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A survey mailed to 1,650 mid-life couples resulted in a subsample of 242 couples whose pet had died during the 3 years pr
to the survey. Among the subsample who reported pet loss, about half of wives and more than a quarter of husbands re
they were "quite" or "extremely" disturbed by the death of a family pet. For husbands, pet loss was rated about as stre
the loss of a close friendship, for wives about as stressful as losing touch with their married children. There was conse
the rating of the stressfulness of pet loss by fewer than half of the couples.
My old dog Buster died in his death and divorce to children departing
family system dynamics. Pauline Boss
sleep. I felt as bad that night as I've for college or marriage have been iden-
(personal communication, October 6,
ever felt, I think ... tears ran off my tified as potential stressors. In their 1988), AAMFT supervisor at University
face like rain. "Oh, for crying out preliminary work for an investigation of of Minnesota, reports she has included
loud," Luanne said, "Why don't you normative and unexpected life events pets in family therapy sessions. Fur-
grow up?" (G. Keillor, Lake Wobe- encountered by families, Mederer and thermore, she notes that Kvebaek (see
gon Days, p. 23). Hill (1983) found that families included Cromwell, Fournier, & Kvebaek, 1980)
loss of family pet among stressful fami- added pets to his family sculpture ma-
The observed association between
ly life events. terials when it became apparent to him
family stress and family functioning
A study (Gage & Guadagno, 1985) of that interactions with pets were signifi-
and health (Boss, 1987; Kessler, Price, &
pet ownership among a random sample cant elements in family system dynam-
Wortman, 1985; Lavee, McCubbin, & Ol-
of 100,000 U.S. households found that ics.
son, 1987; Mechanic, 1974; Monroe, 1983;
61% had pets. The highest proportion
Thoits, 1983) legitimizes efforts to Method
of pet owning was among families with
understand under what circumstances
and for which family members psycho-
children (70%), the lowest among The data used for this exploratory
retired couples (46%). Surveys of at- study were collected for a study of
logical stress occurs. Anecdotal data
from practitioners of social work,
titudes of pet owners find the majoritystress, coping, and adaptation in the
veterinary medicine, psychiatry, and
of urban dwellers (Albert & Bulcroft, middle years of the family life cycle,
nursing (Carmack, 1985; Cowles, 1985; 1988), the readers of Psychology Today North Central Regional Project 164
Kay, 1984; Quackenbush, 1984; Quacken-
(Horn & Meer, 1984), and military (Malia, Norem, & Garrison, 1989;
families (Cain, 1985) viewed their pets Norem,
as 1984). Samples of intact
bush & Glickman, 1983) on the
responses of owners to the loss of a pet
an integral member of the family whose families with a child in the home and a
role is often analogous to that of a child.
wife between 35-54 years of age were
reveal the seriousness of the trauma ex-
Across these studies, about 90% of systematically drawn from lists of a
perienced by many owners. Albert and
respondents rated the pet as important direct mailing firm to provide equal
Bulcroft (1988) note that more
households now have pets than have or extremely important to the family. representation of urban, rural-nonfarm,
children, suggesting that the dimension Anthromorphism, the attribution of and farm families in nine midcontinent
of the problem is significant. With this human characteristics to nonhuman states. Altogether 1,650 families were
awareness has come the need for practi-
things, is commonplace particularly surveyed with a response rate of 350%0.
tioners and other family professionals among single and divorced persons and Those families in which both huisband
to understand the dynamics of pet loss childless couples (Albert & Bulcroft, and wife reported death of the family
1988). pet in the 3-year period prior to the
as a family stressor and its relationship
to the psychosocial welfare of families' survey (n = 242) were the basis of the
Bowen (1978) identified pets as a
systems (Sussman, 1985). The results component of the family emotional study reported here. Respondents were
of a survey of families about pet loss system. In a study (Gage, 1987) of
and other family system changes and couples with their first child, 70% of
their relationship to family stress are wives and 64% of husbands rated *This research was supported by the University of Min-
reported here. themselves as quite or extremely at- nesota Agricultural Experiment Station Project # MIN
52-048. Portions of this research were reported at the Inter-
tached to the family dog; 33% of wives national Conference of the Delta Society, Boston, 1986.
and 18% of husbands said they were **Geraldine Gage is Professor, Department of Family
Background Social Science, 284 McNeal Hall, St. Paul, MN 55108.
quite or extremely emotionally depen- Ralph Holcomb is Assistant Professor, Department of
Family stress theory defines nor- dent on the family pet. Never married, Sociology and Social Work, College of St. Benedict, St.
mative family life events and transitions divorced, widowed, and childless per- John's University, St. Joseph, MN 56374. Both are
members of the Center for the Study of Human-Animal
as stressors (Boss, 1987; McCubbin & sons scored higher on pet attachment Relations and Environment (CENSHARE), University of
Figley, 1983), among which loss of than others (Albert & Bulcroft, 1988). Minnesota, Minneapolis, MN 55455.
members due to death ranks among the Family therapists using a system
most stressful (Holmes & Rahe, 1967). perspective may include significant Key Words: death, family, life events, pets, stress.
Among families, changes in family family pets in therapy sessions to help
structure for reasons ranging from get a more comprehensive picture of (Family Relations, 1991, 40, 103-105.)
tive as short-term therapy and social Haworth Press. dictors of psychological distress: Further issues and
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Conclusion Press. and stress. Paper presented at Theory Construction
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The Association for Death Education and Counseling (ADEC) is pleased to announce that five
PRECONFERENCE WORKSHOPS FOR PROFESSIONALS will be offered Thursday, April
25, 1991, the day prior to its 13th Annual Conference, in Duluth, Minnesota, April 26-28, 1991.
The Workshops will be conducted by recognized authorities in their fields.
For additional information, contact Richard R. Ellis, 19 Lake Gilead Road, Carmel, NY 10512.