Girls and boys
hhave to/don'thave to * should/must * Thingsto wear * At the doctors
> STARTER
Which of these things do you think boys have to/don't have to
do bette than girls, and vie versa?
P Look at the photo. Can you find a tiny figure? Is ita man or a woman?
I thnk boys are better at What’ happening?
than girs
5 GERD The tiny figure is Tilly Parkins from Sydney, Australia.
4 She's one of the world’s greatest climbers. Listen to the interview
> cooking! + meling conversation and answer the questions,
+ maths + leaming foreign languages + Where does Tily trainin the week?» Who s Adam Pretty?
+ sports + playing computer games + Whats her ob? + Why does Tily go rock climbing?
+ driving + ‘talking about feelings + Wasi difficult to climb Moon Hill rag?
Reine ence)3. Work with a partner. Complete the lines from the interview ronunciation
sretiveorde in the box 1 Listen to these sentences. What are
haveto don'thaveto doyouhaveto hadto didnt haveto cant the different pronunciations of have/has/had?
1 Thave /hiev/ a good job.
Thave /heef/ to work hard.
1 ‘Tm sure you _ have to_be very fit and strong
ca ticibeng? 2 He has hae! «nice camera
2 Hw often tnt ee soins
a train every day, just 3 Wepid seed Weems tins,
two or three times a week, that’s enough? ‘Webasto getup fac
4 Sometimes I work atthe hospital Listen again and repeat
at the weekend!
54 climb very early in the morning? e Talking about sports
6 ‘You ____ climb later inthe day, its too hot’ ag 2 "Work witha partner: Choose « sport fom
7 He climb with me. He took the box, but dont tell your partner. Ask and
MERON ORs nearby tourist spot* answer Yes/No questions to find out what itis,
imei EEE: Use these questions to help you.
4 Complete the questions and answers about Tilly. saling Lele,
olf + doit inside/outside
Mrewcten dee sheheveto sued ott ene gs
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2 she work at weekends?” surfing @
“Yes, she does sometimes! athletic | POvOuhae a es
Be cid seco rltcrg nt ome | eer
after dawn?” boxing Stan hadiere
“Because later it gets too hot and you_____climb carracing |» bevery strong
inthe heat? football + run fast,
4 Adam have to. the rock?” tennis shaves special piace to doit
‘No, he He took the photo from a tourist spot! symnastics | Canyou...?
Listen and check. Practise the questions and answers og ech ances
with your partner, oe + doit onyour own
skydiving | | eamalot of money
Do you have to wear special clothes?
3. Which sports do both boys and girls do?
Are there any sports where girls and
boys compete against each other?
4 Which sports do you do? \
Describe one to a partner.
Use the ideas in exercise 2.
Unit 8 + Girlsand boys 63WHAT’S YOUR ADVICE?
should/must
1 Do you ever read problem pages in newspapers?
‘What sort of things do people ask about?
2 Work with a partner. Read the problems in
Dear Annie. Explain the headings. What advice
would you give?
3 Read Advice from Annie. Match her advice with a
problem, Write in the names.
1 Look at these sentences. Which sentence expresses.
stronger advice?
He must get professional help.
You should show him this letter.
2. Should and must ae modal verbs. Read the examples,
What should do?
You shouldn't worry about this.
He must get help.
‘+ How do we make the question and negative?
‘+ Dowe add swith he/she/it?
>> Grammar Reference 83-84 p43
‘Complete the sentences using the words in the
box. Who is the advice to?
shouldn't’ should must
dont think you should
1 You ‘explain how you feel to your
‘coach and your mother. However in the end, the
cision is yours and yours alone. You.
decide your own future.
2 Tal him firmly that ne ‘change his
ways or hel lose his wife and family, Talk to all
your fends and famiy about the problem — you
suffer alone,
You _ write your speech down but
i "ead it aloud tothe group, Just
‘make notes to help you remember it For more
hap, you visit speechtips.com.
Problems
1.No time for fun!
''m 14 and I do gymnastics. [have to train 30 hours a week
because my mum and my coach want me to try for the next
‘Olympics. | lke gyrnnastics but | have no time for anything else
in my if, My school friends tell me that | am missing al the fun,
What should | do? Traey
2 I've lost my husband to a game
‘My husband started playing online computer games last year.
Since then he has lost all interest in everything alse, even me and,
‘our baby. He starts playing as soon as he gets up, and begins
‘again when he gets back from work. He gets angry iI talk to him
‘about it. What should | do? Paula
I get so nervous
Ti inthe army, and in my job Ihave to giv talks to large
‘groups of people. The last ime was a fsaser because | was
0 nervous. My hands shook and | spoke too fast. How can |
contro my nerves? What should do? Mark
Ihate him!
Tm 11 and my brother is 18, | think my mum and dad love him
more than me. They've just bought him the best computer —
they say he has to have it for his exams. | don't even have ry
‘own mobile phone, AND | have to wear all his old clothes! Billy
° ‘Good preparation is the answer. You must prepare. ‘well and practise
lot. The frst 30 seconds are the most important, You should begin
‘with personal stor, It wil relax you and the audience.
‘More and more people worldwide have become addicted to this,
He must get professional hep, but this is dificutt because he won't
accept that he has a problem. | tik you should show him this
letter, and visit the website olganon.org,
You talk to your parents about
how you feel. And you foal jealous
of your brother! He's oidar than you, thats all
Listen and check
64 Unit 8 + Girls and boys
‘These feeings are very comm:
10 bt
‘sure your parents love you and
‘The facts, that to get to the top in
. Port yoU have to train
‘very hard indeed. You should tak to someone else about your
doubts. I don't thnk you should isten to just your tends,PRACTICE LISTENING AND SPEAKING
Giving advice Heptathlon champion
1 Work in small groups. Give advice 1 ‘The word Heptathlon comes from the Greek hepta (seven) and athlon
to people with these problems. (contest). It is an athletic competition where there are seven events
1 Leantt sleep at night. ‘over two days. These are ...
You must do more exercise. + lOmburdles + 800metres + high jump — + shot put
You shouldn't drink so much coffee. */200metres + longjump + javelin throw
2 {dont ike my brothers new girfiend. ‘Match the events with the pictures.
3. Ive got animportant exam tomorrow,
and Im really nervous
4. Aboy in my class is bullying me,
5. tmhopeess at all sports.
6 | fell over and think ve twisted
my ankle
7. My computer’ behaving very strangely.
8 My carsmaking a funny noise.
Listen and compare
your answers.
What do you think? =
2. Make sentences from the chart Jessica Ennis —
pices Britain’s first world heptathlon champion!
Hyouwant to...
2 Listen to an interview with Jessica Ennis, She is Britain’ first women’s
ery heptathlon champion. Underline the correct answer.
ov» be successful,
keep fit,
‘The World Athletic Championships were in Brighton/ Berlin | Brussels.
Jessica missed the Olympics because she injured her ankle/ knee/ wrist.
1
2
3. She had to work with physiotherapists for five/ nine/ ten months to recover,
4
you have to Her mum works for a chemist’s/a charity/ a painter.
porch sicas coach says that she must be more patient / determined aggre
you soud Jessica's coach says that she must be more patient / determined aggressive.
OER 6 He told her that she shouldn't eat chocolate/ get a dog/ see her boyfriend.
youmust 7 Her boyfriend is always/ sometimes never with her when she competes.
8 She keeps her gold medal/ dog! javelin by her bed.
work hard
sees 3 EERB Listen again. Answer the questions
lear the grammar. 1 Why did Jessica miss the Olympics in China?
go to university. 2. Why does her mum have to have alot of patience?
"buy actionary. 3. What nationality is her dad? What does he do?
smoke, 4 What do Jessica and her coach fight about?
transate every word 5 What are Jessica’ interests other than athletics?
6 Which sports does she have to improve?
‘Tella partner.
DD WRITING Lettersandemailspi2 What do you think?
‘Work in groups. Think of some successful people, What do they do?
How and why did they become successful? Tell the class.
Unit 8 + Girls and boys 65READING AND
PEAKING
Families with all boys or all girls
Doa class survey. Which girls have sisters and no brothers?
Which boys have brothers and no sisters? How does this
affect their family
Look at the adjectives in the box. Which do you think
usually describe boys, and which girls? Use your
dictionary if necessary.
sporty gentle boisterous loud
chatty untidy competitive sensitive polite
Read the introduction to Sons and Daughters. What was
the aim of the TV programme? Who were the two familie
What did they have to do?
4 Work in two groups. Answer the questions,
Group B Read about the Tibbett family and the swa
‘THE FAMILY.
1 What jobs do the parents do?
2 How long have they been married?
3 Why did they want a big family?
4 Why are the husbands happy with their families?
5 How do the children behave? Do they get on well?
‘THE SWAP
6 What were the parents’ first impres
swapped families?
7 What differences did they find?
8 Do they think boys or girls are harder to bring up?
jons when they
Find a partner from the other group. Go through the
questions together and compare your families.
What do you think
‘+ What are the pros and cons of all-gt or l-boy families?
‘+ Whats the ideal family? How many children is the ideal? Why?
+ Are/Were there many house rules in your family? What do/did you
have todo? Write alist of house rules forthe ideal family.
6 Listen to three people talking about their families.
After each one answer these questions. Who do you think
is the happiest?
1 How many brothers and sisters do they have?
2 Where do they come in the family? First? Second? ete.
3. What do they like about their situation?
4 What dont they like?
5 Do they think their parents have a favourite child?
6 How many children do they want?
66 Unit 8 + Girls and boysIs an all-boy family very different from having an all-girl family? What is it like
to be totally outnumbered by the opposite sex in your own home? To find the
answer, TV's Channel 4 asked Marianne and Jon Tibbett, the parents of four
daughters to swap homes with !(2ren anc Steve Cafearo, who have four sons.
aro, 43, lives with husband, Steve, 49, a
‘manager at Jaguar Cars, and theit sons Francis (17),
‘Alex (15), Joseph (14), and Samuel (9). Karen is an
‘accountant. She says:
“married Steve when | was 21. I'm the oldest of four
children and | always wanted a big family. Also, | wanted
a son for Steve, he's very sporty, loves his football, so
he's delighted to have four sons. The boys love kicking
balls and racing around on their bikes. They don't see
danger. Steve says | mustn't worry. He says boys will be
boys. Sometimes | fee! left out of all their sport, but
I'm pleased that | don’t have to watch football in the
pouring rain. The boys see everything in
black and white. | should learn not to ask
‘them about their lives and feelings.
“Dunno” is their usual answer.
| have often wondered what a
family of girls would be tke.”
eTibbett, 38, ives with husband, Jon, 45,
‘and their daughters Annabelle (14), Francesca (14),
Genevieve (9), and Catherine (8). They run a haulage
business together. Marianne says:
‘Jon and | met and marred within siteen months.
He was 29. People often ask us if we have so many
children because we were trying for a boy. But this isnt
true. I'm an only child and it was my dream to have a
big family. We were delighted when Annabelle arved
and equally delighted when Francesca arived thee years
later followed by Genevieve and Catherine. Jon loves
having four girs, he is their superhero da!
ur daughters are fabulous.
Most ofthe time they get
SS 6 on really well together.
Theyre a chatty group! But
we were fascinated to ty
living with boys.?
fearo go to the
ome 1 Tau
‘When Karen and Steve arrived at the Tibbett family home, she had
to laugh. There were piles of pink ballet shoes and riding boots all
over the floor. Karen says:
Karen and Steve
‘The four girls are as passionate about dancing and horse-iding as
ny boys are about football and rugby, but | was shocked by the mess.
| have strict rules for my boys. They can’t wear their shoes upstairs
and they have to tidy their rooms. The girls were so excited to see
Us, they wanted to chat and ask us questions. It was fantastic, but
exhausting. They came to help me cook in the kitchen, they didn’t
‘want to play in the garden. | think giris need more attention than
boys. Another shock for me was how nice the girls were to each
other. The boys love each other but they fight and fall out endlessly.
The thing | loved most was shopping with the girls. We had great fun.
| miss that with boys. Poor Steve had to carry the bags. | saw a big
Ichange in him. With girls he was so sensitive and gentle.
| oved the chats with the girls, but | also like my own space. | think
{girls are harder work.”
Tibbett go to the
le oN Th
Marianne expected the Cafearo boys to be loud and boisterous.
In fact on the first day they were very quiet and polite. Marianne says:
Pr eccsiae
“They even took their shoes off before going upstairs. However,
| soon realised why Karen and Steve had to have such strict house
rules. The boys were constantly on the go and wildly competitive.
They raced around the garden and dived into the pool, There wes
2 fight between one ofthe litle boys and his big brother. | tied to
‘make them apologize, which is what | do with my girls, but it just
made them more angry. The little one went away by himself, cried
then forgot al about it.
But the biggest shock for me was the change in my gentle
husband. He became more and more competitive. We all went
‘go-karting. We've never done this with our family. Jon Joined in with
the boys and it was clear he wanted to win as much as they did
He had great fun and | loved seeing him so happy. | know he would
love to have had a son to continue the business. But now we've
sseen the reality of having boys! They're exhausting. | honestly think
they are much harder work than girls.”
Unit 8 + Girlsand boys 67VOCABULARY AND SPEAKING a
Things to wear \
1 What things to wear can you see on this page? v
2 Work with a partner. Read the words in Things to wear. ‘
Where do they go on Person X? Label the parts of the
body you mention as you work.
ReODABARALEAAEAD AS
et sates
Things to wear |
hahha
tee
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abelt REET shorts [EET
a jumper
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make-up
a skirt
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eet ashirtan atshirt
to Lo creeeerer TN
pel eer t:
3 Answer the questions about the Things to wear.
1 Which are usually for boys? Which for girls? Which both?
2 Which are not clothes?
3 Which are for casual wear? Which for smart? Which both?
4. Which do you usually wear in winter? Which in summer?
5 What can the things be made of? Match these materials with them.
leather wool denim cotton sik gold iver
Dress Person X
4 Choose the clothes to dress Person X for one of the
situations below. Describe the outfit to the class.
Can they guess the sex and the situation?
+ ajobinterview + abeachholiday
+ aparty + going to school
+ asking holiday
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{68 Unit 8 + Girls and boysEVERYDAY ENGLISH
At the doctor's
1 Match the pictures with an illness from the box.
asorethroat diarthoea /daia'ria’ flu
anallery
2 Read the symptoms and complete the diagnosis with an illness. kG
Patient's symptoms Doctors diagnosis. &
1 cant stop coughing and blowing my nose. Youive got
2 ve got a fever and my whole body aches. You've got
3 Ithurts when I walkonit. Youve got
4 keep going tothe toilet. Youve got
5 My glands are swollen, and it hurts when swallow. You've got,
6 1 keep being sick, and ve got terible diahoea. Youve got,
7 | start sneezing and itching when m nearacat, Youve got
EEED Listen and check, Practise saying the ines with a partner.
3 nto a conversation between a
doctor (D) and Edsom (8), a student from
Brazil. Answer the questions.
pt a
D
E
D
E
D
E
1 What are Edsom’s symptoms? D
2. What questions does the doctor ask? E
3. What does the doctor think is the matter rn
with Edsom?
4 What does she prescribe?
5. What advice does she give him? E
6 Does he have to pay for anything? D
4 Read and complete Edsom’s conversation
with the doctor.
isten again and check. E
5 Act the scene with your partner. Make similar
conversations with other symptoms. E
a twisted ankle
Seeing the doctor
D_ No, no. But youll have to pay for the
a ==
ood poisoning
D_ What seems to be the
Well, [haven't felt
hada bad
ool
and now I've got a
‘Any sickness or diarrhoea?
Well, [haven't been
Do you feel hot?
Yes, especially at night. I feel hot and I start
when I lie down,
OK, I'l just
your temperature. Ah, yes.
You do havea bit ofa ‘Now, let me see your throat.
Open your wide, please,
Can you see anything?
Yes, your throat looks very red. Does this. 2
Ow!
‘And your glands are - You just have a bit of an
infection. You need antibiotics, Are you allergic to penicillin?
No, I'm not.
Good. Now, you take things easy for a couple of
days and you drink plenty of liquids. Pil write you
a prescription.
‘Thank you. Do I have to pay you?
. Its £7.20.
Right. Thanks very much. Goodbye,
Unit 8 + Girls and boys 69