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Table of Contents

3. The Five Senses of Seduction According


to Tantric Masters

7. Vampire Blood Pattern

15. Jelqing

22. Ruthva

26. Medusa Pattern

34. Venus Pattern

42. Mermaids Pattern

47. Cleopatra Pattern

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The Five Senses of Seduction
According to Tantric Masters

This is advice to follow with patners you’ve


already had sex with.

TOUCH (“SPARSA” IN SANSKRIT)


The skin marks the visible limits of the body
and it is where we make contact with the
world. The skin is our largest organ and
makes up 16 per cent of our body weight.

With touch we experience much of our


environment, temperature, clothing, sheets,
rain and so on. To awake the sense of touch,
try giving your partner a massage.

Use different materials and textures, such as


a feather, velvet, baby powder, a silk scarf or
rose petals. Infuse sesame oil, or unscented

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body lotion with rose petals, or rose
essential oil for a wonderful massage oil.

SMELL (“GANDHA” IN SANSKRIT)


Women are particularly sensitive to aroma.
Our pheromones are the scents that we give
off without realizing it. These pheromones
train us to recognize and desire our partners.
When people stop smoking, they often
rediscover their sense of smell. Studies have
shown that the loss of smell is often
accompanied by a loss of sexual interest. So
it is a good idea to keep our noses
functioning optimally!

Fragrances are often associated with


memories, and roses conjure the idea of
romance for many people. Use rose scented
candles and sprinkle rose petals in the
bathtub.

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TASTE (“RASA” IN SANSKRIT)
The tongue is super-sensitive. Love is sweet
and there is a reason why we call each other
honey and sweetie!

Savour and delight in the tastes and textures


of various foods and beverages, chocolate,
strawberries and yes, rose!

Sweet rose tea is made for romance! It


smells wonderful and tastes divine and is the
perfect way to end a romantic meal.

SOUND (“SABDA” IN SANSKRIT)

Sounds have a profound effect on the body.


Studies have shown that sounds can open up
our inner pharmacy and balance our
physiology. They can help us to be healthier
and to actually feel better.

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Whisper sweet nothings to your loved one.
Play soft, sweet music. Dance and sing
together.

SIGHT (“RUPA” IN SANSKRIT)


For romance, it’s all about lighting. Think
pink. Use rose-coloured light bulbs and you
will see things a bit more rosy! Dine by
candlelight. Spread rose petals on the table.
Make a trail of rose petals leading to a
surprise.

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Vampire Blood Pattern

Science is slowly beginning to show that the


legends of vampires had much basis in fact.

For instance, this article from “Inc” in


August, 2016 states:

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“More than anything, Peter Thiel, the
billionaire technology investor and Donald
Trump supporter, wants to find a way to
escape death. He’s channeled millions of
dollars into startups working on anti-aging
medicine, spends considerable time and
money researching therapies for his
personal use, and believes society ought to
open its mind to life-extension methods that
sound weird or unsavory.

Speaking of weird and unsavory, if there’s


one thing that really excites Thiel, it’s the
prospect of having younger people’s blood
transfused into his own veins.

That practice is known as parabiosis, and,


according to Thiel, it’s a potential biological
Fountain of Youth–the closest thing science
has discovered to an anti-aging panacea.
Research into parabiosis began in the 1950s
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with crude experiments that involved
cutting rats open and stitching their
circulatory systems together. After decades
languishing on the fringes, it’s recently
started getting attention from mainstream
researchers, with multiple clinical trials
underway in humans in the U.S. and even
more advanced studies in China and Korea.

Considering the science-fiction promise of


parabiosis, the studies have received notably
little fanfare. But Thiel has been watching
closely.

Thiel and Ambrosia.


In Monterey, California, about 120 miles
from San Francisco, a company called
Ambrosia recently commenced one of the
trials. Titled “Young Donor Plasma
Transfusion and Age-Related Biomarkers,” it
has a simple protocol: Healthy participants
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aged 35 and older get a transfusion of blood
plasma from donors under 25, and
researchers monitor their blood over the
next two years for molecular indicators of
health and aging. The study is patient-
funded; participants, who range in age from
late 30s through 80s, must pay $8,000 to
take part, and live in or travel to Monterey
for treatments and follow-up assessments.

Ambrosia’s founder, the Stanford-trained


physician Jesse Karmazin, has been studying
aging for more than a decade. He became
interested in launching a company around
parabiosis after seeing impressive data from
animals and studies conducted abroad in
humans: In one trial after another, subjects
experience a reversal of aging symptoms
across every major organ system. While the
mechanisms at play aren’t totally
understood, he said, young organisms’ blood
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not only contains all sorts of proteins that
improve cell function; somehow it also
prompts the recipients’ body to increase its
production of those proteins.

“The effects seem to be almost permanent,”


he says. “It’s almost like there’s a resetting
of gene expression.”

While Ambrosia advertised the study to


attract participants, it didn’t seek broader
coverage. So Karmazin was somewhat
surprised to get a message from Jason
Camm, chief medical officer at Thiel Capital,
who expressed interest in what the company
was doing. (Karmazin said he hasn’t reached
out to any investors: “I’d really want to talk
about what the business model would be.”)

Although his LinkedIn profile identifies him


as an angel investor, that’s not Camm’s
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primary job. An osteopath with a
background in treating elite athletes, Camm
is “Personal Health Director to Peter Thiel ...
and a number of other prominent Silicon
Valley business leaders and investors,”
according to his professional profile. “He
enables his clients to make radical
breakthroughs in their immediate day-to-
day health, cognitive functioning and
physical performance – all of which increase
their prospects for Optimal Health and
significant Lifespan Extension.”

Among his duties at Thiel Capital is this:


“Communicates with a number of the
World’s best physicians, health care
professionals, and researchers in the USA,
Europe and the Middle East on Life
Extension, optimizing blood markers and
novel techniques to improve health.”

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Now that you know what parabiosis is and
(hopefully) how to bring it up in
conversation, here is the Vampire Blood
Pattern:

“Have you ever watched one of those


vampire movies? Isn’t interesting how they
were usually portrayed as evil blood
suckers? Maybe the truth of it is far
different (insert a few facts from the article
above or others, but keep it brief).

I mean, I can see why women get so aroused


by vampires. They would hone in on their
object of desire, and become intimate with
them in a way that they’ve never
experienced previously.

Just picture it in your mind (your mine) and


imagine this dashing character taking hold
of you forcefully, hypnotizing you by gazing
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into your eyes, and then slowly moving in.
His teeth feel gentle on your neck – at first
– and then the thin line between pleasure
and pain vanishes as his fangs sink into your
skin. It must be a totally different
experience, afterwards the woman who
experiences it must feel almost
magnetically drawn to the person who did
that to her. Sometimes I think a person
wouldn’t even logically process that’s
what’s taking place until afterwards. And
you look back on it as the most amazing
memory of your life. As I think long and
hard about it it’s like a metaphor for
becoming one with another person.”

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Jelqing – The Enlargement of
Manhood

The technique known as Arabic jelqing, or


milking, is a Middle Eastern penis
enlargement exercise that is reported to
increase both the size and circumference of
the male organ. It is designed to stimulate
blood flow to the penis. While there are
multiple surgical and pharmaceutical penis
enlargement options available, jelqing is a
technique that doesn’t require special
products and can be done in the privacy of
your own bathroom.

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There are many, many websites dedicated to
this “art” – here are some good ones, and a
video that will show you how it is done:

https://www.pegym.com/penis-
exercises/how-does-jelqing-work-jelq-
techniques-jelquing

http://www.soc.ucsb.edu/sexinfo/article/jel
qing

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eutEkz
XO0Eg

A user of these methods posted this more


than 14 years ago. It details an easy
method that doesn’t push your limits. I
cannot recommend it highly enough:

“I've been jelqing for more than 6 months.

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This is what I have learned.

I’ve experimented with different jelqing


techniques and schedules over the past 6
months or so and I thought I would share
what I have discovered. Of course, this is
what works for me. It may not work for you.

I pretty much just jelq. I do some light


stretching on and off but my main focus is
jelqing.

I use an overhand alternating sitting down 2-


3 second stroke.

Basically what I have discovered is that erect


jelqing not only is dangerous, but completely
ineffective.

I erect jelqed for two months and saw a


decrease in length of .25 inch. My width was
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reduced by .50 inch. This was after recovery
from three day impotence after I gave up
erect jelqing as an “advanced” technique. Of
course, we all know erect jelqing is
dangerous. You could burst a vein. I think
however it is unlikely you will burst a vein. In
my experience, the real danger is loss of dick.

The worse advice you will ever hear is to


erect jelq as an advanced technique. You
know, to make your dick bigger means that
it must be bigger when jelqing is the only
way it will get bigger in reality. You know,
dont do this as a beginner. This is false
bullshit. Never do it!

Be very careful with those touting erect


jelqing as some advanced technique - it is for
advanced idiots.

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It does not work if you study it. I have spoken
with others and the results are the same.

Do a ten minute routine (tell that to an erect


jelqer - lol - they need an hour routine to
combat the dick shrink) and see where your
measurements go.

What I have learned is split or on and off


days routines work best. You need rest days.
It makes sense to jelq and rest. Or use very
light daily schedules.

I’m using a a light 5 day a week 10 minute


jelq routine and I have gained over an inch in
length and .75 in width in just one month
of correct jelqing. I alternate this with a day
on and day off schedule. Some of this gain is
probably cumulative but most of it is
through adherence to these basic principles:

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1) Less is more. 10 minutes is more than
enough jelqing time to stimulate growth.

2) Rest days are more important than jelqing


days. You must rest. If not every other day
than do a light schedule and take the
weekend off.

3) Do not jelq erect or even close to it. 50 -


70% is perfect. You need blood to force
around in your dick. An erect dick stresses it
too much and will need a very long recovery
period. A recovery from damage and
destruction and atrophy. Not growth.

Yes, it will look big when you do it - but you


will lose and lose big in the end.

Avoid erect jelq suggestion posts like the


plague!

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4) Start your jelq from total flaccidness and
let it build.

10 minutes per day 5 days a week is great.

20 minutes every other day is very good too.

Remember, it is better to rest too much than


to rest too little.

One guarantees recovery and growth and


the other is wasting time.”

Ruthva or Ruthvah – Aleister


Crowley’s Sex Appeal Ointment

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“The aroma of Aleister Crowley came from
the ‘sex-appeal’ ointment with which he
smeared himself. He called this unguent
‘Ruthvah: the Perfume of Immortality’. It
was made up of one part ambergris, two
parts musk, and three parts civet,
aphrodisiacs which contributed to his
attraction for women; and horses, too, if it is
true, as he said, that they whinnied after him

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when he passed along the street. ‘It must be
rubbed into the body, ‘ wrote the Master
Therion, ‘particularly at the roots of the hair
where the skin is not too tightly stretched, so
thoroughly that the subtle perfume of the
preparation is not detected, or even
suspected, by others. The user is thus armed
with a most powerful weapon, the more
potent for being secret, against the deepest
elements in the nature of those whom it is
wished to attract. They obey, and they are all
the more certainly compelled to obey,
because they do not know that they are
being commanded.” - The Great Beast by
John Symonds

I have known only 2 people who have tried


this with the original ingredients, and they
have reported excellent success.

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If you wish to order “modern” Ruthva here it
he is the link: http://ruthvah.nfshost.com/

But to make the original most potent


version, let’s look at the ingredients:

1 part ambergris – available here:


http://www.profumo.it/pid/163/lang/en

2 parts musk – available here:


http://perfumes-world.com/en/natural-
essential-oil/pure-essential-oil-and-
attar/musk-al-ghazal-red-grade1-musk-
deer.html (different types of musk are
available all over, this is just one of many you
may use)

3 parts civet –
https://www.etsy.com/listing/206435482/c
ivet-tincture-perfume-tincture-musk

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Once you’ve acquired the ingredients simply
mix them as directed – 3 drops of civet, 2
drops of musk, one drop of ambergris.

Medusa

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Medusa was one of the three Gorgons ("the
Terrible Ones"), the daughters of Keto
("Whale," daughter of Gaea and Pontos, the
outer sea) and her brother Phorkys (also a
sea Deity). She was said to have once been a
beautiful maiden, famous for Her lovely hair,
who was turned to a hideous monster by the
Goddess Athene. Snakes then replaced Her
beautiful tresses, and Her gaze was so
terrible it would turn men to stone. The hero
Perseus killed Her on a dare, decapitating
Her and making off with Her head, which he
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gave to Athene. Thereafter Athene wore it
on Her aegis or breastplate that symbolized
the storm clouds.

There are many different representations of


Medusa, some ugly, some not, and not all
showing Her with Her famous snaky hair.
Often She has wings, either large bronze
ones sprouting from Her back, or a small pair
on Her forehead. Sometimes She is shown as
an ugly woman, burly and muscular, with
large fangs.

Medusa's legends are very tangled with


those of Athene, and Medusa may originally
have been Her sexual and destructive
aspect. Some legends say Medusa was given
Her fearsome aspect by Athene as
punishment for winning a beauty contest
against Her; or that the punishment was
given because the sea God Poseidon had sex
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with Medusa in Athene's temple. Poseidon
was sometimes said to have been Athene's
father, from Whom She got Her blue eyes,
and They were long rivals, as can be seen in
Their competition for patronage of Athens.

It is said that Perseus was guided by Athene's


hand as he killed Medusa, or even that
Athene Herself slew Medusa as She slept.
When Medusa's blood fell to the earth, the
hero Khrysaor and the winged horse Pegasos
were born, for Medusa had been pregnant
from Her encounter with Poseidon. Her
blood was then taken by Athene who gave it
to Asklepios, or in some stories, Erikhthonios
(the half-serpent, half-human Who was
claimed as ancestor by the early Athenians;
the Erechtheum, a temple shared by Athene
and Poseidon on the Akropolis, is named for
Erechtheus, his adopted grandson), who
used it to kill or cure.
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In these legends, Medusa shares many
symbols with Athene and with Poseidon.
Athene, as a sky Goddess, is associated with
birds, especially the wise owl; and She also is
linked to the chthonic serpent, as seen in
links to Erekhtheus and Erikhthonios (who
were often confused) and in the snakes that
fringe Her aegis. An epithet of Athena,
Sthenia, meaning "strong," shares its root
meaning with the name of one of Medusa's
Gorgon sisters, Sthenno. Likewise Poseidon
was said to have seduced Medusa in the
guise of either a bird or a horse, and
Medusa's parents were both sea Deities.

With that background information, here is


The Medusa Pattern:
“Now, stop and think, of, a decision you
made, that was a good decision at the time,

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and it’s a good decision now, and it’s one of
the best things you ever decided to do.

And hopefully you have one of those!


You’ve heard of Medusa… any man who
made the decision to look her in the face
was turned to stone.

What I’ve found through the years, is that


there’s something very twisted, in people’s
thought process.

Now, when you think of a good decision –


Now I want you to go and stop, and think of
a time where you made a decision, to buy
something, and ah, or do to do something,
and as soon as you started to do it,
everything inside of you said, “This is
wrong. It’s not the right thing to do.”
Maybe you bought it, maybe you didn’t, but
the whole way through the process, or
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afterwards – maybe you even brought it
back and returned it, cause something
went, “This is not right.” However, for
many of us, it doesn’t stop us from buying
it. Because the thing is we don’t have just
one decision strategy we have many. The
thing is, is some work for some things, and
some work for another.

I know a lot of women who made a picture


of a man, the exact man that they wanted,
and then they went out and they actually
found one that looked like it, but, they
couldn’t get him to behave like the one in
the picture. So they started trying to get
him to change her behavior, and then they
ended up divorced.

See, you can actually do things, like when


you’re looking for a bedspread, you can
make a picture of a bedspread you like, and
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if you go out, odds are you might be able to
find one, especially if it’s simple. But if you
can’t, you can actually have a bedspread
made, and it wouldn’t be too expensive.
See, there are some things that you go out
and you make a decision you want, or you
can actually make it happen.

All decisions are constantly being re-done.


Like on a television screen – it’s there, but
constantly changing.

And any decision that you made – Now, Let


me ask you this. The good decision, think of
the good one. Think of the one… that didn’t
work out. Is the image in the same place?

Try it this way. Point to the good image.


Go, ‘here’s my good images.’ Ok, now,
Where’s your bad images, the one’s you’re
not sure of. Are they in a different place?
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Ok, cause anybody’s who’s doing this, right,
you know, then it - you’re gonna have them
in the same place, then it’s gonna kinda be
hard to look at them at the same time. Even
if you rotate, putting them in the same
place, you can get confused, about which
one was the good one and which one was
the bad one.”

Venus

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In classical mythology, Venus – also known,
amongst various other names, as Cytherea –
was the Roman goddess, and the irresistible
personification, of erotic love and desire. As
such then, she was also the inspiring goddess
of the seductive and erotic arts, including the
delightful arts of beauty, grace, and charm.
Essentially then, she was the Roman
equivalent of the great Olympian goddess
Aphrodite from Greek mythology.

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This alluring goddess’ delightful realm then
is aptly described in Hesiod’s Theogony,
translated here by Hugh G. Evelyn-White:

This honour she has from the beginning, and


this is the portion allotted to her amongst
men and undying gods, – the whisperings of
maidens and smiles and deceits with sweet
delight and love and graciousness.

Venus is described as golden, fair, and lovely,


and as ‘laughter loving’ and tender. She’s
also variously portrayed sometimes as being
conveyed through the air on a light chariot
drawn by her swans or her team of doves.

In the ancient poet Homer’s famous epic


poem the Iliad, meanwhile, the goddess is
said to possess a potently seductive magic
girdle, which the goddess Juno (Hera)
borrows, under a false pretense, to entice
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her husband Jupiter (Zeus) and distract him
from the Trojan War. Venus’ potent girdle
then is thus described in the fourteenth
book of the Iliad, translated here by Samuel
Butler:

As she [Venus] spoke she loosed from her


bosom the curiously embroidered girdle into
which all her charms had been wrought —
love, desire, and that sweet flattery which
steals the judgment even of the most
prudent. She gave the girdle to Juno and
said, “Take this girdle wherein all my charms
reside and lay it in your bosom. If you will
wear it I promise you that your errand, be it
what it may, will not be bootless [fruitless].”

According to some accounts, including the


Iliad and the Odyssey, Venus’ father was
Jupiter (Zeus). According to this tradition
then, her mother was the Titaness Dione.
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Venus’ Greek name Aphrodite, though, is
said to have been derived from the ancient
Greek word that’s transliterated as aphros,
which means ‘foam’ or ‘froth’. According to
the most popular tradition regarding her
birth then, Venus was born from, and grew
within, the sea foam that formed around the
castrated genitals of the sky god Caelus
(Uranus) after his son Saturn (Cronus) had
lopped them off and cast them into the sea.

Venus then is said to have emerged from the


foam before finally stepping ashore, as an
exceedingly lovely goddess, near Old Paphos
on the eastern Mediterranean island of
Cyprus. On route, meanwhile, she’s said to
have approached, or even begun her journey
in the waters of, the Greek island of Cythera,
a small island off the southern-most coast of
the Peloponnese (the south-west mainland
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of Greece) and the origin then of her
alternate name Cytherea (‘Lady of Cythera’).

According to most accounts, Venus married


the god Vulcan (Hephaestus). Even so,
though, she’s said to have had other lovers
and affairs, with both gods and mortals.
Perhaps the most conspicuous of these is her
famous, or notorious, intrigue with the
warrior god Mars (Ares). As Ovid recounts in
the second book of his Ars Amatoria (Art of
Love) then, and in his Metamorphoses
(Transformations), Vulcan is notoriously said
to have craftily caught them in the act before
foolishly disgracing them then by exposing
the ensnared lovers to the other gods’
sniggering gazes.

Amongst other reported amours, the


goddess is also said to have had famous

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affairs with the Cyprian mortal Adonis and
the Trojan mortal Anchises.

By Venus then, the shepherd-prince


Anchises is said to have fathered the Trojan
hero Aeneas. According to popular Roman
legend, meanwhile, when ancient city of
Troy finally fell in the infamous Trojan War,
Aeneas fled the city, with a Trojan fleet, and
ended up in Latium, the ancient region in
which Rome was later founded. The Romans
then claimed descent from the Trojans
through Aeneas and his immigrant
compatriots. What’s more, as the mother of
Aeneas, the Romans then regarded Venus as
the divine mother of their race.

Here is the long-awaited Venus Pattern:

"I was reading the other day about the


goddess Venus. People seem to enjoy thise
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theme quite a bit. And she seems to mean
different things to different people. You
know how when someone (Point to self)
does something you find truly arousing, it
seems to change they way you feel now.
How you suddenly find that this one person
seems to have gathered you up and is
holding you in their arms in the way that
you love to be held. And with that kind of
feeling rushing through you, you just have
to hold on too. Me, I really love that feeling,
and I know that as you feel that now, (draw
her closer to you) you can notice something
about this person that is very interesting.
Perhaps it is the structure of his face, or the
color of his eyes, or how the tone of his voice
seems to hold you and caress you, pleasing
you and making you feel better and better.
Spreading it's warmth through you and
warming you up in that special way that
you know can only lead you in the direction
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that you wanted to go all along... and you
can feel this warmth deep inside...
penetrating you in such a way that you just
have to come closer and hold on tighter.

That’s the essence of Venus, right here."

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Mermaids

Supremely beautiful, forever combing her


hair, just beyond reach of men, mermaids
have beckoned the adventurous to the
unknown and the promise of forbidden
fruits. However behind this seductive image
of the Siren lurks the a metaphor of death,
for enticed by her promise and allure,
generations have been lured to their certain
doom in a thousand different stories that
form the bases of powerful and enduring
myths and legends that continue today.

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The mermaid is found in all Western
countries; she is the German Meriminni or
Meerfrau, the Icelandic Marmenill, the
Danish Maremind, the Irish Merow and
many others, and there are echoes of her
story from the East as well. The Matsyanaris,
figures sometimes found sculptured in
Indian temples, are nymphs with fishes’ tails,
and superstitious Chinese sailors firmly
believe in the existence of similar creatures
in the China sea.

The Sirens of today, including the mermaid


that calls to us from almost every urban
corner,claim a long and rich ancestry, that
dates back to a multitude of fish-tailed gods
and goddesses of some of man's earliest
civilizations. The sea, as womb of creation
and the source of unfathomable wisdom has
always played an important role in world
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beliefs, particularly among maritime nations.
The Gods of the sea are among some of the
most powerful in history and their strength
lives on in a host of submarine beings
symbolic of the shifting, ever changing, dual
nature of the sea as both life-giver and
destroyer.

In Greek mythology, sirens are sea nymphs


who possess the bodies of birds and the
heads of women, and are the daughters of
the sea god Phorcys. Sirens had such sweet
voices that it is said that mariners who heard
their songs were lured into grounding their
boats on the rocks on which the beautiful
nymphs sang.

Here is the Mermaid Pattern:

“I was watching a show on the NFL the


other day and they had a player for one of
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the teams that actually believed in
mermaids! Can you believe that?

That got me reading a little on mermaids


and what people think they are.

They exist in all types of mythology, but the


common thread – the bottom line – is that
all mermaids beckoned sailors, usually to
their doom. But other times they would
grant wishes or were seen as the ultimate
good luck charm.

Could you imagine being all alone, with


nothing around you? And then out of the
blue you see something that you really,
really want (self point), something that is so
special and unique it’s as if your dream
were coming true?

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I don’t know how the people who thought
they were seeing a mermaid felt about it…
how would it make you feel?”

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Cleopatra

Cleopatra was a member of the Ptolemaic


dynasty, a family of Macedonian Greek
origin that ruled Egypt after Alexander the
Great's death during the Hellenistic period.
The Ptolemies spoke Greek throughout their
dynasty, and refused to speak Egyptian,
which is the reason that Greek as well as
Egyptian languages were used on official
court documents such as the Rosetta Stone.
By contrast, Cleopatra did learn to speak
Egyptian and represented herself as the
reincarnation of the Egyptian goddess Isis.
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Cleopatra originally ruled jointly with her
father Ptolemy XII Auletes, and later with her
brothers Ptolemy XIII and Ptolemy XIV,
whom she married as per Egyptian custom,
but eventually she became sole ruler. As
pharaoh, she consummated a liaison with
Julius Caesar that solidified her grip on the
throne. She later elevated Caesarion, her son
with Caesar, to co-ruler in name.

After Caesar's assassination in 44 BC, she


aligned with Mark Antony in opposition to
Caesar's legal heir Gaius Julius Caesar
Octavianus (later known as Augustus). With
Antony, she bore the twins Cleopatra Selene
II and Alexander Helios, and son Ptolemy
Philadelphus (her unions with her brothers
had produced no children). Antony
committed suicide after losing the Battle of
Actium to Octavian's forces, and Cleopatra
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followed suit. According to tradition she
killed herself by means of an asp bite on
August 12, 30 BC. She was outlived by
Caesarion, who was declared pharaoh by his
supporters, but he was soon killed on
Octavian's orders. Egypt then became the
Roman province of Aegyptus.

Her legacy survives in numerous works of art


and many dramatizations of incidents from
her life in literature and other media, such as
William Shakespeare's tragedy Antony and
Cleopatra, George Bernard Shaw's play
Caesar and Cleopatra, Jules Massenet's
opera Cléopâtre, and the films Cleopatra
(1934) and Cleopatra (1963).

Here’s the Cleopatra Pattern:

Have you ever heard of Cleopatra? What she


understood about people is helping them
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feel good. I don’t think most people know
how to feel good on a consistent basis, and
even when they do it’s not a really “great”
sort of good.

I mean for example, my friend was telling


me… I don't know if you're the kind of person
who can... remember when you were a little
girl maybe six or seven years old and you
were all snuggled up warm, maybe with your
favorite blanket of teddy bear and you were
so relaxed that you didn't know if you were
pushing down on the mattress or the
mattress was pushing up on you and you
began to drift into that soft warm comfy
cloud of sleep and you began to dream of
that ideal man you'll one day fall in love with
and at that moment you felt that love
flooding thru your heart it was as if you fell
in love with that special person at that
moment and throughout all the
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disappointments of adult life all the cynicism
the let downs and the doubt still at some
level that love was there waiting to be
released... and what would be like to know,
to finally recognize that *that* love can be
given forth again because you have met
someone who was worthy of it.

What would it feel like to feel that love


flooding forth?

Now, what if, in addition to the love in the


heart of a little girl, you ever seen a really
attractive stranger and found yourself
saying... wow.

What if in addition to the LOVE in the heart


of a little girl you could also feel that WOW?
Have you ever done something so good, so
beyond your expectations of what you could
do you just said "YES!"?
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What if you could feel the LOVE in the heart
of a little girl and the WOW and the YES! In
fact what if you felt so good that just your
presence was a GIFT to the people around
you because you made them feel so good?
What would it feel like to feel that your very
presence was a GIFT in the life of everyone
you cared about?

So what if you could not only feel the LOVE


in the heart of a little girl and the YES! and
the WOW and the GIFT and what if you
found that one person that was so special
(point to yourself) That just being in that
persons presence, just seeing that person’s
face, even if they weren't around you know
how you see them in your mine.

Every time you heard his voice, every time


you felt his touch it was an invitation, an
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invitation to step into a world where you
could experience new thoughts, new
wonderful feelings, new behaviors, new
dreams in such a way that even the
opportunity to be with them was a blessing?

It would be almost like that you would have


to create an opening for this person. An
opening that would allow this person to
come inside so deeply into your life.
Wouldn't that be absolutely great?

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