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Rememberance - Women and Grief Project Dulwich Centre
Rememberance - Women and Grief Project Dulwich Centre
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This article documents the initial stage of Dulwich Centre’s Women and Grief
Project, a project based on narrative practice to collect stories, skills, and knowledge
of women responding to grief and loss. The article includes a list of narratively-
informed questions for women to reflect on their experiences of grief and loss, and
a heartfelt response to these by a Palestinian woman, as well as responses to her
writing by other women. The article also explores the complexities of grief in the
context of violence, abuse, or other ‘fraught’ aspects of relationships, as well as
socially-unsanctioned forms of grief.
Keywords: grief, women, Women and Grief Project, narrative practice
Transition
Times of grief and loss are often times of
When the relationship with the person
transition:
who has died has been fraught
• Are there certain parts of life that you
• Are there things you are relieved to be no have moved away from as a result of this
longer experiencing? Can you share a transition, certain things you are no
story about these? Why are you relieved longer interested in doing, being a part
to be no longer experiencing this? of, participating in? If so, what are they?
• If another woman was trying to work out • Are there aspects of life that you have
how to relate to the memory of a person become more engaged with, that you
who had been cruel to them (or with
have moved towards, as a result of this
whom they had been in conflict), would
transition? If so, can you share a story
there be any story from your own life that
about this and what it is meaning for you?
you would be willing to share with them?
• If you had a chance to say something
now to the person who has died, would
you want to? If so, what would it be? Has The following story was sent to us by an
this changed over time? Australian woman who hopes that her experience of
• Is there anything about the person’s life a complicated grief will be of assistance to others.
or the person’s death that has led you to
When the relationship has been fraught with
want to live your life in particular
conflict or violence, this creates another
(different) ways? Why is this important to
dimension to the grief process. In my own
you? Can you share a story about how you
situation, there was a feeling of relief: relief
put this into practice in your life? that I no longer had to live with fear. In the