BASIC PARENTING

INFORMATION FOR FILIPINO

PARENTS

A presentation of MS. LOVELEIH G. QUEMADO

A story of the father, the son
and the crow
 A story of the father, the son
and the crow
An 80 year old man was sitting on the sofa in his house
along with his 45 years old highly educated son.

Suddenly a crow perched on their window. The Father

asked his Son, "What is this?“ The Son replied "It is a crow“
After a few minutes, the Father asked his Son the 2nd time,
"What is this?"
• The Son said "Father, I have just now told you "It's a
crow".
After a little while, the old Father again asked his Son the
3rd time, What is this?“

At this time some expression of irritation was felt in the

Son's tone when he said to his Father with a rebuff. "It's a
crow, a crow"

A little after, the Father again asked his Son the 4th time,
"What is this?"
This time the Son shouted at his Father, "Why do you keep
asking me the same question again and again, although I
have told you so many times 'IT IS A CROW'. Are you not
able to understand this?"
 A little later the Father went to his room and came
back with an old tattered diary, which he had maintained
since his Son was born.

On opening a page, he asked his Son to read that

page. When the son read it, the following words were
written in the diary :-
"Today my little son aged three was sitting with me on the
sofa, when a crow was sitting on the window.

My Son asked me 23 times what it was, and I replied to

him all 23 times that it was a Crow.

I hugged him lovingly each time he asked me the same

question again and again for 23 times. I did not at all feel
irritated I rather felt affection for my innocent child".
While the little child asked him 23 times "What is this", the
Father had felt no irritation in replying to the same question
all 23 times and when today the Father asked his Son the
same question just 4 times, the Son felt irritated and
annoyed.
Theme:

“THE SECRETS OF HAPPY, CREATIVE,

CONFIDENT AND COMPETENT KIDS”
According to Mark Rotella (1998) the
best parenting is „starting from the
seed‟.

The chief task of parenting is to

ensure survival.
(children)
PREPARE FOR THEM BEFORE THEY
COME TO YOUR WORLD

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PARENTING
Do We Really
Need Parental
Training?
Start with the Basic

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• Now in the 21st century when man is
understanding & perfecting everything,
parenting is no exception.
• There are serious mistakes by not so
competent or careful parents.
• Understanding of common failures
and ways to correct them may be
needed in few situations.
• Awareness about what we do, why we do
and how we do
• But, anything, which is good in natural flow,
should be allowed to retain its beauty and
charm.
 Parents Education on Parenting
1. Rights and Duties of Parents
2. Rights of our children
3. Liabilities of Parents
4. Stages of Development of our
children
5. Social Environment of our
children
PARENTS????

Who are they?

 May I ask the parents to
complete the STATEMENT?

Parents are…..

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 Parents could be…
• Biological
• Adoptive
• Foster

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Rights of Parents
PD 603- issued by Pres. Marcos in 1974

Art. 43. Primary Right of Parents.

The parents shall have the right to the
company of their children and, in relation to all
other persons or institutions dealing with the
child's development, the primary right and
obligation to provide for their upbringing.
Rights of Parents
PD 603- issued by Pres. Marcos in 1974
Art. 45. Right to Discipline Child.
Parents have the right to discipline the
child as may be necessary for the formation of
his good character, and may therefore require
from him obedience to just and reasonable
rules, suggestions and admonitions.
Duties of Parents

Art. 46. General Duties. - Parents shall have the

following general duties toward their children:

(1) To give him affection, companionship and

understanding;

(2) To extend to him the benefits of moral guidance,

self-discipline and religious instruction;

(3) To supervise his activities, including his

recreation;
Duties of Parents
(4) To inculcate in him the value of
industry, thrift and self-reliance;

(5) To stimulate his interest in civic

affairs, teach him the duties of
citizenship, and develop his commitment
to his country;
(6) To advise him
properly on any
matter affecting his
development and
well-being;
Duties of Parents
(7) To always set a good example;

(8) To provide him with adequate

support, as defined in Article 290 of the
Civil Code; and

(9) To administer his property, if

any, according to his best
interests, subject to the provisions of
Article 320 of the Civil Code.
Duties of Parents

(8) To provide him with adequate

support, as defined in Article 290 of the
Civil Code; and

(9) To administer his property, if

any, according to his best
interests, subject to the provisions of
Article 320 of the Civil Code.
Duties of Parents
Art. 47. Family Affairs.
Whenever proper, parents shall
allow the child to participate in the
discussion of family affairs, especially in
matters that particularly concern him.
Liabilities of Parents
Art. 59. Crimes. - Criminal liability shall
attach to any parent who:
(1) Conceals or abandons the child with
intent to make such child lose his civil
status.
Liabilities of Parents

(2) Abandons the child under such

circumstances as to deprive him of the love,
care and protection he needs.
Liabilities of Parents
(3) Sells or abandons the child to another
person for valuable consideration.
(4) Neglects the child by not giving him the
education which the family's station in life
and financial conditions permit.
Liabilities of Parents
(5) Fails or refuses, without justifiable
grounds, to enrol the child as required by
Article 72.
(6) Causes, abates, or permits the truancy of
the child from the school where he is
enrolled. "Truancy" as here used means
absence without cause for more than twenty
schooldays, not necessarily consecutive.
Outside School….
Liabilities of Parents
It shall be the duty of the teacher in charge
to report to the parents the absences of the
child the moment these exceed five
schooldays.
(7) Improperly exploits the child by using
him, directly or indirectly, such as for
purposes of begging and other acts which
are inimical to his interest and welfare.
Liabilities of Parents
(8) Inflicts cruel and unusual punishment
upon the child or deliberately subjects him to
indignations and other excessive
chastisement that embarrass or humiliate
him.
(9) Causes or encourages the child to lead
an immoral or dissolute life.
Liabilities of Parents
(10) Permits the child to possess, handle or
carry a deadly weapon, regardless of its
ownership.
Liabilities of Parents

(11) Allows or requires the child to drive

without a license or with a license which the
parent knows to have been illegally
procured. If the motor vehicle driven by the
child belongs to the parent, it shall be
presumed that he permitted or ordered the
child to drive.
Art. 60. Penalty. - The act mentioned in the
preceding article shall be punishable with
imprisonment from two or six months or a
fine not exceeding five hundred pesos,
or both, at the discretion of the Court,
unless a higher penalty is provided for in
the Revised Penal Code or special laws,
without prejudice to actions for the
involuntary commitment of the child under
Title VIII of this Code.
 Rights of the child (PD 603)
• rightsofachild -edited.pptx
 Stages of Development of our children
• sigmundfreudpsychosexual.ppt

• psychosocial.pptx
Social Environment
• Family

• parenting-130303204749-
phpapp01.pptx
• CHILD ABUSE.pptx
THANK YOU!!!