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Family Variables and Learning Skills
Family Variables and Learning Skills
CHAPTER 1
INTRODUCTION
Education has been the best legacy a nation can give to her citizens especially the youths of
that nation. This is because education is the surest way for personal and national development.
(Omeh, 2010). Education is a purposeful activity directed at achieving certain aims, such as
comprises all the experiences of the person through which knowledge is acquired and
intellect enlightened. Nwabachili and Egbue (1993) stated that education is what goes on from
one generation to another generation. In this context, education is the process of socializing the
child to grow up as a fulfilled member of the society through informal, formal and non-
formal process. Informal education is the process of acquiring knowledge about the
environment and beyond through living with one another. Stephen (2013) stated that formal
education is a structured and systematic form of learning. This is the education of a certain
standardized in all learning institutions preprimary, primary, secondary and higher institutions,
the government put in place National Policy On Education ( Nwabachili and Egbue, 1993).
Formal education is a consciously planned form of socialization in a formal setting such as school
(Onah, 2018). They stressed that non-formal education involve all those systematic programmes
and processes of education and training that is done outside formal education setting. All these
The National Policy of Education (NPE 2013) philosophy and goals of education in chapter 9
and
Sections a, c, e and f are intriguing to this study in that, they have to do with socialization,
control their own feelings and behaviors, and get along with peers and become independent and
comfortable to study the surroundings (Ashdown & Bernard, 2012). In order for children to
learn in their classes, they need such as cooperation, following directions, demonstrating self-
control and paying attention, they must have social-emotional skills. According to Ashdown and
Bernard (2012) there are core socio-emotional skills. These are: self-awareness, social
& Weissberg, 2001; Fettig, Santos, & Shaffer, 2012). Also recognizing if someone is sad or
happy, expressing yourself with your friends in a different way than with your parents,
understanding your thoughts and feelings, and being able to relate to others are essential in
preschoolers’ education Ashdown and Bernard (2012). Self-awareness is the tendency to
recognize and identify one’s own inner states, choices, preferences and abilities. Cherry, (2022)
stated that self-awareness is your ability to perceive and understand the things that make you
who you are as an individual, including your personality, actions, values, beliefs, emotions, and
thoughts. He further said Infants possess the awareness that they are a separate being from
others, which is evidenced by behaviors that it is a psychological state in which the self becomes
Empathy as stated by Davis (2022) is the ability to understand and share the feelings of another.
When you are empathetic, you put yourself in another person’s shoes, make an effort to see the
world from their perspective, and feel the emotions that they feel. Better kids (2022) said social
awareness is the ability to take the perspective of and empathize with others from diverse
backgrounds and cultures, to understand social and ethical norms for behaviour, and to
recognize family, school, and community resources and supports. They further stated that social
awareness is an important skill for preschoolers to develop in order to build positive
communication skills, social awareness is also important for our own emotional well-being
Carnevale (2021) said cooperation is the ability to balance one’s own needs with someone
else’s. We often think of cooperation as children doing what adults want. He also stated that true
cooperation means a joint effort (a give and take) that is mutually satisfying. To develop a
cooperative spirit in children, we need to help them understand how our requests and rules are
good for everyone. Barowski (2022) opined that ccooperation is when two or more people work
together to achieve a set goal. For cooperation to work, everyone must be an active member of
the team and do what they agree to do. Teaching children how to cooperate helps them
understand teamwork at home and school, builds trust with others, increases empathy, promotes
social skills, forms healthy relationships, and gives them a sense of belongingness.
in order to obtain the needed skills to be successful in childhood and in adult life. According to
Funk and Ho (2018), the two most important practices used to promote children’s socio-
emotional skills development are building relationships and intentional teaching. Building
trusting relationships provides a child with security. Children will feel more comfortable asking
questions, independently solving problems, trying new activities and verbally expressing
themselves (Funk & Ho, 2018). Relationships should be built gradually with children and their
families. This is an essential part of a quality early childhood education (Corso, 2007). Positive
family variables will help promote respectful relationships and make a positive difference in a
young child’s life. By creating opportunities for these interactions to occur, children will feel
validated. To create positive relationships with children, families need to intentionally embed
these opportunities into their homes each day by using the right and positive family variables
Family is one of the social institutions in the society and the basic unit for raising
children Onah (2018). A family is a group of people affiliated by recognized birth, by marriage,
or co-residence and shared consumption (Bell, 2011). Family represents people living
society (Herman, 2011). Family therefore, refers to a social institution with the
members of the society. A family is the smallest unit of the society and has many types and
forms or structure. Family is described in the context of this study as a social institution
between people who are living together by marriage and share things together. This implies
that family brings together two different people, culture and of social class into one entity
and understanding. The family is primarily concerned in t r a i n i n g a n d molding the
behavioural pattern of their children for successful adaptation both at home, in school and
the society at large. Therefore, the nature of family variables will determines the usefulness,
and the socio-emotional development of their children at home, in school and the society at large
which psychologist like Piaget (1956) observed is based on family which centered on nature
and nurture.
Family variables are those variables that determine a child’s physical, mental, socio-emotional
development in the family Onah (2018). Similarly, Eze (2012) observed that family
variables refer to those factors that are innate or which a particular family is known for
which have an effect in the activities and development of their children. In support of the
above view, Stephen (2013) explained that families variables encompasses those biological
and environmental influence which families are exposed to which in turn affect the families
and their offspring. Family variables in this context refers to those physical, mental, and social
development which children obtain from their homes or parents’ and or the environment
which have great impact on their well-being, ability to perform a task, determination in life
and level of their socio-emotional development in school. Family variables therefore include
parental style of upbringing, parental standard of living (level of income), family type,
parental education status, parents’ occupation and family size, among others.
Family type refers to the status a child is ascribed at birth and this plays a major role in a
child’s life. It can also be described as the family state of birth of a child (Eric, 2010).
Anderson (2013) opined that the three main types of family are classified on the basis of size
or structure and the depth of generations which includes; nuclear, single parent and
extended families. Nuclear family is a family that consists of father, mother and their children.
Guthrie (2013) opined that a child born into a nuclear family may have more opportunity to
imbibe both ethnic, cultural, religious, social and economic gain and this count for both
physical and emotional stability of that child. Such child may receive more attention and co-
operation towards him or her; hence, there is less conflict at homes. Panas (2013)
explained that single-parent family is one where there is one parent and one or more
widowhood. Stephen (2013) states that extended family are where parents and children co-
reside with relatives. Stephen further explained that in this type of family, they may have
Furthermore, Marvick (2012) was of the view that the type of family a child is born into would
help shape to some degree, the way the child grows, socializes and the level of
development in certain areas of the his life. So, from the above discussion, it seems that
educational level.
Parental educational status refers to the academic attainment and other trainings acquired by
parents. It is the ability or inability of the parents to acquire education (Isaac, 2012). In the
view of Larry (2012), parental educational status means the level at which a parent has
attained educationally. In support of the above, Kenla (2012) assert that parental educational
status is classified according to academic qualification starting from doctorate level, masters
level, degree holder, NCE, holder, WAEC holder, first school leaving certificate and illiterate.
Mark (2012) classified parental educational status as literate and illiterate which is in support
of (Isaac, 2012). The present study will focus on Mark’s classification of parental educational
status which is literate and illiterate. According to Olivia (2013), literate parents are educated
and may have high expectations and view education and the socio-emotional development of
their children to be very important. Roselyn (2013) asserts that literate parents may provide
and nurture their children to develop socio-emotional skills that will carry them all through
life.
Parental occupation refers to what parents do in life for their economic survival. Okafor
(2012) also described it as what parents do to earn their living. Okoye (2013) defined parental
occupation as the job parents do which is parental characteristic that predicts their soco-
emotional development of their children. In the opinion of Nan (2013), parental occupation
is the daily engagement of parents to make ends meet. Nan further classified parental
occupation thus business men and women, civil servants, farmers and politicians. Sam (2013)
explained that students whose parents are civil servants like teachers or lecturers may be
This may be attributed to the fact that they want to assume the same or similar
occupations like their parents’ when they grow up. Some students whose parents are business
men and women, politicians and farmers may have little or no interest in education and tend
to be inactive, hence, their behavior may be affected (Brandy, 2013). The children might not
be emotional due to the fact that they are emulating their parents. But notwithstanding,
students socio-emotional skills development can as be affected by the size of students family.
Family size can be termed as the number of children in a giving family. Chima (2008) referred
to it as the number of children that make up a family. Udensi (2013) described family size as
a family trait which has significant effect on the interrelationship among its members and can
play a major role in the formation of a child's personality. Udensi asserts that a family may
be small or large in size. Okafor (2012) agreeing, said that a small family size contains small
number of children one to four children, while a large family size is made up of many children.
The size of the family also determines the kind of care the child or children which may affect
their socio-emotional skills development. He further explained that children from small
family size receive more attention, thus their needs especially school needs are provided with
ease as mentioned in the National Policy of Education. Nevertheless, Chima (2008), Okafor
(2012), Ashdown and Bernard, 2012) and Funk and Ho (2018) observed that children of today
lacked love, care for one another, goal setting, empathy, taking responsibility, responsible
In view of the above, the researcher seeks to determine the relationship between family
State.
single household in a particular society primary responsibility for the education and
socialization of children as well as instilling values of citizenship and belonging in the society.
Observations have shown that some children do not exhibit the right socio-emotional
appreciation, cooperation and many more. Children today have been viewed as a generation of
social and emotional but the needed socio-emotional skills that will enhance teaching and
learning are not observable. From an early age, children have been nurture and exposed
through social and emotional behavour, such as empathy, love, affection, cares and so on, to
explored and discovered new concepts. Family variables present in families are critical to the
development of the social-emotional skills. Therefore, this study seeks to determine the
relationship between family variables and socio-emotional skills development among
The purpose of this study is to determine the relationship between family variables and socio-
emotional skills development among preschoolers in public schools in Rivers State. Specifically,
1. Find out the relationship between family type and self-awareness as socio-emotional
2. Determine the relationship between parental education status and social awareness as
4. Examine the relationship between family size and cooperation as socio-emotional skills
2. To what extent does parental education status relate to social awareness as socio-
1.5 Hypotheses
Rivers State
The findings of this study will be beneficial to the teachers, parents, curriculum planners,
The parents will benefit from this study in using the right family variables in developing
children social and emotional skills and problem-solving skills which will promote children
responsible decision-making in school and all through their life. Also, the teacher will benefit
from this study and adjust in consideration of family variables in resolving maters in class in
order to improve teaching and learning to meet the needs of all preschoolers.
The study will help curriculum planners to appreciate and assess the impact of family
curriculum. Adequate knowledge about the family variables could also help the school
different family type, parental education status, parents’ occupation and family size.
The study will help educational authorities through the required specific agencies and
ministries to consider family variables in teaching pre-primary schools. The society at large
will benefit from this study because the end graduates that will go out of the school will
benefit the society at large. Other researchers who are working on similar topic may draw
The school guidance counselors will also benefit from the findings of this study. They will be in
position to guide and counsel students in the area of personal social interactions. The
findings of the study will be of immense help to educational administrators. They will use the
findings in the formulation of policy that will regulate equal educational opportunities for all
children irrespective of their family background in the distribution of equipment, facilities and
amenities to schools. The findings of this study will help the society at large in identifying how
family variables such as what parents’ level of education, parents’ income, parents’
occupation, and family size can affect preschoolers on socio-emotional skills development.
1.7 Delimitation
The content scope of this study is delimited to the parents in the nursery schools that are
nurturing the preschoolers with family variables (family type, parental education status,
parents’ occupation and family size) and socio-emotional skills development form the focus of
Family Variables: Family variables are many among which are family type, family
size, birth-order, parenting style, etc. For this study, the family
variables are seen as the family factors that affects the upbringing
of the child such as the location, size and family income.
Single parent-family: This refers to a family with only one parent.
Development: This is act or the process where by a preschooler experiences
growth or progress in all areas of life.
Parental Education Level: This is the educational qualification of an individual who could be
the father, mother, siblings or member of the extended family.
Family size: Family size has to do with the total number of people in a single
family which may include the father, mother, children.
Socio-emotional skills: refers to the child’s experiences, expressions and his management
of emotions and his ability to establish positive and rewarding
relationship with others.
Empathy is the ability to understand and share another person’s feelings and emotions.
Social Awareness is the ability to take the perspective of and understand with others from
Cooperation is the ability to balance one’s own needs with someone else’s.
CHAPTER 2
This chapter presents a reviews centrered on family variables and development of socio-
emotional skills among preschoolers in early childcare centers. It will be done under the
following headings;
Conceptual Framework
1. Family Variables
Theoretical Framework
The origin of f a m i l y as a social institution is a subject that has aroused much interest in
man. The existence of man on earth is attributed to the existence of family as a social
institution. The perception of family has been viewed in various ways by different authors.
According to Harris (2012), family is generally regarded as a major social institution in the
society. Foucault (2013) noted that a family is a group of two or more people that are related
by blood, marriage, adoption, step or fostering, and who usually live together in the same
support of the above definitions (Johnson, 2013) asserts that a family is a group of people
who, in most cases, live together, share their money and food and are supposed to take care
of one another. Johnson further explained that members of family are either genetically
related or legally bounded to each other and thereby have the same or a similar surname.
Kelly (2013) conceptualized family as group of people related by blood in one form or the
other, and therefore there are restrictions for marrying within the family and bans for having
Family variables refer to those factors which affect the entire growth and development of
children. According to Stephen (2013), family variables encompass those biological and
environmental influence which families are exposed to which in turn affect them and their
offspring. This means that family variables are those variables that determine a child’s
physical, mental, social and emotional development in the family. Eze (2012) noted that
family variables are those variables that are innate which a particular family is known for
and which affects the activities and behavior of their children. Family variables in this study
refer to those behavioral patterns or natures which children obtain from their homes or
parents’ which have great influence on the socio-emotional development and in teaching and
learning. These variables may be within or outside the family environment which includes
parental style of upbringing, parental standard of living (level of income), family type,
parental education status or background, parent’s occupation, family size and many more.
Family Type
Family type refers to the status a child is ascribed at birth. Similarly, Chen (2010)
described family types as a status one acquired at birth. In support of the above, Dowdall
(2012) opined that family type is the social placement which confers the child’s own social
identity at birth. Family type is classified into different types and forms or structures
according to sociologist which is based on different parameters and world norms. This study
is centered on the major types of family which includes nuclear, single parent
(divorced or separated, widow or widower and out of wedlock) and extended family. Family
type which the students come from is also one of the family variables that can promote or
impede the socio-emotional skills development of the students’ in schools. Griffi (2012)
asserts that the family type which the learners live also contributes to the capacities needed
Nuclear family may have more opportunity to imbibe both ethnic, cultural, religious and
economic gain and this count for both physical and emotional stability of that child. A
nuclear family is a family unit consisting of two parents and their children (Gill, 2012). The
nuclear family is sometimes called the immediate family or the elementary family. Such child
may receive more attention and co-operation towards his/her education (God’spresence,
2013). Supporting the above view, Ellis (2013) recorded that a nuclear family supports the
socio-emotional skills development of the learners because the environment which the
student or learners are exposed to are ventilated, proper-spaced reading rooms, good diet
and the like which positively supports the ability of the students’ to read and learn, no matter
the socio-emotional challenges faced by learners (Jabirus, 2012). This is because the family
may provide all the economic needs of the child both at home and in schools which enhance
emotional support. This will make the child to have the zeal to study in school. On the
contrast, Gill (2012) stated that some children from nuclear family lack conducive learning
environment for learning due to poverty. In such families the students’ live in squalor and
poor health conditions which do not support socio-emotional skills development. These
may influence the socio-emotional skills development of that child. In this case the child
Shuani (2022) said nuclear family is one which consists of the husband wife and their children.
Soon after marriage, the children leave their parental home and establish their separate
household. Hence a nuclear family is an autonomous unit free from the control of the elders.
Since there is physical distance between parents and their married children, there is minimum
interdependence between them. Thus a nuclear family is mostly independent. Modern family is
Single-parent families are families with children under age 18 headed by a parent who is
widowed or divorced and not remarried, or by a parent who has never married Smith (2020).
Jeremy (2021) stated that a single parent is someone who is unmarried, widowed, or divorced
and not remarried. The single-parent household can be headed by a mother, a father, a
grandparent, an uncle, or aunt. They must be raising the child or children in their residence
without a partner living there; they have divorced, widowed, legally separated, or unmarried; the
children must be legal dependents or biological. Single parent families usually have a shortage
of finances, which can have emotional effects on the children, such as increased frustration and
anger and an increased danger of violent behavior. They might experience feelings of sadness,
anxiety, loneliness, abandonment, and have difficulty with socializing (Smith, 2020). She also
said the association of single parents with different partners can also leave a profound impact on
the child. Such single-parent children may also have a commitment phobia.
Kalapana (2022) said parenting is tough, and it gets even tougher when you are a single parent
and all the responsibilities are on you. A child gets a sense of security from home, which affects
how they interact with the outside world. Low expectation from people around them is another
effect of being raised by a single parent. They may be unable to maintain a happy and healthy
marriage life as they have not experienced living with both parents. The primary cause of low
self-esteem in such children stems from the fact that they do not get adequate attention and
advice from their only parent, which can severely hinder their emotional and psychological
growth (Smith, 2020). She further stated that single parent households usually have a shortage
of finances, which can have emotional effects on the children, such as increased frustration and
anger and an increased danger of violent behavior. They might experience feelings of sadness,
anxiety, loneliness, abandonment, and have difficulty with socializing. She further said negative
effects of single parenting on a child can affect a child’s social and emotional development.
Extended family on the other hand refers to the combination of two or more nuclear families
within a single family unit. Here, parents and children co-reside with other members of one
parent's family. Lifestyle (2015) stated that a typical extended family consists of multiple
generations living together in the same household, but some extended families also include
uncles, aunts and cousins who live under one roof. Although this living arrangement has been
very common in some cultures for many years, more everyday families are deciding to live
Parent’s educational status refers to the act of education and training acquired by parents.
According to Umar (2011), is the ability or inability of the parents to acquire education. In
the view of Larry (2012), parent’s educational status means the level in which a parent
attained education formally. Larry further classify Parent’s educational status into four
categories; O’level, NCE, first degree, masters and Ph.D. The level of education of parents has
so much influence in the children’s socio-emotional skills and their academic performance
(Wilson 2013). Parental educational status is another paramount family variable that may
influences the socio-emotional skills development of preschoolers. Some parents are literate
while some are illiterate. Eddy (2012) asserts that educated parents can better understand the
educational needs, social needs, emotional needs and their children’s aptitude. They can help
their children in their early education which affects their proficiency in their relative area of
knowledge and socio-emotional skills. Students’ or learners from literate parents’ are more
likely to achieve higher in school than the students’ from literate families even in socio-
emotional skills development. This is because literate parent or families are fully aware of the
socio-emotional needs and educational needs of their children than the reverse case.
Parental educational status determines the family expectations of their children. Family
the school.
Families with high expectations view education of their children to be very important and as
a result, they provide all the educative materials, taking into consideration of their socio-
emotional skills development and every other thing needed by children in the school. The
resultant effect is that this helps to boost interest of children and their socio-emotional skills
of their family. The children welfare is very important in respect to the traditions, norms
and beliefs held by the family about their children’s intellectual work in general and
and conditions resulting from these traditions are related to school success. Walberg
(2012) asserts that family educational status affect children’s work habits, socio-emotional,
Family educational status provides children with intellectual, social and emotional capacities
which greatly improve their chances of mastering the school curriculum (Mark, 2012).
According to Jacobs (2012), the primary mechanisms that is joining particular types of
family educational status with student success are the capabilities children assume by
virtue of experiences with and relationships among immediate and extended family
members. Such “social capital” according to Yakubu (2013) is comprised of the assets
people accrue by virtue of their relationship with other individual and networks of people.
Depending on the existence of high level of trust, these assets may take a number of form,
such as reciprocal obligations, access to information and norms which enforce functional
the parents’ may affect greatly the socio-emotional skills development of the students’ in
school.
Parental Occupation
Parental occupation refers to what parents do to earn their living. According to Jacobs
(2012) parental occupation refers to job descriptions of parents. Some parents are business
men or women, civil servants, farmers and politician. According to Gods power (2013),
children who their parents are civil servants do well in school as their parents’ have high
academic expectation and socio-emotional skills development. Such Parents’ expect their
children to succeed in school. Civil servants do not accept excuses for poor behaviour or
laziness. On the other hand, parents who are businessmen or women, farmers, and
pursuance of wealth and power as the case may be and as such, their children most of the
time follow their trend. Children from such parents may not have socio-emotional skills
development in school. Therefore, it is expected that children from parents who are civil
servant have higher expectations and may perform better than those children whose parents
are business people, farmers and politician. In support of the above, Mark (2012) asserts that
Chand (2022) stated profession, Employment and Business as types of occupation. Herrity
(2022) stated that a profession is a disciplined of individuals who adhere to ethical standards and
who hold themselves out as, and are accepted by the public as possessing special knowledge and
skills in a widely recognized body of learning derived from research, education and training at a
high level, and who are prepared to apply this knowledge and exercise these skills in the interest
of others. The primary objective of every profession is to provide services. The professionals get
some remuneration for providing such services. Thus, doctors, lawyers, and other professionals
work with service motive and in the process to earn money for their livelihood (Mark, 2012).
and training to practice it. Specialized knowledge: Every profession requires specialized
cannot become a doctor without pursuing the necessary course of studies for medical degree. A
lawyer must have knowledge and training in law to be able to provide legal services to the
people. To be a chartered accountant one has to pass the examinations conducted by the Institute
of Chartered Accountants of Nigeria (Chand, 2022). These professionals nurture and guide their
Employment refers to an occupation in which a person works regularly for others and get
workers are all said to be in employment (Larry, 2012). The characteristics of employment are
work for others; they are not free to decide the work to be done, they have to follow the
instructions of their boss or employer and terms and conditions in employment; there are certain
terms and conditions regarding work to be performed, hours of work, amount of remuneration
and other facilities, if any (Omeh, 2010). The employer who offers employment normally
decides these conditions. The person seeking a job must join the work only after being satisfied
with the terms and conditions. The remuneration payable to an employee is fixed and is paid in
the form of wage or salary. An employee gets his wage or salary at regular intervals. This may
be on daily or monthly basis. The increments in pay, and other allowances are also payable on
Business refers to an occupation in which goods and services are produced, sold and exchanged
in return for money (Herrity, 2022). It is carried out on a regular basis with the prime objective
of making profit. Mining, manufacturing, trading, transporting, storing, banking, and insurance
are examples of business activities. Parental type of occupation (profession, Employment and
Family Size
Family size refers to the number of people that make up a family. Larry (2012) opined that
family size is the number of people that live together in a home. Family size has a significant
effect on the interrelationships among its members and can play a major role in the formation
of a child's personality (Chand, 2022). Family size can be small or large. Children in small
families receive greater amount of individual attention and tend to be comfortable around
Onah (2018) stated that children from a small family size are overprotected, however, may
result to dependency, lack of initiative, and fear of risks, and the increased parental
attention. Petito (2011) pointed out that children from small family size tend to have high
intelligent quotient; successful academically and socio-emotional skills because of the attention
shown by their parents. However, only children from small family size have been found to
have more psychological problems than children from larger families (Chand, 2022). A small
family size comprises of father, mother and few (usually one to four) children (Adeyinka,
2013). Small family size receives a greater amount of individual attention and tends to be
comfortable among them( Ene, 2021). He further stated the following are the characteristics of
small family size: It consists of small number of people (two to six members), members of the
small family know one another very well, there is love and harmony, problem is quickly
resolved because of its manageable size, they are blood related, they have strong feelings for
Large family size is a family that has mother, father and more than four children with or without
relations (Chand, 2022). Children of large families have greater opportunity to learn
cooperation at an early age as they learn to get along with siblings (Adeyinka, 2013). Such
children also take on more responsibilities, both for themselves and often for younger brothers
and sisters. These children cope with the emotional crises of sibling rivalry, from which they
may learn important lessons that will aid them later in life (Chand, 2022). Larry (2012) said a
large family size consists of father, mother, brothers, nephews, grandparents and many children.
Family size may influence the development of the socio-emotional skills of the preschoolers
Social-emotional skills are essential for connecting you with others, they help us manage our
emotions, build healthy relationships, and feel empathy Carnevale (2021). He also said that
children start learning these skills from birth, as soon as they begin interacting with the people
who care for them; they begin to develop and understand feelings. Parents help to nurture social-
making, cooperation and many more) so children can develop healthy relationships with
classmates, caregivers, friends and family members. Chand, (2022) opined that even as a babies,
they pick up on how you respond to their social and emotional needs. He further stated that
They learn how to empathize, respond to the emotions of others, and say “I’m sorry” by
following your lead. With healthy social-emotional skills, preschoolers are more likely to
succeed in school, work, and in life (Ene, 2021). He also stated that social-emotional skills help
preschoolers to; make friends and keep friendships, gain confidence, resolve conflicts, manage
stress and anxiety, learn social norms, make appropriate decisions, resist negative social
pressure, learn strengths and weaknesses, gain awareness of what others are feeling. Social-
emotional growth takes time, early experiences with family, caregivers, and peers greatly impact
social and emotional development, but throughout our lives we will continue to be shaped by
our experiences (Kaiser, 2022). These experiences can include meeting new people, overcoming
Self-awareness is the ability to monitor your own emotions and reactions. It enables you know
your strengths, weaknesses, triggers, motivators and other characteristics (Barowski , 2022).
Being self-aware means taking a deeper look at your emotions, why you feel a certain way, and
how your sentiments could turn into reactions. Carnevale (2021) stated that self-awareness is the
ability to understand that the self is separate from others; however, to be self-aware, a person
must be able to recognize and label their own feelings, thoughts, and behaviors. If a person is
self-aware, he can assess his own physical, mental, and emotional states and understand there
are various aspects of his internal personality that allow you to interact with the external world
(Barowski, 2022).
He further said that there are two types of self-awareness; private self-awareness and public self-
awareness. Private self-awareness is introspective, approaching your feelings and reactions with
curiosity. Private self-awareness is a moment of realization that only you involve yourself.
Public self-awareness is the ability to understand how others perceive you and usually follows
Kaiser (2022) said social awareness is an important skill for preschoolers to develop in order to
relationships and communication skills, social awareness is also important for our own
emotional well-being, how often do we find ourselves consciously aware of the feelings and
perspectives of those we interact with every day, whether they are familiar or strangers? At
school, preschoolers have numerous interactions with peers, teachers, and more. Outside of
school, social situations can include being around family members at home, friends at the
park, or community members at the local library or stores. How can we teach our children to
take the perspective of the various people they interact with, and show compassion and
important for our own emotional well-being. Remember Maslow’s hierarchy of needs? We
need to feel loved and fulfill our sense of our belonging (Barowski, 2022). In order to
recognize others’ emotions, we first need to be able to recognize our own emotions. This
social awareness is an essential tool for taking perspective for the feelings of those around
us. Finn (2020) said recognizing emotions through social awareness includes reading facial
expressions, body language, and understanding voice intonations. Here are some examples
of situations in which the child has social awareness; appreciation for cultural differences
and diversity. Our social awareness helps us to connect with the world around us; Strong
teamwork - both family members and children can work together as teams that embody
respect and strong communication when they are aware of the feelings and perspectives of
those around them. Barowski, (2022) stated the following as practicing social awareness;
Listening - Modeling and practicing good listening skills is a good step to take when
building social awareness. As parents and teachers we can model listening with verbal and
nonverbal cues.
For example, after listening to your children or student tell a story about their day you can
share their perspective and recognize any social and emotions they might have shared.
Recognizing Social Cues - One aspect of developing socialization is being able to recognize
social cues, or social norms. These include voice intonations, body language, and verbal and
nonverbal cues. Features a catalog of activities that focus on these skills can help
Reading Books - Books are a great way to help children build social awareness through
visual representation and storytelling. This is especially true with books that have real-life
examples; children can connect to and relate to the characters. Reading Books can help spark
meaningful conversations for children to learn more about themselves, others and the world
around them (Finn, 2020). Expressing gratitude - When we are expressing gratitude we are
recognizing and acknowledging kindness that was shown to us, and we want to return that
kindness. Practicing gratitude daily will help to strengthen our ability to empathize and be
Ene, (2021) said developing social awareness, as with all social emotional skills, is the best
as children will face challenges along the way and being aware of those around them, their
feelings, and their perspectives will take practice. Practice also the ability to build strong
relationships and make responsible decisions in the family and at school when they face
challenges.
Andrew (2022) said empathy is the ability to understand and share another person’s feelings and
emotions. It is essential to building good relationships, at home, school, work and in your
personal life. People who do not exhibit empathy are viewed as cold and self-absorbed, and they
often lead isolated lives. Sociopaths are famously lacking in empathy. Conversely, someone
who is empathetic is perceived as warm and caring. Balani, (2020) said empathy is the ability to
understand and respect another person’s perspective, is the foundation of all human interaction.
As your preschooler grows, he/she is beginning to recognize what others are feeling, and you
can help teach your child about empathy and its importance even at this young age. Observation
is a key feature of empathy, and children in preschool are beginning to read the gestures, facial
expressions, and actions of others to figure out what they are feeling. You can build your child’s
observation skills by pointing out when you see someone behaving kindly, or poorly, as this will
Bryant (2022) opined that empathy is being able to "put yourself in someone's shoes" and see
things from their view. Empathy is the first step in having positive relationships because it helps
us understand and relate to others. He further stated that empathy has two parts, shared emotion
and seeing other perspectives. Both parts of empathy are ways in which we make the effort to
understand other people and share an emotion with them. If you want to understand empathy
and build your ability to understand others, here are some great tools to start (Andrew 2022).
They are challenge yourself, get out of your usual environment, get feedback, explore the heart
not just the head, walk in others’ shoes, examine your biases, cultivate your sense of curiosity
Carnevale (2021) said school is a critical environment for children to interact with others and
develop social and emotional skills. So much learning, experience, and development happens
during school time, especially at young ages. It is important to create a classroom that teaches
and values empathy so preschoolers can learn healthy behaviours and build healthy relationships
in their lives now and in the future. He further stated that to be empathetic, or to have empathy,
means trying to understand someone else’s experience and to connect with the emotions they are
feeling. The foundation of an empathic response is the ability to step into the shoes of another
person and to understand their feelings and perspectives. Empathy is most often associated with
responding to others who are struggling with feelings of fear, isolation, anger, and loneliness.
Empathy also responding to positive feelings people experience like joy, satisfaction, and
success (Barowski, 2022). As preschoolers begin to develop empathy, they become aware
of the differences between themselves and other people. They start to realize that we all
have contrasting thoughts, opinions, and feelings, which helps them become tolerant and
Carnevale (2021) said cooperation is the ability to balance one’s own needs with someone
else’s. We often think of cooperation as children doing what adults want. He also stated that true
cooperation means a joint effort (a give and take) that is mutually satisfying. To develop a
cooperative spirit in children, we need to help them understand how our requests and rules are
good for everyone. Barowski (2022) opined that ccooperation is when two or more people work
together to achieve a set goal. For cooperation to work, everyone must be an active member of
the team and do what they agree to do. Teaching children how to cooperate helps them
understand teamwork at home and school, builds trust with others, increases empathy, promotes
social skills, forms healthy relationships, and gives them a sense of belongingness
Finn (2020) said cooperation is the act of working together for the benefit of everyone involved,
versus competing against one another for personal gain. Competition has its place, but
cooperation is the backbone of our families, communities, schools and cultures. Teaching
children cooperation paves the way for healthy relationships, collaboration, productivity, and a
sense of being an important part of something bigger than themselves. Teaching a baby or a
preschooler to cooperate has its challenges, but there are ways to steadily incorporate lessons of
cooperation into your day to day in the family and school (Wikipedia, 2022).
Kaiser (2022) stated that teaching children how to cooperate helps them understand teamwork,
builds trust with others, increases empathy, promotes social skills, forms healthy relationships,
and gives them a sense of belongingness. He further stated some tips for teaching cooperation:
Practice turn-taking and sharing, Problem-solve together, discuss the reasons why there are
family rules, offer praise when they show signs of cooperation, Provide opportunities for them
them understand teamwork and collective problem-solving skills, Build trust with others,
Learn empathy, grow emotional skills, Feel safe and secure in their environments, Bond with
belonging, Form healthy relationships. Basically, cooperation brings out the best in us, in order
These characteristics do not just make our kids better people, they also make our families,
Box A
Family Variables
Family type,
Parental education status
Parental occupation and
Family size.
Figure 2.1 is showing if there will be a relationship between family variables (family type,
parental education status, parental occupation and family size.) and socio-emotional skills
Family Variables
Parental
educational status
Family type,
Family Variables
Parents’
occupation
Family size
Figure 2.2: Family Variables
Figure 2.1 is showing if there will be a relationship between family variables (family type,
parental education status, parents’ occupation and family size.) and socio-emotional skills
The theoretical foundation of this study was done on three schools of thoughts.
Parental attachment theory was proposed by Bowlby (1980). The theory states that the child
forms a strong emotional bond with anther person (caregiver) during childhood with lifelong
consequences. According to the theorist, sensitive and emotionally available parenting helps
the child to form a secure attachment style which foster a child’s socio- emotional
neglect of the child’s needs may result in insecure forms of attachment style, which is a risk
The theory is relevant to this study in view of the fact that the proponent provides clues in
emotional development of children. He also made reasonable suggestions for parents and
guardians. Parents and guardians can now see the necessity of forming secure attachment bond
with their children. Such bonds will enable the children to end up with secure attachment and
secure state of mind later in life. Parents will learn to understand the biological and
psychological needs of the children, and to avoid unrealistic expectations of the child
behaviour. In this way, parents may seek to avoid frustration that occurs when they expect
Family systems theory by Kerr and Bowen in 1988 is a theory of human behavior that defines
the family unit as a complex social system, in which members interact to influence each other's
behavior. Family members interconnect, allowing to view the system as a whole rather than as
individual elements. It is also a theory of human behavior that views the family as an
emotional unit and uses systems thinking to describe the unit’s complex interactions. It is
the nature and variables of a family that its members are intensely connected
emotionally. Families so profoundly affect their members’ thoughts, feelings, and actions
that it often seems as if people are living under the same “emotional skin.” People solicit
each other’s attention, provisions, approval, and support, and they react to each other’s
needs, expectations, and upsets. This connectedness and reactivity make the functioning
their degree of interdependence, but it is always present to some degree. This emotional
families require to protect, shelter, and feed their members. Heightened tension,
however, can intensify these processes that promote unity and teamwork, and this can
lead to problems.
When family members get anxious, their anxiety can escalate by spreading infectiously
among them. As anxiety goes up, the emotional connectedness of family members
becomes more stressful than comforting. Eventually, one or more members feel
overwhelmed, isolated, or out of control. These members are the people who
provision of the basic needs of her children. If the family socio-economic states are low, it
will be very difficult for this function to be performed efficiently; hence, poor condition may
Social learning theory by Albert Bandura in 1977 posits that people emulate the behavior they
observes their parents going to work every day, volunteering at a local community center and
helping their significant other with tasks around the home, the child is likely to mimic those
behaviors. If rewarded, these behaviors become reinforced and most likely repeated by the
individual. Children also learn by imitating the most relevant models. Therefore, females would
be more affected by their mother's parenting skills; whereas males would be more affected by
their father's parenting skills and they may be affected by the family variables practice by their
parents. The father’s and mother's parenting skills affect the children academic, physical
development social and emotional development because they emulate and practice from their
behaviors, attitudes, and emotional reactions of others. Social learning theory considers how
both environmental and cognitive factors interact to influence human learning and behavior.
Several scholars have investigated empirically into some areas of academics as related to family
variables in preschools. This section dealt with those empirical researches conducted by others
researchers.
Nigeria”. The need for the study arose because of the fluctuations in public senior secondary
Twelve research questions and twelve null hypotheses guided the study. Correlational survey
research design was used in the study. The population of the study comprised of 30, 820
male and female SS2 students, in which 385 were drawn using multistage sampling
technique. Family Factors Inventory (FFI), English Language Interest Inventory (ELII)
and English Language Achievement Test (ELAT) were designed by the researcher and used
for data collection. These instruments were validated by five experts. Two in Sociology of
Education, one from Language Education and another two from Measurement and Evaluation;
all from University of Nigeria, Nsukka. The instruments (FFI and ELII) yielded a reliability
coefficient of 0.88 and 0.72 respectively using Cronbach Alpha co- efficient, whereas, Kudar –
Richardson (K-R20) formula was used for ELAT and gave reliabilit y co-efficient of 0.76. The
data were analyzed using Pearson (r) and Spearman (rho) correlation coefficient for the
research questions, while, Analysis of Variance (ANOVA) were used to test the 12 null
The study found among other thing that parental style of upbringing has moderate but negative
relationship on students’ interest, parental style of upbringing revealed high and positive
but low relationship on students’ interest, while their academic achievement indicated a
positive and high relationship with parental standard of living. Furthermore, family type,
parents educational status, parents occupation, and family size have high and positive, high
but negative, low and positive, low and negative relationships respectively with interest
and academic achievement of students’ in English language in the area. The findings were
discussed exhaustively and conclusion made. Based on the findings, recommendations and
suggestion for further studies were also made. The reviewed study is related to the current
study in the area of content family factors. However, the study differ from the current study
Adeleke (2010) carried out a study tittled “influence of parents’ occupation on the academic
Nigeria”. The population of the study was 6160 students and the sample of the study was
1300 students selected through simple random sampling technique. The design of the study
was ex- post facto. The instrument for data collection titled “parents occupation and academic
achievement questionnaire on Yoruba language’ (POAAQYL) was used for the study. Five
research questions and four hypotheses guided the study. Mean and standard deviation was
used to analyze the research questions, while, t-test and analysis of variance (ANOVA) were
used to test the null hypotheses at 0.05 level of significance. The findings of the study
among other things showed that parents’ occupation has influence on students’ academic
achievement in learning Yoruba language in school. The reviewed study is related to the
current one in the area of content (family factors such as parents occupation), but varies in
area of study and research design, location, population among other things.
Ugwu (2010) carried out a study on the influence of family size and family birth order on
Nigeria. The researcher adopted expo-post facto research design. The population
comprised 10,200 pre-degree male and female students’ in three tertiary institutions that offer
pre- degree programme in Enugu state of Nigeria. The sample comprised 102 male and female
pre -degree students’ selected through purposive and simple random sampling technique. A
questionnaire titled “family size and birth order questionnaire (FSBOQ)” was used to elicit
information from the respondents. Mean and standard deviation were used to answers the four
research questions whereas t-test statistic was used to test the three null hypotheses formulated
for the study. The findings of the study shows that family size and birth order have an
reviewed study is related to the current study in the area of content (family size). However,
the study differ from the current study vary in population, location and scope, among other
things.
Okogu (2011) in his study family size and its socio-economic implications on the inhabitants of
Delta State, Nigeria The size of the family is a matter of great concern not only to the state
alone, but also to the welfare and health of the individual, family and the community. This
study assessed the basic factors responsible for choice of family size and the socio-economic
implications of such choices. The specific objective is to access the relationships that exist
between family sizes and socio-economic life of the inhabitants of Delta State of Nigeria. The
review indicated that family size depends on: family income, cost of children and wages. It
realized that choice of family size is influenced by socio- economic variables in the State.
Hence a campaign that will sensitize families on the need to maintain a manageable family size
should be taken seriously by appropriate government agencies. The reviewed study is related
to the current study in the area of content (family size). However, the study differ from the
current study vary in population, location and scope, among other things.
Syed (2019) in his study titled “this literature review explores young children’s social
child’s success in school and in life”. Social emotional development is defined and ideas are
presented on how to promote it. Social emotional skills can be promoted in early childhood
classrooms everyday. This can be done in a variety of lessons and activities. Social emotional
development can be promoted by embedding it in all areas of the day. In recent years, other
priorities have been seen in early childhood classrooms and at home. Some researchers believe
this has resulted in a lack of promotion of social emotional development in young children.
This literature review will explore academic pushdown, technology and children, and limited
free time, including recess. These may affect a young child’s social emotional competency,
therefore they may exhibit more challenging behaviors. Three social emotional development
programs are explored. Social emotional development is so vital in the early years of a child’s
life. Families and teachers need to understand its importance. The reviewed study is related to
the current study in the area of content socio-emotional. However, the study differ from the
current study vary in population, location, scope and, among other things
Akpan and Onwuasonya (2019) in their study “the components of life-skills education that
girls in the South-South States need to acquire. Two research question and two hypotheses
guided the study. The design of the study was descriptive survey design. The population of the
study was 240,000 female SSII students of 2015/2016 academic session. The sample size for
the study was 672 drawn through multi-stage sampling procedure. The instrument used for data
collection was life-skill education for girls’ questionnaire with a reliability coefficient of 0.85.
The research questions were answered using mean and standard deviation while the
hypotheses were analyzed using analysis of variance (ANOVA) and tested at 0.05 level of
significance. The findings from the study reveal that there is no significant difference in the
empathy in the South-South States of Nigeria. Based on these findings it is recommended that
self-awareness and empathy as component of life-skills should be used to educate the girls in
South-South States, Nigeria. The reviewed study is related to the current study in the area of
content (self-awareness and empathy). However, the study differ from the current study vary in
f a m i l y type, Parental education status, Parents’ occupation and Family size. The review
showed that family variables seems to have influence in the socio-emotional skills
development of preschoolers which have so much impact in any teaching and learning
situation.
The theoretical frame work, examined three theories of family systems such as the Parental
Attachment Theory by Bowlby, Family Systems Theory by Kerr and Bowen, and Social
Learning Theory by Albert Bandura. Parental attachment theory opined that sensitive and
emotionally available parenting helps the child to form a secure attachment style which foster
a child’s socio- emotional development and well-being. Less sensitive and emotionally
available parenting or neglect of the child’s needs may result in insecure forms of attachment
style, which is a risk factor for many mental health problems. While Family systems theory
views the family as an emotional unit and uses systems thinking to describe the unit’s
complex interactions. It is the nature and variables of a family that its members are
feelings, and actions that it often seems as if people are living under the same “emotional
skin.” People solicit each other’s attention, provisions, approval, and support, and they
react to each other’s needs, expectations, and upsets. This connectedness and reactivity
Also, social learning theory suggests that social behavior is learned by observing and imitating
the behaviour of others. These theories are related to this study because they lay emphasis on the
importance of family and parenting in the growth, development and the education of the
preschoolers (children) but this study was anchored on the Parental attachment theory was
CHAPTER 3
METHODOLOGY
This chapter deals with the various strategies employed to carrying out this study. They include
the following: Research Design, Area of the Study, Population of the Study, Sample and
Sampling Techniques, Instrument for Data Collection, Validation of the Instrument, Reliability
This study will adopt a correlational research design. Nwankwo (2013) opined that correlational
study seeks to investigate or establish whether two or more variables relate. They usually
indicate the direction of the relationship, whether negative or positive. He further stated that
whenever a researcher is interested in finding out whether there is a relationship between two or
more variables, and data from such variables scores to be correlated, such should be
correlational design. Therefore, correlational research design is the most suitable for this study
because it allows this study to examine the relationship that exists between the variables and it
also shows the extent of relationship that exists between the variables.
The study was carried out in Rivers State, Nigeria. The area is made up of twenty three Local
Government Areas namely: Abua-Odual, Ahoada East, Ahoada West, Akuku Toru, Andoni,
Asari-Toru, Bonny, Degema, Emohua, Eleme, Etche, Gokana, Ikwerre, Khana, Obio-Akpor,
Tai. Rivers State was created May 27th 1967, with an area of 11,077 km 2 and a population of
7,031,973. Its capital and largest city, Port Harcourt, is economically significant as the Centre of
Nigeria oil industry. Rivers State is bounded on south by the Atlantic Ocean, to the North by
Imo, Abia and Anambra States, to the East by Akwa Ibom state, and to the West by Bayelsa and
Delta States. The major occupation of the inhabitants includes; business, education, civil
service, farming, fishing, timber and many others. The choice of this area was due to the
researcher’s observation and knowledge that parents’ have peculiar care, love, support,
orientation and sacrifices for their children’s needs and welfare, especially as it concern
education, physical, social and emotional necessities. Similarly, the area has many public
primary schools that are attached with 530 pre-primary where teachers have passion for
education, physical, social and emotional skills of the preschoolers. So, the researcher’s interest
was aroused in carrying out this study in the area because of the seemingly poor social and
emotional skills display among preschoolers in pre-primary schools in Rivers State, Nigeria.
1,371 Caregivers is the population of this study in the 530 Early Childhood Care Development
Education (ECCDE) centers in the three Senatorial Districts and 23 Local Government Areas in
Rivers State Source: (Rivers State Universal Basic Education Board, 2020).
The sample size will comprise of 269 caregivers. The sample represents 15% of the total
population of the caregivers on 80 centers in Rivers State. In stage one; the researcher will use
purposive sampling technique to select eleven local government areas out of twenty three in
Rivers States, Nigeria. The local government areas that will be selected Abua-Odual,
Ahoada East, Ahoada West, Akuku Toru, Eleme, Gokana, Obio-Akpor, Port Harcourt, Ikwerre,
Emohua and Oyigbo. This selection was based on the numbers of preschools in the local
government areas.
In stage two, the researcher employed proportionate simple sampling technique in selecting
15% on centers of Abua-Odual 6 centers , Ahoada East 6 centers , Ahoada West 6 centers ,
Akuku Toru 5 centers, Eleme 8 centers Gokana 7 centers Oyigbo 7 centers, Obio-Akpor 10
centers, Port Harcourt 10 centers, Ikwerre 7 centers and Emohua 7 centers respectively, totaling
80 centers out of 530. Also 15% on the 1,371 caregivers of Abua-Odual 16 , Ahoada East 16
centers , Ahoada West 16 centers , Akuku Toru 15 centers, Eleme 21 centers Gokana 21 centers
Oyigbo 17 centers, Obio-Akpor 44 centers , Port Harcourt 44 centers, Ikwerre 30 centers and
The instruments for data collection in this study are “Family Variables Scale (FVS) and Socio-
instrument and SESDPS is a 20-item instrument, both will be scored on a 4-point rating scale of
Strongly Agree (SA): 4 points, Agree (A): 3 points, Disagree (D): 2 points and Strongly
Disagree (VLE): 1 point. The FVS and SESDPS scales are to be used to examine the degree of
Preschoolers Scale (SESDPS) will be sent to the research supervisor and two experts in Early
childhood/primary education department for face and content validity. All their
recommendations, suggestions and corrections will be strictly incorporated in the final version
of the instrument.
The reliability of the instruments (FVS and SESPS) will be determined by administering the
instruments to 20 selected caregivers in Rivers State outside the scope of this study. The scores
from the instruments will be analyzed and determined using Cronbach Alpha.
The instruments will be administered by the researcher and 2 research assistants. The research
assistants will be taught on the importance and purpose of the study before sending them to the
field. Administration of the FVS and SESPS will be done concurrently for a period of two
weeks. Copies of the instruments FVS and SESPS that are filled will be collected immediately
The data from respondents will be analyzed using Pearson’s Product Moment Correlation (r) to
answer the research questions and Linear Regression will be used to test the hypotheses. SPSS
Key:
Strongly Agree (SA) 4 points, Agree (A) 3 points, Disagree (D) 2 points and Strongly Disagree
(SD) 1 point.
Key:
Strongly Agree (SA) 4 points, Agree (A) 3 points, Disagree (D) 2 points and Strongly
Disagree(SD) 1 point.