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r/infj • 1 yr. ago

Posted by pita_palaman

Everyone is saying that INFJs and ENFPs are

the perfect match. But, what do you guys hate
about ENFPs secretly?
Just want to know what are the things that they've
unintentionally done that upset you, and you havent had
the chance to talk it out with them because u're being
careful that they may get hurt and emotional.

Please share your thoughts.Would appreciate it a lot.

My curiousity's been killing me haha

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sucito INFJ • 1 yr. ago

Lazy / non developed enfps:

1. The trail of blood (Broken relationships) and "It

doesn't has anything to do with me" "They're
bad for not talking to me anymore" attitude after
stepping on people several times.
2. The air of superiority about feigning to
understand everything (Without research /
validation) just cuz they felt like it.
3. Businesses going bad? Enfp never loses more
cents than you. You'll be left out to pay snd deal
with the consequences.
4. You have a problem and friends do help you?
Enfp won't want to be left behind in the "I'm a
good person" train. After a while of going in your
psyche and not getting the hang of anything
(Because it takes effort) will try to change words
(Even trying to invalidate text logs, memories and
your overall perception of everything in a way
that favors up enfp as a good person. Denounce
it and you'll be acused of not being loyal,
insensitive and trust betrayal)
5. 1000 ideas, 0 execution.

Yup. All of that from experience.

In turn I'll never change the good enfps. They're

angels sent from heaven to make people happy while
being authentic. I love them and want them forever in
my life.
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9december3 INFJ • 1 yr. ago

"It doesn't has anything to do with me"

that's too real, lol

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[deleted] • 1 yr. ago

Small pool of relationships and experience: What I
find annoying about ENFP or just Fi in general is their
inability to see how hypocritical they are. They see
moral flaws in others and sometimes point them out
(more so with EFPs), but they cannot take the heat
when others do it to them. They take that personal
and have all these justification why it's not true, how
they're "misunderstood," or others are "judgmental".
Sometimes they're in denial of who they actually are
versus who they think they are.
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