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Dear Re,
I never thought I would be talking to you about stuff like this in an open
letter, that too in a national daily, but, maybe, itʼs best this way. I have,
over the past few years, been queasy about a few things and what they
mean to me, to your father, and for us as a family, and the more I write,
the clearer it seems to get.
I still donʼt know most of the answers, but as long as we keep sending our
questions to the universe, some light will emerge. Rehaan Iyer-Agarwal. I
know by now that you wear your name proudly and love to say it aloud. I
knew I always wanted you to have both our surnames because your
father, an Agarwal and I, an Iyer, brought you into this world together.
Maybe you donʼt realise we are two totally different people with very
different backgrounds, upbringings, rituals, cuisine and even festivals,
but just the fact that our names sit pretty together with your name means
that it doesnʼt really matter. Someone asked me why I named you
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I found out it has its origin in Arabic and it meant “messenger of God”.
Our help at the time of your birth, Zulekha, asked me if I named you
Rehaan because I liked Aamir Khan. I was confused. She explained that
Aamir Khan was named Rehaan in the movie Fanaa and that he played a
terrorist in it. I havenʼt watched Fanaa and this should have made me a
little afraid. It didnʼt. I just loved the sound of your name.
Then we applied for your passport and the man who came to our house
for the police verification gave me a lecture on why I was confusing
people by highlighting three different communities in your name. A
Muslim first name and a south-Indian meets north-Indian last name. But
you are you first and everything else later.
Soon, you will be all grown up and people will ask you where you are
from. I still donʼt know how to answer that for myself, and I keep changing
that every time. Sometimes, I say I am from here and now, sometimes I
get defiant and say Iʼm from Bombay, sometimes I say Iʼm from my
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motherʼs womb and sometimes, I ask them how does it matter where I
am from, as long as I stand before you and listen to what you have to say.
People do this because they are very comfortable as long as they can put
you in a box. Itʼs neat, itʼs compact, it can be labelled. The world loves
boxes. But then, in the end, you are the only one who can decide if you
want to go into a box at all.
Love,
Mom
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