The document appears to be a transcript of a conversation providing dating advice. A man named Eugene recounts an experience he had with two girls at a party where one girl repeatedly adjusted his collar and said she didn't like how he dressed. The advisor analyzes Eugene's interaction, saying he interpreted the girl's actions as signs of interest when they may not have been. The advisor provides examples of alternative responses Eugene could have given to qualify the girl's interest and maintain control of the interaction.
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The document appears to be a transcript of a conversation providing dating advice. A man named Eugene recounts an experience he had with two girls at a party where one girl repeatedly adjusted his collar and said she didn't like how he dressed. The advisor analyzes Eugene's interaction, saying he interpreted the girl's actions as signs of interest when they may not have been. The advisor provides examples of alternative responses Eugene could have given to qualify the girl's interest and maintain control of the interaction.
The document appears to be a transcript of a conversation providing dating advice. A man named Eugene recounts an experience he had with two girls at a party where one girl repeatedly adjusted his collar and said she didn't like how he dressed. The advisor analyzes Eugene's interaction, saying he interpreted the girl's actions as signs of interest when they may not have been. The advisor provides examples of alternative responses Eugene could have given to qualify the girl's interest and maintain control of the interaction.
The document appears to be a transcript of a conversation providing dating advice. A man named Eugene recounts an experience he had with two girls at a party where one girl repeatedly adjusted his collar and said she didn't like how he dressed. The advisor analyzes Eugene's interaction, saying he interpreted the girl's actions as signs of interest when they may not have been. The advisor provides examples of alternative responses Eugene could have given to qualify the girl's interest and maintain control of the interaction.
let's go over eugene eugene, go over with everybody briefly.
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people can understand from your experience. so i see. a good girls. two girls, one guy well, i was like before you get into the whole thing. just get to the point we walk up. it was packed. i was a little bit nervous and then give me the moment so the girl pulls me inside isolation. we i call that a little bit. but i feel weird saying it wasn't enough at the same time. she said, i don't like the way you dress. i say the word downloaded the way you dress and she on pops my collar so she pulls you to the side. it takes her head. she's talking to you. she's laughing. okay, indicators are good. and because i don't like the way you dress. there's one thing i want to say and then she goes. i don't like the way you dress. can you do this and then she goes and your collar was up and she brings it down. okay, got it. so then what happens? so then i go, ah. i love from your fitness and pop it back to my friend. like it wasn't like. laugh therapy is just kind of drunk because it's just like. coming along with it and it's like. well, there's like these douchbags in iowa and i was like, what talking about. so i was just wondering, like, what do you like to do. the bread. and then she goes. uh, this is really annoying me. like just i know i'm gonna test the next merchandise one more time, she said from the absolute only time she says, i'm going to touch the merchandise. it's a y. and then after that. blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. whatever, which is i don't know what happens that way. and she puts down on the clock for the third time. which i put that time. what's your vibe, and. provide is like is playful at the same time. it's like. to a little kid and i was like that, like, you know. it was like, what's going on here. and she i guess her last boyfriend. she said it was like a six year old. that's what she said to me, a sixty a six year old. okay, like she's like she's a thirty six year old man and a six year old. like a boy. oh, that's right. i know i was like, whoa, whoa, i'm not like that. so don't treat me like that. like i don't know when i was like that and the last time i said. okay, this girl is pretty cool. i won't put in my head. we'll put down like all i know. you said you could put down my phone up and that that one is like. no, i don't wanna do anything. okay, so. looking back on it, what do you think happened, i i o d all the riot was. so her putting his. her, um. putting down this collar. he took that as an indicator of interest. ok. as on the merchandise, correct, move the first time both. she says it again, does it again. but she says, i'm gonna touch the merchandise again. that wording to me is important because she's taken your frame that that is merchandise. you know what i mean, she came back and said, but i don't like the way you look. that's different. it's still i'm going to consider an i o r because why is she standing there talking to me and touching me, is she gonna go say that to someone she doesn't like, you know, she's gonna. she's gonna go to some dude who she doesn't like, who she thinks is ugly. it doesn't want to be around and go. i don't like the way you look. of course not, right, that's ridiculous. it will be like you and i say, take your hair off out of the ponytail. right. and she goes, no, but i'm comfortable and she puts it back. and. she says she uses the word she goes, no, i'm comfortable. i'm a librarian, you know, and then she puts it back and you go, ok, enough librarians. but as you're doing that, you're you're going along with it. so she's iowa. i know what would have been another move, eugene, that you could have done to have done it correctly. after the looking back on it, yeah. well, it's like. you know, i don't let many people touch me for like. you know, but you something cool about you like what i would have gone into qualification with that after letting her put it down. okay, let me give you a move. okay, so she does it again. i look at her. i go, is that really a big deal to you, right. is it really that big of a deal to you, honestly. okay, fine. and then color stays down and then i go like this, dear, come here, turn around and i fix her shirt or pull her hair back or like this. okay, now i like you better too. and that's it. and then that would have been the end of that. you see how that works. instead of, oh. i don't normally let people it doesn't matter. i just move with it. fine. is this such a fucking big deal to you because that can always walk over then pop it up, right? that's okay. now here you come here. even if it's. during turn, i mean, you got to look at it quickly and find something, but it'll be very easy though. you just do this to her go cream. that lid is bothering me too, but i didn't want to say anything. ok, now let's talk. i guess i took it as a friend natural situation. yes, and that's fine. that's fine. another way of that would be like if she says, uh, what's your sign? you go, uh, take a guess she goes with your son. yeah, this is what happened. you haven't given the answer four times almost. or you might just push it goes. what's your sign and go take it guys. okay, now just tell me what's your sign you see it and you go. aquarius right looks like about the frame and then you go you must be vertical. now i'm about to steal the frame back and she goes, if she goes, yes. how do you know i got it anyways cause i can tell cause i i know you and i wouldn't get a longer i would be ripping my hair out for sure. sex might be great, but that's not what i'm interested about it or i go then you must be very good and she goes, no or whatever. and then you go, okay. so what are you and she'll go leo, whenever you go. okay, great. now i know we're not gonna get a lot. i'm just baiting her right afterwards. so what we don't wanna do is like so much insists on our frame. my color has to be up or whatever unless she's being rude, if she's being rude then i can call her on being rude. i can say you're being rude stuff. but that may not go anywhere, but if she's being flirtatious. she's giving you ios and it's time to go. okay, fine here here. take this for a second because why. because in a few moments i'm going to take it back. right, just go to the principal vibration that we were talking about earlier. there's no static in in this universe besides. the spirit meaning you and i that's the only static in the world. okay, the background to everything consciousness is static, but. different subject, however. knowing that the moment will change in the next moment, the vibration then fine, take it now and i'll take it next moment. you'll witness this if it happens in a match in a fight, sometimes you're gonna have to lose position or hurt yourself. you know, if you put your arm down, you got it's gonna break so you have to put it take down comes but there's moments after that that you have to recover. you have to say so you just insisted on the arm being down and then the match is not gonna happen. okay, good, everybody get that how it could have worked right from that experience. okay, good. anything else coming from yesterday. if a question, uh, from the lecture or you went out and anything come up that you maybe wanna look at it again in comfort. yes, the girl. she's at a. you're too cool for me together. oh, what was she now saying in a negative way i took it in. i had already a number of clothes of rules and comfort. but i took it as i o d, so i said, i don't know, maybe so kind of a narrative. and i kind of just pushed down, but i just. looking at that, i was wondering. calibration in the correct way to wear. well, i'm curious what happened after that after you said that and how what was the interaction. she lets you google and i tell you. i think, um. going to like the ring finger and something something else. did i didn't. i i wasn't re not reacted to it, so. i just wanted to know about it. but it kind of did it the right way. i think it's really. the question is how it ended up if she would have fucked, you laughed and of course not. if the set kept going. it's like a little shed that sheet throughout. it happened a few times before. what is the i.o. is that iod is that just kind of a shed test man too cool for me or whatever, you know depends on. she says it you know the first thought comes to my head is i would look at her. i will pause. i go, oh my god. yeah, yeah, that's right. which is friends. so, you know, someone ever but yeah, the. it's not that this it's not that this wording is better than the way you said. it's because the vibe is what's important if your vibe was you know whatever you say is kind of a nerd anyway, it's kind of funny, you know if you say with this is actually really good. so it's a delivery of that. it's that i'm not reacting to you. you know, she's trying to push your button. are you too cool for me? you do whatever, blah, blah, blah. you just don't react when you notice that too have noticed everybody's thinking about sorry. if you like my little sister career and then ring reaching about the fuck, you do what's the right thing, you pass the shuttles and you move right forward. her reaction, the reaction in the field will tell you if it's right or wrong. right, that's why before we're not before even whatever a question you ask the question that comes back for me is what happened afterwards that will decide what the move, how correct or how incorrect it was. okay, good, what else, anything else. yeah, the other thing when when you're trying to set up set up something and they say, i will let you know it kind of just happened for you. i let you know it. handling in that handling that. so you're trying to set up a tub and you're trying to set up something for like tornado or something tonight and it's like errands. why do you don't have a living room. okay. so it's always. okay, i have a real good one for that when i come back there depends on where they are. this one that i just talked to is my my girl is like, no, right. there's no it's a different position where but if it's in the beginning, two two answers that come back, she says, okay, no big deal. okay. talk to you later or i will talk later. maybe we'll talk later, whatever, depending. however, if it's not there yet, there's not enough attraction. maybe we haven't seen each other that much. it's the first time she'll let me know. i normally come back and i say, yeah, no worries, you know. you sound like you're busy. have a good weekend. okay, maybe we will talk later and then i pull back. this is what i did with the girl flake told me yesterday, you know, oh, i can't blah, blah. blah. i said, it's it's a good idea. i don't think it was a good idea for me to come over anyways. have a great weekend and i just let it go, right. so i just turned the willingness to walk away what i would do is take. so did you decide what's up? so it's up, it's like four now. he said, but it too you were going to get back to me. it's four. i thought maybe you left your phone or something. i mean, like when you when you break that down from the outside, you see how pathetic it is, but i've been that guy. that's how i know those those things, you know what i mean, so, hey, did you blah, blah, blah and then and then we try to come up with solutions for them. why you put your kid over there now, like, you know, if dude, okay. how about this, you sound like. have a good day. take care of whatever you guys take care of. we'll come another time. yeah, it might be even good wording. we'll look up another top or something like that. okay. we're not going to hook up. okay, guys have a great weekend. yeah, there's no reaction like the fuck at it. i don't even know you. i'm gonna like. how do you like it. okay, good. what else any questions from last night or anything that came up with a question i've been trying to just focus on opening the girls. how do you react when you get out. i'm not interested in this pacific issue. okay. if you're getting i'm not interested or fuck off, alright. there's two answers. one is you may have come across a girl who is in a situation where she might be saving her life, like i could be her boyfriend and i'm in the bathroom. and she has a second to just get rid of you as quickly as possible before they come some kind of stupid drama for her as the guy walks up, right. so i keep that in mind. you don't know. i'm i'm gonna go talk to nine or ten. she gonna give me that reaction. that's not a normal reaction in my life. so i immediately take note and go. okay, maybe i missed something because i know that my girlfriend well, she should do that, you know, she does not that's what i expect her to do is give her the guys quickly as possible, if not around. not give any signal where he feels like he has a chance, right, so that could be the case. although that's rare, then the major reason. if that's happening. you're coming across as if you're hitting on her, for whatever reason. it's either body language. it's either creeping around her a long time before opening her. it's her seeing you not talk to anybody and then directly approach her. you know all of these things will signal to her. the guy is coming to talk to me. sorry, i am not interested. because that's not the reaction if she feels, um, i mean. what does that mean. i'm not interested unless you're saying i'm not interested in having sex with you or hooking up with you. but what do you mean, you're not interested, i'm asking a question. no, no, no, no, no, no, i'm saying the frame of mine, i mean, is i'm asking you like. it's too human beings talking. if i if i went right now. knocked on the door and they opened it and i said. excuse me, you know a quick question. i'm from out of the area. what's the best theater around here, you know that i'm looking for a clean theater, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. anything outside of that is not a good opener. and the practice of opening is so that you don't come across as creepy. now we will today practice openness here. okay, so you get a chance to do it. and this is the first boot camp you are. so i'm going to have you do it. okay, it'll be nervous and all that. it's fine. everyone will all the older guys have done that before. okay, so then i'll get we'll get to. you'll see you'll be stiff. you're buying english, you'll be off. you'll study all basic stuff that happens. you lean it. okay. good. any other questions. okay, anything online. alright, love, let's do this. so. i was very pleased yesterday with the with the. the intro lecture. and. as i went about my day and night, i was saying to the guys who were here earlier, i had one of the best nights in my life yesterday. and that's saying a lot, honestly. so. part of it was that i was applying. these same principles. uh. in the world. so things kept opening up for me and i can see the next aspect of it. like, oh shit. okay, alright, you know, as things are happening, i'm doing the next piece and i'm doing the next piece and it's like, wow. this is amazing. and why would i be doing that the week before? well, it was yesterday morning that all of that became very real to me. and i hadn't well, i interacted with one girl before you guys showed up, but it was different just going out and doing my thing, right. so. we're gonna go to the first principle. which opened so much bigger for me and i have a real nice way of explaining this view. the first key is that it's all in a state of mind. the the world is a thought, okay. i'm gonna give you a lot of proofs. and the things that i saw is sitting right, i know now. let's think about this for a second. modern science has taken matter and broken it down into molecules and atoms and it just keeps getting smaller. now some of the stuff i say you're gonna be familiar with something or not and you can look it up later into all reference. okay. broken it down to to atoms and molecules and atoms and it just gets smaller and smaller and smaller and then it gets down to the quantum level and at that level they break it down more and more and more. what do they find nothing, they find it, uh, a potentiality. it's either a wave or a particle and what does it depend on on the observer. on the person observing it, it's either gonna be a particle or a wave. it has infinite potential to be anywhere it can be in two places at once. this is all quantum physics stuff. okay. alright, well, what is that to do with anything? well, because of its own state. when they take material objects and they break it down and they get it into molecule form and atoms, then they break that down. they find energy. it's energy that's broken down even further after that, right, it's the flow vibration, energy. but what is energy created from and that i don't know if they've answered yet because they're going to have to step out of science for a second and get. you know, the world's mechanical thing and start to look in the east for a minute. and what do they find the ease that energy is a manifestation of thought. now they used to say that the speed of light is the fastest speed. i don't know if you still believe that to be true or not, okay because maybe you haven't heard about it. but they said. there's nothing the universe faster than speed of light, thus they couldn't understand how even another spaceship from another planet could travel here when it takes light five hundred million light years to arrive. closest planet or some shit. but they found something else and you need to look this up. there's something much faster than light. and it's the speed of gravity. it's supposed to be way faster than light. you didn't know gravity. take a look at it and also recognize that gravity acts online. i don't know if you know that. ya do you know that. ya. so as as light goes through gravitational force, it gets pulled. now these two forces actually act on each other. what's faster than gravity. okay. well, there is something no one's talked about it yet, but i guarantee they will get to it if they want to confront life at some point. fat. because thought is instantaneous. okay. now how do we measure that? the last piece that i said to you thought that's just my own understanding of it, the gravity one you could look at. good scientists shown it thought is instantaneous. but they don't think of it a lot of times as a thing yet. it's a thing you and i can have a heavy thought, right. we could have an inspiring thought, a like thought, a playful thought, a sexual thought. they all have different wavelengths and it's instantaneous. okay, good. so what creates energy is thought and we can we can do that. we can literally sit down. i think certain things and the energy will change the body for sure. we could talk to someone through communication. get them to think a certain thing and their energy level will change. you can make someone sad, depressed, happy except you know go give someone to come here is one you're walking in the morning. and a girl looks at you. you're feeling let's say energy level five k. she looks at you. she checks you out. she smiles and she says, excuse me. you have a very nice start. thank you, energy level seven. literally right. and none of us would go. thank you image level two. feels worse about myself or thank you in a global five. there's an instant reaction in energy basis. we have more we can run a little faster at that moment to do something far. instantaneous thought creates energy. what is it. so i have to do with it. well, if it's on a state of mind. then. we take a look and we ask ourselves a question a couple of weeks ago. i gave a lecture this morning. you were out wherever you came from. left your house and you came here, right. what was the thought. that you were carrying with you. and you may think why i wasn't really caring. i thought i guarantee you working. okay, i guarantee you work. we have two versions here. we have something called a conscious thought. which is i'm gonna think this right now. so example, i'm gonna think as i walk in that i'm very attractive, but i'm gonna think that everyone looking at me is going to want to know who i am and talk to me. that's my conscious thought. okay, i created that thought. good, that thought can go for so long. until i forget about it and the environment starts kicking in. when i started to react and i forget my thought, right. however, there is still a thought process that other thought process that's taking place without me knowing is the subconscious stop. and that's how you can differentiate. now the subconscious thought is the thought that goes on without us thinking about it is the thought you always carry is the one that fucking re stimulates reactivates when the environment kicks in, right. we don't know about it something you're starting to feel a certain thing. you take a look. yeah, i am thinking i am thinking no fucking good. what happened, bro. why why would you think that i don't know i was walking. she looked at me wrong or the copy of wine and i got nervous and. what what's the thought you're running, i'm thinking i just need to go home, visit bull. that's a thought. i'm thinking, fuck. i fucked up, man. i needed a home. there's a lot. it's not a conscious thought because you didn't go okay. now i'm gonna think. this is bullshit and i'm gonna go home. that's a conscious thought. the unconscious thought is what runs the heartbeat, the breathing, it just takes care of it. now there is a process to take that conscious thought and. and this is a very nebulous term, unconscious, subconscious. all that shit. okay, this is just for the purpose of what we're doing, which i'm saying, you take a a thought that you create and you put it in a place where that thought becomes a habit. that's what i need by unconscious. it becomes a habit. i'll give you an example. okay, when you first start. when you're being attacked and you're in a bad position. you subconsciously. tents up and try to push away and get away. then you consciously are told by the teacher relax. relax right now. okay, i know all my digital people will hear that from me relax right now. you need to survive, breathe and relax. there's nothing happening right now. and the person is going. and they have to override it and they go, okay. and then as long as they keep that thought, they're literally cautiously thinking, i gotta relax. their body will change second, but then again the environment presses on them and they forget the thought, surprise the thought kicks in the old habit and they started pushing the teacher. don't push, relax orange and breathe through. you're gonna be fine. just have if you have to stop, okay, okay, so that is the process of the teacher stepping outside and saying, i'm on the outside that i can give you the correct conscious part. because you are going off of habit and if i let you go, the environment is pressing on you and you're going to do what you've always done. but if you do what you've always done, there's no way you graduate to the next level, much larger. you have to learn the process. okay, good. so teacher says blah, blah, blah, the student. starts to consciously put that thought. but it's a progress. it's a step by step practice. they show up the next day they start they get smashed. they do the same thing, the teacher says. relax, told you that before. okay, fuck and you know, a lot of times the student i've been both sides. the student is thinking, god, the fuck. why can't i just remember, you know, they just okay, relax. oh, i did it. i didn't even think about it. i pushed. it the habit continues. the teacher will step out and continuously remind a good teacher. a bad teacher doesn't give issue. okay, fine. at some point, the student himself. hearts doing what the teacher. something happens. it's negative in the environment, negative. it's pressure and the student goes and then goes, oh shit. cause i just wanna get yelled at or remembers cause it's been you know, a week, two months, whatever the fuck it is. and as soon as i got relax. and they start taking over that old habit. you follow that student over time. months go by years, go by. now the student is tense as they start. maybe they're not thinking they're little nervous. they start pressure comes on to get in a bad position. you watch them. their habit will be to relax their body suddenly. suddenly they have a new subconscious movement. which is when they're under attack, they seem to remember like i remember when i'm being attacked suddenly, but i need to relax. it's burning. okay, but that process of taking a conscious thought and then making it a i don't want to say subconscious this case, but making it a habit. is a process. the moment that happens, the person's experience of fighting changes. completely. now they're relaxing at the right time, okay. alright, what does that do to pick up, it's the same thing. go out there conscious thought, listen to the right music. listen to the right lecture, whatever you're doing. i'm ready to go. here we go. boom, conscious thought i'm going to have a good time, whatever it is. you put it there. environment presses on you. okay, dude, bluetooth wrong girl mutsu wrong, not interested immediately conscious thought has gone old. and the old habit is a thing. what is it? it's the same thing that you always do when that shit happens, just like when pressure the guy always pushes away, it's got the same thing every time. in fact, you could predict the guy's motion introduced to after a while, you know that if you press on his face and he's new, you'll probably throw you off like this or two. two. so it's the same reaction. it's a reactive process. he's not thinking anymore. he's doing the wrong thing. okay, good. so you go out there with a great thought. you get dressed up, listen to the right lecture, talk to the right people. you're doing your thing environment. thought conscious thought goes out old habit comes in with the old habit. it's what ended up making our lives miserable in social dynamics up until present time and we become that scared little guy shy and secure, weak with that whatever the fuck is and we start reacting like that, there's no code that says, hey, i'll come back. it's fine. go open that set. spot the girl there. straightened up. okay, put a small interface. do it again. that's the conscious. the guy was a. it doesn't feel right. you gotta do it, but if he's willing to learn. okay, goes in there. cleans up, tries again. same thing happens for a while eventually though, if he keeps doing it, we get to where we are now. which is now the habits. formed are socially calibrated. you see that and there's no longer a conscious thought. you just suddenly, you know, if you guys are, i'm sure the guys were out with me. we're talking and we're in a restaurant. it could be a serious conversation like this. and if i catch from the corner by my target looking at me, this conversation suddenly becomes the same way with just a smile on my face and i just do this for a second until she stops looking around back. if you were to talk to me. it happens without me thinking sometimes i call attention to it because it may look funny, right, we're just having a serious conversation and then suddenly this is how it looks like it may look funny, right. he's about to say something important or he's thinking something. no, she was just looking. and her look gives me that reaction. that's my target. she looks she has to see high value and i'm going to show it to her. she's not going to look at my table and see this cause you know what if a guy wouldn't approach that table? imagine you walk up and three guys high value, high value donald trump are having a serious as conversation. boom, boom, boom ya. even if you wanna go and say hi, mr trump or whatever. again, you think she's going to. on the other hand, you walk up and there's donald trump and is it whatever a bunch of rich people or whatever, you know, bill gates and. lounging, talking, relaxing. having a good time and they seem to be laughing. it's more likely i might approach it's the door's open more for me to say. excuse me, you know, but not if they're serious and that's very important social dynamics. you wonder sometimes why are they approaching. take a snapshot. step out and look at the picture that you guys are painting. would you approach that table even as a diaphragm, think a girl, a girl. you know. she can't fight. she can't do anything. she's afraid she gives you the wrong signal. you might fucking rape her in front of everybody. like, okay, you gotta make it comfortable for her warm and friendly and playful. thus if there's a girl that said. it's easier. you know what i mean. okay, good. so we gotta take the conscious thought and make it habit. but what what is that, what are we trying to do, okay. what if i told you your experience right now that you're having a life as a direct relationship. to the thought that you carry, i know you've heard this before, but i actually have a tangible proof in my hands from last night. you are literally you and i are. walking in the universe of thought created energy. it sounds pretty intense, but it's true. okay. so what do we do with it. let's get some actual practical like, okay. well, that sounds great. how do i fix it easy. before i went to bed last night, i was wrong. i know last time i left the clock was four right. four a.m., but it was. it's gonna be difficult to sleep right now. plus i got to get over here. but i was curious. so i lay there and i was like, alright. i'm gonna see what thoughts come up if i if i'm just like, okay, cool. let me check it out. and then there was a thought that that was like this. i wonder what thoughts kind of cop i was like, there is. that was a thought. it sounded like it was me. but it was a thought it was like a thought bubble that said, i wanted to talk to come up. and then i was like. i saw i was like, oh, shit, there's another one. and they kept creating this thought that kept observing the thought like this. and the moment i would get into the thought. i would forget that it's a thought i would be like, oh, i was like. oh, shit, i'm doing it again. oh, i'm doing it and it was a never ending bubble cycle of i'm observing the. but it was the same thought that kept going on automatic me laying there and try to observe my thought was a cycle of thoughts, observing thoughts. it's like, wow, this is drippy. oh, that's a thought. oh, that's a. at some point i was like. and then i was observing. i kept seeing the whole and then it was like. and i was like, oh, oh, there's a lot. it was crazy. when left alone. i'm gonna observe thought you see now here's what's interesting i gave the. to my mind. i'm gonna observe the thought. so then i created this little circle of thought observing bubbles. okay, now let's change it. i'm gonna go out and i'm going to observe. social interactions and body language i'm gonna observe people's relaxations and i'm going to look for things that remind me, um. about why it's worth it to live. honestly, you know, that's what it was for me last night. last night i had certain experiences that when i look back on it, honestly, man. it was worth every minute of my drive. it was worth every minute of me being tired today or not. i don't give a fuck because in the shittiest world that i live in. it's a city world. honestly, ah those were the key moments for me. they made everything worth it. they made all my skill worth it. they asked, yes, this is why i do the shit, man. so i do the shit. so at three thirty a.m. i can be in another city with two different girls and having a great time and and them just telling me i'm the greatest thing in the world and i can drive back and be like. yes, i am. yes, i am okay. so then this morning was an experiment. this morning i was like, fuck this. i never think of myself as a good looking guy. i just don't it's like it's a thought that i have not a good looking guy, but i could give a shit. that's how i justified it. fuck this, i'm gonna go out and i'm going to be a great looking guy today. now the moment i said that i felt the reaction of the habit. it was like, dude chill. i was like, no, fuck you. i'll fuck you with the whole chill thing. i'm gonna go out. i'm gonna be magnetically attractive. i'm going to be where every mother fucker is looking at me, guy girl, like you see that guy and as i was like. you know what, i'm going to keep the start and the moment i forget it. as i see anything pretty, i'm gonna remember me. i know me too. and that was my. interaction before i came here because i went to whole foods and when i rushed i went to cbs or something, right. it was interesting what i experienced was two things. one, i felt good looking. whether i was or not, i can't tell you. i can tell you, i felt i carried myself as if i was a very handsome man. and there was a ease about my staff. there was a smile to my to my presence because i was like, god, i am a fucking magnetic attractive man. fuck this dude tattooed, pierced out you know, got the style and i started i was like, okay, but that's a conscious style i kept. yes, a few moments i forgot it. but then i remembered very quickly that was my task. that's what i wanted to see what would happen. so one, i felt great and when i came in here. i was feeling great and. two did the world react differently to me, yes. yes. so just as the physical proof of it for me, i take a look to see what the hell is happening. so i wake up and. oh, i don't see the text. scott haven't been able to get hold of. check. then i saw an instagram, she has a boyfriend. okay. i get a text in the morning because i'm doing my thing right comes through. honestly, it's the last person i thought would be texting me this morning. and it says libra moon is gone. thank fucking god past four days have been crazy. just f y i lions, cosmic lion. my answer. how do you live and do well in life without me. she says, it's pretty amazing, right? i say it's not natural and it's mistake. she says, now i'm feeling very good looking as i'm doing this, by the way. it's a vibe as i have it, she says. what are you doing later today. first time her originating to me, what are you doing today. i swear it. i say. she says i'm working until about three thirty. i say, let's do something tonight around eight thirty. she says, um, that won't work for me. i got the feeling of the boyfriend when she said that. but it doesn't mean it's true. i said, ok, i'm teaching till then she says boo. then. a little bit earlier. i get the text it says um in my thoughts. didn't answer it then the text comes back. keep those items safe. someone left their things. there are priceless to me. thank you, darkness. she calls me darkness. so now in the last hour. i've had two interactions from two bond looking girls who i appreciate who give me that bob and i'm going, okay, wait a second. now is this chance this luck? i don't think we give a ship. here's what i'm gonna do, whether chance or luck. one thing is for sure, my experience for the last hour has been good. and i do know, like i said to you, the fighting experience that i can take a conscious thought and make it where it becomes my habit. there's no reason why i can't get up every single day or every hour. i look in the mirror and say. man, i'm one attractive mother fucker like without a doubt i know. you're lying yourself. okay, that's cool. i've been lying myself for a long time on many things. it's time to change a lie a little bit now if it's all in the mind, if it's a mind created world. if energy comes from that, then it's time to. what happens when a guy starts fighting. i'm giving you the fighting world. so you understand because one of the things i learned is you learn an art by comparing to another art that you know then you can see the laws that are universal. that's what happens to a guy who doesn't have confidence when he starts fighting. he doesn't believe. he wins one time because if you keep training sooner or later, you're going to win and he was lucky. keep watching that person at some point. they they themselves start thinking of themselves as dangerous. they start thinking of themselves as someone to reckon width. the moment they do that, the alzheimer's. so i got a text last night i told you was. from my boyfriend or someone i know i was like, what the fuck is that one. can i talk to you, i said you could text so as i was out of text and he said, look, man, in the last couple of days in the last couple of months i've had three incidents. where guys tried to punk me, two of those incidents were with my girlfriend. and i feel like she thinks i can't protect her. i will do anything to learn how to fight from you. this person has asked me three times and i said, no. every every time i've said no. can. i said, go somewhere else. i told his girlfriend, i said, no. because you're really close to me and i have no desire to get close to. cause that's gonna rule my relations with you. see if he becomes my good friend. she's not going to be cause i'm loyal, my friends. and her value is too much for me, so i won't teach. because i can't teach somebody and at the same time, not like them. not if they're going to be true. so, no, i i can't teach him, so that's not he asked again, but then he give me a sentence. that's struck accordingly. and he said. i'm tired of being bullied and i don't want to be bullied anymore. now that is a a line that i live for. so i answered them. i'll work it out for you. i don't know how yet, so i am trying to come up with an answer. and i have an answer because in my academy, my brother in law teaches mixed martial arts and boxing and i'm gonna tell him, look, dude, i'll pay for this guy. let me go over there and then i'm going to tell her i'll see you later. your boyfriend can train my academy, but it means to train with that guy and this is the reason why and then i'm gonna tell him this is the reason why you can train and i see the reason i don't want to train you is i don't want to get close to because i'm close to your girlfriend if i get close to you. i'll do that relationship. i'll never get close to you and i can't be not close to you as a student. do you understand, i'll teach you how to find, okay, now this is very interesting because he's getting pounds in the last two months. it's the way he's viewing himself. he just told me. he doesn't feel he can handle it. so when he's out with his hot girlfriend, she's hot, a guy sees and senses in him what's happening. he doesn't feel like he's a threat to the other guy. so the other guy that gets bigger suddenly. and sense is something and of course he's gonna punk. why is it happening with me? i'm walking around with a fucking girl that everyone stares at it when i'm with her. she's like, no one's looking at me. it's good. there would be a fucking problem if they were being rude. i tell i don't mind them glancing and looking or not looking, but they'd better not be walking. and they don't and they don't right. why my belief is i am a threat to that guy. i know i am. coming from a guy who was bullied, growing. but the moment we change the way we think about it. and it becomes real. the outside world starts to look differently. okay. so we're talking about thought. does a carrier wave to it. which i discovered this morning, but mom would always tell me now now i can see what he was talking about when you play. emotion behind the thought. it travels. to the other person. okay, now think about this shit. this is a magical shit, man. okay, you have a thought and the thought is. god, whatever thought you okay, the thought is i am dangerous. i'm dangerous to the environment. there's a thought. and the other person doesn't feel like it. add an emotion to that some anger. and watch them feel how dangerous you are to the environment. the emotion carries it from one to the other really quickly. it's like it connects the line and then it intensifies the line. or it doesn't have to be anger. it can be cheerfulness. as you are dangerous, what does that mean. well, but there has there's an emotion because people feel emotion. so suddenly the guy's trying to punk or whatever, at least based on a crazy motherfucker, would love to. one of my students. from new york just started fighting. he put on facebook. i haven't trained for a couple of days. i'm gonna go out. i'm going to cover my tattoos. i'm going to dress like a door. whatever i'm going to walk in a really bad neighbor. i don't hope somebody fucking comes up because it was a combination. i didn't want to try out. okay, now let's say it carries cheerfulness with him as he's walking and i was like, was up punk and he gets excited. but you know. she's dangerous and i was like, what's up here. the person will feel the thought carried on that emotion. the only proof i have of this is my own observation right now, but guess what today's going to consist of what i just said now, you know that when you hear a speaker who emotionally charges you those thoughts that the speaker was having transfer easier to you. otherwise, the speaker can get up and give you all the facts of life and the greatest facts and it's like, okay, that's good. you don't get it, but everyone's not speaking, get out and just with an emotion hit with one thought. one thought, like for example, be true to yourself as a thought that i have. right, but let's say he is there with an emotion. you feel the emotion boom and i see it like a wave boom and then the thought comes and the emotion seems to carry the. to the other being. if you and the other person are resonating around the same emotional wavelength. you your thought will carry much quicker to the other person. you see if you're resonating in different thought waves, like for example, they're very angry and you're very happy. it prevents it from going there. they resist the thought. so to is. a fog transfer. you calibrate your emotion. close and similar. to your audience and to the people around you, then your thoughts will carry through it. this is why angry music will have a bunch of angry people listening to it. right, jazz music. you're not gonna see like heavy metal heads go to fucking jazz and sit there and bring their heads as the jazz. it's a whole different vibe, vibration, different emotion being carried. however, all of those all that music and whatever has a message behind it, if it's done right. and when someone goes out there and says, i listen to marilyn manson or two box occur the doors. this is some of the people i listen to. because those people. are speaking on my emotional wavelength. they're a little bit angry. a little hostile towards what their environment they're saying. fuck you, the environment and i get that shit. that's the emotion i feel. so they carry that emotion, then their message comes to me so i can sit and tell you about those artists and go out. never do they said that yes, because i get the message why it's on my carrier way, but then if my dad doesn't say that, i guess the bullshit. that is just shit. dad, do you know what he said. it just sounds like garbage to me because it's the wrong emotion. okay, but then it was the scenario. okay, what i don't get that that's not my world. that's not my world. i'm not walking down the world and seeing that no, no, no, no, no, no. i'm seeing some other shit going on when i go. so now we have a thought you have a thought, you say you save yourself. i'm very attractive. i'm beautiful. i'm strong, i'm confident whatever thoughts you would like to have. you go, this is it good and now you walk out, you go, okay, now i want to carry that to other people good, so you start to look around and you see her and she's let's say having a bubbly time and you walk in there. hey, ladies quick question for you. i gotta get back and you still keep the thought on i'm attractive or whatever should look at you differently, match a match or wavelength match your total. okay, have the conversation watch how she carries. you look at you and see what you're presenting to her. but go with a long time to watch what happens, right. go being nervous and scared as she's bubble. the other way too, she's pissed off and you walk up. hey, quick question for you, like, fuck you. i'm on my period and stuffed out with my boyfriend, my whatever. so you guys see it because last night at some point. so from the first girl, drop her off. when i go to pick up the second girl, she says to me, i don't look very good. i've been crying. it's like one thirty two, right? let's be crying on thirty. and i said that i said, you have a new boyfriend because i haven't heard from you just now. and she said. i've been crying. so it's a relationship said no, it's not. i said, okay, fine. skin the car anyway cycle, pick her up. her not looking good looks pretty fucking good. wake up, go to the park, hang out for a while. and then. we end up in a very serious conversation. see, i love that is, by the way. i always think about that when i'm without rumor, i focus here everything. probably be quarter. that's true. so so. our conversation got very serious at the end of the night. she said to me. what do you suggest. and i was like, that's what do you mean too too big of a question. she goes for my future. how do you think i should approach it now, that was a very beautiful question to me. i i not answered that i am that person. and i haven't been that person for this girl for a while. so we were now violent correctly. so suddenly i went into this whole like twenty five minute lecture to her. about some principles of life, but check this out. she was crying. she was crying because a family member of hers passed away years ago that she was very close to today is the anniversary and last night she was thinking about it so she was drinking wine and thinking about that and crying. now i understand loss and i understand family and i understand how she this world is. so when i gave her my words of you gotta be true to you, you gotta take a life by the bed and i told that i gave it from that bike because i could feel that i know that that's what i live with and when i'm talking she is just absorbing it and when the moment was over, she said to me. i'm yours said, of course. i know that already. you see, i do know that already. but i needed that there was the right emotion that carried my message to everyone. alright. this is a powerful shipment. our thoughts create our world, you go as far back as you can find in literature on this planet. you're gonna find something about what i said from anybody, anybody who had a slight awakening or understanding of life. simple from every cultural religion age, somebody who was acknowledged as as a more enlightened person than the people around them would give you a version of what i said that your thoughts create your reality that we are living in the world of thought and all that shit. okay, the problem is that it was contact with reality and after a while some people just live. that's not good enough for me. that's not good enough for me because see, that doesn't take care of my family doesn't take care of friends. i need to go out there and make the billions. easily. so when i say that you see when i say that there is a habit form about the thought of billions and the habit says that's not real. if you told yourself right now, you're gonna be a billionaire. watch how you would look like to yourself that you're lying to yourself. ya. and then you might drugged the thought down to like maybe a millionaire and then. you know, that's more reachable and then you might even bring that down after the baby. i just want to make enough money to. right. and then you'll see where the thought is that you carry all the time. it's the one that is easily thought without any effort. like for example. i'll give you it's not mine, but i've seen it and i've had it, which is like, look, all you need is enough money to and then you got the basics food. shelter, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, you don't need any more than that. there's people that are starting all that see those thoughts. i can say it and it just comes out without effort. now if i tell you, i need to be a billionaire because i need to be a billionaire to do what i need to do that has effort. it's almost like online. it's the same thing happens when you walk into a position and pick up and you say. it would be great to get beautiful women to have women texting you in the morning at fucking saturday morning. and we grow in it to them. they want to fuck you. they want to have everything filled with anything for you could have any girlfriend you want and then suddenly go, wow, bring it down. i don't need that many women cause that thought it was just a lot of control, right, i don't need that many women and get down to it. a few wouldn't be bad and you go, well, what i would want is a is a good relationship and a few friends that i can hang out with and, you know, well, you know. i'm not really a good relationship, be good because i'm too busy working and, you know. maybe i wanna say, look at what you did and then you get to the thought that you carry. which is that reality which you're gonna have guaranteed that thought that you're carrying will be a reality, maybe not today, maybe not tomorrow, but that is going to be. you will find that one. you will go forward, but i encourage you to pay attention to that thought again because there's another thought with. you've seen people who have done that. grow old and miserable, maybe even confronted. but you definitely we're not walking around looking at your parents and your your uncles and aunts and although if you look at that passionate relationship, they're having you've seen them settle into a. we'll watch some fucking football or something or get excited to fucking do a barbecue. fourth of july or so that becomes their fucking life. come home, don't talk to each other. that's exactly what you did. and then look at you after. okay, and that's different now that doesn't mean you want that look. billion dollars million dollars. well, i just want to make enough money. it'll be good to have a good job. i just want to live comfortably. you just want to live comfortably. there's no situation in this life that static man comfortably ten years ago is broke today. okay. and comfortably today is broke ten years from now. so this is what they miss. yes, i'm sure all of our parents were comfortable ten years ago whenever twenty or thirty years ago on this side of fucking pop us out, right. they were like, i'm a broken mother fucker and let me just have a kid. hey, honey, what do you want to do, we have no money to eat. let's have kid. great idea, huh? ok, it was fine. but they kept making the same fucking income. they kept getting older, they kept getting laid off and now they're in a shampoo and then we have to pay for it. fuck that. living comfortably, never been defined. now let's look at pick up. a man wants to live comfortably with his girlfriend. hold on, that's not gonna happen. living comfortably for the first year in your relationship is different than living comfortably for the next two years in your relationship. in fact, if you were there for five to six years. and you want to try to act like you did when you first met each other, it's over. because in five to six years you're not gonna be having sex every day. at the beginning you are. maybe twice or three times a day. so they're going to be something else. one of my friends told me she was on drugs for a. i am talking to you yesterday. i was like, look for having your boyfriend. i would watch or put. the love of my life hashtag my one and only love. i swear, and i would sit there. we'll we'll we'll serena. i think serena is coming today and if i remember, i'll tell her i was like. this relationship is about to break up. that was about a month and a half ago. yesterday was confirmed. what happened? we're not together. oh, really? i was like, do you remember all the stupid shit? you actually start laughing. i was like, but what the fuck happened. she said, well, i became sober. i said, but life is a relationship. she was i became sober and i realized we have nothing in common besides trucks. we got together and we would always be high and that's how we relate to each other. i wasn't high. i didn't want to even do it with the guy. we had nothing in common besides drugs. yeah, i know. can i know. the life moves forward. alright, life moves forward. so we have to be aware of it. these are the principles of the mind. these are the principles of the universe that i want to know. these are things i want to teach my son and my daughter and my family, my friends, this is it. this is something somebody should taught me. instead of christopher, columbus discovered america tomorrow's easter. you mean ishtar. i mean, tomorrow is the pagan holiday of fertility and sex, yeah because it is. of course it is. so. what about pick up, what are the thoughts you're carrying with you, we went over this. i think two round tables ago, sundays, two sundays. what are the thoughts you carrying with you. how do you see yourself. and that's the one of the biggest realization of this morning was this process of a conscious thought making itself into a habit. i saw it. because of my martial arts training i saw i saw i have transfers. even as a magician, as anybody skilled in any art, you consciously do it for a while, then it becomes a. subconscious or a habit, but why not. why not our thought process, cause if it's a universe of thought, if it's on the state of mind is your mind is is your thought process, your friend and your ally? is it pushing you forward today, is it making you feel great, cause i tell you, if i had maybe you have three and a half, four hours of sleep, but along with eight. i wanted to be showered, clean, eaten. fed, ready to go feel pretty fucking good right now. i don't know. maybe i'll crash later. i don't fucking know. i don't really care how handle it. but it's important that my mind in the process of living. contributes to my life. and i'm not fighting my life. i'm not fighting myself. now this is the disease we have as humans, you have one goal and the other is a goal. you take one step forward and you got your leg right. i haven't removed. i know i really want to. i really want to wow, i've got my foot over there. yeah, but movie for i know and it's like this whole explanation. see if i put my foot the walls gonna fall and then like, no, it's not gonna fall. do you take your fucking. okay, it's gonna be fine. we fight ourselves. what would happen if she's popping your collar up and down and you say to her genuinely and strong and with good emotion. you see she's not affecting you negatively because she can't. because the moment she does, you'll either handle her or you'll lock off. that's it just like she did. so you have that right, i'm not having a good time. hey, you suppose you i like that. what's up. paul calling down hands off the merchandise. maybe okay, it's changing for free. okay, hold on a second, so i will doubt, okay, look. is it that big of a deal to you really? is it that big of a deal. i'm gonna take off my shirt. i don't know. my god embarrassed you. i think of it. okay. now i'm a rock star. right. and she could either appreciate it. and they're like. or she could be like. and if she does that, that's great move. because somebody in that place will react to a rock star status and when rock star is just like an article type of this thing, the guy was like. we've seen jim. have you seen the doors, the movie, the doors i highly recommend you watch that movie one of the best movies i've ever seen. i've only seen three movies, four moves. over and over because i can't honestly watch the same movie over and over the doors, i can almost call everyone and everyone. okay, i've seen it so many times. it's unreal, but there's a scene and he i mean, he was on drugs, man. like that guy was gone. i just remember his life and eternally. but. he greeted us into the. a bar and get some on the bar and he starts pissing. on the floor they take him out. they kick him out, they throw them out. he gets arrested. but. understand that. because there's something really attractive about that. you don't have to get up and pee on the fucking thing, right. but understand that. because if you understood that as she goes like this, there's a million choices you had suddenly. because your parents your different thought process. she does that she gives you a million opportunities now, right. but if we go back to being us, whatever that is the tiny one. oh, i can't what if you got another option, she pops it down and you again. can be genuine with her and say, hey. you know, i i like i like the way you look use the right light. you got the right hair. and. i like you are forward when you pulled me. but don't touch my shirt. okay, don't touch my shirt unless you want to buy new one. i don't know. but see this energy will make her start to act differently. but i just told my guys that but she'll be comfortable. or she'll be a dude. i'll touch whatever i want. whoa, whoa. fuck out of here. oh. i have no obligation to spend my time with some bit. definitely not. in fact, let's remember you told me i was talking nice meeting you. here we go when you wanna be polite and respectful, we'll talk. now you're walking through the night as a cause for me. causing effects. but you better make sure that your mind is with you the first key. it's on a state of mind. so at any moment you have to be able to check in and go, where am i mental. what am i thinking. am i thinking before i start that this is gonna be the best lecture i've ever given, yes, i am thinking. do what if it's not see that right there is a thought also, it's not a truth. why do we give that one more validity than the other thought. they're both thoughts. they're both bubbles blue blue. i'm gonna get the best. that's your my life. what if it's not. the both thoughts. and i will now put my energy and focus on this one. why? because i want to. they're both thoughts. this one's not anymore real just because everybody in the world doubts themselves. i mean, i need to just means i now have an advantage of everybody. they can keep doubting themselves. okay. when you understand that it's a thought you can do something with it because until then you think it's you it's not you it's a fucking thought it's a thought that you can't be a billionaire. wow, i'm not a billionaire, only ten people get whatever. i mean, go ahead if you want to prove your thoughts. then go that direction because you could also prove. you can also prove how anybody could be a billionaire, how people with no education to have a passion about that. you could prove both. you decide which direction you want your mind to go, but remember you are guiding your mind to go somewhere. whereas up until now others have got in your mind to go somewhere and this is where the master is. this is what we enter the temple. what is that temple, that's the temple of our mind. we have control. we can move in our mind, which means what we have these laws that tell us look the polarities you can shift is degrees of something. i'm more of a billionaire than many people i know. on the scale from zero to billion. okay, and i just gotta keep turning up the degree on it. i don't know. i'm on my way to go, billionaire. i don't know where to being. world famous am i what i ever heard. there's no finite. now this is what it is that this universe doesn't have that condition. that condition doesn't exist in the mind. this. temple that we walked into was the temple of the mind. solomon temple. have you ever heard that before. we found the key. well. we refund the key cause they have the. you start thinking about your questions kind of leaving until. now we have a different flavor to our game. and i don't mean game picking up chicks. i mean, game life. picking up chicks is another aspect of of life. you should go about your day today and as an experiment. because you're in the three day transformation, you're in our boot camp. so just allow yourself for the next you know, five hours today and i see you again just to keep powerful thoughts with your. just say that's just what i'm gonna think until i forget. which i will then when i remember. i'll think it again and that's all there is to it and i'm going to keep doing that and just for size and see what happens. once again, if we relate it to fighting, there are times when you submit too quickly in a match because. gave up in your mind and there are times when you get out of a situation which you should have never gotten out of. and you surprised the guy who was getting you because you didn't give up yet. and in between that, you find the person who breaks an arm or. passes out because you didn't have passed enough. and the person who taps too quickly. it's a it's a scale again, okay, techniques that i'm gonna share with you guys later because there are ways there are other doors that have opened for me in the last whatever ten hours. which you can actually. sorry to affect. one your body and its energy. yes, i take five hour energy is my thing, but. you know, i don't know if, you know, people that take five hour energy, i you know, i'm in martial arts and. like high level athletes, everybody tells me to joke. they say that shit doesn't work. actually, it's like crack for me. i don't understand. no, it's crazy. like i have to watch when i take it because it just wow. but i don't know anybody else who says that ship in the march large world. which is like this is nothing what some b vitamin no row, it's crap for me. but anyways, one is. we'll go over before this is over maybe tonight. energy. how we could have more vitality because it's important because life is responding to that. you see you are right now responding to my vitality and i know it it's part of the carrier wave. we are attracted to health and strength. we don't wanna go on the jump on the gorilla. that's like. from time of time. we wanna see that. running up and down and swinging from tree to tree breaking branches king kong shit. oh, dude. we we feel inspired by strength. she feels inspired by strength. she has to see that in us she has to see that she can't break you. i sent that to. the first score last night when i was taking her home. blah, blah, blah talk. i thought guys and. i said you have to use men. i get that advice to every girl. i know you have to learn to use men. they always laugh because no one tells them that, but they all kind of know they should. it's like the underlying thing. all girls, you know, use them. so they're monkeys. the bedrooms, they know nothing. and you would think. well, you're a guy too. okay, whatever, obviously i'm not, you know. obviously i'm not a monkey, but i'm smart. and then i said. she was telling me about her passion. i said, look, dude. being a man who is emotionally able to handle you, a man should be stronger than emotionally. you should be able to just know that he can't break. and she's like. you know i said intellectually he has to inspire you. and by the way, i'm of course. the extreme myself all the time as i am. so i guess we'll inspire you. you have to talk to him and his intelligence has to be like, wow, i'm inspired. i said, i'm physically he has to build his fenju. you have those three. i go those are the three main categories that you want to have before you consider someone to mate. simple, you get it. and i give the advice to the second girl. now, why am i giving my girls advice on how to get guys because i want to get. because one thing is clear. you always mind anyways. what does that mean. they always aren't. no, because just yesterday when we were eating, one of my x grows. was there? and it was awkward. i want to say hi to her. and she was with her man before and she was married with a son that she decided not to imagine. so what but you know what is the law of vibration changes, it's okay. it's fine. those one take five. but i'll take five anyday in this one. it's okay. because i'm not trying to keep the four that i have or the nine that i have and twelve that i have, i'm keep going, keep going and i don't feel like it. i'm gonna keep going because i know i know they need to make more money because in five years a little bit i'm going to need more money. okay. a few things about vitality. okay, and how it's not. such a big deal, but it works okay and. you see, we started and this is something that i keep thinking about yesterday and within i remembered it. we started with saying it's all in a state of mind and so mind made there's something that's very important. that needs to be. illuminated. you have to know that you have the ability. to change your mind. okay, that sounds very little, but it's very big because if it's all made from the mind. right. and if the outside, you know as above, so below, alright. that law also goes as inside. so outside, okay, like there's a whole system in our body right now. bacteria, they're living and they're fighting and they're eating and it's crazy and it's almost like exactly what we're doing on the planet, right. and you take a bigger, bigger, bigger, bigger. i think doctor susan has a movie about that. hmm, if if if all of that is true by observation. then this is true, then this is true by observation, then this is true too. you have to know that you could change your mind and you have to know that the way to change the the way to change. the world around you is first change your mind. the world will change. the beautiful example of this is right now we have electricity, of course, right. we go back some years back on this planet. there was electricity. by the way, thousands of years ago. they just don't want us to know that, but at some point we lost it. and then we rediscovered it, but here is what's interesting during the whole time there isn't any more electricity today than there was. let's say, eight hundred years ago or six hundred years ago. whenever there was an electricity, it's not like suddenly there's this thing in the world called the electricity that didn't exist and now there's so much of it. this shit has been here. we just figured out the laws now we can go, boom. and boom, that was crazy. that's the what i'm interested with the mind. it's here the potential is been here. so. once we get it, then we can harness it and. but it's not like it's anything that's out of the ordinary. i think that's what people miss. sometimes people are like, what, you know, how what makes you think you could discover that not in fact, i'm not discovering anything. i'm looking at the people who have done it before and finding out what they knew and then i'm putting the ship into practice in my life and when it works, it works. that's it and then die down. you know, someone tried to convince me because when i know i know. but it brings us to our to our final thing for today. you have to start putting these things into practice so that you gain your own certainty on the subject. richard, are you online, is richard blue or online. okay, so you asked me a question i answer. and you wanted more more understanding of it and i couldn't i couldn't type it on that, so i'll give it to you right now. i said certainty itself is knowledge. remember. okay. let's think about this. everything you're learning. you have to put them to practice. until you yourself have certainty on it. when you know. you know, at the moment, you know. now you have the knowledge. until then, you don't people can come around and knock you over with it. the strip doesn't work well. well, well, well. why am i we're just not talking about pick up only i mean, anything, right. i have certainty on these laws. that's why i can stand here and defend them, talk about them, put them out like as if they are the truth, why cause they are the truth for me, my certainty itself is the knowledge that i have. otherwise it would just be a bunch of facts. we'll go to the building and read them anywhere, right, read them anywhere. computer age, google anything i said and there will be some some books somewhere about it, right, so you need to gain certainty. she will feel your certainty how you gain certainty is by applying these laws and putting them into practice the same thing in the martial arts. i know the move works. you have to know the move works when you know the move works, you have the knowledge of the move now. the moment you could give that knowledge to another human being and they didn't believe in it. and they listen to you and they did it and they believed in it. you have a different level of knowledge. because now you're able to take what you knew and presented in many different angles. and by doing that, you observe it differently. when you teach. you have to take one statement that's true for you and present it in a hundred different ways until people go ah i get what you're talking about by doing that. it allows you. to observe that knowledge from so many angles, then you become more familiar with the knowledge and any teacher knows you learn more when you teach. but a lot of teachers as they teach, they stop. themselves practicing, whether it's martial arts or game or whatever and then their knowledge again becomes half. full knowledge, full scope. is you're the student, you're a teacher and you continue that. you continuously learn and practice. meanwhile, you teach it now you're becoming full. okay. alright. that'll do it for right now. let's go over any questions that you have. yes. should you win ever. can you know your target in the g.h.. wow, good question. i wouldn't do it. right. something i violate something for me right on both ends if my wing is key knowing my target, i'm gonna get angry. i don't know why, but it's just i'm gonna get angry even if he's like trying to give her to me. it's like a man is off one two if i'm waiting for him and i start touching her, i gotta check myself, man. right. it just doesn't feel right. the weighing rules are between you and your wing really. i wouldn't do it. i wouldn't have my windows. i have to examine it. this is my target and inspired, you know i don't want the best friend, like. hugs my girl and gives her a ride and massages her you know, lets her sleep at his house cause she's so cool. you know, it's like. hey bro, can you take care of my girl out of town, yeah, i don't know, man. aiya. jack and we're eating sushi. it was up, bro. oh, yeah. it has not my style again. the browser code or whatever, like in the game. was was eugene keynote your target. egg. i don't know. oh, man. did you feel like there was something wrong where you thought it was okay. no, i don't even know this. i thought it was like, whatever these are girls were like whatever i wanted. they were not. so you're doing you guys, ma'am, but come on the magic. you already knew it was yeah the question you already knew the answer. beijing is funny, man. they are. i mean, we all already know. i just see you the funniest i need. okay, what else. maybe now we don't know. doing the wrong thing, knowing the right thing. and i was like, you're like, oh yeah, this is wrong. it's going to do. i'm gonna get away with it and that's what happens in the opportunity last night. ya ya. what would you do with saga sleep. yeah, i really just. i'm sure you dad. known as i was driving to austin about twenty minutes into the first drive. my legs started to have that. it doesn't go numb. it's like you have to move it. you never get that like, damn, i can't sit anymore. i gotta move my leg so i was like, you know. the navigation says you have another like thirty five or whatever minutes and i was like, oh my god. dude, so i'm driving and. guys drive with the left foot on the paddle and i'm taking off my shoe. putting it up like i'm not fucking crazy. i mean, it was hell. it was hell then i got there. picked up and i had to drive back an hour. climb back, but. you know, when it was all over, i'm telling you. it was worth every fucking second man. remember that shit, ma'am. and you know some of the things i told the girl next to me, i said, look. you gotta find this model would always tell me this. you have to learn to find the ecstasy in the moment right now cause life is not the next moment it doesn't come. you gotta you gotta see it for right now. i mean, literally right now as we're. if you guys are waiting for the next moment to enjoy it that you missed it already and the next moment will be another moment and next month and just never far forgotten. so it's a practice. one of the things i recognize today is that we have to practice our mind a lot. it's just so much an automatic since being a child, we're told so many things and it's just running now and every once in a while we have a conscious thought. but it just gets destroyed by all the unconscious thoughts that are there. so it just goes like one little voice. it's a good idea to be a billionaire. shut up. okay, i just thought maybe i should think about it for a second, but you're right, i should be more realistic and i should be realistic that every other function person was realistic. who never made shit happen. meanwhile, like all the unrealistic people aren't making shit happen. you know, they're like traveling to the fucking mars and creating ipods and fucking those people are unrealistic as fuck. yeah, it's just be realistic because it's stone accessing and caves as real shit gets, you know. okay, what else. so we find out, gene. you try to fly your head can. what else. any other questions. okay, yes. uh, last night just being said, once you're instead by spray wicky stuff as far as like conversational tactics and at times when like you know you just said, these were like matches and they just all reps, you know. once i find like a common thread or bond or whatever. yes, i can see the temperature rise in the solidarity. yes, but then something happens and then it drops off and then i'm sitting there like, fuck, you can sell a call and watch and keep it in like, non stop. and i'm like, yes, how do you ring egg, you just start with another opener or do you just say whatever, fuck every cause you're already instead or we bought with those, okay, both of those now you're saying that about the keto. i've seen a key to this game, you see and he wasn't like that. he got to understand his. like a fucking freezer. yeah, i mean. he was when he was getting good, you know, i remember he because of his look. he creates very immediate attraction, fast attraction and then the set will go for like a minute or two and then it was just like, um you know like the rocket. but then i brought that fuel and that's it would crash a lot hard so he would go from set to set to set to set attraction attraction, attraction, attraction, die. die, die, die, die, right, but it's with practice. so to practice, i mean, the last memory i have was when we were in l.a., by the way. that chick added me from that fucking, uh, games and diamonds place on facebook. i didn't know it was her until yesterday actually. well, yeah, the girl you talking to. so it's talking to her, right and then, uh, it's going and at some point we're talking here and it started. so as a wing i came in reinitiated, it handed it back then. later i said it was feeling, yeah. yeah, i really have no interest in her because, you know. she wasn't all that great, but my answer was yeah but his practice. but she's here. i've got a practice just keeping the ship going and now you know months later you're saying accused goes. goes, goes that's practice, talk to him and find out how many times it's fizzled out and it's a progress in the game. we've all felt it right if you haven't felt it yet, you will feel. when you're now getting inset. and it dies. that's one of the good things going out with the coaches. you're guaranteed if you go out of the coaches, you're going to end up inside if you're hanging out with. okay, not on our coaches. i can't guarantee if you literally be talking to girls in set, but i don't know if he's there. i know if he's there it you're gonna be talking to girls. you might not make out, but you will be in there and you're going to have to be okay. what do i say now, what do i do. so. it comes awesome. yeah. and then and then you add a new card. okay. yeah, but it doesn't mean yeah, it's practice. yeah. it's practice, practice. but you've got to see how they were interacting a couple of times, excuse me. okay. sorry, go go back. it's fine, man. it's fine. we'll all go through it. every one of us is at a certain level of. i am sure i am sure i'll look back to where i'm at. in years to come, if i keep doing what i'm doing and i will be a joke to myself. like who i am right now be like. wow, dude, i remember when. you know what i mean, it never ends if it does. there is a problem. you have to continue evolving in this thing so and seeing it all the way through this is the beauty of having. you know a group of people who study. anybody who's done martial arts knows that you're going to make those mistakes and even though in martial arts and we're very nice here. but my martial tradition from pattaya. we make fun of each other. all there's the only interaction those guys have on the map is everyone clowning on each other. like every day there's no nothing kind ever said. so but you know, as like the new guy is making the mistakes, everyone's clowning on him, you damn well know you were that fucking guy, but he's not going through his bullshit and you're gonna fucking calling like you were being caught on in the beginning, you know what i mean, whatever. the other day. one one of the few people over there that can beat me up pretty easily is pattaya partner. whereon is me. but not on his name is julia when the office talking. and we always planning on each other and then julius said something like. i thought i said something, i said something, but i was like, yeah, but that guy's a flag. and then i like it. and then he was like, well, so it's a rush, but. real real like calm, you know. i say no. i delay you can get away with that right now. i said, but i showed you that sunrise tomorrow. want to kick your eyes on the maths so bad one day, bro, i said. you just know because i know what's going to happen. i said, yeah. but remember this moment right now i said, because you just gave me so much fuel because what you better training hard is that i'm training hard because i'm training hard. do we see that the interaction is like two two brothers going up like that. and he's my older brother in in in martial arts. he's been doing it along with me. but anyways, it's good, man. i know i know the. what do i say now, i know that so you come here often and then you go, oh, i remember something in the game. so how do you know each other and then you realize that you've asked the question that your friend already asked and you missed the answer to you know you come up with that. a gambit in the game and you're like, oh, i should say. so how do you guys know each other. and you were so out of it. because you were in the one hand they had already said that i was just like, well. i already said we're best friends or something like, oh yeah, fuck. what kind of shampoo do you use for your best friends. fuck, i'm fucking this one and then your friend was you over. comes back, says he's drunk. he's a good guy. okay. say.
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