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Two Sides Book 2 His Grief
Two Sides Book 2 His Grief
HIS GRIEF
BY
PUMZA SHABANGU
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Two Sides
Zukiswa
The next few days in our home, well my uncles home, take
some getting used to. I’ve come from trying to avoid being
around Zuki to now be constantly in her space. Making
sure she eats, or bathes or even goes to sleep. I’ve taken
time off. I’ve been due for leave for a while anyway. But
something is sitting unsettling in the pit of my stomach,
will the month off be enough time? The news of uncle’s
accident came as a shock but the aftermath is a devastating
blow. Trust me, I’m happy he is alive. I wouldn’t survive
another sudden loss. I barely survived the first one. The
was a moment two days ago, when I was sitting in a
hospital chair waiting for news that I had felt a deep sense
of loss, it had threatened the progress of the past years.
But now we have his sudden disability to deal with. At this
moment his wife isn’t dealing. I’m worried about her and
I’m scared at the same time that my inconvenient crush, if
I could call it that, will be revealed and that could fuck up
the only family I have. I can’t have that.
My phone beeps on the side stand and I stretch over and
grab it. It’s a message from the only friend I managed to
make in high school, Kwanele. A school that I had felt like
a fish out of water. Had it not been for Kwanele and his
family I would’ve drowned. Pity they had to migrate to
Australia after matric. Thanks to my job and technology,
we still keep in constant touch. He is probably not happy
with me though since I left his messages hanging two days
ago. I open the message and scroll through the worried
texts until the last one.
|dude, don’t make me come to
Johannesburg! | I chuckle as I type out a reply. He
would too. He just started as an intern doctor, supper busy
and I haven’t seen him in months. Even on my last flight
to Australia, he wasn’t able to get away from work.
|No need for that. Unless you really
miss me| I send.
|Thank fuck, you are alive! How is
your uncle? | he replies. I kind of feel bad that I’ve
left him hanging for so long.
|He lives, thank God but there is some
damage. He lost his eye sight and
there might be bruising on the spine. |
|Shit, that sucks man. But have faith,
modern medicine has had breakthroughs.
|
|We are hopeful. How is work? | I change
the subject because I don’t like the darkness that
approaches at the thought of Uncle Nhla not regaining his
eyesight. What would his life be like? How would my life
be like? I can feel an unspoken looming expectation in the
air. It twists at my insides thinking about it.
|It sucks man. I swear the word intern is
a synonym for slave| Kwa, sends me a string of
texts bitching about his job. Then he asks me what I had
been hoping he wouldn’t.
|How are things between you and your
aunt? | first, I always cringe when I hear Zuki referred to
me as my aunt. Of course she should be she is my aunt but
it makes shame crawl up my spine for the way I feel about
her. What exactly do you feel about her? I frown at the
unbidden thought. I never had to examine my feelings just
that she always made me nervous, something unfamiliar
always tugged at me and I always feared that it would ruin
our family if I explored my feeling for her. I know I love
my uncle, without a shadow of the doubt. I didn’t get
sweaty hands around him or my heart didn’t wildly beat
against my chest and I didn’t have vague dreams about
him. Gross even thinking about it. So when that happened
to me at fifteen, about my aunt. She wasn’t my aunt then, I
ran. School helped and I decided distance was better
before whatever I felt bloomed into something more.
Something scarier. Something that could destroy our
family. I remember when I first shared my thoughts with
Kwa, he’d reassured me that those were normal feelings
for a teenager. He reminded me that Zukiswa wasn’t
actually my blood and she was the only female around
while I was still grieving my mother. What I felt for her
didn’t feel motherly, so I made a plan. Don’t get close to
her! Avoid her at all cost! Over the years my planned
attitude towards her seemed to work. She stopped trying
and pulled back. Uncle Nhla had hated the divide.
Implored me to try harder. Reassured me of my place in
his life and that Zuki wouldn’t threaten that. If he knew
what my treacherous body felt towards his wife, he would
have banished me. But also, it never felt sexual, just odd.
|Things are cool. I haven’t embarrassed
myself. |yet
“Morning.” It’s all I’m able say before our lips collide in a
tangle of pleasure. We kiss until I’m hard as steel. I don’t
give him a reprieve when I bring our bodies closer. He
shudders and clings to me even more when I put our dicks
together and jerks us off. “Feels good.” He says pushing
into my hand. The friction is delicious and it’s not long
before we spill. Our juices combining to make a sticky
mess.
“Was that okay?” I suddenly want to know if he is okay
with what we’ve done so far.
He chuckles. “If I could go again. I’d do it over and over
and over.” I laugh against his lips.
“I get it. You liked it.” Another kiss.
“I loved it.” He says then his stomach rumbles. We both
crack up laughing.
“Do you want to shower first or food before shower.”
“I need the shower.”
“Can I join you?” I ask.
“I wouldn’t have it any other way. Lead the way.” I grab
his hand and drag him off the bed leading him to the
bathroom. He uses the toilet while I run the water until it’s
the right temperate. We both step under the warm spray,
touching here and there as rivulets of water pelt over our
bodies. I scrub his back and he scrubs mine. I turn off the
shower when it threatens to turn into something more.
Not that I would mind if it does but I need to feed this
man and we have to go to my parent’s house.
He doesn’t mind the left over pizza that we warm up and
we have that over the kitchen nook with coffee. His
morning routine is similar to mine; coffee is forever at the
top of that list.
His leg bounces ceaselessly as I drive us to my parent’s
house. I place my hand on his thigh and he stills for a
while, when I remove it the bouncing begins.
“Don’t be nervous.” I say, “I’m usually not the centre of
attention. My nephews and nieces will occupy everything.”
This doesn’t seem to calm him in the least. He wrings his
hands the moment he notices me approach the imposing
gate. My parents live in a quiet area, it’s an old suburb, the
houses with large yards, pools and tennis courts in some.
Where white people used to live and the only black people
that stayed in such areas was the help. My parents were
one of the few who moved in, just a year into democracy.
They had returned from growing up in exile to help rebuild
the country, and my father a lawyer at the time did just that
until he retired a judge. My mother became a teacher, then
a lecture until she retired a professor. My family is a family
of academia.
“This is where you grew up?” He absently asks as the gate
parts to open into a paved driveway that leads to the large
double story house. I can see my siblings have arrived
judging by the extra two cars parked upfront.
“Yes,” I glance at him. He is looking out the window.
“So different from the two bedroom I grew up in.” I don’t
say anything. I am well aware of the privileged life I’ve
lived and what it meant to me compare to the majority of
black people. “It’s a beautiful home.” He says, still taking
in the surroundings.
“Mom, has an eye for all things beautiful.” He gives me a
shy smile. The one I want to contain and keep close,
always. Every time I see it feels like it’s just for me.
“I’m looking forward meeting her.” I look out the window
just in time to see the front door open and my mother
walks out.
“Well, here is your chance.” I push the door open and look
at Ntando over my shoulder. He swallows nervously his
weary eyes on my mother as he opens his door. “It will be
fine; Ntando I promise.” My mother is already by my door
as I step out.
“Hello, Mom.” She opens her arms wide. She is petite and
only comes to my chest but her hugs always feel larger
than me.
“Hey baby, about time you got here.” She pulls back and
glares at me. “You are late.”
“It’s only 30 munities Mom.” She harrumphs and looks
over me at Ntando, who stands behind us.
“New friend?” I step aside.
“Mom, this is Ntando Ndlovu. Ntando this is my mother,
Nontle Poswa.”
“Hello, Mrs Poswa,” Ntando steps forward to shake her
hand.
“Are you related to Nhlakanipho?”
“He is my uncle.” There is a small frown on my mother’s
face but it quickly vanishes.
“I’m sorry about what he is going through, I hope he is on
the mend.”
“We are all hoping for that.” Ntando says.
“Okay, come meet the rest of our family.” My mother says,
leading us inside the house.
Ntando
I walk back into the room and find uncle Nhla standing at
the bottom of the stairs, his eyes downcast and shoulders
hunched. I hesitate going in, I don’t want him to know I’ve
heard the words they just shared. The hurt between them
is palpable.
“Come in Ntando, no use hovering by the door.” I’m
surprised he can tell I’m standing here. I would’ve
preferred to escape without being noticed. Lunga came
back a few hours ago and I was on site at one of our
projects so I couldn’t fetch him from the airport as
promised and I’ve been dying to go see him.
“I’m sorry.” I don’t even know what I’m apologising for.
“Pour me a drink, will you?” another pause from me. “I’m
not a drunk, Ntando! I can handle myself!” he snaps as he
moves to a couch.
“I didn’t say you were.” I hesitate to say what I want to say
but if I don’t say it who will? “Have you considered the
possibility that you are using alcohol as a clutch?” I move
to the drinks cabinet.
“Come out with it Ntando, are you talking about me or my
wife?” I pour two fingers of whiskey and pass the glass to
him before I answer.
“You know who I’m talking about Uncle Nhla.” He sighs.
“I know. I don’t know what to do.” I shuffle before him
before I decide to sit down.
“I couldn’t help but overhear your conversation earlier.”
He winces. “You were too loud.” Which has become
problematic especially when the kids are around. “Have
you considered that using Aza as a therapist is exacerbating
your issues?”
“I hate therapy Ntando. Talking to a stranger? Aza is great
at what she does and I’m comfortable with her.”
“I’m not saying she is your only problem. Your problems
started before her but now she is the fuel to your fire. You
have a history with her. At the time sis Zuki felt betrayed
and I don’t think women forget such. They might forgive
but they never forget. Also don’t forget before that
happened you had sworn up and down that she was your
friend.” He frowns.
“You remember all that?”
“Yes, uncle. I was grieving not dead or deaf.”
“I hear you and you are right. I’m just dealing with so
many new things and adjustments. I have house nurse, a
physio therapist and I’m prodded and checked by doctors
frequently. I just needed one thing to be familiar.”
“Maybe talk to her, have a proper conversation, Uncle. She
is hurting too and she needs help. Otherwise, this huge
knot of resentment will grow, poisoning everything.”
“I know.” He runs his hand over his face. “When did you
get so wise?”
“Nah, this is me being observant. I have to go. There is
food in the fridge.” I get up to leave.
“Hot date?”
“Something like that.” He is hot alright! I rush to my room
to pack a bag and then I’m on my way. My heart gallops at
the prospect of seeing Lunga. I might have even driven
over the speed limit to get to his house. The few seconds it
takes for the security to alert him of my presence feels like
an eternity. I’m not patient with them as I wait. They’ve
seen me many times before why are they making a fuss?
Eventually they let me through. I find Lunga waiting for
me by the open garage. Something inside me unknots and
I can breathe. Immediately when I put the car on park, he
pulls my door open and drags me out. Then he is on me,
kissing me. He tastes of coffee and sleep. I kiss him right
back, reacquainting myself with his touch and taste.
“I missed you.” I mumble as I catch a breath.
“Not more than I did.” He holds my head in place as he
returns to my lips, my hands are gripping his waist pulling
him closer. “God, Ntando, I’ve been miserable without
you.” His heated eyes search mine. He is so close I can see
the specks of gold in them.
“Let’s get inside.” I push against his hard on with my own
and he groans.
“Yeah, let’s do that.” He whispers moving for my lips
again. He kisses me hard and deep, his hands grasping
tightly. I want him, I want him in my mouth again, I’ve
missed the unfamiliar experience that has become a part of
my daily fantasies. I want to try all the things I have never
try with a guy. He has awoken a whole other side to my
sexuality and I’m so into it. I show him by the desperate
way I return the kiss, pouring my whole into it. The way
my hands claw at him, pulling at his clothes. We need to be
naked. The space between our cars is getting smaller and
my knees aren’t going to hold much longer. Before I can
ask to take this inside the house. He deals with my belt fast
and snap my jeans open so fast and before I can even blink
he has my throbbing cock in his hand. My breath seizes in
my chest. Then he drops to his knees and takes me down
his throat in one solid suck. I can’t help the feral sound
that falls from my lips. My one hand grabs to hold the top
of the car for balance while the other holds his head. I’m
delirious as I fuck into his mouth. There is no holding back
and the sounds he makes are pure filth. My entire body
lights up as my toes curl, my orgasms barrels through me
like a freight train without warning and I’m groaning my
release down his throat.
My body is trembling as I step back to allow Lunga on his
feet. There is heat in his eyes and he wipes his mouth with
a back of his hand, his smile is wide. I drop my eyes to the
front of his tented sweatpants. I want to take care of him
but when I reach for him he, grabs my wrist.
“I need to be in bed with you, baby. Did you do the prep
like I instructed?” my face heats up remembering his
detailed instruction and how the process went down in my
bathroom this morning. Had I not been into the idea of
being with Lunga, I would’ve abandoned the whole thing. I
nod, my eyes downcast. He cups my face with his warm
hands, forcing me to meet his eyes.
“It’s nothing to be embarrassed about. And it’s not
something you have to do often. Take fibre supplements
and eat right, there won’t be issues. And if there are, sex is
messy, no one expects otherwise.” I nod, because as much
as I want him and God, I want him. I’ve been thinking of
nothing more in his absence and last night before he told
me he was leaving for the airport, I sent him a message of
what I wanted when he got home and he replied with a
detailed message of what I needed to do to prepare for my
first time. He pulls my pants up, and once he has me
sorted. He grabs my hand and leads me to the house. We
don’t speak until we walk into his bedroom. I immediately
notice the bottle of lube and condoms by his bedside table.
Apprehension grabs me for a second, but when he leans
closer and brushes his lips on mine it disappears.
“Remember, you can change your mind anytime, baby.”
He says,
“I want this.” I can’t recognise the rasp in my voice. He
nods then begins to strip me off my clothes. He takes his
time, shedding everything to the floor with soft touches on
every part of my skin he reveals. When all my clothes are a
pile on the floor and I’m left standing naked before him,
my cock has filled again and its straining pointing at him.
His warm hand wraps around it and he gently strokes me.
My pulse thuds heavily as the blood rushes through my
veins.
“You are so beautiful, Ntando.” His voice has dropped
deeper. “Lie on the bed.” He lets go of my cock and I
stumble backwards on to the bed until I’m lying
comfortable, watching him strip before me. With every
item of clothing that disappears my want goes up a notch.
Now, he is stark naked before me, his need evident in the
way his dick is pointing at me, all hard and veiny, the cock
head glistening. It weeps for me. He takes himself in his
hand and slowly strikes as he moves on the bed, crawling
over me until our bodies align.
My chest heaves as my eyes lock on his. Butterflies swarm
in my stomach as he reaches out, cupping my jaw, tilting
my face so he can seal his lips over mine. My eyes fall
closed as we share a happy moan; tingles are rolling down
my spine making my stomach tight. His warm skin and his
hard body slides against mine. I open my legs wide and he
settled between them the friction of our cocks pressed
together is making me dizzy.
“Lunga…” I pant.
“Yes.” He absently responds, his mouth devouring mine.
“Need you.”
“Me too.” He mutters. He pulls off me reaching for the
lube. I watch his hands tremble as he pours a dollop in his
fingers. He then slides them to the crack of my ass, gently
circling my hole. “This is going to sting a little, relax baby.”
I’ll make you feel good.” I nod, breathing hard,
anticipating. When nothing happens as he continues to
tease my hole, I relax, pressing my head on the pillow as
tingling travel my skin. The soft touch of his lips on mine
startles me and my eyes fly open. I watch him scrape his
teeth on the side of my jaw, then he begins to kiss his way
down my body. His finger still teasing at my entrance. I
moan against the sensations and when the tip of his tongue
circles my nipple, I bow up from the mattress, wanting to
get closer into his mouth. But he denies me, the ragged
breathing is the only noise that can be heard in the room as
Lunga places a hand on my abs to keep me still. But I can’t
seem to stop moving under him, seeking more.
Lunga continues the exploration of my body slowly kissing
his way down my abs. I can feel his breath at the tip of my
dick which lays engorged against my stomach.
“You feel incredible under me, Like a dream baby.” He
rasps. My eyes are blurred with lust as I try to focus on his
face. I have never felt so much emotion in my life as I melt
under his touch. He wraps his lips around my cock head,
his tongue swirling. I cry out at the same time his finger
pushes in at my back entrance. His mouth drives me crazy
as I lose track of what his fingers are doing, but I feel the
stretch getting bigger and bigger, then he grazes something
inside of me and my ass shoots off the bed.
“Lu…. what! Oh, oh, oh! Don’t stop….” Words tumble
out of my mouth as he keeps grazing the sweet spot inside
me. I can feel my orgasm barrelling through. I throw my
head back ready to let go, suddenly he pulls out and my
throbbing cock slips out of his wet heat. I whimper,
reaching out for him.
“I need to be inside you.” He looks like a man possessed.
He sits back on his haunches, putting the condom on. He
has to try a few times because his hands are shaking badly.
He applies more lube then he drags me lower, placing a
pillow beneath my lower back. I’m open to him, had I not
been delirious with need I’d be self-conscious. All thought
is obliterated when I feel the broad head of his cock
entering me. It stings as it stretches me beyond what his
finger did. Then his lips are on me, distracting me.
Suddenly he grazes that sweet spot he had earlier and all
thoughts of pain are forgotten. I want more.
“More Lunga, feels good.”
“You sure?” he growls, watching me. I nod. He wraps my
legs on his hips and rests his elbows on each side of my
face. I feel him everywhere. It’s like I’m having some kind
of out of body experience as he begins a delicious rhythm
that seems in tune with the beat of our hearts. Caught in
the maelstrom of passion. I wound myself around Lunga, I
hold on to him, trusting him to get me to the other side in
one piece. I surrender myself to him. When my orgasm
comes, it doesn’t give a warning, it seems endless, rolling
from my body in spurts so intense I think I might lose
consciousness. Then Lunga’s guttural moan against my ear
as he reaches his own have me convulsing. We remain
locked in each other’s arms for a while. Our heartbeats
bouncing between us as we ride the waves of our climax.
Then small kisses pepper my face until they are pressed
against my lips. My body is covered in sweat and so does
Lunga’s. He lifts his head and watches me as he slips out
of me. I can’t help the wince that contorts my face.
“Sore?” concern mars his face.
“A little. But that was a mind numbing experience. How
soon can we do it again?” he chuckles rolling off me.
“When you’ve healed. Maybe you can do it to me
sometime.” It’s not something I’ve thought of. I yearned
and was desperate for him to take me, but not the other
way around. But if he wants me to make him as good as he
just made me, then I can’t deny him.
“Maybe.” I watch him slide off the bed and struts off to
the bathroom. His flaccid cock still with the condom
bouncing between his thighs. The broad shoulders that
tapper off to the lean waist and flaring at the hips, the thick
thighs and long legs. He is a magnificent specimen, and I
get to have all that. He returns with a towel, wipes me off
and then throws it on the floor as he slides in next to me.
“Are you hungry?” he asks kissing my shoulder.
“Not yes, can we lay down just a little.” I suddenly feel
vulnerable, needy. He opens the covers for us, pulls me
into his chest and holds me to him until I fall asleep with a
content smile on my face.
Lunga
I stretch my sore muscles and my hand bump into a warm
body besides me. I turn my head to find Ntando sprawled
on my bed. He is sleeping on his stomach, his arms folded
under a pillow, with one leg straightened and the bent at
the knee. The bed sheet that is supposed to cover us since
the comforter, I assume is pooled on the floor, only covers
him until just above his ass. Gifting me with sight of the
dimples just above each ass cheek. The sweet ass I’d sunk
into and it had gripped me so hard I’d feared passing out. I
can feel myself stirring at the memory of the previous day.
I have never felt so much during sex, ever. The pleasure,
the heat, the emotional connection. It’s like pieces of a
puzzle shifted and slotted together to create a whole
picture.
I want him again. I don’t think I can never not want him;
I’m hooked on him like an intoxicating drug. But I know
he must be sore, but I can still pleasure him. I move over
him and plant kisses on his back, sliding lower until I’m
positioned above his ass. He shifts under me, and when I
look u I find him watching me with eyes full of sleep.
“Morning,” his voice is sleepy.
“Morning baby,” he tries to turn around but I press my
hand on his lower back to keep him still. I pepper soft
kisses on his ass cheek then moving to the other. Then I
grab each and part them open, darting my tongue in his
hole.
“Lu…”
“Relax, I’ve got you.” Another swipe of my tongue has
him groaning loud against the pillow. Then I get into it,
licking him until his ass pushes against me. seeking more.
He is a slut this one.
“You are needy aren’t you, Baby.”
“Yes?” he pants. I prod, lick and suck. My own erection is
trapped with the mattress. I hump the bed. Seeking the
friction that promises release. When I’m satisfied that he is
adequately stretched, I lift my two finger to his mouth. He
sucks them without being told.
“Make them wet.” I growl. He does. I slide one digit inside
his ass, searching for his prostate. It doesn’t take long for
me to find it, and the sounds Ntando lets out, are an
aphrodisiac. I work his prostate while licking around his
hole until, I hear him scream his climax. With one stroke
of my cock, I’m chasing my own.
“Oh God Lunga, what have you done to me.” he huffs
against his pillow. “I think I might just be addicted to you.”
I smile, still lying against his ass cheek. “I didn’t even know
that was a thing.”
“There is a lot that I’m going to take pleasure in
rediscovering with you.”
“Come up here. Let me take care of you.” I roll up to him.
“Too late.”
“Oh,”
“Baby, when you come, the sounds you make just trigger
my own.” He smiles. Playing with my beard growth.
“This scruff feels good against my skin.”
“You are lucky you not light skinned, you’d be spotting
bruises.” I put my hand on his waist pulling him closer.
“I’d wear them with pride.” His smile is bright and true.
“How are you feeling?” I drag my hand down to his ass
and gentle massage it. “Sore?”
“Not really, I feel stretched, yes but it’s nothing I can’t
handle.” He says moving even closer and kissing me. We
leisurely kiss for a while, savouring the unhurried moment.
“We have to get ready, we have hyped up kids, waiting for
us.” He groans.
“I know; I have to fetch my cousins from their
grandparents’ house. How are we going to do this, one car
will not be enough? Especially yours.” He raises his
eyebrow. “How do you usually travel with your nephews
and nieces?”
I laugh, sitting up and he pulls himself up too. “I use one
of their parent’s car or my dad’s car. But with you and the
kids we will need to use two cars.”
“Then I have to drive separately from you.” He can’t mask
his disappointment. I smile and graze his arm with my
hand.
“Feeling needy?” I tease.
“Yes, I do. You were gone for two weeks and I just got
you back. I want to enjoy every moment with you.” My
heartbeat picks up. Could he be feeling the way I do? It
could be the sexual chemistry. If he hadn’t felt like this
before then his body senses might be heightened towards
me. its endorphins. “I’m sorry. I sound needy and pathetic.
We can use two cars.”
“Ntando,” he looks at me. “I love that you are needy for
me. it satisfies something inside of me I never even realised
existed until you. Please, never stop. I crave you just as you
do me and the drive would be miserable in separate cars.”
“Yeah?” his demeanour changes and the wide smile
returns.
“Maybe we take Uber Van. That should fit all of us.”
“Are you sure? I didn’t mean to complicate things.”
“You didn’t.” I smack my lips on his because I have to.
“Let’s go shower, then breakfast.”
Ntando can talk. And that’s a new one. The Ntando I
knew was reserved, spoke when spoken to and hardly
friendly. His laughter and smile were rare find. The Ntando
I wake up with is a talker. He is animated, his eyes glow
and his smiles draw you into his confidences. I want to
listen to him talk the entire day. I want to hear his laughter.
He talks about his crappie week at work. How he felt
about the loss of the business. He talks briefly about his
aunt and uncle, sharing his worries in confidence of
course. Then the fun part is when he talks about books
especially his current read. He even has me fascinated.
“You should read it with me,” he says as he fills his bowl
with diced fruit and yogurt.
“That’s not my jam. I enjoy the retelling from you more.” I
point at his food. “Are you sure you don’t want me to
make you some omelette or something?”
“Nah, this is good. How is your upcoming week? I was
thing of going for a grief session on Tuesday.”
“I’ll check my planner. Hang on.” I grab my phone.
Monday is full, I have a meeting on Tuesday at 5 pm, this
client is fussy and I always have to work around his
schedule. If I’m at his offices at that time I won’t make it
back to be at the meeting with Ntando. I quickly shoot my
PA an email to cancel the meeting. “I’ll be there.”
“Thank you, Lunga.”
“Anything for you.” He drops his head, a wide smile on his
face. “So, you’ll fetch your cousins, then we will take your
car to parents’ house where we will find all the kids. Then
we Uber from there.” He nods.
“I hope I don’t mess up our day this time.”
“Whatever happens baby, I’ll be there. Whatever you
need.”
“Who knew, Lunga was such an attentive sweet person. I
always took you as the player in the group.” I wiggle my
eyebrows. His smile drops. “You are a player?”
“I’m single, Ntando.” A cloud passes in his eyes. “I was
single.” I clarify. “I dated, a lot. Men, women. I’m not
ashamed of my past. I’ve always taken precautions.” I
don’t know why I’m justifying myself.
“Of course, I wasn’t trying to shame you.” He mumbles
pushing his bowl to the side. “How many sexual partners,
exactly we talking about?” I choke on my toast.
“You don’t really expect me to do a body count!”
“I’m curious. An estimate.” I don’t answer. I’m not about
to be sucked into this. “is it 10? 20? 30! Oh my God! More
than?” I throw the toast on the plate.
“I don’t know Ntando I never kept count. I’m older than
you and I probably started fucking when I was fourteen.”
His face crumbles. “Why are we talking about this?” I
stand between his legs, holding his head to my chest.
“I’m such a novice. What must you think of me?” I tip his
head so that he can look at me.
“I love that you are inexperience Ntando. I love it. I get to
be your first everything. It’s a beautiful thing. Had I known
someone as special as you would cross my paths, I would
have waited. But everything with you feels new. Sacred.
Trust me, I feel inexperienced when I’m with you.” He
smiles dropping his forehead to my chest.
“Add possessive next to needy.” God he has no idea how
wild he drives me. If he knew, he’d run.
“What should we listen to?” Ntando asks as he gets on the
freeways towards my parents’ place. The kids are settled at
the back earphones on, each watching their favourite
shows on their tablets.
“I want to talk to you.” He giggles. I turn on my seat to
face him.
“Okay, talk.” He glances at me.
“Do you miss flying?”
“Like the air I breathe.” He responds without hesitation.
“I’m sorry.”
“It is what it is.”
“You’ll fly again.” He gives me a small smile.
“A friend of mine is coming over from Perth in two
weeks.” My eyes widen at the change of subject.
“You have friends?” I tease. He smiles sheepishly.
“Only that one. And he lives in another continent.”
“Where did you meet him?”
“In Queenstown, at school. We played rugby together. He
was the only one who didn’t tease me, for my English or
my shy and awkward demeanour.”
“I like him already.” He chuckles. “You played rugby with
all those hot boys around you and you were never attracted
to any of them.”
“The boys and the cheerleading team, and trust me those
girls were hot.”
“Their loss, my gain.” We chat more about his experience
in high school. Pilot school. His flying moments. He opens
up and tells me crazy stories. I sit and watch him with
hearts in my eyes. I don’t even realise we have arrived at
my parents’ house until he tells me.
“Do you have a remote?”
“Huh?” I blink.
“For the gate.”
“Nah, go closer over there and buzz.” He does and after a
moment the gates part open.
“They don’t even ask who I am?”
“They probably saw us through the camera.” My entire
family is here. After our outing with the kids we will come
back to late lunch. Mom and the kids are waiting outside,
the kids jumping up and down with excitement.
“Some people are happy to see you.” Ntando notes.
“They’ve been waiting for this outing.” We step out of the
car and open the back seat for Khanya and Azaphe. Who
spring out to join the rest of the kids. I only get quick hugs
before they are huddled together.
“Hello mom.”
“Hey baby.” She pulls me in a hug. “I’m surprise to see
you with Ntando again.” I tense as she whispers against my
neck. I wonder what my sister told him. She turns to him
and wraps him in hug too.
“We are not staying mom.” I pull out my phone and order
a car.
“How are you going to fit six kids in there?”
“We’ve ordered Uber.” I say.
“Nonsense. I can drive with you.” She offers and I see
Ntando’s eyes momentarily widen.
“I’m available,” Paul, my brother in-law walks out of the
house. “I just came to ask if I can join you guys.” Shaun
joins him. They are better option than my mother so we
agree. My nieces and Azaphe come with us while my
nephews and Khanya go with my brothers-in-law. The girls
talk none stop until we reach the paintball centre. I open
the car door for them and watch them run to meet their
brothers who just arrived. Ntando walks up to me and I
steal a quick kiss behind the open door.
“We are going to have a long day.” He says. “Is this even
suitable for Azaphe and Nicole?”
“They have gear for kids, too.”
“Okay, let’s go join them then. They are too eager.” We
walk to where everyone has gathered. Once we pay for
what we need, with our gear ready and two instructors with
us we are ready. We split ourselves into two teams. Ntando
and I are on separate teams something that irks both of us
but no one else seems to notice. I’m with Paul and the
girls, while Ntando goes with Shaun and the boys. Our
girls fall fast and it’s just me and Paul chasing after the
other group. I look at the three girls happily playing on the
swing on the other side of the field.
“Why do I feel like, the girls planned on ditching us early?”
I whisper to Paul from our hiding spot.
“I think we’ve been played.”
“Damn.”
Ntando
We are three players down. It’s only, Khulani, Feziwe’s
daughter and I remain on our side while the other team has
Lunga still standing. We’ve been quietly searching for him
for a few munities. He is stealthy and he likes to sneak up
on us. That’s how he got the other players.
“So are you Uncle Lunga’s boyfriend?” The air in my lungs
seize.
“What?” I glance at Khulani, leaning against a huge tree
trunk, his paint gun against his chest. He is not looking at
me his eyes are searching, alert. He is the eldest of the
grandchildren and the quiet one. I’ve noticed.
“Are you his boyfriend now?” I swallow.
“Why would you ask that?”
“Because I saw you guys kissing when you were at gran’s.
You like touching each other, a lot.” My head spins,
searching for answers. “You don’t have to tell me if you
don’t want to.”
“Eh, well, eh.”
“How do you know you like boys and not girls?”
“I think you just know?”
“Are you asking me or telling me.” he palms his forehead.
“Maybe you should speak to your uncle or parents.”
“Maybe. You don’t seem to have a lot of answers.” Just as
I’m about to answer. Two shots are fired quickly dealing
with Khulani and I. Lunga’s roars raising his gun in the air.
“The whole point of the game is to stay under the radar
and be quiet.” He says. “I could hear you two from a mile
away.” I look pointedly at Khulani. He shrugs. Not really
bothered that we just lost and that his uncle and his team
are gloating.
“I had more pressing matters.” Who is this child?
After handing over our equipment, we clean up as much as
we can before we return to Lunga’s parents’ house for a
late lunch. I’m anxious to share my earlier conversation
with Khulani but with the other kids in the car, I can’t. the
moment we park; the kids step out but I hold Lunga’s
hand preventing him from going out. I wait until everyone
disappears inside the house then turn to Lunga’s who is
curiously watching me.
“We’ve been found out.” his frown deepens.
“What do you mean?”
“Just before you shot at us, Khulani was asking questions.”
“He is very inquisitive that one.”
“With a judge as a grandfather and lawyer as an uncle, I’m
not surprised.” Lunga grins like I just paid him a
complement. “That’s not the point of this conversation.” I
glance toward the house. No one is out here but us. “He
asked if I was your boyfriend.” He raises his eyebrows.
“He did?” I nod. “Feziwe!” he grits his teeth. Looking
murderous for a second. He wouldn’t kill his sister, would
he?”
“No, I don’t think it’s her. He says he saw us kissing the
last time and that we touch each other a lot.”
“Oh.” He loses his steam. “That’s very observant for a 10-
year-old.
“He sounds eighteen going to eighty. Frankly, the boy
scares me. He made me seem like an idiot who didn’t
know anything.” Lunga burst out laughing.
“Yep, that’s him alright. Trust me he has that way with
people.”
“So, what are you going to do? What if he tells your entire
family at the lunch table?” I can’t take another messy
moment with his family.
“Nah, he won’t. I’ll talk to him though. I don’t want him
to think he has to carry a secret.”
“Oh, okay.”
“Are you ready to go in now?”
“Sure,” he reaches for the door handle but before he does
I grab his arm. “I had a good time today.” His smile
momentarily stuns me. He leans forward with his hand
wrapped at the back of my head and pulls me for a short
deep kiss.
“Me too.” I’m left reaching for more. But there is a knock
on his side of the window. We jump apart and find
Khulani watching us with his arms spread.
“You are not doing a good job at hiding.” He reprimands
us.
“We aren’t hiding buddy.” His uncle says stepping out of
the car.
“You aren’t telling either.” Khulani shrugs. Lunga sighs.
“We need to talk,” Lunga tells his nephew.
“Yes, we do but grand ma asked me to get you, lunch is
ready and I’m starving. Can we talk after?”
“Sure buddy,” I watch them walk side by side as I follow
them into the house. Now that I look closely Khulani
could pass off as Lunga’s son they are so similar. He would
make a great dad, if only he wanted kids. I push down the
disappointment that bubbles up.
“Thank you for joining us again today Ntando,” Lunga’s
mother says as we settle around the large dining table.
“Thank you for having me, Mrs Poswa.”
“It’s always nice seeing Lunga with his friends, letting
loose. He works too hard.” She adds.
“You know what they say about working hard,” he wiggles
his eyebrows.
“What do they say?” his mother is lost.
“Work hard, play hard.” Feziwe responds.
“I don’t see him playing,” Mrs Poswa glance at her son.
“Are you even dating?” I shift in my chair, concentrating
hard on the succulent oxtail on my plate.
“I date Ma!” there is a hint of annoyance in his tone.
“At you age son, I was married with three kids.” The father
adds to the topic.
“That was you, dad. I don’t want to get married and I have
my nephews and nieces so I’m content.”
“May we be excused.” Nicole asks all kid’s eyes begging.
The grandmother checks their plates and find them empty.
“Sure baby, you can.” She releases them and they run
outside.
“I know you love your nephews and nieces but you ought
to have your own kids.” The mother won’t let the subject
drop. The oxtail is beginning to taste like ash in my mouth.
I watch Lunga with the corner of my eye, wiping his
mouth and pushing his plate away. At least its half-eaten.
“Mom, can we drop this. Please.” He begs with an edge to
his tone.
“Lunga can take my kids.” Hombakazi says.
“I want grand children from you!” the mother snaps.
“Well we can’t always have what we want now, can we
mom. Besides you have grand kids!”
“They are not Poswa’s!” the father pipes in.
“Ouch!” Feziwe sulks. God this family has drama. But I
continue to polish my food because it gives me something
to do.
“You know what I mean.” The father mumbles
apologetically.
“No, daddy I do not. Are you implying our kids aren’t
good enough because they don’t share your name?”
“I didn’t say that!” he says at the same time the mother
says, “He didn’t say that!” they are a unit these two.
“They what is he saying? Because they have half your
DNA just as Lunga’s would.”
“Don’t act daft Feziwe, you know culturally our kids
belong to their father’s family?”
“Do not call me daft!”
Someone bangs the table, “God, can we ever get through
dinner without bickering!” Lunga scrapes his chair bag
getting on his feet.
“Sit down Lunga.” His father grits. Lunga hesitates for a
second but slowly returns to his seat. His face pinched.
“Can we get through a conversation without you running
off. I don’t think we are being unreasonable when want to
know when you’ll settle down.”
“I am settled, dad.”
“How, you are thirsty six. You never even brought anyone
you are dating home.”
“I have.” He says grinding his jaw. I shift uncomfortable,
suddenly having a sinking feeling in my gut.
“I would’ve remembered that.” The mother looks to her
husband and they both shrug.
“He is sitting, right here!” he waves at me. The room goes
quiet. I don’t think anyone is breathing. I’m too scared to
lift my head and the roar in my ears scares me. I do not
want to pass out in this moment.
“Oh.” Mrs Poswa says.
“Oh,” Her husband echoes.
“That’s all you have to say?” Lunga drawls. I chance a look
around the table. Feziwe is looking hard at her plate so
does her husband. Hombakazi’s eyes are bouncing around
the table as if looking for confirmation her ears aren’t
deceiving her. Lunga’s eyes are down cast. He grips a knife
in hand so hard.
“I’ll be damned.” Shaun sneers and already I can tell
whatever is going to come out of his mouth will not be
good. “You take it up the ass brother!”
“Shaun, what the fuck?” Hombakazi gasps.
“Why are you looking at me like that and not the fag at the
table.”
“Get out!” The mother screams. I might be the only one
who hears Lunga’s sharp intake of breath. I squeeze his
thigh beneath the table. He carefully releases the knife in
his hand and pushes his chair back.
“If that’s how…” He begins.
“Shaun, I said get out of my house!” it’s my turn to whip
my head around the table as Lunga drop back on his chair.
“What, me!” Shaun lets out a sardonic laugh. “You allow a
fag, to remain at the table and you chase me out for saying
what y’all think. The mighty son of judge Poswa takes it up
the ass.”
“You heard my wife, leave.” Mr Poswa growls his tone
sending chills down my spine. Shaun pushes his chair back
not so gently.
“Babe?” he stretches a hand to his wife. Hombakazi slowly
gets on her feet. Shaun smugly turns to leave.
“Shaun, wait.” He turns to face his wife. “I want you gone
from the house too when I get home.” She sits back down.
Shaun looks like he has just swallowed a lemon.
“Excuse me what?” He grabs her arm in a painful grip if
her wince is anything to go by.
“You heard my sister.” Lunga is on his feet now moving
towards Shaun. “Let go of my sister Shaun.” Shaun does
but he moves towards Lunga. Paul and Feziwe are on their
feet. I’m already moving.
“Or what?” Shaun doesn’t finish the statement as Lunga
pulls back with his fist and punches Shaun square on his
table. Shaun tumbles over a chair and falls flat on his ass.
Just as Lunga is about lunge for him, Paul hold him back.
“The kids.” He nods towards the large balcony. Lunga
grinds his jaw. I brush a tentative touch on his arms and he
glances at me. His eyes softening for just a second because
they turn to Shaun, who is scrambling to his feet.
“Leave!” Lunga roars. Shaun stumble outside, throwing
cusses at everyone in the room. When we hear the sound
of his car, everyone seems to release the tension they been
holding. Before I move back to my seat, Lunga grabs my
elbow and whisper in my ear.
“I’m sorry, baby.” I pat his hand and return to my chair.
“I’m sorry, Hombakazi.” Lunga peers at his sisters as he
sits.
“He is an ashore. I just didn’t realise he was also a bigot in
addition.” She says, her kind smiles reassuring her brother.
“So, you two,” Paul drawls.
“Paul!” Feziwe warns.
“What! I suspected.” He shrugs.
“You did?” Feziwe asks.
“Yeah. It was kind of odd he’d would bring his friend’s
nephew a decade younger than him to dinner.” Lunga
groans covering his face. I glance at his parents who are
still quiet. There is an awkward silence that follows it
makes my skin itch.
“Well, I’ve been asking the wrong questions.” Mr Poswa
turns to me. “What I should be asking is what are your
intentions with my son.”
“Mom!” Lunga reprimands as the table burst out laughing.
The tension lessons. No one speaks about the two of us
dating. I know they must have questions but I hope they
don’t ask. I don’t have answers. I didn’t know we were
officially dating and I didn’t consent to be outed. I should
be peeved about that but I’m just too happy that his family
has embraced his truth, I kind of put my issues at the back.
Lunch goes smoothly afterwards with the usual banter
between the siblings in full force and the parents
intervening every now and then. It’s almost evening by the
time we bundle the two tired kids in the back of my car.
Lunga had earlier disappeared with his father for almost an
hour leaving me with his sisters to grill me on how long
we’ve been dating. I evaded as much as I could until the
mother returned to save me. I might be reaching but I
think she likes me.
“I’m sorry, Ntando.” He breaks the silence when we’ve
been driving for a while. I glance in the rare view mirror;
the kids seem absorbed on their tablets but they don’t have
earphones on.
“Let’s talk about it when we get home.” I give him what I
hope is a reassuring smile. I don’t think it works with the
nervous smile he gives me in return. We drop off the kids
first at my uncles. Lunga remains in the car and I’m
relieved to find their nanny around as I drop them off. We
drive to Lunga’s in silence.
“Would you like something to drink?” he asks as he heads
for his liquor cabinet.
“I’ll have water.” I go to grab a bottle from the fridge and
join him in his patio.
“I shouldn’t have done that Ntando.” He says after a
moment of us standing in silence.
I sigh, “No you shouldn’t have. I haven’t even processed
what this is.” I wave a hand between us.
He groans, “I know.” He moves closer to me. “To be fair,
you are the only person I’ve brought home, baby.”
“As a friend, Lunga. I’m still figuring myself out and now I
feel the pressure to label us.” He places his glass on the
patio table and grabs my shoulder.
“I’m sorry, baby. No pressure here. I just couldn’t lie to my
parents but it doesn’t mean I’ll announce it to the world. I
don’t have to. You don’t have to. Let’s just be us.”
“Okay, we will be us.” I caress the side of his face. “I’m
proud of you though. That mustn’t have been easy.” He
drags a huge breath and let go of me.
“I didn’t think it would be that difficult, I never thought
I’d need to do it. I’m not ashamed of it I just never felt like
an announcement was necessary for me. but seeing my
parents’ acceptance of who I am, was a big deal.”
“And Shaun?”
“The guy has always been a douchebag. I’ve tolerated him
because of my sister but he can’t even hide behind that
anymore.”
“Ja, I feel sorry for her.”
“She’ll be alright. She has her family.”
“Your family is wild but it’s the best.”
“We have our moments.” He takes my hand and link our
finger. “Let’s go to bed. I need some loving.”
“I can give you that.” We walk side by side to his bedroom
after he locks up. Once we’ve stripped and are under the
covers, he reaches to his side table and brings out a key
and a key card. “Here,” he gives them to me, my hand
tremble as I take them. “This is a key for the house and the
card if for the gate. I want you to come here whenever you
want.” I swallow.
“Are you sure?” there is a shake in my voice.
“Yes, Ntando. Nothing would give me satisfaction than
knowing you are here even when I’m not.” He winks. I
laugh and wrap my arms around his neck, bringing him in
a heated kiss.
“We can go back, if you want. We don’t have to do this.” I
toy with the phone in my hand as I look at the quiet
building before us. A few people have gone in already
since we’ve been sitting here in the car in the parking area
of the grief counselling.
“I want to.” I’m just working up the courage to. Lunga
reaches over the console and takes my hand in his.
“You don’t have to talk in there. We can just go in and
observe.” I take a deep breath.
“Okay. Let’s go.” It’s a chilly evening and I burrow my
head inside my hoodie. Lunga opens the door to where we
have seen people disappear behind. He holds it open for
me and allows me to go in. It’s a large room, that looks like
an auditorium with wooden floors and high walls. There is
a stage at the edge of the room but the group occupies a
corner. The seat around a large circle and there are folded
chairs stacked against the wall. Lunga quickly grabs two
and joins the circle. I notice a long table on the side filled
with refreshments. It explains why a few people had
brought in containers of food. The group is very diverse in
age, race and gender. Death doesn’t discriminate.
“Good evening. Everyone.” A white lady, with greying hair
and a pair of sunglasses greets with a smile that crinkles the
corner of her eyes. “Welcome to the new people visiting
us. My name in Nancy. I’m the facilitator and have been
grieving my son for fifteen years now,” she smiles looking
around at everyone in the circle. “Would you like to
introduce yourselves before we begin.” She looks directly
where we standing. Words get stuck in my throat. I didn’t
think I would have to speak so soon.
“I’m Lunga and this is Ntando.” Lunga responds and I
smile my gratitude at him. We get a few friendly smiles
from the group. Some people just seem to be lost in their
own world.
“Anyone who would like to share.” Nancy leads the
meeting. After a few minutes of silence, a young woman
who can’t be older than me raises her hand.
“I’m Thuli,” she introduces herself probably for the
benefit of the new people. “I finally visited my husband’s
grave today,” her voice cracks and there are murmurs of
encouragement from a few people. “It felt real you know,
seeing his name engraved on that headstone. So
permanent.” She wipes and there are sympathetic nods
from all around. “It’s seems cold to, had me wondering if
he wasn’t cold, in there. Silly, I know.” She chuckles.
“Our feelings are never silly, Nancy. You must be proud of
the step you taken.” Nancy’s to is kind, empathic, like she
understands exactly what Thuli is talking about. Maybe she
does, she did say on her intro she was grieving a son. How
would that feel like? As a parent to lose a child? Is it worse
than a child losing a parent? “Anyone else who would like
to share?” one by one people share. I realise apart from
Nancy, everyone else’s grief or loss seem to be recent,
months, a year or two ago. Their emotions vary. Some are
still gripped by their emotion to a point they aren’t even
able to complete a sentence. Some can easily talk about
their grief even though you can sense their sadness, in their
body language or their tone and it’s always lurking in their
eyes. I listen and absorb their pain, I can relate to some of
the feelings they share, I can’t relate on some. But the pain
we all carry is familiar.
I don’t share and when it’s time to leave I don’t stay for
the refreshments. Lunga has to catch up with me as I hurry
towards the car. We don’t speak in the car and Lunga
doesn’t ask where I would like to be dropped. He drives us
straight to his place. When we get to his house, he fixed us
each a glass of whiskey. I’m kind of used this bitter staff.
He leads me to the living room and we sit on the same
couch.
“Do you want to talk about it?” he asks grazing my arm
with his hand.
“I feel like an impostor in there. People are there grieving
recent loss but now I must come and talk about something
that happened ten years ago.” He hums taking a long sip of
his drink.
“When Nancy spoke about her son, it felt to me like it had
just happened yesterday.” He glances at me. “Does your
mom’s loss feel ancient?” I shake my head.
“It feels like it just happened.”
“Then you have your answer. Only you know the pain of
your grief. It seems to me you’ve put a scab over a leaking
and infested wound. The scab is cracking open Ntando.”
“It just so sad in there.” I glance at him, he shifts to face
me and takes my hand in his. I sigh at the touch. “But I felt
like they knew me, you know? Like so much of my feeling
were validated.” He nods and listens to me talk about the
session. How it made me feel.
“Do you think you’ll go back.”
“Yes.” I say without hesitation. “It feels better than one on
one therapy. And as bad as it sounds, I take comfort in
knowing the people in that room are talking from
experience.” He takes my glass and places it with his empty
glass on the coffee table and fold me in his arms. We sit
like that for a while.
Zuki