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DEATH
DEATH
DEATH
“I don’t mind dying, I just The Issue of Dying Across the Life Span
don’t want to be there when Childhood
it happens.”- Woody Allen – Until around 5-7 don’t understand the
DEATH permanence, universality, and lack of
•The final stage of growth functioning in death
• Experienced by everyone – Age 12 accurately perceive
• The young ignore its existence • Parent euphemisms (just went to sleep)
• The old begin to think of their own • attending funerals, etc?
Death imposes two kinds of burdens Would you want children under 10 to attend
1. Preparing oneself for one’s own death your funeral?
2. Deal with the interpersonal aspects of YES
death that will affect one’s loved ones White: 47.9%
grief, anguish, anger, anxiety, denial African American: 68.4%
Hispanic: 57.6%
Societal Meanings of Death Asian: 40.4%
• Modern American Age: NO 20-39 (7.4%), 40-59 (7.4%), 60+
– Medical failure (21.9%)
• More traditional societies (Kalish & Reynolds, 1976)
– Natural part of life cycle Adolescence
Circle of Life Community Coalition - More experienced with death and grief
End of Life Toolkit - Loss of sibling, friend or parent (survivor’s
US: Societal Changes – early 1900’s guilt)
and now - Positive outcome includes greater
Early 1900’s…. appreciation for life
• Focus was on “comfort” Adulthood
• Died of infection Middle-aged
• Died at home • understand next in line to die
• Family was caregiver • change in perception of time
• Death was short and (lived vs amount left)
sudden * death of a parent
2005…… * death of a child - violates the natural order
• Focus is on “cure” • Transition to being the oldest generation
• Die of chronic illness Late Adulthood- Older adults
• Die in institutions • Least concerned with dying
• Institution staff are Loss of a partner
caregivers Loss of child or grandchild
• Death is prolonged **although think about death more
In recent survey (AARP)
Cross Cultural Views on Death -2,000 Americans age 45 and older were
• Eastern philosophies-death is natural questioned about their fear of dying.
• Buddhists & Hindus 30% of those 45-49 expressed fear of dying
~ physical death is rebirth (reincarnation) 15 of those 75 and older expressed fear of
~ end of rebirths that is their goal, not the end dying
of death, More women overall (24%) than men overall
…which is the goal of Christianity (18% ) were afraid of dying
• Western-death is to be postponed, threat Late Adulthood- Older adults
oneness with the universe (Cicerilli, 1999)
Focus is not on the self N=388, Young & Old
• Western-death is to be postponed, threat Old: think about death more
Old: less afraid about death
Death Dying and Grieving
Old : more fearful vs By ethnicity: wake/Shiva
Old : fear more pain & artificial life support Reaction to loss: Grieving Practices
(Cicerilli, 2002) Rituals - Jewish
Meaning of Death? Funeral: begins with “cutting away” (black
1) Eventually meeting with God or ribbon or garment)
nonexistence Shiva (7 days after burial): parents, children,
2) Preparation to leave a legacy spouses and siblings of the
3) Limited time to do things deceased, preferably all together in the
deceased's home
WHY not afraid? Mourners sit on low stools or the floor instead
• goals have been fulfilled of chairs
• living longer than expected do not wear leather shoes
• coming to terms with finitude do not shave or cut their hair
• dealing with the deaths of friends do not wear cosmetics
Dying Process do not work
• Stages of Death and Dying (Elizabeth do not do things for comfort or pleasure
KublerRoss, 1960: 200 terminally ill ) (bathe, have sex, put on fresh clothing)
– Denial: Not me! Mourners wear the clothes that they tore at
– Anger: Why me??? ?Why now?? the time of learning of the death or at the
– Bargaining: Yes, me…but! funeral
– Depression: Yes…me… Mirrors in the house are covered
– Acceptance: Yes, me. "Baruch dayan emet," Blessed be the one true
Emotional stages Judge
Have to have all stages to accept death? Rituals
Wakes / Visitations
Viewing of body (70-80%)
Social gathering
Reading a will and executing it
Wearing black
Reaction to loss (Grief):