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Coaching Anthony Grant
Coaching Anthony Grant
Coaching Anthony Grant
Outline Personal Case Study and Goals Coaching Tools and Practicalities
1. Understanding Evidenced-based Coaching
2. Three Types of Coaching • What do you want to get out of the
• How to avoid common pitfalls
workshop? In your experience,
3. Connecting with the Client
• The Three Reflective Spaces Model
• What would make a difference for you in
what is the most
4. Expanding the Use of CBT in Coaching Practice
your work and in your personal life?
• Solution-focused CB Theory and the House of Change Model
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Evidence-based
Evidence-based
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coaching
• I tend to get stuck in thinking about problems *
outcome and orientate resources and • I tend to focus on the negative *
self towards goal problem-focused
strengths • I’m not very good at noticing when things are going well *
thinking
3. Resource Activation
frameworks and The Solution-focused Thinking Inventory
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There is always a solution to every problem
There are always enough resources to solve a problem if you know where to look
Most people are more resilient than they realise
models
• Setbacks are a real opportunity to turn failure into success
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2. A Road-map of Change 3. Solution-focused Cognitive Behavioural Model So, What is Coaching Anyway?
• To create purposeful positive change we need to
be mindful of four key factors • Coaching is a collaborative solution-focused,
results-orientated systematic process in which the
coach facilitates the enhancement of performance,
self-directed learning and personal growth of other
1. Behaviour Solution
Focus individuals.
We need to know what to do
2. Thoughts
We need thoughts that support us in reaching our goals
• A methodology for creating purposeful
3. Feelings
We need emotions that motivate us to reach our goals positive change.
4. Environment
We need an environment that helps us to reach our goals
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Three Types of Coaching Three Types of Coaching Remedial, Reactive & Proactive Coaching
Typology of
Change resistant. Change compliant. Change focused.
In denial. Poor fit. Crisis. No crisis – not yet! Doing well. No crisis.
Very important. Very urgent Overwhelmed? Looking ahead.
Maybe too late. Over-promoted? Important. Not urgent
Applications SKILLS
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Developmental
EAP
Counselling
“Recovery”
Coaching
Succession &
Growth
Coaching
Three things that will make you a better coach?
Listening
Performance
Performance
Management
Performance
Review
Peak
Performance
Coaching
as a Mental
Skills
“Anger
Management”
“Just in time”
Training
“On boarding”
Training
Model
• Name three people who listen really well • Four Levels of listening • Connection: Rapport is crucial
Cosmetic listening Rapport is a manifestation of connection: a sense of
Media personalities mutuality and understanding; harmony, accord,
Conversational listening confidence, and respect underlying a relationship between
Public figures two persons
Active listening
What are their key characteristics? Deep listening Rapport lies on a dimension: Low to High
Communication lies on a dimension: Telling vs. Asking
-5 -4 -3 -2 -1 0 +1 +2 +3 +4 +5
Hostility Trust
Aversion – Dislike – Detachment – Comfortable – Warmth - Connected
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Connecting with the Client : Ask vs. Tell Be REAL: Use the REAL Rapport process Connecting with the Client : Ask vs. Tell
• One person describes holiday • One person describes holiday
The “listener” interrupts the “talker” frequently with your R – Respond. Nod your head, physically The “listener” listens deeply, be curious, explore their
own opinions and experience.
indicate that you are listening experience.
Telling: What advice can you give them?
Ask questions: look for themes - focus on their values
Low rapport level at -2 E – Echo back some of the words they High rapport level at + 4 or + 5
Three or four minutes
use. Three or four minutes
Hostility -5 -4 -3 -2 -1 0 +1 +2 +3 +4 +5 -5 -4 -3 -2 -1 0 +1 +2 +3 +4 +5
Trust Hostility Trust
Aversion – Dislike – Detachment – Comfortable – Warmth - Connected Aversion – Dislike – Detachment – Comfortable – Warmth - Connected
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Change
Third
Coach Reflective Coachee
Space
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The House of Change Model The House of Change Model Psychopathology Warning Ahead!
• To create purposeful positive change we need to
be mindful of four key factors
1. Behaviour
We need to know what to do • Avoid the therapy derailer
2. Thoughts • Stick to the “coaching road”
We need thoughts that support us in reaching our goals
3. Feelings • Avoid diagnosis
We need emotions that motivate us to reach our goals • Stay solution-focused
4. Environment
We need an environment that helps us to reach our goals Solution
Focus
To create change
Design the behaviors, thoughts, feelings and environment to best attain the
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goal.
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Goal Setting Tip #1: Issues of Control Goal Setting Tip #2: Issues of Complexity Using the House of Change Framework
Control Puzzles
1. Think of a problem that you’d like to change (e.g., losing temper). Use the
House of Change Framework to delineate the factors that trigger or maintain the
problem.
Problems 2. Reframe the problem as a goal you’d like to attain in the near future (e.g.,
Bergquist, W., & Lazar, J. (2008). Puzzles,
Problems and Mysteries. Choice, 6(1), 27-30.
responding constructively). Use the House of Change Framework to delineate
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Q: What can the coachee actually control? http://libraryofprofessionalcoaching.com/concepts/a-gestalt-perspective-on-coaching-in-organizations-puzzles-problems-and-mysteries/
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• Mindset
Assumption that positive change will occur • Reframing is a vital tool. The coach needs to be
A “refusal” to purchase the problem able to reflect and reframe the client’s statements
in a way that creates new ways of viewing and
doing.
• Tools
Scaling (1 to 10) and small steps forward
Compliments
Reframing
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Goal Clarification:
Coachee - “I’d not thought about it like
• Coachee: “I want to improve my time management skills.” that … I guess I’m ideally paced for
• PF Coach: “What leads you to believe your time management promotion!!”
skills needs improving?” Coach - “Sounds like that will be useful in
your next project”
• SF Coach: “So, we’re working on time management. What
does good time management mean to you?” Coachee - “Mmm … I did learn a fair bit about
Desired project management and working with difficult
Check and clarify the goal
Outcome people”
Coach - “ …. and what else did you learn that you can use next
Language to move them forward: Turn presenting problem into time?”
Reframe
• Coachee: “I don’t feel like I am getting anywhere with this. I feel possible solution – “Seed the solution” Coachee - “Humph … I learnt not to put all my eggs in one
lost.” Presenting basket!”
Give them time to vent if needed
• PF Coach: “Sounds very difficult. What’s brought this on?” Problem Coach - “Very disappointing – I know – but was it really completely
• SF Coach: “So, you’d like to get back a sense of direction. What wasted,? What did you learn from that?”
would give you that?”
Coachee - “I didn’t get the contract and all the work I put in was completely
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Small
The Steps Action Steps
Build self-efficacy
SF Coaching Practice
to Possibilities Lots of options • Your turn! Key Learning Points
Solutions Strengths & • Person describes a real and personal dilemma or
Process Resources Highlight strengths / resources
problem that they need to solve (not too Three things that will make you a better coach?
Exceptions Identify times when problem is personal!)
not present • Make it about you – not someone else!
Compliments Genuine acknowledgment • Follow the SF steps
• Rate goal attainment on scale of 1 to 10
Scaling “1 to 10” - Progress made so far?
• Rate self-efficacy (confidence) on scale of 1 to 10
Desired
Check and clarify
Outcome
Turn presenting problem into • Give feedback on your experience to the group
Reframe possible solution – “Seeding” the solution
Presenting Give them time to vent if needed
Problem
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Coaching Practice
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• I-GROW
Goal
• RE-GROW
Issues
– Review-Evaluate Reality
Goal
– Goal
Reality
– Reality
Options
Options
– Options
Wrap-up (or Will) Wrap-up (or Will)
– Wrap-up (or Will)
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• I-GROW • RE-GROW
– Issue – Review & Evaluate
– Goal – Goal
– Reality – Reality
– Options – Options
– Wrap-up (or Will) – Wrap-up (or Will)
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• As observers/co-coaches, what is
your learning goal for these role
plays?
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