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Between The Lines - Fall 2011 Volume 1, Issue 3
Between The Lines - Fall 2011 Volume 1, Issue 3
Between The Lines - Fall 2011 Volume 1, Issue 3
riches of complete understanding in order that they may know the mystery of God, namely, Christ, in whom are hidden all the treasures of wisdom and knowledge. Col. 2:2-3
One of the wisest women I know completed a first grade education, baked bread and did chores under the supervision of a harsh stepmother, came to New York on a boat from Italy at age 16, worked as a seamstress, and married a handsome, loving husband. Her dream to visit her beloved father and brothers was never realized. The couple lived in a modest apartment and she counted every penny, yet she was always generous towards others. Every morning she sat in a chair with a scripture and prayer book written in her native language. Her prayers, I know, were sweet incense to our Lord.
Dear Reader,
I was drawn to that simplicity in her, that beauty that comes from a pure devotion to Christ. No wonder the Bible tells us to search for wisdom as if searching for treasure and that the fear of the Lord is the beginning of wisdom. Yes, Grandma was one of the wisest women I know. Her heart was a storehouse filled with beautiful treasure not the kind you can buy. Out of the overflow of her heart, her mouth spoke wisdom. This issue of Between the Lines is filled with treasure. It is soaked in wisdom from the fountain of living water, the Word of God. I pray that our thirst will be quenched as we read each word. Know also, that wisdom is sweet to your soul, to find it there is future hope for you and your hope will not be cut off. Prov. 24:14 Please share this issue with othersit is our hope that Between the Lines will continue to travel near and far to connect women to Jesus Christ. And thank you for sharing with us in the journey of a lifetime on the road that leads us Home. Desiring Gods Wisdom,
A year or so before she left this life to be home with the Lord, I sat across from her at her little kitchen table as I had many times before. I looked at her lovely face with its soft creases, and I asked, Grams, if you could share only one word of wisdom, what would it be? Without hesitation and with conviction Grams replied, Have faith in God. One of the wisest women I know says, Trust. Simple and pure. Trust in the one who created you, who knew you before you were born. Trust in the Lord God Almighty, who sent his son Jesus Christ so that all who believe in him would not perish but will have everlasting life.
Mary Ann
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In the next issue: Desirewhat do you really want?
This Issues Theme: Wisdom Verse of the Season: By wisdom a house is built; and through understanding it is established; through knowledge its rooms are filled with rare and beautiful treasures (Prov. 24:3-4).
Farewell to My TV Friend
by Emily Climaco Fall is approaching, which means cooler temperatures, falling leaves, and a new season of Oprah. Wait a minute. No more Oprah show? Say it aint so! Ill admit I teared up when Ms. Winfrey left the stage for the last time this past spring. While Im not an ultimate viewer, Im a longtime fan since grade school. I appreciate Oprah as an entertainer and believe that she has noble intentions of helping people improve their lives. Oprah has a special gift for making viewers feel like they know herand that she understands them. As a child she wanted to become a teacher, and she still thinks of herself as a teacher, albeit one with a vast, nontraditional classroom. While Oprah does not claim to be a teacher of the gospel, she often has shared spiritual truths based on her life experience. I have learned from some of her ideaseven those which are not overtly Christianbecause our God is the source of all truth. My job as a Christian living under the authority of
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the Bible is to acknowledge the truth as Gods and attribute credit and glory to him. We should be wary, however, of putting faith in spiritual principles originating in human experience or intuition, no matter how well-meaning that person may be. Those who seek to teach spiritual truths will be held to a higher standard than the average man or woman: Not many of you should become teachers, my fellow believers, because you know that we who teach will be judged more strictly (James 3:1, NIV). Nonetheless, in this age of information, there are many teaching voices vying for our attention and allegiance, making discernment crucial. The Christians test of truth is the Bible, and a belief that does not line up with scripture is neither godly wisdom nor trustworthy. Furthermore, while Oprah has said many wise things over the years, we must acknowledge that if we can more readily quote Ms. Winfrey or even our beloved pastorsthan we can call scripture to mind, there is a serious problem.
A critical distinction must be made between godly wisdom and the wisdom of the world. The prophet Isaiah spelled it out this way: For my thoughts are not your thoughts, neither are your ways my ways, declares the Lord. As the heavens are higher than the earth, so are my ways higher than your ways and my thoughts than your thoughts (Isaiah 55:8-9). Gods processes are utterly unlike ours, a comforting truth if weve ever been forced to face our own bleak limitations. Oprahs assertion that, With every experience, you alone are painting your own canvas, thought by thought, choice by choice, may be enlightening to a reader who doesnt acknowledge the importance of intentions. And yet, however important our thoughts and choices may be, they are downright puny compared to the sovereignty of God. As Solomon wrote with transcendent wisdom, Many are the plans in a mans heart, but it is the Lords purpose that prevails (Prov. 19:21). While my intention is not to pass judgment on Oprah, I do want to highlight the wisdom of the author of Hebrews, who warned, We must pay more careful attention, therefore, to what we have heard, so that we do not drift away (2:1). Its imperative that you and I grow strong molars in order to handle the solid food of biblical wisdom (Heb. 5:11-14) and discern Truth from sort-of-true-depending-on-your-worldview. We also need to recognize how blessed we are to have access to the wisdom of God through the Holy Spirit living in us: But we have the mind of Christ (1 Cor. 2:16). One of my great-
est aha moments was sparked by this truth! I appreciate Oprahs contributions: she changed the tone of TV talk shows, emphasized gratitude, confronted the crime of sexual abuse of children, and re-popularized serious reading, to name just a few. At the same time, my Christian responsibility is to discern the good from the best, worldly wisdom from godly wisdom, For the wisdom of this world is foolishness in Gods sight (1 Cor. 3:19). The wisdom that you and I can rely on is dramatically counter-intuitive, oriented not toward self-actualization but self-denial. For instance, Jesus warned, Whoever tries to keep their life will lose it, and whoever loses their life will preserve it (Luke 17:33). In the topsy-turvy world of Gods wisdom, living your best life means giving it away to the One who made you. (For more examples, see 1 Cor. 1:18-31, 1 Cor. 2, James 3:13-18.) Paul offered his readers hope in this way: And this is my prayer: that your love may abound more and more in knowledge and depth of insight, so that you may be able to discern what is best and may be pure and blameless for the day of Christ, filled with the fruit of righteousness that comes through Jesus Christto the glory and praise of God (Phil. 1:9-10). To paraphrase Pauls godly wisdom in the simplest of terms: we should love more and more, aim to know what is best, give all credit to God. This is what I know for sure.
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pumping out its youth/ beauty-centric message, God has something entirely different to say about growing old. In the last chapter of Proverbs, he paints a picture of a woman who has qualities that cause her to be praised. And it never once mentions what she looks like or her age. Instead, it says, She is a woman of strength and dignity, and has no fear of old age. When she speaks, her words are wise, and kindness is the rule for everything she says. She watches carefully all that goes on throughout her household, and is never lazy. Her children stand and bless her; so does her husband. He praises her with these words: There are many fine women in the world, but you are the best of them all! Charm can be deceptive and beauty doesnt last, but a woman who fears and reverences God shall be greatly praised (Prov. 31:25-30, The Living Bible). This womans self-worth, wisdom, and beauty are a result of her relationship with God and the way she treats and serves others.
As a mother of two girls, Im well aware of the uphill battle theyll be facing in a few years when they enter junior high and high school. I have already begun talking to them about the need to have wisdom to make correct decisions. The Bible tells us that, the Lord grants wisdom! His every word is a treasure of knowledge and understand-
ing (Prov. 2:6). In other words, there are no short cuts. If we want to make good decisions that honor God, our families and ourselves, weve got to read Gods Word and seek to understand his ways. This world judges people based on outward appearance; however, Gods Word says, Be beautiful inside, in your hearts, with the lasting charm of a gentle and quiet spirit which is so precious to God (1 Pet. 3:5). Were all guilty of making assumptions (often subconsciously) about people based on what we see in front of us. God calls us to be more deliberate and look past the external to see his child within. Whether we are mothers, grandmothers, aunts, sisters, or friends, we have a responsibility as Christians to set an example of what it looks like to be a godly woman who is walking in his wisdom and tuning out the deception of this world. And the tricky part is not just knowing what we believe, but actually putting those beliefs into the fabric of our lives in a way that speaks through our actions and words. If we say, beauty is on the inside, but spend tremendous amounts of time, effort, and money on outward appearances, our words dont count for much. What spoken or unspoken messages are we sending to the women or girls in our sphere of influence? Contrary to my rush to color mine, Proverbs tells us that, White hair is a crown of glory and is seen most among the godly (16:31). So I guess the question becomes, are we going to let the inevitable aging process distract us by staring into the mirror and
wondering if one eye is looking a little more squinty than the other lately? (Not that Ive ever done that . . .) Or, are we going to work on searching for wisdom like hidden treasure so that we are actually becoming more beautiful in Gods eyes? In an age when people have made a business of offering extreme makeovers and nips and tucks, we can rest assured that the only makeover well ever need is the one that comes from above. Through Jesus Christ we are, to be made new in the attitude of your minds; and to put on the new self, created to be like God in true righteousness and holiness (Eph. 4:23-24, NIV). The next time I find some new sign of aging, I wont let it bring me down (and I definitely wont frown because then Ill get that little wrinkle between my eyebrows, and thats just one more thing). As a Christian, I know that Ill be cashing in this body for a new one someday anyway. Until then, I hope I can laugh at the days to come. Age 35 . . . bring it on!
Esther: Its Tough Being a Woman by Beth Moore Captivating: Unveiling the Mystery of a Womans Soul by John and Stasi Eldredge
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a hand on my shoulder; it was Daddy, behind me. When had he entered the room? He was right on time, again. Look here, lets see if we can blot this up, Daddy says gently. With tissue in hand Daddy blots out the dark stain and draws a perfect little tree over the mess and makes it beautiful again. Isnt that just like me today? I am just a mess and still, permitted to grow like a tree as God perfects me and makes me more like him. Later, as a mom and as a teacher I would share this story many times. God makes something beautiful of the mess of our lives. In Christ we are a new creationthe old has gone, the new has come (Col. 3:17). Remember always, repeat often. Years of motherhood teaching me, molding me, challenging me, and bringing me to the time to let my children go on their own. Dad, I cant seem to stop crying. I am so happy for them, but it is bittersweet. Wisdom again touches my ears, You are mourning, Mary Ann. Blessed are they who mourn for they shall be comforted. Yes, I have read those words, and many times shared them with others. Now they are spoken to me. Peace settles over me and pats my tears. The only perfect parent is God, our Father. But if we look and listen, Gods wisdom comes to us through imperfect people who love him and know his Word. Wisdom is the first word and the last word, every time, in every season, for all eternity. For I am the Alpha and the Omega, says the Lord God, who is, and who was, and who is to come, the Almighty (Rev. 1:8).
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I dont know what your answer is, but God tells us in Proverbs that To get wisdom is better than gold (16:16) and . . . wisdom is better than jewels, and all that you desire cannot compare to her (8:11). The apostle Paul gives his answer to my question in Philippians 3:7-8. He says, But whatever gain I had, I counted as loss for the sake of Christ. Indeed, I count everything as loss because of the surpassing worth of knowing Christ Jesus my Lord. For his sake I have suffered the loss of all things and count them as rubbish, in order that I may gain Christ. You might be thinking, Wait a minute! Didnt Paul say that knowing Christ is of surpassing worth, while Proverbs says that wisdom is what is better than gold? So which is it: wisdom or knowing Christ? Well, if we flip over to Colossians, we read that all of the treasures of wisdom and knowledge are found in Christ (2:3). Wisdom is found in knowing God because he is the source of all wisdom, he is the embodiment of all wisdom, and he contains all wisdom. Listen again to what Paul is saying. He says that he is willing to lose all things in order to know Christ. But, in knowing Christ, what he gains is worth far more than gold, or silver, or jewels. So what
is lost is rubbish and what is gained is everything. What a deal! Who wouldnt want that? John Piper says, We should bend all our efforts to become wiser tomorrow than we are today. I dont know about you, but I dont do that. I lose perspective. The little things in life become big, and the really big things become little. I have a friend whose son-in-law felt the Lord was leading him to go to law school. But it was a very difficult decision because he had a wife, a mortgage, two dogs, a daughter, and another on the way. He and his wife finally decided they were not going to let a mortgage and two dogs stand in the way of following God. I was cheering for them as they took this step of faith, but, at the same time, I was asking myself what the mortgage and two dogs were in my life. What were those little things that had become big and were keeping the big things from happening? What is it for you? What would it cost for you to pursue knowing Christ more? What might you lose? To ask another way, what are the mortgage and two dogs in your life? Sometimes the answer can be as basic as sleep or time. Sometimes it can be as big as a career or a reputation. Most of us live in a country and a culture where our faith is not highly costly. We dont fear for our lives. Most of us will never be demoted or lose a job over our faith. But what if we did? What is it worth for you to pursue him and his wisdom? Would you be willing to count your career, or your savings, or your circle of friends as loss? What about sleep? Thats about as costly as it gets for most of us, yet it can feel like
a costly sacrifice when that alarm goes off and the snooze button is calling! Whatever your particular mortgage and two dogs are, in light of eternity, scripture tells us that they are considered like rubbish. But the cost of pursuing wisdom does not stop there. Proverbs 9:10 says that, The fear of the LORD is the beginning of wisdom, and knowledge of the Holy One is understanding. Knowledge is important, and we have to commit ourselves to its acquisition. What we know of God and how we think of him affects our lives. On one hand, wisdom is not merely knowledge; you cant just fill your head with knowledge about God and consider yourself wise. But neither is wisdom devoid of knowledge. Wisdom is a lived-out knowledge of God. Both the attainment of knowledge as well as the endeavor to apply that knowledge take a lot of time, effort, change, focus, and sacrifice. Whoever said that wisdom is both a divine gift and a human task was absolutely right. God has inclined our hearts to pursue him and has given us his Word; God has made himself known. The knowledge of God, the wisdom of Christ, are available to us. But scripture tells us to dig, seek, search, and cry out for it. So were back to our original question. What do you want more than anything? If it is knowing Christ and the wisdom found only in him, it will probably cost you. But what you lose is nothing in light of the surpassing worth of knowing him.
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Laurie Van Hoof, Air Force wife, mom of three, photography lover
Make Quiet Time with God your highest priority for every day.
-Marcy Matson Bitner, mom, fitness fanatic, pianist
No man is an island, no man stands aloneeverything we send into the lives of others comes back into our own.
-Debbi Cutright, mother, grandmother, nurse
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