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Tambuli 2008 3rd Quarter
Tambuli 2008 3rd Quarter
Among those riding the float were past Philippine-New York Jaycees presidents Joseph
Tieng and Sergio Estrada, current president Victor de Leon, chapter officers, and
members from the Korea American Jaycees. The silver and blue covered float was
decorated with a massive version of the chapter’s shield and logo as the backdrop and
above it was a beautiful inscription; “45 Years of Excellence”.
The 45th Anniversary float was a vision by the chapter’s Vice President of Community
Development, Ted Martinez. He was the overall chairperson of the project which was
Top: Lora Nicolas singing co-chaired by one of the newest members, Belinda Molina. Completing the project
Bottom: Jaycees marchers Continued on Page 8
The Philippine-New York Junior Chamber (Jaycees), Inc.
Chapter mailing address: P.O. Box 634, Grand Central Station, New York, New York 10163
Website: www.philnyjaycees.org
Contact email: info@philnyjaycees.org
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Remembering 9/11
By Joe Valdez
Editor-in-Chief
Welcome to this current edition of The Tambuli, the Most Outstanding Chapter President of the Year
award-winning chapter newsletter of The (Don Cavalli Memorial Award) - Gary Abasolo
Philippine-New York Junior Chamber! With this (President)
issue, we are about to embark on a new era of
excellence in journalism, skillfully headed by our Parade of Chapters (Top 3 Finalists) - The Philippine-
new Editor-in-Chief, Joe Valdez (2007 Membership New York Jaycees
Services Vice President). He is succeeding long-
time member and Editor-in-Chief, Jocelyn Bernal, Outstanding Project (Top 3 Finalists) - Kid's Day
whose service and leadership we are, eternally, America (Addie Adams, Project Chair)
grateful for. While Joe will have some big shoes to
fill in this capacity, we are confident that he will do Most Outstanding Jaycee - Victor De Leon (Director)
so, quite ably. The revival of the Tambuli could not
have come at a better time, here in 2008, our 45th Outstanding Jaycee (Top 3 Finalists) - Edwin Ochoa
Anniversary year; as we go forward and strive (Webmaster)
towards excellence in leadership for another 45
years and more. Let us all contribute together to Outstanding Staff Officer (Top 3 Finalists)- Marjerie
make our newsletter even more vibrant; exciting; Rosales(Secretary)
and the premiere and leading publication of its kind!
Enjoy! 2007 'Master Speak Up' Competition Winner - Gary
Abasolo (President)
Special thanks to 2006 Chapter President Vivian As we celebrate our 45th year of service to our
Velasco for allowing us to begin discussions on this communities, we look forward to presenting the next set
matter and to members of the 2006 Board and Bylaws of lifetime awards to those who are truly deserving not
committee for their contributions. Thanks also to 2007 only for their efforts today but for also their outstanding
Chapter President Gary Abasolo for permitting us to service in years past. The New York State Junior
complete the discussion and for 2008 Chapter President Chamber (Jaycees) 2007 Year-End Convention took
Victor De Leon for finally scheduling the ratification of place on January 11th-13th in Syracuse, New York and
these Bylaws amendment during the recently concluded the Philippine-NY chapter brought home a number of
General Membership Meeting. year-end awards.
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Why the Jaycee Experience is a Lifetime Tool
By Max Madridejos, Jr.
years, when someone will call my
I joined the Jaycees in 1969 and was name to stand up and speak like a
elected as the 10th President in real Jaycee. The fear is still there,
1973. After a few years, I resigned the nervousness is still there, the
from my full time job as an tension is still there, but it is all
accountant and started my own covered with confidence and hope
business in real estate. that I can manage to stand up to
anything.
I don't think I will be courageous
enough to cut the employment
monthly cash flow if not for the aspect of life there is... there is the The real test of the Jaycee
knowledge gained from my Jaycee Jaycee foundation that will carry Movement is not how much
association. you to your final destination. money you can accumulate
The Jaycee experience was the but how much time you can
The best part, on top of all of this
foundation of a lot of things that any share your life to make other
excitement are the real friendships
young man or woman can ever learn that you gain, many of them are still
life worthwhile.
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and apply in action to life situations. with me after 39 years.
From public relations to finance, Love everyone for this is the most
from public speaking to time Now that I am in my mid-sixties, I powerful thing on EARTH.
management, from success to still recall just as if it was just a
failure, from losing a job to finding moment ago that the butterflies in Thank you because I am still
a job and almost every single my stomach are still there all these around.
Integrity of Communication
By Addie Addams
We all have said things we didn’t mean, never convey rudeness or disrespect.
but words have power - they can make The key to getting one’s point across
you feel an array of feelings from sad to w/o being rude or disrespectful, is to
discouraged, or from happy to hopeful. hold onto integrity as the measure of
Words can incite anger and provoke excellent communication. So, here’s To avoid rudeness and disrespect in e-
negative actions. Words can even raise what should be kept in mind if one truly mail write-ups, refrain from the usage of
our self-esteem or even lower it. So, our desires to practice integrity in the following: ALL CAPS, bolding,
choice of words, and how words are communication: avoid stating things underlining, and color-coding any of the
presented (especially in e-mails), all that can not be said unashamedly out in words within the message. Each of
contribute to how the message is the open; freely admit wrong doing w/o these features represents yelling, and
received. Messages are conveyed excuse; choose morality as the right arrogance, and belittles the reader,
through the attitude, mood, and side (‘cause it’s the only side); do not thereby, potentially invoking feelings of
emotions of the messenger at the time. abuse one’s power through expressions condemnation and defensiveness. The
Perhaps the single most contributing of arrogance; be honest w/o being mere purpose of an e-mail is to be
factor to how a message is received is snippy; do not undermine authority informal and brief. Informality,
the messenger’s tone of voice or tone of through direct threats or passivity; steer however, does not give one liberty to not
writing. The tone is the rhythm of the away from condescending and selfish be polite. Politeness is essential in order
message, and sums up how the statements that are intended to make to establish integrity of respect for the
messenger felt at a given moment and one’s self look better over others; reader. And, e-mails are also meant to
depicts the true hidden intension and restrain from false flattery; keep clear of be concise, and to the point. Therefore,
motivation of the message. The tone false promises; stay far away from one’s main point should be at the very
colors the message and that color is seen words and phrases that divide; never lie beginning of an e-mail. Everyone
through word choice, word omission, nor continue in someone’s else’s lie; do should always remember that e-mails
repetitiveness, wordiness, length of not use words that conjure angry last a very, very longtime in cyberspace,
message, and the existence (or lack of feelings or may put someone on the but more importantly, words last in the
existence) of appreciation for the person defensive; never repeat unsubstantiated hearts and in the minds of others, for a
on the receiving end of the message. statements or stories that motivate the lifetime… “Death and life are in the
continual spread of gossip, assumptions, power of the tongue....” (Proverbs
In order to establish and maintain and rumors; and lastly, always say what 18:21)…….. “A soft answer turneth
integrity in communication, one must you mean, mean what you say. away wrath…..” (Proverbs 15:1).
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Glorious Picnic
By Jocelyn Bernal
On Saturday, August 9, the Philippine-
New York Jaycees held our annual
picnic at Cunningham Park. Unlike
previous years where our picnic was
held in conjunction with another
community event, this year the chapter
opted to have our own picnic at a new
location. Under the leadership of
Membership Services Vice President
Zultan Bermudez, we had a picture
perfect event.
There were still some water balloons left which inevitably ended up on Chairman of
the Board, Gary Abasolo. He was a really terrific sport despite being pursued
relentlessly by some of our members who were all intent to get him wet. Thumbs up
Water balloon game to COB Gary!
By Carissa Villacorta
86 million tourist spots
I rarely take a trip outside Manila when I Truly, the tourist spots of the Philippines
go home to the Philippines. I go there are the Filipinos. And they're here, there
not to go around – but to be in one and everywhere.
place: with my family and friends.
And as long as there is something about
However, I can't help but be amazed the us individually, that is beautiful,
moment I step on Philippine soil, not by amazing, warm, and different, we, the
the sight of places but of people who Filipino, are one of the few wonders of
greet me at the airport, restaurants and the world. We are the Philippines'
stores. There's just a genuine, almost walking, talking tourist spots, and are
innocent way of dealing that Filipinos our country's greatest assets. And as
manifest in social settings. long as we don't deteriorate, or shut
resounding chatter covers the amazing down, like many usual tourist spots,
When among non-Filipinos, stories are qualities they found in Filipinos they people around the world will continue
said and heard of Boracay, Palawan, met on ships, at home, at work or loving Filipinos and the home that
Bohol and Siargao. But the more through friends. nurtured us – the Philippines.
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Twinning Agreement My Something Better
By Cri-Cri Ramos
By Giselle Aranda
A major portion of the fundraising was accomplished by another new member, Dhanesh Shelat who was also the Chairperson for the fundraiser
event, Floatatious. Held at China 1 Club in Alphabet City, the extraordinary party drew well over 100 attendees and raised more than $2,000.
The event featured a show which included Maritess the Magician, the hip-hop dance group DynamiQ Faction, and R&B singer JC. The
responsibility of sponsorships was under a third new member, Mia Fulgado, and corporate sponsors for the evening were Court of Mandarin
Restaurant, Western Union and Red Bull. In addition to gaining much of the funds needed, the event also created considerable awareness to
what the Jaycees are doing. Member, Bernadette Olimpo had the task of marketing the event and she distributed flyers in Filipino
establishments throughout the city.
The Philippine-New York Jaycees past presidents also fundraised over $1,000 in donations to support the float project.
The float project actually ended with a Thank You party, Floatalicious, held on June 12, 2008 at the luscious garden of the Fulgado residence.
That night was intended to recognize and give awards to all participants. The evening also included a movie slide show entitled Float, which
played videos and photos of all the work and events throughout the project. The final treat was having all of the contributors serenaded by
award winning singer RJ Solis singing “This is the moment.”
Once again, the Philippine-New York Jaycees accomplished another challenging mission that fostered personal development, team building,
networking, and friendship.
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Upcoming Events
During this event the Philippine-New York Junior Chamber will be presenting lifetime
achievement awards to past members of the organization. These awards include the Junior
Chamber International Senatorship, the United States Junior Chamber Ambassadorship, and the
New York State Governorship. Each lifetime award is presented only once in the lifetime of
Jaycee member and each represents the highest award presented in the state, national and
international level.
There will also be special recognition given to partners of the Jaycees who have provided
support to the organization through the years. These include other community organizations, a
corporate partner and a member of the Press.
We invite all current and past members of the Philippine-New York Junior Chamber to join us
for this celebration. Watch out for additional information about the event in the coming weeks.