How did you open and

Date Girl General observations before opening? what response did you
get?

1) I opened with
curiousity opener "Hey, I
am actually very curious
1) She was wearing a flannel shirt and jeans about something. Are
pants (could indicate that she likes you from the midwest?"
tresearch in her major) 2) The reason why I used
2) Couldn't really say how she responds to this opener was mainly
validation since she was by herself her clothing and the
(however, probably a good idea to pay certain carefulness she
attention to her walk) was exuding when
4/24/2021 UCLA blonde inside Target 3) She seemed to be walking around with a shopping
certain unsureness. Taking her time 3) She gave more of a
browsing the brands and perhaps the neutral tonality. My
prices, (perhaps this indicates that she is on tonality could've
a specific budget either due to parents not definitley been better. I
providing money or she herself is finacially had a certain
savy and perfers to take her time to save anxiousness as a result
money instead of saving time) of opening in Target.
Next time open with
more offering value and
positive/smiling tonality.
 What was the main
What did she respond What did she respond What was the overall
obstacle in this
positively to? negatively to? metaframe?
interaction?

1) She responded
1) Main obstacle in this postively to being asked 1) She was non
interaction was that I questions about herself compliant toward going
was not high value a little bit. However, the for a wine close/any 1) Platonic. Needed
enough conversation was not as close since the set more sexualization and
2) Also, I didn't emotionally stimulating wasn't hooked. Need better sexual sub comms
determine her timing as it should have been more emotional here.
concerns. I didn’t try for 2) She did become more engagement and better
instant date attentive as I closed sub comms
proximity a bit
 How was this At which points did you What do you think
Why did you pick this
metaframe encounter non- triggered it? (non-
metaframe?
established? compliance? compliance)

1) I was nervous and my

1) By asking platonic mind was focused on
questions and not really opening and hence I was
sexualizing verbally too nervous to sexualize
properly
How do you think it How did you DHV, and
When did the How did the interaction
could’ve been was it appropriate to
interaction end? end?
reverted? the metaframe?
Which qualities did you
make her qualify? How Extra Notes
did you do it?