Masculinity has become toxic due to exaggerated social expectations that men must be strong, risk-taking, and suppress their emotions. This leads men to feel pressure to engage in harmful behaviors to prove their masculinity, such as violence and aggression. Phrases like "man up" normalize toxic behavior from a young age. Unhealthy masculinity prevents men from seeking help for mental health issues due to stigma. The media promotes toxic roles that encourage hostile attitudes. Addressing masculinity as a human issue rather than gender-specific can help eliminate its toxic effects.
Masculinity has become toxic due to exaggerated social expectations that men must be strong, risk-taking, and suppress their emotions. This leads men to feel pressure to engage in harmful behaviors to prove their masculinity, such as violence and aggression. Phrases like "man up" normalize toxic behavior from a young age. Unhealthy masculinity prevents men from seeking help for mental health issues due to stigma. The media promotes toxic roles that encourage hostile attitudes. Addressing masculinity as a human issue rather than gender-specific can help eliminate its toxic effects.
Masculinity has become toxic due to exaggerated social expectations that men must be strong, risk-taking, and suppress their emotions. This leads men to feel pressure to engage in harmful behaviors to prove their masculinity, such as violence and aggression. Phrases like "man up" normalize toxic behavior from a young age. Unhealthy masculinity prevents men from seeking help for mental health issues due to stigma. The media promotes toxic roles that encourage hostile attitudes. Addressing masculinity as a human issue rather than gender-specific can help eliminate its toxic effects.
Masculinity is a set of socially constructed attributes
associated to men and boys. Men are usually expected to be courageous, strong, risk takers and self-dependent. These are some qualities that every person (irrespective of their gender) wishes to inhibit in them. So how did masculinity become toxic? Masculinity was not only considered an attribute but a necessity for men. If males believe they are not meeting these exaggerated traits or not aligning with these narrow views, they may feel they are less manly. Even in the 20th century men are expected to suppress their emotions, be aggressive. Any man who does not exhibit such qualities is considered to be weak and is often seen as less masculine by his peers. Masculinity has many disadvantages which do not only affect women and children but men themselves. It is often believed that men should not only avoid violence but actively participate in it to exert their power over the weak or to gain control over the situation. However such behavior has resulted in normalizing domestic violence because of which both the partners are likely to experience isolation, poor mental health and unhappiness. Question arises where does this sexist behavior comes from. Are men taught to behave like this? Often in schools or homes phrases like “man up” i.e. not crying, not expressing your emotions in front of others or “boys will be boys” which justifies the toxic behavior of boys and assure them that it is fine to behave like this, are used. Adolescent boys who cannot healthily express their emotions are more likely to participate in bullying, physical assault, and verbally aggressive behavior. Due to stigma and societal pressures, males are less likely to seek help for mental health issues. Men experiencing mental health issues might not seek out professional care or even talk about their struggles with friends or family. Unhealthy or toxic masculinity may not allow males to fully express themselves and their emotional needs because people may view it as a sign of weakness or vulnerability. Men who view themselves as more masculine are less likely to engage in what researchers call “helping behavior.” That means they are not likely to intervene when they witness bullying or when they see someone being assaulted. Media is undoubtedly linked with toxic masculinity. In today’s society much of the society contains violence or role models displaying aggression. From rap songs to movies there are role models that are indirectly promoting hostile behaviors and attitudes. “The crisis facing our boys today is not masculinity, rather it is toxic patriarchal hyper-masculinity. In many ways, our boys are constantly clashing within themselves between who they really are and who they are expected to be. The stress of guarding and protecting a false self creates a deep wound in the male psyche.” (Melia Keeton Digby)
Even the World Health Organization (WHO) has recognized
that men's tendency to die at younger ages may correlate to the harmful ways that masculinity has been defined in society and the ways that men have been conditioned to practice it. Some are seeking therapy. Others have enrolled in workshops and men’s groups in an effort to get in touch with their feelings and become better men. Or the hundreds of texts and anecdotes of so- called softbois collected on the @beam_me_up_softboi Instagram account — men who express their feelings the way avalanches share snow, When men and women are accused of similar crimes, men are more likely to receive longer sentences than women, with women being twice as likely to avoid incarceration upon conviction For men, vulnerability is often neglected, dismissed, or combated. When men push down emotions, ignore feelings, or dismiss their feminine traits, their mental health will suffer. As of 2018, significantly more men than women died from an opioid overdose. 5
Men are far more likely to die by suicide than
women. “We need to teach young men from an early age that it’s good to express emotions,” says Exilus. In both our education system and at home, we need to help boys and men label their feelings and understand them. By approaching this in a non-judgmental, curious way, we can eliminate the fears surrounding therapy and mental health. “We need men to be role models for the new generation. It all starts with teaching boys to not be men, but to be humans,” says Blake. “This should not be a gender issue. Once we make this a human issue, toxic masculinity will fade.”