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Non-Violent Communication
Non-Violent Communication
Communication
Introduction
What we say matters
He is a procrastinator
Jim is ugly.
Example of observation mixed in with evaluation Example of observation separate from evaluation
You are too generous When I see you give all your lunch money to others, I think
you are being too generous
She won’t get her work in I don’t think she will get her work in.
Or
She said “I won’t get my work in.”
If you don’t eat balanced meals, your health will be If you don’t eat balanced meals, I fear your health may be
impaired. impaired.
Hank Smith is a poor soccer player. Hank Smith has not scored a goal in twenty games.
We all make value judgments as to the We make moralistic judgments of people and
qualities we value in life behaviors that fail to support our value
judgments
THOUGHTS FEELINGS
vs
Thought Feeling
I see that you have not done the classwork for 3 consecutive days. I feel
worried because I need to make sure that you understand the lesson.
Could you please try to do yesterday’s assignment in class right now, so
that if you have any questions, I’m here to help you.
Erikson’s
Psychosocial
Stages