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y i n t e r e s t in p s y c h o t h e r a p y has brought about in me an inter
M est in every kind of helping relationship. By this term I mean
a relationship in which at least one o f the parties has the intent of
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more originality, more emotional security and control, less excit the practical care o f the patient. Finally, they were much more
ability than children from other types o f homes. T h ough somewhat likely than the B group to develop a relationship in which the patient
slow initially in social development, they were, by the time they felt trust and confidence in the physician.
reached school age, popular, friendly, non-aggressive leaders. Although the authors cautiously emphasize that these findings re
W here parents’ attitudes are classed as “ actively rejectant” the late only to the treatment o f schizophrenics, I am inclined to dis
children show a slightly decelerated intellectual development, rela agree. I suspect that similar facts would be found in a research study
tively poor use o f the abilities they do possess, and some lack o f ori o f almost any class of helping relationship.
ginality. T h ey are emotionally unstable, rebellious, aggressive, and Another interesting study focuses upon the w ay in which the per
quarrelsome. T h e children o f parents with other attitude syndromes son being helped perceives the relationship. Heine ( 11) studied in
tend in various respccts to fall in between these extremes. dividuals who had gone for psychotherapcutic help to psychoan
I am sure that these findings do not surprise us as related to child alytic, client-centered, and Adlerian therapists. Regardless of the
development. I would like to suggest that they probably apply to type o f therapy, these clients report similar changes in themselves.
other relationships as well, and that the counselor or physician or But it is their perception of the relationship which is o f particular
administrator who is w arm ly emotional and expressive, respectful of interest to us here. W hen asked what accounted for the changes
the individuality o f himself and o f the other, and who exhibits a non- which had occurred, they expressed some differing explanations, de
possessive caring, probably facilitates self-realization much as does pending on the orientation o f the therapist. But their agreement on
a parent with these attitudes. the m ajor elements they had found helpful was even more significant.
L et me turn to another careful study in a very different area. T h ey indicated that these attitudinal elements in the relationship
W hitehorn and Betz ( 2, 18) investigated the degree o f success accounted for the changes which had taken place in themselves: the
achieved by you ng resident physicians in w orking with schizo trust they had felt in the therapist; being understood by the therapist;
phrenic patients on a psychiatric w ard. T h ey chose for special study the feeling o f independence they had had in m aking choices and de
the seven who had been outstandingly helpful, and seven whose pa cisions. T h e therapist procedure which they had found most help
tients had shown the least degree of improvement. Each group had ful was that the therapist clarified and openly stated feelings which
treated about fifty patients. T h e investigators examined all the avail the client had been approaching hazily and hesitantly.
able evidence to discover in what w ays the A group (the successful There was also a high degree o f agreement among these clients,
group) differed from the B group. Several significant differences regardless of the orientation o f their therapists, as to what elements
were found. T h e physicians in the A group tended to sec the schiz had been unhelpful in the relationship. Such therapist attitudes as
ophrenic in terms o f the personal meaning which various behaviors lack of interest, remoteness or distance, and an over-degree of sym
had to the patient, rather than seeing him as a case history or a pathy, were perceived as unhelpful. As to procedures, they had
descriptive diagnosis. T h ey also tended to work tow ard goals which found it unhelpful when therapists had given direct specific advice
were oriented to the personality o f the patient, rather than such regarding decisions or had emphasized past history rather than pre
goals as reducing the sym ptom s or curing the disease. It was found sent problems. G uiding suggestions m ildly given were perccived
that the helpful physicians, in their day by day interaction, primarily in an intermediate range — neither clcarly helpful nor unhelpful.
made use o f active personal participation — a person-to-person re Fiedler, in a m uch quoted study ( 7), found that expert therapists
lationship. T h ey made less use o f procedures which could be classed o f differing orientations form ed similar relationships with their
as “ passive permissive.” T h ey were even less likely to use such pro clients. Less well known are the elements which charactcri/cd these
cedures as interpretation, instruction or advice, or emphasis upon relationships, differentiating them from the relationships form ed by
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state to being given free grounds privileges, this change being quite to be second; a psychoanalytically oriented approach was expected
clearly associated with his interaction with the machine. Then the to be least efficient. T h eir results showed that the therapy based
experimenter decided to study experimental extinction, which, put upon a learning theory approach was not only not helpful, but was
in more personal terms, means that no m atter how many thousands somewhat deleterious. T h e outcom es were worse than those in the
of times the lever was pressed, no rew ard o f any kind was forthcom control group which had no therapy. T h e analytically oriented ther
ing. T h e patient gradually regressed, grew untidy, uncommunica apy produced some positive gain, and the client-centered group
tive, and his grounds privilege had to be revoked. This (to me) therapy was associated with the greatest amount o f positive change.
pathetic incident would seem to indicate that even in a relationship Follow-up data, extending over one and one-half years, confirmed
to a machine, trustworthiness is im portant if the relationship is to the in-hospital findings, with the lasting improvement being greatest
be helpful. in the client-centered approach, next in the analytic, next the con
Still another interesting study o f a m anufactured relationship is trol group, and least in those handled by a learning theory approach.
being carried on by H arlow and his associates ( 10), this time with A s I have puzzled over this study, unusual in that the approach to
monkeys. Infant monkeys, rem oved from their mothers almost im which the authors were com mitted proved least effective, I find a
mediately after birth, are, in one phase o f the experiment, presented clue, I believe, in the description o f the therapy based 011 learning
with two objects. One might be term ed the “ hard m other,” a slop theory (13 ). Essentially it consisted (tf) o f pointing out and label
ing cylinder o f wire netting with a nipple from which the baby m ay ling the behaviors which had proved unsatisfying, ( b ) o f exploring
feed. T h e other is a “ soft mother,” a similar cylinder made o f foam objectively with the client the reasons behind these behaviors, and
rubber and terry cloth. Even when an infant gets all his food from ( c ) o f establishing through re-education more effective problem
the “ hard m other” he clearly and increasingly prefers the “ soft solving habits. But in all o f this interaction the aim, as they form u
mother.” M otion pictures show that he definitely “ relates” to this lated it, was to be impersonal. T h e therapist “ permits as little o f his
object, playing with it, enjoying it, finding security in clinging to it own personality to intrude as is humanly possible.” T h e “ therapist
when strange objects are near, and using that security as a home base stresses personal anonym ity in his activities, i.e., he must studiously
for venturing into the frightening w orld. O f the m any interesting avoid impressing the patient with his own (therapist’s) individual
and challenging implications o f this study, one seems reasonably personality characteristics.” T o me this seems the m ost likely clue
clear. It is that no amount o f direct food rew ard can take the place to the failure of this approach, as I try to interpret the facts in the
of certain perceived qualities which the infant appears to need and light o f the other research studies. T o withhold one’s self as a per
desire. son and to deal with the other person as an object docs not have a
high probability o f being helpful.
T w o R e c e n t S t u d ie s T h e final study I wish to report is one just being completed by
L et me close this wide-ranging — and perhaps perplexing — sam Halkidcs (9 ). She started from a theoretical formulation o f mine
pling of research studies with an account o f two very recent in regarding the necessary and sufficient conditions for therapeutic
vestigations. T h e first is an experiment conducted by Ends and Page change (15). She hypothesized that there would be a significant re
(5 ). W orking with hardened chronic hospitalized alcoholics who lationship between the extent o f constructive personality change in
had been com mitted to a state hospital for sixty days, they tried the client and four counselor variables: (a) the degree of empathic
three different methods o f group psychotherapy. Th e method which understanding o f the client manifested b y the counselor; (b ) the
they believed would be most effective was therapy based on a two- degree o f positive affective attitude (unconditional positive regard)
factor theory o f learning; a client-centered approach was expected manifested by the counselor tow ard the client; ( c ) the extent to
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which the counselor is genuine, his w ords matching his own inter the more successful eases, at the .001 level. Even the rating o f the
nal feeling; and ( d ) the extent to which the counselor’s response counselor’s genuineness or congruence — the extent to which his
matches the client’s expression in the intensity o f affective expres w ords matched his feelings — was associated with the successful out
sion. come of the case, and again at the .001 level o f significance. Only
T o investigate these hypotheses she first selected, by multiple ob in the investigation o f the matching intensity of afTcctive expression
jective criteria, a group o f ten cases which could be classed as “ most were the results equivocal.
successful” and a group o f ten “ least successful” cases. She then It is o f interest too that high ratings o f these variables were not
took an early and late recorded interview from each o f these cases. associated more significantly with units from later interviews than
On a random basis she picked nine client-counselor interaction units with units from early interviews. T h is means that the counselor’s
— a client statement and a counselor response — from each o f these attitudes were quite constant throughout the interviews. If he was
interviews. She thus had nine early interactions and nine later in highly empathic, he tended to be so from first to last. If he was lack
teractions from each case. This gave her several hundred units which ing in genuineness, tliis tended to be true o f both early and late
were now placed in random order. T h e units from an early inter interviews.
view o f an unsuccessful case m ight be followed by the units from A s with any study, this investigation has its limitations. It is
a late interview o f a successful case, etc. concerned with a certain type o f helping relationship, psycho
T h ree judges, who did not know the cases or their degree of therapy. It investigated only four variables thought to be significant.
success, or the source o f any given unit, now listened to this material Perhaps there are many others. Nevertheless it represents a signif
four different times. T h e y rated each unit on a seven point scale, icant advance in the study o f helping relationships. L et me try to
first as to the degree o f empathy, second as to the counselor’s state the findings in the simplest possible fashion. It seems to indi
positive attitude tow ard the client, third as to the counselor’s con cate that the quality o f the counselor’s interaction with a client can
gruence or genuineness, and fourth as to the degree to which the be satisfactorily judged on the basis o f a very small sampling o f his
counselor’s response matched the emotional intensity o f the client’s behavior. It also means that if the counselor is congruent or trans
expression. parent, so that his w ords are in line with his feelings rather than the
I think all o f us who knew o f the study regarded it as a very bold two being discrepant; if the counselor likes the client, uncondi
venture. Could judges listening to single units o f interaction possibly tionally; and if the counselor understands the essential feelings of
make any reliable rating o f such subtle qualities as I have mentioned? the client as they seem to the client — then there is a strong proba
And even if suitable reliability could be obtained, could eighteen bility that this will be an effective helping relationship.
counselor-client interchanges from each case — a minute sampling
o f the hundreds or thousands o f such interchanges which occurred S om e C o m m ents
in each case — possibly bear any relationship to the therapeutic These then are some o f the studies which throw at least a measure
outcom e? T h e chance seemed slim. o f light on the nature o f the helping relationship. T h ey have inves
Th e findings are surprising. It proved possible to achieve high tigated different facets of the problem. T h ey have approached it
reliability between the judges, m ost o f the inter-judge correlations from very different theoretical contexts. T h ey have used different
being in the 0.80’s or 0.90’s, except on the last variable. It was found methods. T h ey are not directly com parable. Yet they seem to me
that a high degree o f empathic understanding was significantly as to point to several statements which m ay be made with some assur
sociated, at a .001 level, with the more successful cases. A high de ance. It seems clear that relationships which are helpful have dif
gree o f unconditional positive regard was likewise associated with ferent characteristics from relationships which are unhelpful. These
50 H o w C a n I B e o f H elp? Characteristics o f a H elping Relationship 51
differential characteristics have to do primarily with the attitudes of I would like to be. B y this I mean that whatever feeling or attitude
the helping person on the one hand and with the perception o f the I am experiencing would be matched by m y awareness o f that at
relationship by the “ hclpee” on the other. It is equally clear that the titude. W hen this is true, then 1 am a unified or integrated person
studies thus far made do not give us any final answers as to what in that moment, and hence I can be whatever I deeply am. This is
is a helping relationship, nor how it is to be form ed. a reality which I find others experience as dependable.
2. A very closely related question is this: Can I be expressive
H ow C a n I C r k a t e a H e l p in g R e l a t io n sh ip ? enough as a person that what I am will be com municated unambig
I believe each o f us w orking in the field o f human relationships uously? I believe that most o f m y failures to achieve a helping re
has a similar problem in know ing how to use such research knowl lationship can be traced to unsatisfactory answers to these two
edge. VVe cannot slavishly follow such findings in a mechanical w ay questions. W hen I am experiencing an attitude o f annoyance to
or we destroy the personal qualities which these very studies show ward another person but am unaware o f it, then m y communication
to be valuable. It seems to me that we have to use these studies, contains contradictory messages. M y w ords are giving one message,
testing them against our own experience and form ing new and but I am also in subtle w ays com m unicating the annoyance I feel and
further personal hypotheses to use and test in our own further per this confuses the other person and makes him distrustful, though he
sonal relationships. too m ay be unaware o f w hat is causing the difficulty. W hen as a
So rather than try to tell you how you should use the findings I parent or a therapist or a teacher or an administrator I fail to listen
have presented I should like to tell you the kind o f questions which to what is going on in me, fail bccause o f m y own defensiveness to
these studies and m y own clinical experience raise for me, and some sense m y own feelings, then this kind of failure seems to result. It
o f the tentative and changing hypotheses which guide m y behavior has made it seem to me that the m ost basic learning for anyone who
as I enter into what I hope m ay be helping relationships, whether hopes to establish any kind of helping relationship is that it is safe
with students, staff, fam ily, or clients. L et me list a number o f these to be transparently real. If in a given relationship I am reasonably
questions and considerations. congruent, if no feelings relevant to the relationship are hidden either
1. Can I be in some w ay which will be perceived by the other to me or the other person, then I can be almost sure that the relation
person as trustw orthy, as dependable or consistent in some deep ship will be a helpful one.
sense? Both research and experience indicate that this is very im One w ay of putting this which m ay seem strange to you is that if
portant, and over the years I have found what I believe are deeper I can form a helping relationship to m yself — if I can be sensitively
and better w ays o f answering this question. I used to feel that if I aware o f and acceptant toward m y own feelings — then the likeli
fulfilled all the outer conditions o f trustworthiness — keeping ap hood is great that I can form a helping relationship toward another.
pointments, respecting the confidential nature o f the interviews, etc. N o w , acceptantly to be w hat I am, in this sense, and to permit this
— and if I acted consistently the same during the interviews, then to show through to the other person, is the most difficult task I know
this condition would be fulfilled. But experience drove home the and one I never fully achieve. But to realize that this is m y task
fact that to act consistently acceptant, for example, if in fact I was has been most rew arding because it has helped me to find what has
feeling annoyed or skeptical or some other non-acceptant feeling, gone w rong with interpersonal relationships which have become
was certain in the long run to be perceived as inconsistent or un snarled and to put them on a constructive track again. It has meant
trustworthy. I have come to recognize that being trustw orthy does that if I am to facilitate the personal grow th o f others in relation
not demand that I be rigidly consistent but that I be dependably to me, then I must grow , and while this is often painful it is also
real. T h e term “ congruent” is one I have used to describe the w ay enriching.
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3. A third question is: Can I let m yself experience positive atti within m yself to permit him his separateness? Can I permit him to
tudes toward this other person — attitudes o f warmth, caring, lik be what he is — honest or deceitful, infantile or adult, despairing or
ing, interest, respect? It is not easy. I find in myself, and feel that ovcr-confident? Can I give him the freedom to be? O r do I feel that
I often see in others, a certain amount o f fear of these feelings. he should follow m y advice, or remain somewhat dependent on me,
W e are afraid that if we let ourselves freely experience these positive or mold himself after me? In this connection I think o f the inter
feelings tow ard another we m ay be trapped by them. T h ey may esting small study by Farson ( 6) which found that the less well ad
lead to demands on us or we m ay be disappointed in our trust, and justed and less com petent counselor tends to induce conform ity to
these outcom es we fear. So as a reaction we tend to build up dis himself, to have clients who model themselves after him. On the
tance between ourselves and others — aloofness, a “ professional” other hand, the better adjusted and more com petent counselor can
attitude, an impersonal relationship. interact with a client through many interviews w ithout interfering
I feel quite strongly that one o f the im portant reasons for the pro with the freedom o f the client to develop a personality quite separate
fessionalization o f every field is that it helps to keep this distance. from that o f his therapist. I should prefer to be in this latter class,
In the clinical areas we develop elaborate diagnostic formulations, whether as parent or supervisor or counselor.
seeing the person as an object. In teaching and in administration 6. Another question I ask m yself is: Can I let m yself enter fully
we develop all kinds o f evaluative procedures, so that again the per into the world of his feelings and personal meanings and see these
son is perceived as an object. In these ways, I believe, we can keep as he does? Can I step into his private w orld so com pletely that I
ourselves from experiencing the caring which would exist if we rec lose all desire to evaluate or judge it? Can I enter it so sensitively
ognized the relationship as one between two persons. It is a real that I can move about in it freely, w ithout tram pling on meanings
achievement when we can learn, even in certain relationships or at which are precious to him? Can I sense it so accurately that I can
certain times in those relationships, that it is safe to care, that it is catch not only the meanings o f his experience which are obvious to
safe to relate to the other as a person for whom we have positive him, but those meanings w hich are only implicit, which he secs only
feelings. dimly or as confusion? Can I extend this understanding without
4. Another question the im portance o f which I have learned in my limit? I think o f the client who said, “ W henever I find someone who
own experience is: Can I be strong enough as a person to be separate understands a part o f me at the time, then it never fails that a point
from the other? Can I be a sturdy respecter o f m y own feelings, is reachcd w here I know they’re not understanding me again . . .
my own needs, as well as his? Can I own and, if need be, express W hat I’ve looked for so hard is for someone to understand.”
my own feelings as something belonging to me and separate from F or m yself I find it easier to feel this kind o f understanding, and
his feelings? Am I strong enough in m y own separateness that I will to communicate it, to individual clients than to students in a class
not be downcast by his depression, frightened by his fear, nor en or staff members in a group in which I am involved. There is a
gulfed by his dependency? Is m y inner self hardy enough to realize strong temptation to set students “ straight,” or to point out to a
that I am not destroyed by his anger, taken over by his need for staff member the errors in his thinking. Y et when I can permit
dependence, nor enslaved by his love, but that I exist separate from m yself to understand in these situations, it is m utually rewarding.
him with feelings and rights o f m y own? W hen I can freely feel And with clients in therapy, I am often impressed with the fact that
this strength o f being a separate person, then I find that I can let even a minimal amount o f empathic understanding — a bumbling
m yself go much more deeply in understanding and accepting him and faulty attem pt to catch the confused com plexity o f the client’s
because I am not fearful o f losing myself. m eaning— is helpful, though there is no doubt that it is most help
5. T h e next question is closely related. Am I secure enough ful when I can see and form ulate clearly the meanings in his experi
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encing which for him have been unclear and tangled. I find m yself all too often m aking such evaluations. But, in m y ex
7. Still another issue is whether I can be acceptant o f each facet perience, they do not make for personal grow th and hence I do not
of this other person which he presents to me. Can I receive him as believe that they are a part o f a helping relationship. Curiously
he is? Can I communicate this attitude? O r can I only receive him enough a positive evaluation is as threatening in the long run as a
conditionally, acceptant of some aspects o f his feelings and silently negative one, since to inform someone that he is good implies that
or openly disapproving o f other aspects? It has been my experience you also have the right to tell him he is bad. So I have come to feel
that when m y attitude is conditional, then he cannot change or that the more I can keep a relationship free o f judgm ent and evalua
grow in those respects in which I cannot fully receive him. And tion, the more this will permit the other person to reach the point
when — afterw ard and sometimes too late — I try to discover why where he recognizes that the locus o f evaluation, the center o f re
I have been unable to accept him in every respect, I usually discover sponsibility, lies within himself. T h e meaning and value o f his ex
that it is because I have been frightened or threatened in myself perience is in the last analysis something which is up to him, and
by some aspect o f his feelings. If I am to be more helpful, then I must no amount o f external judgm ent can alter this. So I should like to
m yself grow and accept m yself in these respects. w ork toward a relationship in which I am not, even in m y own feel
8. A very practical issue is raised by the question: Can I act with ings, evaluating him. T h is I believe can set him free to be a self-
sufficient sensitivity in the relationship that m y behavior will not be responsible person.
perceived as a threat? T h e w ork we are beginning to do in studying 10. One last question: Can I meet this other individual as a per
the physiological concomitants o f psychotherapy confirms the re son who is in process o f becom ing, or will I be bound by his past
search by Dittes in indicating how easily individuals are threatened and by m y past? If, in m y encounter with him, I am dealing with
at a physiological level. T h e psychogalvanic reflex — the measure him as an immature child, an ignorant student, a neurotic personal
of skin conductance — takes a sharp dip when the therapist responds ity, or a psychopath, each o f these concepts o f mine limits what he
with some w ord which is just a little stronger than the client’s can be in the relationship. Martin Buber, the existentialist philoso
feelings. And to a phrase such as, “ M y you do look upset,” the pher o f the University o f Jerusalem , has a phrase, “ confirming the
needle swings almost off the paper. M y desire to avoid even such other,” which has had meaning for me. H e says “ Confirming means
minor threats is not due to a hypersensitivity about m y client. It is . . . accepting the whole potentiality o f the other. . . . I can rec
simply due to the conviction based on experience that if I can free ognize in him, know in him, the person he has been . . . created to
him as com pletely as possible from external threat, then he can begin become. . . . I confirm him in m yself, and then in him, in relation
to experience and to deal with the internal feelings and conflicts to this potentiality that . . . can now be developed, can evolve” (3 ).
which he finds threatening within himself. If I accept the other person as something fixed, already diagnosed
9. A specific aspect o f the preceding question but an important and classified, already shaped b y his past, then I am doing m y part to
one is: Can I free him from the threat o f external evaluation? In confirm this limited hypothesis. If I accept him as a process o f be
almost every phase o f our lives — at home, at school, at w ork — we coming, then I am doing what I can to confirm or make real his
find ourselves under the rew ards and punishments o f external judg potentialities.
ments. “ T h at’s g oo d ” ; “ that’s naughty.” “ T h at’s w orth an A ” ; It is at this point that I see V erplanck, Lindsley, and Skinner,
“ that’s a failure.” “ T h at’s good counseling” ; “ that’s poor counsel working in operant conditioning, com ing together with Buber, the
ing.” Such judgm ents are a part o f our lives from infancy to old philosopher or mystic. A t least they come together in principle,
age. I believe they have a certain social usefulness to institutions and in an odd w ay. If I see a relationship as only an opportunity to
organizations such as schools and professions. Like everyone else reinforce certain types o f w ords or opinions in the other, then I
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tend to confirm him as an object — a basically mechanical, manipu as administrators, teachers, educational counselors, vocational coun
l a t e object. A nd if I see this as his potentiality, he tends to act in selors, therapists, then we are w orking on the problem which will
ways which support this hypothesis. If, on the other hand, I see a determine the future o f this planet. For it is not upon the physical
relationship as an opportunity to “ reinforce” all that he is, the person sciences that the future will depend. It is upon us who are trying to
that he is with all his existent potentialities, then he tends to act in understand and deal with the interactions between human beings
ways which support this hypothesis. I have then — to use Buber’s — who are trying to create helping relationships. So I hope that the
term — confirmed him as a living person, capable o f creative inner questions I ask o f m yself will be o f some use to you in gaining un
development. Personally I prefer this second type o f hypothesis. derstanding and perspective as you endeavor, in your w ay, to facili
tate grow th in y ou r relationships.
C o n c l u sio n
In the early portion o f this paper I reviewed some o f the contribu
tions which research is m aking to our know ledge about relationships.
Endeavoring to keep that know ledge in mind I then took up the
kind o f questions which arise from an inner and subjective point of
view as I enter, as a person, into relationships. If I could, in myself,
answer all the questions I have raised in the affirmative, then I be
lieve that any relationships in which I was involved would be help
R eferen ces
ing relationships, would involve grow th. But I cannot give a posi
tive answer to most o f these questions. I can only w ork in the
direction o f the positive answer. 1. Baldwin, A . L., J. Kalhorn, and F. H . Breesc. Patterns o f parent
behavior. Psychol. Monogr ., 1945, 58, N o . 268, 1-75.
This has raised in m y mind the strong suspicion that the optimal
helping relationship is the kind o f relationship created by a person 2. Betz, B. J., and J. C. W hitehorn. T h e relationship o f the therapist to
who is psychologically mature. O r to put it in another w ay, the the outcom e of therapy in schizophrenia. Psychiat. Research Reports
# 5 . Research techniques in schizophrenia. W ashington, D.C., Am er
degree to which I can create relationships which facilitate the growth ican Psychiatric Association, 1956, 89-117.
o f others as separate persons is a measure o f the grow th I have
3. Buber, Al., and C. Rogers. Transcription o f dialogue held April 18,
achieved in myself. In some respects this is a disturbing thought,
1957, A nn Arbor, M ich. Unpublished manuscript.
but it is also a promising or challenging one. It would indicate that
4. Dittes, J. E. Galvanic skin response as a measure o f patient’s reaction
if I am interested in creating helping relationships I have a fascinat
to therapist’s permissiveness. J. Abnorm. & Soc. Psychol., 1957, 55,
ing lifetime job ahead o f me, stretching and developing m y poten 295-303.
tialities in the direction o f growth.
5. Ends, E. J., and C. W . Page. A study o f three types o f group psycho
I am left with the uncom fortable thought that what I have been therapy w ith hospitalized male inebriates. Quar. J. Stud. Alcohol,
working out for m yself in this paper m ay have little relationship to 1957. 18, 263-277.
your interests and your w ork. If so, I regret it. But I am at least
6. Farson, R. E. Introjection in the psychotherapeutic relationship.
partially com forted by the fact that all o f us who are w orking in Unpublished doctoral dissertation, University o f Chicago, 1955.
the field o f human relationships and trying to understand the basic
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