Trigger Message Help

The purpose of these messages is to get the client to start chatting – to get their attention so that they will
chat and spend and strike up a, hopefully, lengthy conversation. They can be tricky to get out of until you have
more experience. You will recognise these as the initial message sent to a client as (AUTO) in some cases

Some things to look at when dealing with these examples of Triggers that have been used on
www.bigbuckchat.com

1. When was the trigger sent? It could be the trigger was sent through the night to the client – in which
case you could say ‘’I sent that at 3am when I was home alone and in bed and needing someone to
amuse me 😉 Now I am on my way to work ☹ Why didn’t you get back to sooner? By the way I am
(name) – what’s your name handsome and where abouts are you? By replying like this you not only
get out of the situation but you are asking questions and his replies can be added to the notes. Or
sent days before and the client has only just read it – so tailor your response accordingly.
2. When the trigger is offering sex? It might say ‘’My husband is away on business on the weekend and
the kids are at their grandparents and I am here and looking to make the most of the situation and
have as much fun as I can.’’ When it gets closer to the trigger’s ‘’time’’ for sex – you could say ‘’ The
kids are ill and not going away now’’ or ‘’His business trip was cancelled and I can’t get away’’
3. The profile is offering up her virginity because all her friends have lost it. When the client responds
to this you can ask to be reassured that you are in good hands. You want your first experience to be
memorable for the ‘’correct’’ reasons – ask him if he done this before and to tell you about his
exploits ‘’in the field’’ as it were – a delay tactic which will encourage him to talk more.
4. Offering sex within a small time frame – ‘’I’ve got an hour before he get’s home and I’ve got to have
you NOW’’ – sometimes  the client will be too far away to make it in an hour – so ask him where
abouts he lives and then you can keep him chatting – don’t give him an alternative date though –
make excuses like – my husband/boyfriend is on annual leave now so it’s impossible and keep the
chat going by finding out what excites him etc..

Our http://agents.moderationinterface.com (iDates) platform posts Trigger and Automated messages that
are a lot more ‘’tame’’ than the other site. Very often asking for phone numbers and alternate methods of
contact and can be easier to slip out of. These examples can be used on www.bigbuckchat.com also.

1. ‘’It’s so expensive on here – do you have Whats App? ‘’ The client will jump at this chance to get of
the platform and save money – you can always explain that ‘’you didn’t mean right now and that you
still want to establish that you are a good match first’’ Tell the client things about the profile and log
them in the notes too.
2. The client writes to you first suggesting phone numbers etc.. again – always go about it that you are
not ready and for example came here to find the right man and not make the mistakes like you have
in the past being drunk in the pub etc ..
3. The client says ‘’Hey I’m in your area right now for a few hours – wanna meet up?’’ You can say you
are somewhere else and ask him where is he actually from and then choose somewhere that is not
too far away and not too close – remember – don’t choose somewhere that will take 5 hours to travel
to – he may not want that and it could kill the convo – not too close either – you don’t want to be in
the same village with 100 inhabitants either 😊 This applies to all platforms and put it in the NOTES!

I am sure lots of you have come up with ingenious and inventive ideas in the past and I would love to hear
them from you and likewise if you see a colleague who has written something that has inspired you too then
let me know – send me the message and the Op ID and I can thank them on your behalf.

Also if you see something that you cannot get out of get in touch and I will help you. Message me on Skype or
Email me. I hope this helps you. Gary.