act i on.
At t i t ude/ Rul e Si x:
St ep One:
Ask, "Can you r ecal l t he l ast t i me you had a r eal l y f un vacat i on?"
St ep Two:
Af t er get t i ng a "yes" answer , ask, " What di d you r eal l y l i ke most about i t ?"
St ep Thr ee:
Make sur e your dat e uses SENSORY t er ms t o descr i be t he experi ence. I f she j ust
says, " I t was r eal l y f un! " you haven' t got t en anywhere. Ask her what
speci f i cal l y about i t was f un.
St ep Four :
St ep Fi ve:
St ep Si x:
Wat ch her non- ver bal r esponses as you descr i be your exper i ence. You shoul d
not i ce, i f you ar e r eal l y get t i ng t hr ough t o her , pupi l di l at i on ( her eyes
get t i ng bi g and wi de, dumdum) i ncr eased br eat hi ng r at e, et c.
Appendi x Thr ee
Fi r st , never , NEVER ment i on t hat you can do t hi s! I f you t el l her about i t , you
mi ght as wel l f or get about i t ! Don' t say t he word "hypnosi s" - i t wi l l have t he
same af f ect as sayi ng " AI DS" or " Her pes. " Your ai m i s not t o i mpr ess wi t h what
you know, but t o use what you know t o get r esul t s!
St ep One:
Fi nd out your dat e' s pr ef er r ed syst em. Thi s i sn' t absol ut el y necessar y f or t hi s
par t i cul ar met hod, but i t sur e can hel p!
St ep Two:
St ep Thr ee:
Weave el ement s of your cur r ent si t uat i on i nt o t he st ory t hat are based on your
dat es cur r ent sensor y experi ence.
St ep Four :
Lead her i nt o a ki nest het i c mode of experi ence and descr i be erot i c body
sensat i ons.
St ep Fi ve:
Make a smoot h t r ansi t i on i nt o your physi cal pass at her . Don' t suddenl y st op
t al ki ng and r oughl y gr ab her . You' l l j ol t her out of t he st at e you worked so
har d t o bui l d.
Appendi x Four
Ass oci at ed, wher e YOU DO NOT SEE YOURSELF I N THE PI CTURE! YOU SEE THE EVENT OR
CI RCUMSTANCE AS I F YOU WERE STANDI NG THERE, LOOKI NG OUT OF YOUR OWN EYES.
Your second st ep i s t o make ass oci at ed i mages of t he ci r cumst ances wher e you
want t o use t hose new power f ul , bol d, asser t i ve behavi ors. What woul d i t
act ual l y l ook l i ke f r om your own eyes?
St ep One:
Recal l a t i me when you f el t ver y power f ul , r esour cef ul and poi sed.
St ep Two:
Cl ose your eyes, and r un t hr ough t he si t uat i on. What di d you see? Hear ? How di d
i t f eel i n your body?
St ep Thr ee:
Exper i ence t hose powerf ul f eel i ngs i n your body. When t hey r each t hei r peak,
anchor t hem by r eachi ng wi t h your r i ght hand and gent l y squeezi ng your l ef t
wr i st , usi ng your i ndex f i nger and t humb. Keep hol di ng t hat squeeze as you
cont i nue t o exper i ence t hose power f ul f eel i ngs.
St ep Four :
St ep Fi ve:
Make an ass oci at ed i mage of a ci r cumst ance wher e you want power and conf i dence
wi t h women. As you do so, f i r e your anchor by appl yi ng t he same wr i st squeeze.
St ep Si x:
Keep hol di ng t he squeeze and you wi l l experi ence t he power f ul , bol d, conf i dent
f eel i ngs i n a ci r cumst ance t hat used t o make you ner vous! You have now t r ai ned
your br ai n t o react t o women by put t i ng you i nt o a power f ul , conf i dent , bol d
st at e, WI THOUT YOUR HAVI NG TO THI NK ABOUT I T AT THE TI ME YOU ARE ACTUALLY I N THE
SI TUATI ON!
St ep Seven:
Do t hi s once a day, i n t he mor ni ng t o st ar t your day, f or one week! Ref r esh and
r epeat af t er t hat i f needed!
Appendi x Si x
Ahemm.
Nope. Most women ar e ser i ousl y di nged i n one way or anot her .
Maybe i t ' s t he i mpossi bl e expect at i ons of soci et y t hat does i t . Maybe i t ' s t he
hor r i bl e ear l y t r ai ni ng or j ust bi ol ogy. What ever t he r eason, i t i s a f act you
must be pr epar ed f or .
So many t i mes I woul d f al l head over heel s i n l ove wi t h a woman j ust because she
had a f ew char acteri st i cs I r eal l y l i ked. I t hi nk I di d i t because I t r ul y do
l i ke peopl e and enj oy t he f eel i ng of l i ki ng someone.
Tat t oo t hi s on t he i nsi de of your eyel i ds: J ust because a woman i s gor geous or
f un or smar t or ( f i l l i n your f avor i t e her e) doesn' t say BEANS about her
char act er .
Many women wi t h gr eat per sonal i t i es have t er r i bl e char act er s. I ' ve met women who
ar e wi t t y, br i l l i ant and t ons of f un and GORGEOUS t o boot who woul d have no
second t hought about st eal i ng you bl i nd i n a second. Or doi ng what ever whi m
cr ossed t hei r mi nd at t he moment .
Char mi ng f l akes l i ke t hi s can r eal l y put your head ( not t o ment i on ot her par t s)
t hr ough t he r i nger .
Then t hei r ar e l adi es wi t h gr eat per sonal i t i es, gr eat char act er s, and even gr eat
l ooki ng. But t hey have one smal l pr obl em:
THEY HATE SEX!
That ' s r i ght . I f you' ve ever r ead Geor ge Or wel l ' s cl ass i c book, l 984, you know
how t he t ot al i t ar i an gover nment di d i t ' s l evel best t o di scour age peopl e f r om
enj oyi ng sex. They were successf ul t o such an ext ent t hat peopl e vi ewed sex as
t hey woul d a di sgust i ng mi nor medi cal pr ocedur e l i ke havi ng an enema or poppi ng
a boi l .
They even had a gr oup f or youngst er s cal l ed THE J UNI OR ANTI - SEX LEAGUE.
Wel l , l 984 may have been f i ct i on, but t he J ASL i sn' t . I ' ve used t o dat e many of
i t ' s member s!
The best way t o deal wi t h al l of t hese var i ous var i et i es of l ow- l i f e f emal es i s
t o t ake t he same t act you' d t ake wi t h cancer : EARLY DETECTI ON AND SWI FT REMOVAL.
To ai d you i n det ect i on, I ' ve desi gned what I cal l r at her modest l y t he J EFFRI ES
UPRI GHT/ UPTI GHT SCALE. I t al l ows you t o qui ckl y si ze up a gi r l t o l et you know
i f she' s got r el at i onshi p pot ent i al or i f she deser ves no mor e t han havi ng one
of t he "qui ck- l ay" st r at egi es pul l ed on her .
The ver t i cal sc al e measur es her enj oyment of sex. Not necessar i l y per f or mance,
but ent husi asm and genui ne pl easur e she get s out of i t . Nat ur al l y, you' d want
someone wi t h a l ow " upt i ght scor e. "
The hor i zont al sc al e measur es her char act er , how " upr i ght " she i s. Lot s of
t hi ngs go i nt o t hi s: i s she war m? Does she tr eat peopl e, especi al l y st r anger s,
wi t h r espect ? DOES SHE DO WHAT SHE SAYS SHE WI LL ? I s she honest ?
Thi s l ast i s most i mpor t ant . I once wor ked wi t h a gi r l who I consi der t o be one
of my model s f or upr i ght ness. I n addi t i on t o her r egul ar j ob, whi ch she worked
wi t h me, she sol d cer t ai n door t o door ki t chenwar e/ soap pr oduct s. She knew I had
an i ncr edi bl e cr ush on her , and woul d buy anyt hi ng she sl apped down i n f r ont of
my f ace.
Bel i eve me, l ot s and LOTS of l adi es woul d not have hesi t at ed t o t ake advant age
of t hi s. But not Li sa. Af t er t al ki ng t o me f or awhi l e, she r eal i zed t hat I
r eal l y di dn' t need her pr oduct s and she woul dn' t l et me buy t hem! She sai d she
di dn' t f eel r i ght about maki ng a sal e t o someone who coul d get a cheaper product
t hat woul d do t he same j ob f or t he par t i cul ar need t hey had!
Someone once descr i bed a good f r i end of mi ne t hi s way: " She' s r eal l y gr eat t o
anyone who can t ake i t . "
When you meet a l ady, si ze her up as t he t wo of you spend t i me t oget her , and t r y
t o put her on t he upt i ght / upr i ght scal e.
Her e are some ear l y t el l - t al e behavi oral cues t o l et you know you' r e deal i ng
wi t h someone who i s NOT goi ng t o get a f avor abl e spot on t he scal e:
She t al ks about sex on t he f i r st dat e. Any woman who does t hi s ei t her has no
cl ass, or , f ar mor e f r equent l y, i s a pr i ckteaser . I f a woman t al ks about sex on
t he f i r st dat e, or even pul l s out a di r t y dr awi ng or phot ogr aph t o show you
( bel i eve me, I ' ve had i t happen) don' t get hot and bot her ed! Thi s i s a si gn of a
si cko, bel i eve me! Your best r esponse i s t o act a t r i f l e shocked and say, "I
t hi nk t al ki ng about t hese ki nd of t hi ngs wi t h someone you hardl y know i s ki nd of
vul gar , don' t you?" Or , even mor e ef f ect i ve, " You know I f i nd peopl e who have t o
t al k about sex r i ght of f t he bat usual l y have a r eal pr obl em wi t h i t ! "
That wi l l REALLY PUT HER I N HER PLACE. She may even t r y t o pr ove you wr ong, by
f ucki ng you l at er t hat ni ght . But gener al l y speaki ng, you' ve got a J ASL member
on your hands and ar e best of f cal l i ng i t an earl y eveni ng. Tel l her you f or got
t hat you have t o dr i ve out of t own r eal l y earl y t he next day f or a Thr ee St ooges
convent i on. Have some f un wi t h i t , but f orget her , FAST!
She keeps you wai t i ng a l ong t i me when you go t o pi ck her up or does somet hi ng
el se t hat i s darn r ude ei t her at t he begi nni ng of t he dat e or l at er on.
Maybe she' l l pul l a f l aky st unt l i ke havi ng you wai t i n t he l i vi ng r oom, whi l e
she makes a qui ck cal l . Then she' l l get on t he phone and chat wi t h a gi r l f r i end
f or an hour or so.
She star t s t al ki ng about her past boyf r i ends or ot her guys she' s cur r ent l y
dat i ng. Thi s i s mor e easi l y deal t wi t h and not necessari l y cause to r el egate her
t o t he "l owl i f e" cat egor y. J ust t el l her you' d r eal l y r at her not hear about i t .
Thi s wi l l est abl i sh you as havi ng some bal l s and t hen you wi l l have passed her
l i t t l e t est .
She dr i nks or uses dr ugs t o excess. I f she get s r i ot ousl y dr unk ever y t i me you
go out , consi der t he f act t hat you may have an al cohol i c on your hands. Sure,
t hey can be f un f or a whi l e, but I per sonal l y woul d r at her not be wi t h a woman
who l oves J ack Dani el s more t han she does Ross J ef f r i es.
She does not keep appoi nt ment s or commi t ment s. I don' t know how " f l akes" ar e
manuf act ur ed; I suspect t hat t hey wer e r ai sed by par ent s who put enor mous
pr essur es on t hem t o perf or m on cue, so now t hey have a pol ar i t y r esponse and
r ef use t o do anyt hi ng unl ess t hey f eel l i ke i t at t he moment ! I f a woman doesn' t
do as she says she wi l l , dump her or use a "qui ck- l ay" st r at egy.
She asks f or a f avor BEFORE you' ve even gone out ! Maybe she needs a r i de, or
some money, or even her car washed.
To hel l wi t h t hese evi l l i t t l e Nazi douche- bag expl oi t at i on queens. Fuck and
dump t i me, good buddy! And DON' T DO HER THE FAVOR. TELL HER YOU' LL DO I T AFTER
YOU GO OUT!
I n summat i on, I ' m no bi bl e t humper , but scr i pt ur e does say somet hi ng ver y, ver y
wi se on t he subj ect :
" A good woman, who can f i nd her ? Her pr i ce i s beyond pear l s. "
Use t he upt i ght / upr i ght scal e, and get your sel f a STRAND OF THEM!
ORI GI NAL TABLE OF CONTENTS
TABLE OF CONTENTS
I NTRODUCTI ON
CHAPTER ONE: THE ONE ATTI TUDE THAT I S THE KEY TO HAVI NG I RRESI STI BLE APPEAL TO
WOMEN AND GETTI NG LAI D WI TH THE WOMEN OF YOUR DREAMS
CHAPTER TWO: HOW TO I NSTALL THE SUPER- GET L AI D ATTI TUDES I N YOUR SELF SO YOU USE
THEM AUTOMATI CALLY
CHAPTER THREE: BELI EVE I T OR NOT, HOW TO HAVE EVEN MORE CONFI DENCE WI TH WOMEN
PART TWO: HOW TO MEET WOMEN, ANYTI ME, ANYWHERE ( I n whi ch we l ook at t he f our
st eps t o any pi ck- up) Get t i ng at t ent i on, Maki ng your i nt r oduct i on, Cr eati ng
r apport , Maki ng your pi t ch
CHAPTER SEVEN: GETTI NG HER ATTENTI ON- THE KEY TO PI CK UPS WHEREVER YOU ARE
CHAPTER EI GHT: HOW TO MAKE A WOMAN YOU' VE J UST MET FEEL LI KE SHE' S MET THE MAN
OF HER DREAMS
CHAPTER NI NE: SOME GREAT METHODS AND GREAT PLACES TO PI CK UP MORE WOMEN THAN YOU
AND A FRI END COULD POSSI BLY HOPE TO HANDLE I NCLUDI NG THE ONLY TWO PI CK- UP LI NES
I N THE WORLD THAT WORK SO WELL THAT THEY CAN GET YOU LAI D AUTOMATI CALLY
CHAPTER ELEVEN: HOW TO USE THE PERSONALS TO GET HUNDREDS AND HUNDREDS OF WOMEN
TO DATE!
CHAPTER TWELVE: BI RDOGGI NG: How To Get A Gi r l When She' s Wi t h Anot her Guy ( Or
When You' r e Wi t h Anot her Gi r l )
PART THREE: HOW TO GET THE WOMEN YOU DATE I NTO BED
CHAPTER EI GHTEEN: HOW TO USE HYPNOSI S TO GET YOUR DATE I NTO THE SACK
CHAPTER NI NETEEN: HOW TO TOTALLY BREAK A WOMAN' S RESI STANCE TO SLEEPI NG WI TH YOU