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and the negative consequences (i.e., the sequelae) of the transgression. Responses are a
person’s transgression- and transgressor-related thoughts, feelings and behaviors. The
concept of responses has two components, valence and strength. Valence refers to whether
the thoughts, feelings, or behaviors are negative, neutral, or positive. Strength refers to the
intensity and intrusiveness of the thoughts, feelings, or behaviors, and it can vary as a result
of factors such as the perceived harm caused by the transgression.
A person who forgives may transform his or her negative responses by
changing the valence from negative to either neutral or positive, or
changing both the valence and strength of the responses.
In order to forgive, the valence of a person’s responses must change, at least to neutral. Some
argue that in order to forgive, a person must develop compassion and empathy for the
transgressor. In the model of forgiveness upon which the HFS is based, it is not necessary to
develop positive responses such as compassion and empathy. Neutral responses are
considered sufficient for forgiveness.
It is not necessary for a person to change the strength of his or her responses in order to
forgive. Nonetheless, weakening one’s responses may foster forgiveness because it decreases
the intrusiveness or intensity of negative transgression-related thoughts or feelings. Thus,
weakening of responses may be involved when people report that “time” has helped them to
forgive.
The inclusion of “situations” as a potential source of transgressions (and target of
forgiveness) appears to be unique to this conceptualization of forgiveness, and to the
Heartland Forgiveness Scale. Situations that violate people’s positive assumptions and lead
to negative responses to those situations are responded to as transgressions. For example, a
catastrophic illness might violate a person’s assumptions of invulnerability or meaningfulness
(e.g., “I’m healthy” and “bad things don’t happen to good people for no reason”), and lead to
negative thoughts, feelings, or behaviors about the illness and related sequelae (e.g., feelings
of anger or sadness and the thoughts “this has ruined my life; I don’t deserve this”).1
Dimensions Of Forgiveness:
1
https://www.heartlandforgiveness.com/model-and-definition-of-forgiveness
There are three major dimensions assessing.
(A) forgiveness of self [Self—items refer to negative emotions toward oneself (e.g., shame,
guilt)],
(B) others [Other—items refer to negative attitudes toward a transgressor (e.g.,
revenge)], and
(C) situations [Situation—items refer to facing up to uncontrollable events (e.g., natural
disaster, cancer)].
3
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1963313/?
_escaped_fragment_=po=16.3793
https://positivepsychology.com/forgiveness-benefits/#theory