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Week 11 Notes
Week 11 Notes
Composition
In the nuclear family arrangement, spouses and their offspring constitute the core relationship;
blood relatives are functionally marginal and peripheral.
In contrast, in the extended family arrangement, kin—individuals related by common ancestry
—provide the core relationship; spouses are functionally marginal and peripheral.
A family, especially in an American society, may belong to two families. First, an individual
belongs to a nuclear family that consists of oneself and one’s father, mother, and siblings, what
sociologists call the family of orientation. Members of a nuclear family that consists of oneself
and one’s spouse and children—the family of procreation.
A family of orientation refers to the family into which a person is born. A family of procreation
describes one that is formed through marriage.
It is argued that industrialization cut the extended ties with kin and promoted the nuclear
families as people had to move out of the extended family and migrate from rural to urban
areas. There was increased mobility and employment opportunities so the married couple had
less dependence on the extended kin for finances.
Descent
Societies trace descent and pass on property from one generation to the next in one of three
ways. Under a patrilineal arrangement, a people reckon descent and transmit property
through the line of the father.
Under a matrilineal arrangement, descent and inheritance take place through the mother’s
side of the family.
Under the bilineal arrangement, both sides of an individual’s family are equally important.
Surnames are generally transmitted in a patrilineal manner; even though after marriage women
may not take their husbands name but the children are recognized as patrilineal.
Residence
Societies also differ in where couples take up residence after marriage.
In the case of patrilocal residence, the bride and groom live in the household or community of
the husband’s family
The opposite pattern prevails in matrilocal residence. For example, among the Hopi of the
Southwest, the husband moves upon marriage into the dwelling of his wife’s family, where he
eats and sleeps
In the United States, newlyweds tend to follow nonlocals residence patterns, in which they set
up a new place of residence independent of either of their parents or other relatives.
Authority
Although the authority a man or woman enjoys in family decision making is influenced by their
personalities, societies nonetheless dictate who is expected to be the dominant figure. Under
patriarchal authority, the eldest male or the husband fills this role.
The construction of a matriarchal authority family involves the vesting of power in women.
Matriarchies are very rare. However, matriarchies can arise through default upon the death of
or desertion by the husband.
In a third type of family, the egalitarian authority arrangement, power and authority are
equally distributed between husband and wife.
Forms of Marriage
Marriage refers to a socially approved sexual union between two or more individuals that is
undertaken with some idea of permanence.
Indeed, the continuity, and therefore the long-term welfare, of any kin group depends on
obtaining spouses for the unmarried members of the group from other groups. A kin group has
a stake in retaining some measure of control over at least a portion of its members after they
marry.
All societies regulate the pool of eligibles from which individuals are expected to select a mate.
A child’s kin generally have more in mind than simply getting the child married. They want the
child married to the right spouse, especially where marriage has consequences for the larger
kin group.
Two types of marital regulations define the “right” spouse: endogamy and exogamy.
Endogamy is the requirement that marriage occur within a group. Under these circumstances
people must marry within their class, race, ethnic group, or religion. (Shia, Sunni, syed etc in
Pakistan but we can now see a change).
Exogamy is the requirement that marriage occur outside a group.
Whether or not marriages should take place outside of specific groups can change rapidly, as in
Iraq, where Sunni–Shiite marriages went from symbolizing a tolerant society to being the
source of conflict, hatred, and family breakdown.
Regulations relating to exogamy are based primarily on kinship and usually entail incest taboos,
rules that prohibit sexual intercourse with close blood relatives and exist today in virtually every
society.
There have been numerous attempts to account for both the existence and the prevalence of
incest taboos. Some have argued that incest taboos came about because of real or imagined
negative effects of “inbreeding.” However, in roman times the incest marriages were prevailent
and legalized but there were such taboos that it is an evil act and will bring famine. Brother-
sister marriages were conducted to protect the family’s inheritance, power, and property.
Types of Marriages
The relationships between a husband and wife may be structured in one of four ways:
Monogamy, one husband and one wife; polygyny, one husband and two or more wives;
Polyandry, two or more husbands and one wife; or group marriage, two or more husbands and
two or more wives.
Monogamy is the most popular type of marriage in all societies. However, other types may also
exist but not preferred.
Polygyny is practiced widely in Muslim countries.
Polyandry is practiced in Tibet.
In contrast to polygyny, polyandry is exceedingly rare. Polyandry usually does not represent
freedom of sexual choice for women; often, it involves the right or the opportunity of younger
brothers to have sexual access to the wife of an older brother. If a family cannot afford wives or
marriages for each of its sons, it may find a wife for the eldest son only.
Patterns of Courtship
Marriage brings a new member into the inner circle of a family, and relatives have a stake in
who is to be the spouse. Random mating might jeopardize these interests: If sons and
daughters were permitted to “fall in love” with anybody, they might choose the wrong mate.
Therefore, societies control love via social regulations. Some societies consider love affair in
high regards and some disapprove it before marriage.
Societies undertake to control love in a variety of ways. One approach is child marriage, which
was employed at one time in India. A child bride went to live with her husband in a marriage
that was not physically consummated until much later.
Similarly, in an arranged marriage the parents of the bride and groom make the arrangements
for the marriage, sometimes when both are too young to marry but also when both are of
marriageable ages. The parents of the bride may know of the groom through friends or
relatives or may simply answer a newspaper advertisement.
Another approach involves the social isolation of young people from potential mates (only girls
and boy institutions).
Close supervision by the chaperones.
Peer and parental pressures may be brought to bear. For example, in the United States parents
often threaten, cajole, wheedle, and bribe their children to limit their social contacts to youths
with “suitable” ethnic, religious, and educational backgrounds.
The net result of these approaches is the same—a person’s range of choice is narrowed by
social barriers.
Parenthood
Parenthood: married couples that chose to have children find their lives transformed by
parenthood as it takes an economic, physical, emotional and social toll on the couple
Nuclear families that are not disrupted by divorce, desertion, or death typically pass through a
series of changes and realignments across time, what sociologists call the family life course.
A family typically begins with the husband–wife pair—a dyad—and becomes a triad with the
addition of the first child. As the family grows, new roles are created and the number of
relationships is multiplied. The family then stabilizes for a time, after which it begins shrinking
as each of the adult children is launched. Finally, it returns once more to the husband– wife pair
and eventually terminates with the death of a spouse.
Having children, therefore, alters the life course as economic dimensions also change.
The arrival of the first child compels the reorganization of a couple’s life. Parents have to juggle
their work roles, alter their time schedules, change their communication patterns, and
relinquish some privacy. Parenthood competes with the husband or wife role. After the birth
of a first child, husbands and wives who could once focus unlimited attention on their spouses
now have to split their attention between spouse and child. The result is that young parents
may feel that their spouses are not paying enough attention to them.
Despite the changes a child brings to their lives, most couples report enormous satisfaction
with parenthood, ranking their families as more important than work, recreation, friendships,
or status.
Dual-income couples evolve new patterns and traditions for family living and face challenges
and opportunities not experienced by families with only one breadwinner.
The experience of working outside the household on women varies from place to place and
person to person.
Women who work outside the home still spend significantly more time on housework than do
men.
Husbands helping with housework and husbands having a positive attitude about their spouse’s
employment both reduce the psychological distress of working women.
With increasing numbers of mothers in the labor force, two trends have emerged. One is the
expansion of nonparent child care, with children being cared for by grandparents or other
relatives, babysitters, nannies, family day care, and child care centers. Many public schools now
provide before- and after school programs and breakfasts and dinners in addition to the school
lunch.
The effect of working mothers on children is varied as its dependent on individual personalities
and social environment. For some, it does not affect negatively as mothers tend to focus on
spending on quality time with children rather than just being with them all the time. For some
children, it may have affected them negatively as mother may have neglected them or did not
give them proper attention and care.
Whether both partners are paid for their work and not, marriage should be viewed as a “true
partnership,” not a shifting balance of domination and subordination.
While some couples say that they are planning to live together before marriage to see what
living together is like, studies show that more couples end up living together without making
any real decision to do so or any serious commitment to one another. This “sliding into
cohabitation” has been shown to be associated with lower levels of marital satisfaction, lower
levels of male commitment to the spouse, greater likelihood of divorce, and more negative
communication in marriage.
Until recently, cohabitation was the only option for homosexual “family life” in the United
States. Now same-sex marriages are being more accepted and legalized in many states such as
US, UK, Australia. People now tend to recognize more the civil liberties of homosexuals and
homosexual households or their marriages. There is a significant religious dimension to much of
the opposition to same-sex marriage. (In Muslim states and orthodox Christians)