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Personal Relationship
RELATIONSHIP
Personal Development
GRADE 12
“
SURVIVAL was the primary reason
why human beings have the
fundamental need to belong.
”
- Pre-historic Era
Show love, affection, loyalty to a group and hunt together for food.
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BENEFITS OF HAVING PERSONAL
RELATIONSHIP
- BELONGING TO A GROUP generates many
benefits like having a support system when
you need some shoulder to cry on or draw
some strength from.
”
with each other.
Merriam-Webster Online Dictionary
”
meaning to this person.
Privacy and Intimacy, characteristics that define personal
relationship. It involves degree of commitment to another person.
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to our parents.
The Rozenberg Quarterly, Bowlby (1982)
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Three Attachment Styles
1. Secure Attachment – when primary
caregiver is always present and available
and when all emotional needs of an infant
are met. They will grow up to have more
secure and stable relationship.
2. Avoidant Attachment – primary caregiver is
cold and detached and unresponsive to a
child’s need. Avoid getting into meaningful
relationships in the future.
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Three Attachment Styles
3. Anxious-ambivalent Attachment – primary
caregiver is not consistent in terms of
presence and in meeting child’s emotional
needs. May develop separation anxieties
with loved one or may have mixed feelings
between hesitancy and commitment.
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• Phermones, an odorless chemical found in urine
and sweat and can only be detected through an
organ as the nose, are also involved in the
assessment of future mate, this is an indication of
a person’s immune system.
• Women are also attracted to men who smell
similar to their father.
• Constantly looking to a parents facial features
develop an infant to be attracted with someone
that resembles like his/her parents.
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Rozenberg Quarterly Theories and
Research Results on Attraction
1. Transference 5. Physical
3. Similarity
Effect Attractiveness
6. Personality
2. Propinquity
4. Reciprocity Characteristics
Effect
and Traits
6. Personality
2. Propinquity
4. Reciprocity Characteristics
Effect
and Traits
1. Transference Effect
- These people remind us of someone in the past who
has affected our sense of self and our behavior.
2. Propinquity Effect
- These people who live close to us, work with us, or
go to school with us, which leads us to liking them
more.
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Rozenberg Quarterly Theories and Research Results on Attraction
1. Transference 5. Physical
3. Similarity
Effect Attractiveness
6. Personality
2. Propinquity
4. Reciprocity Characteristics
Effect
and Traits
3. Similarity
- These people who we have similarities with, such as
social class background, religious beliefs, age, and
education.
4. Reciprocity
- These are the people we like who like us back.
Reciprocity is a stronger basis for liking another person
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Rozenberg Quarterly Theories and Research Results on Attraction
1. Transference 5. Physical
3. Similarity
Effect Attractiveness
6. Personality
2. Propinquity
4. Reciprocity Characteristics
Effect
and Traits
5. Physical Attractiveness
- Major factor in liking someone is primarily “first
impression”.
6. Personality Characteristics and Traits
- Liking person in two characteristics: empathetic person
and socially competent person.
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There are many ways of expressing
”
writing or sending messages or simply
admitting that you are attracted to
someone.
”
IS IT A THOUGHT?
IS LOVE PHYSICAL?
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or thing.
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The American Heritage Dictionary:
• a strong feeling of affection and concern toward
another person, as that arising from kinship or
close friendship;
• a strong feeling of affection and concern for
another person accompanied by sexual attraction;
• a feeling of devotion or adoration toward God or a
god;
• a feeling of kindness or concern by God or a god
toward humans; and sexual desire or activity: the
pleasures of love; a night of love.
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The American Heritage Dictionary:
Robert
Stenberg
Passion Commitment
Commitment
Passion
Passion
Commitment
Intimacy
combination of three
components: intimacy,
Romantic love
(intimacy +
Compassionate love
(intimacy + commitment and
passion) commitment)
Consummate Love
passion.
(intimacy + passion +
commitment)
✓ The eighth type of love is
the absence of the three
components and is
Infatuation
Fatuous love
Empty love
(commitment alone)
referred as “non-love”.
(passion alone)
(passion +
commitment)
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Sternberg Triangular Theory of Love