- I’m responsible, loyal, and I love to

help, collaborate, and serve.

What hurts - My purpose is to make the lives of
6? those around me better!
YOUR ESSENCE 6 - Life is an obligation, If I meet my
obligations, I am a valid person!
 - Feels a genuine sense of responsibility and
commitment.
- Cautious and able to anticipate danger.
- Feels good when they understand.
- Knowledge-motivated.
- Logical and objective.
- Needs to have all available information to make
decisions.
- Afraid of feeling emotions and of having their emotional
HOW IS 6 -
space invaded.
Not motivated by money,
- Stays calm in a crisis

WHO IS 6
 - Fearful, indecisive, anxious, prone to overreact,
untrusting.
- Projects their fear onto others..
What hurts - Afraid of their own freedom. Puts limits on
6? both their freedom, and that of others.

- Hyperactive, unable to relax.

THE SHADOW
OF THE 6 - Submissive, believes that life is a cross to bear.
 -Responsible and loyal.

- Liekable, perceptive, resourceful.

What hurts - Co-operates, defends, and protects.
6? - Knows how to get the group to share.
THE LIGHT OF THE 6 -High self-esteem and understand that they need to
look after themselves and how to do so.
- Enjoys life.
 LOVE

The 6 feels a lack of love, and feels that others don’t want or love
them, or that they will reject them. They feel a lack of affection.

What hurts Whenever they feel rejected or unloved, the 6 looks for another
way to serve or do something for others to gain attention.
6?
The thinking behind this is: To be wanted and accepted, I have to
WHAT MOST be generous, loyal, happy, and beg for affection.

HURTS 6? They feel guilty when they fail to make others happy. They feel
overwhelmed with other people’s problems.

They blame others for not loving and giving the way they do.
 NEED TO LEARN

That only they can give the love that they crave. They need to love
themselves and use it to replace the love they want from others.

What hurts Just because others don’t love them the way they want, it doesn’t

6? mean that others aren’t loving them in the best way they can.

When they feel rejected, they need to look inside themselves to find
WHAT MOST the love they desire. And not do ever more things for others. It’s the

HURTS 6? very act of doing things for others with low self-esteem that carries
the risk of them not valuing you and rejecting you.

Question

What do you need to do to provide yourself with the love you need?
 - Value yourself. Learn to believe in yourself, in your abilities
and your sense of responsibility. You can do whatever you put
your mind to. Don’t limit yourself to restricted situations to
show what you can do, and do well!

- Take care to not let your fears lead you into a valley of
self-doubt. Don’t analyse and question absolutely everything.
Believe in your abilities, learn to take decisions, and stick to
them with confidence.

- Don’t see life as an obligation, and don’t demand so much of

yourself, trying to do everything. Experiment with being more
relaxed about things, enjoy yourself, smile, and take pleasure
in each moment of life.

REMEMBER