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Establishing Shelters For Battered Women
Establishing Shelters For Battered Women
Establishing Shelters For Battered Women
Carol S. W h a r t o n
University of Richmond
Recognizing a Need
Group founders were divided among activists (women in all but one
case) interested in women's issues and/or social welfare professionals
who dealt with large numbers of battered women and saw the need for
specific services for them. Twelve groups were started by activists and
t h i r t e e n by social service professionals. Of the twelve groups started
by women other t h a n social service professionals, nine began when
women working in rape crisis and/or multi-issue women's centers no-
ticed the volume of calls from battered women and the lack of places
for referral.
Women at [the local branch of the state university] women's center for
continuing education were getting a lot of calls from battered women and
the police and other agencies who didn't know what to do. The center sort
of dealt with things as they came up-someone would take the woman
home with them or to the emergency room. Gradually they realized they
couldn't handle it all; the community needed a shelter.
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A m o n g t h e t h i r t e e n g r o u p s s t a r t e d by professionals, s e v e n w e r e
f o u n d e d b y social w o r k e r s w h o mobilized t h e i r peers.
We were people in various social service agencies who found that there
was no coordination of services to battered spouses and formed a commit-
tee to begin this coordination.
A f e m a l e m i n i s t e r s t a r t e d a g r o u p a f t e r t r y i n g v a i n l y to find e x i s t i n g
places to r e f e r b a t t e r e d w o m e n a s k i n g h e r for help. Y W C A p r o g r a m s
s t a r t e d two g r o u p s w h e n , ~'We s t a r t e d g e t t i n g r e q u e s t s for s h e l t e r f r o m
w o m e n in d a n g e r a n d realized t h a t t h e r e w a s a g r e a t n e e d for services."
A t t o r n e y s w i t h L e g a l Aid, s u r p r i s e d by t h e i r l a r g e n u m b e r of d o m e s t i c
violence cases a n d b y t h e lack of local r e f e r r a l services, f o u n d e d t h r e e
groups.
A woman lawyer came to [town] with Legal Aid as soon as she graduated
from law school and took over the Family Law section. Immediately she
started seeing battered women coming in, wanting to get out of the situa-
tion. She thought she'd just be able to call some agency or find services
for these women. She found that there was nothing in the city or almost
in the state.
T y p i c a l l y , a g r o u p s t a r t e d a t t h e p a r t i c u l a r t i m e t h a t it did b e c a u s e
of a u n i q u e c o n s t e l l a t i o n of e v e n t s . T h e f o u n d e r w a s often n e w in t o w n
or in h e r / h i s position a n d open to seeing n e w issues. T h e L e g a l Aid at-
t o r n e y s w e r e y o u n g l a w y e r s w h o h a d r e c e n t l y finished l a w school. T h e
f e m a l e m i n i s t e r was hired by a local church. A w o m a n who h a d r e c e n t l y
m o v e d to t o w n h a d b e l o n g e d to a N O W c h a p t e r in h e r p r e v i o u s c o m m u -
n i t y t h a t w a s s t u d y i n g w o m a n b a t t e r i n g . She decided to o r g a n i z e t h e
s a m e t y p e of p r o g r a m in h e r n e w c o m m u n i t y . T h e r e c e n c y of t h e s e in-
d i v i d u a l s in t h e i r positions w a s significant. T h e n e w jobs p r o v i d e d a
c h a n g e in p e r s p e c t i v e , m a k i n g t h e i n d i v i d u a l s m o r e a w a r e of a previ-
ously u n n o t i c e d issue. T h e factor of n e w n e s s d e m o n s t r a t e s t h e impor-
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[NOW] took its findings to the community council who said %his is
definitely a problem and we want it addressed." The council formed a task
force from Family Services, the Department of Welfare, Legal Aid, and
so on to look into what could be done.
Anyone can join [the group], can even waive the dues if they want; so the
idea is to have a membership which is based on the community at large.
Relation to F e m i n i s m
The NCADV and the newsletter AEGIS claim to represent the bat-
tered women's movement nationally. Both the organization and the pub-
lication have a feminist orientation and assert t h a t woman battering
is a feminist issue, but m a n y of the movement's members disagree. At
the first national meeting of the NCADV there was controversy about
the feminist perspective on woman battering, and local groups were com-
posed of people with varying conceptions of the role of feminism in the
movement.
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I am a feminist but I don't use that word. I can get the same point across
using other words. Staff wouldn't label themselves that way. They're in
favor of the ERA, equal pay, raising children in a nonsexist way-anything
that a feminist would b e - b u t they'll say "I'm not a feminist."
NOW [the initial supporter] backed off. We felt that the group needed to
be seen as somewhere in the middle rather than to the extreme of one
end or the other, if the program is going to glide in this community.
A n o t h e r issue in n e g o t i a t i n g a n i d e n t i t y c o n c e r n e d t h e decision as to
w h e t h e r or not m e n would be welcomed, or e v e n p e r m i t t e d , to partici-
pate in a group s u p p o r t i n g b a t t e r e d women. Groups divided into four
major positions on the q u e s t i o n of men's participation.
Two groups were totally opposed to including m e n a m o n g staff, volun-
teers, or m e m b e r s of the b o a r d of directors. T h e y felt t h a t b a t t e r i n g was
a women's issue, and if a w o m a n w e r e l e a v i n g an oppressive relation-
ship with a m a n , she would not w a n t to h a v e to accept help f r o m o t h e r
men, or she n e e d e d to l e a r n to not n e e d help from men. As one such
group's spokesperson said:
It's important to provide positive male models to the women and children,
so they don't think all men are like the one they just left.
The immediate question is: how can we establish shelters that save lives,
provide support and help generate a sense of community and autonomy,
and fight against the causes of domestic violence without mystifying the
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While the feminist ideals underlying the movement for battered women
suggested that victims of wife assault could be the only "experts" regard-
ing their problems.., ironically, but not sm-prisingly, the movement was
accompanied by the emergence of experts on battered women.
Like, they'll say ~Have you ever been beaten? If not, how can you possi-
bly understand how I feel?" We're really struggling to make ourselves ac-
countable, and we recognize the validity of that kind of doubt. We say,
~No I haven't been beaten and you're right, I don't understand totally, but
I've talked to a lot of battered women and I want you to tell me where
you're coming from." We really spend a lot of time establishing a good
relationship with each woman who comes to us, and I think we're getting
better at it.
Our goals are very long term: we want to educate and change attitudes,
lobby and do legislative work to change laws and enforce the changes.
We want to maintain shelters so people have a place to go.
We originally had a volunteer who called groups all over town and offered
them speakers. Now groups call us and we usually have more requests
than we can handle.
We've quit trying to explain why domestic violence occurs; we just tell
them about what we're doing and don't bother with the philosophical ques-
tions.
A l t h o u g h m o s t g r o u p s v i e w e d t h e p u r p o s e of t h e s e p r e s e n t a t i o n s as
twofold, to i n c r e a s e c o m m u n i t y s u p p o r t a n d a w a r e n e s s of t h e services
a v a i l a b l e , e a c h g r o u p w e i g h t e d t h e two s t r a t e g i e s differently. F o r ex-
a m p l e , a few g r o u p s felt t h a t t h e first p u r p o s e w a s a sufficient r e a s o n
for public o u t r e a c h , w h i l e t h e second r e a s o n took care of itself.
It seems like we've always been overworked and the idea of publicizing
to get more women to call us is inconceivable because its hard enough
to handle what's already coming in. Therefore, we focus on changing atti-
tudes and getting volunteers and donations from the audience.
O t h e r g r o u p s w e r e c o n c e r n e d a b o u t r e a c h i n g as m a n y b a t t e r e d w o m e n
as possible, a n d a s s u m e d t h a t t h e r e w e r e p r o b a b l y a t l e a s t one or two
w o m e n in e v e r y a u d i e n c e who m i g h t n e e d t h e g r o u p s o m e day. G r o u p s
w e r e s o m e t i m e s f r u s t r a t e d by t h e n e e d for b o t h k i n d s of a c t i v i t y -
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Conclusion
puts groups in the position of providing more for women than women do-
ing for themselves with support and takes some of the burden off the es-
tablishment to provide services for women. It might be more politically
effective to not try to provide for women's every need and instead to work
with battered women to demand of the existing system that it provide for
their needs (Sullivan, 1982:19).
In contrast, local leaders often seemed unable to look beyond the need
to secure their programs, which usually m e a n t becoming institutional-
ized as a conventional social program. The following comment by one
respondent was typical:
Notes
1. See my analysis (Wharton, in press) of life within one shelter for battered women's
perceptions of feminism.
2. The shelters which have gained sufficient public approval to become viable are built
on the ideology of public w e l f a r e - o f f e r i n g assistance which allows institutional struc-
tures to continue. Ferraro (in private correspondence) terms this kind of shelter a %her-
apeutic center." It serves as a safety valve rather t h a n a long-term option. Public
approval requires t h a t shelters not be viewed as breaking up families. Thus, the max-
imum stay in most shelters is four to six weeks, since any longer period could be con-
strued as encouraging women to leave their marriages permanently.
References
Ahrens, Lois (1980). ~'Battered women's refuges: Feminist co-operatives vs. social service
institutions." Radical America 14:41-47.
Ash, Roberta (1972). Social Movements in America. Chicago: Markham.
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